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FamilyRe: Man Smacks The Soul Out Of Girl On The NY Subway by kandiikane(m): 4:49pm On Nov 11, 2014
Mondisweets:
if you can prove that innocent passengers were not hurt or affected while he was "defending" himself then only then can you say that he wasn't at fault. It became public violence when his actions took place in a public space and adversely effected other members of the public (other passengers) who had nothing to do with attack.
Did you study law at all?
FamilyRe: Man Smacks The Soul Out Of Girl On The NY Subway by kandiikane(m): 4:39pm On Nov 11, 2014
Mondisweets:
if I slap you and you slap me back, you can get away with self-defence but when it turns out into a mini WWE smackdown it becomes public violence. I believe there are other innocent passengers who were hurt and affected during the fight, don't only look at those that were part of the fight. That's why I said its not a wise idea to sue anyone, we will be sinking his own ship if he does that. Not only was there contributory fault of his part, his actions also constitute a criminal offence
Stop bringing in irrelevant points into the case. We are speaking on what we see in the video. All the people who got hit were those who jumped on him. Those are the facts as we see them. This isn't about even getting damages/remedies but females being charged for assault.
I don't know where you live but here is the statement made by a judge(Lord morris) in the UK in the case of (palmer) 1971,
If there has been an attack so that defence is reasonably necessary it will be recognised that a person defending himself cannot weigh to a nicety the exact measure of his necessary defensive action. If a Jury thought that in a moment of unexpected anguish a person attacked had only done what he honestly and instinctively thought was necessary that would be most potent evidence that only reasonable defensive action had been taken
Again, He tried removing himself from the situation, The guy was not in her face or behaving in a threatening manner that required her to lash out. He did what would have been instinctively necessary in a moment like that.
RomanceRe: Caribbean Girl With The Nicest Lips! by kandiikane(m): 3:40pm On Nov 11, 2014
I highly doubt it is botox.
FamilyRe: Man Smacks The Soul Out Of Girl On The NY Subway by kandiikane(m): 3:30pm On Nov 11, 2014
Mondisweets:
this would be a bad idea because the way he retaliated caused more damage than necessary. All they just have to do is pray and hope that they both won't be charged with a criminal offence, if the video gets in the hands of the authorities best believe me they will have a party with both of them.
How exactly? If he took out a knife and stabbed her then yes. Was he to measure the level of force his hand was to dash out, no, it is impossible to measure the force your hand will release when you believe you are in danger. His reaction was not over the top. He did what a reasonable man would do in that situation which was to see whether he can remove himself from the situation which this man found and did but as he was doing so he got attacked from the back and he defended himself. The girl took her bag and hit his head who knew what was in that bag or how fragile the guy's head was. I know the slightest pressure on my head can cause me nasty headaches. He also had other individuals attacking him. He had to defend himself and he did that reasonably.
FamilyRe: Man Smacks The Soul Out Of Girl On The NY Subway by kandiikane(m): 2:56pm On Nov 11, 2014
She deserved it. Why would she hit him? If you are going to run your mouth do so without raising your hands, once you raise your hands expect your opponent to defend him or herself. The guy should take her to court sef. He got jumped, poor guy, he probably feared for his life so he had to take them all out.
FamilyRe: Should I Pay Her Salary For Having My Baby? by kandiikane(m): 11:25am On Nov 11, 2014
GoodlifeNigeria:
The problem with some Nigerian girls is that some think they can trap a man with pregnancy to marry them by all means. That can never never work because marriage is by consent and not by force. So she has ulterior motives. It's by love you marry not by force or because of material considerations or because of money.
how does this relate to what I wrote? You have not answered anything You sound like someone who has been charmed. Give that mother access to her child.
RomanceRe: Am Confused And Lost As A Snowflake In Sea,i Need Thoughts And Pieces Of Advice. by kandiikane(m): 2:28pm On Nov 10, 2014
MDelgado:
@Kane you are approximately right, she is unfaithful but she knows how to rock my boat,a sparkling sinner she was, is, and I am afraid of the fact that she will remain so.
not necessarily. You are cheating on her too if I'm not wrong. You both need to start being committed to each other if you want a lasting relationship.
RomanceRe: Am Confused And Lost As A Snowflake In Sea,i Need Thoughts And Pieces Of Advice. by kandiikane(m): 12:07pm On Nov 10, 2014
You want the bournvita. It's the fact that regardless of whatever her issues are, she still keeps you on your toes and you seem more positive writing about her.
FamilyRe: Should I Pay Her Salary For Having My Baby? by kandiikane(m): 9:47am On Nov 10, 2014
GoodlifeNigeria:
No she never raised the child at all. The child has been in my custody from the onset, from infancy and I've been taking care of everything. I took care of everything and bills right from the day one of pregnancy to delivery to every other thing.
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so since the child was born, she has given you the baby and she just went about her own business? Be honest now.

I mean it is good you have been taking care of the child but I hope it was not where you left the girl and your family forced you to take the baby from her hence her hostility towards you. Plus, you are keep her away from her child. What you seem to want do right now is "buy" the child so she won't disturb you about it.

Unless, she has been a bad mother to the child, I don't see why you should keep her away from the child.
FamilyRe: Should I Pay Her Salary For Having My Baby? by kandiikane(m): 2:05am On Nov 10, 2014
So, she is not allowed to see her child?
EducationRe: Female Student 'CAUGHT DOING IT' With Lecturer In His Office To Pass by kandiikane(m): 10:58am On Nov 09, 2014
So you blame the student? Majority of such cases is the lecturer saying, " phuck me and you pass, phuck me not and you fail."
FamilyRe: Kids And Mastubation. by kandiikane(m): 10:09am On Nov 09, 2014
francessn:
I dont know what parents are turning into these days, how can a child be masturbating and you think mere talking will stop it. I remember as a child, my mum used pepper on me and that was the end. I discovered that my 5 yr old was masturbating (don't know how long its been going on) I talked to him to stop. the same day I saw him doing the same, I got very angry and gave him the flogging of his life. he continued and I kept doing same and since then he has not tried it. I monitor him from time to time; he just turned 6. I Really Thank God I wonder what I would have done if it became a very uncontrollable habit.
At 5? Find out who he is spending time with. Honestly many children who are being abused tend to start being 'active' very very early. A child can accidently stumble across it but that early is questionable, please find out first, what difference will the beating make if someone is there influencing him? That someone doesn't necessarily have to be an adult.

P.s, that pepper thing is just horrible and wicked.
Christianity EtcRe: self-service Leads To Homosexuality--watchtower by kandiikane(m): 9:31am On Nov 09, 2014
coolzeal:
Some dumb research. There are a lot of things that cause homosexuality. I do not believe that homosexuality is innate or hereditary or the act of self servicing tho risky to our health. Homosexuality is by choice, or they way they are treated, or the way they live but it's kinda scary and puke me out. What's the agenda behind this gay thing? I tried to be nice but I can't help being homophobic.
Your first line was good but the rest,just nonsense.
FamilyRe: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by kandiikane(m): 10:48pm On Nov 08, 2014
Ishilove:
Too expensive embarassed
I know but save joor. grin
FamilyRe: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by kandiikane(m): 10:31pm On Nov 08, 2014
Ishilove:
Okay. I don't even like it sef
have you considered laser hair removal? A friend of mine had hairs and very bad ingrown hair on her chin and since after the laser she's all smooth, no hairs.
FamilyRe: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by kandiikane(m): 10:13pm On Nov 08, 2014
@ishilove stop using the depilatories on your face. The face is one of the most sensitive parts on your body and I won't recommend it. Many people react to them even around the bikini line. I used it once and it was the worst mistake ever, ask idowuogbo.
FamilyRe: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by kandiikane(m): 10:06pm On Nov 08, 2014
Ishilove:
Thanks a million smiley
Lol don't mind bananabender, it's because it didn't work for her iron pubes that's why she's saying it's a lie but it never hurts to try grin. Everyone's skin is different and I recommended salicylic acid because it's one the mildest peels. Do a bit of research on peels and personally I would recommend the pure ones ones rather than buying products that have been mixed with all sorts. If you are alright with it, spas can help you with it. Ebay is your best bet though for cheap salicylic acid.
FamilyRe: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by kandiikane(m): 9:54pm On Nov 08, 2014
Ishilove:
That's like menthol right? Won't it boost the hair growth?
no, it's exfoliates the skin, turnover skin cells etc. You can use glycolic acid but I find it to be harsh but salicylic acid is one of the mildest peels out there. It is also used in ointments, washes, creams to reduce ingrown hair. You can do a bit of Google search on it and it's effect on ingrown hair. There are tons of products with salicylic acid. Or you can buy the peel itself in a small percentage which is better because it is pure but you have to be careful with it. P.s. It can cause skin to peel but that's a good thing.
FamilyRe: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by kandiikane(m): 9:37pm On Nov 08, 2014
freecocoa:
Oboy wax dey painful jare, I have a very low tolerance for pain, plus it's on my chest, shaving it already makes me feel like my heart is being affected, what do you think would happen if I wax? It's usually very neat after I'm done so no worries there.cheesy
The reason I mention waxing(if your skin isn't sensitive) is that it's better than shaving and with shaving you can get ingrown hair and such but anyhow. If it works you, no worries. smiley
FamilyRe: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by kandiikane(m): 9:34pm On Nov 08, 2014
Ishilove:
However, when the stares became too much, I had to run back to depilatories. I remember an ex used to lie me down, take a sharp broom and dig out all the ingrown hair. He always called me Ishi 'my bearded love'. (He is the one who opened this nairaland account for me, after another biabia digging session) cheesy

Thank God for my elder sis. She introduced me to waxing. Now I wax every two weeks. The down side to waxing is I react to it. As in, I break out in nasty rashes and pimples that take ages to clear. sad

Another thing, the waxing only clears half the hair because the hair has become so thick, no thanks to the hair remover. My waxist complains of back pain whenever she has to tweeze out those stubborn hairs that the wax can't clear off. As in, she has to use 'eba power' to uproot those darned hairs. So stubborn angry
Use facial washes with salicylic acid or have the peels done. It helps with the ingrowning hair.
FamilyRe: Bearded Ladies, How Do You Cope? by kandiikane(m): 9:29pm On Nov 08, 2014
freecocoa:
I have small strands of hair on my chin, it's not that much but it's still bear bear grin.

It doesn't affect anything in my life, I even pluck them with my fingers so it's not always there, I have a small portion of hair on my chest that I have to shave because I don't like it anymore, the only problem I've had with that one, is that, sometimes some yeye people especially my brother say " ifuro ka osi gba aji na obi ka amosu" or "this girl go wicked o this one wey she gather hair for chest" like wtf? angry
grin grin
stop shaving. Get a wax.
Car TalkRe: Nigerian Man Breaks Record, Rides To South Africa From Lagos On Motorbike by kandiikane(m): 9:07am On Nov 08, 2014
Well He's attractive.
IslamRe: Advice To Muslim Singles by kandiikane(m): 7:24pm On Nov 07, 2014
Entchidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Nairaland...Rubbish, the women get married off in droves like cattle worse still they're divorced almost arbitrarily and unceremoniously..the least they deserve is the right to choose their fate and not be rail roaded into dumb matchmaking feats that leads to nowhere but languishing in a never-do-well's harem...Allahu akbar. [/color]
I agree.
RomanceRe: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by kandiikane(m): 3:15pm On Nov 07, 2014
Vivly:
You TREK around??
So you don't even have #50 for transport fare yet you want a car?
grin grin
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest - Final Elimination Round (semi Finals) by kandiikane(m): 12:47am On Nov 07, 2014
So annypie is out? Awwh, I saw a lot of potential, if only she had better pictures.
PhonesRe: Delivered Read Messages On Whatsapp Now Indicate With BLUE Double Mark by kandiikane(m): 9:31pm On Nov 06, 2014
Polyflexzy:
nawao o. Ds google don suffer. Small time nw yu go dey ask am weda ur gf/bf stil luv u
that's Google for you. Shows you signs and symptoms of love wey don die.
PhonesRe: Delivered Read Messages On Whatsapp Now Indicate With BLUE Double Mark by kandiikane(m): 12:33am On Nov 06, 2014
I just noticed it but it was just to one individual. I tried googling but nothing came up.
FamilyRe: What A Lady Should Know Before Dating A Married Man by kandiikane(m): 12:12am On Nov 06, 2014

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