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COVID-19 is spreading in Lagos due to negligence but in Kano, the problem is ignorance.

peteregwu:
This week was fantastic. What a week...what a week.

Come and do giveaway o.

Journey 2: The Mysterious Island. 8/10

https://m.youtube.com/watch?reload=9&v=rRwuzcU5uAM
This might help someone.

Bloodshot. 9/10.

Toxicy2kwap:
And some have love and care to give but no one to call them mummy and daddy

Isn't life crazy?

The most underserving parents?I'm confused! They all are undeserving!!!

Children of wealthy parents looking tatterred to school? So that one that does make up every Monday and Thursday cannot afford a maid for her daughter?

Well maybe she's one of those women that come on nairaland to complain that their husbands wouldn't let them hire a maid

That's all they all say until they have a child.

SangoOlukosoOba:
There will be levels. Before you can go for 3rd, you should be unlike 5m. Birthing should be relative with income. It will be structured with good financial and accounting experts.

When parents fail to do their responsibilities in cases like this, it's because they got choices or they are stingy.

What stops you from employing a nanny and get the work of you. I don't know why or how someone will feel comfortable seeing his child looking haggard to school or stuck in school, and still be able to work knowing his kid is stuck in school.

You are not understanding the purpose of this thread!

It's not about the money. What if the parents are rich but psychologically unfit?

Silentgroper:
.. Nah.. These chicks are extra

They are not! I repeat, they are not!

The only thing special about these girls is their good camera, photographer and the picture editing app they used.

These girls are like the average girls we see everyday in our various streets.

moshino:
So the husband married for sex, and lives for sex. Doesn't he have a meaningful serious job. Why can't he channel his energy towards becoming the next Dangote.

Why can't the woman channel her own energy towards becoming the next Alakija?

Did she marry to be celibate?

Waiting 6 months after child delivery to have sex with ones wife is too long! That's half a year!

Pacesetter123:
Dats a medical doctor speaking.If una like,una take am.If una no like,una leave am like dat.

Medical native doctor, you mean?

It is only Nairaland ladies that don't like seeexx, they prefer to wait for 10 years after childbirth before resumption.

In real life, women are the one asking medical practitioners this question because they want to resume ASAP!

Hypocrite everywhere!

jolarify4:
After naming ceremony

Onward 7.9/10.

A Million Ways To Die In The West 2014. 8.3/10.

graciousolo:
Possible 340+ pips on EUR/USD

It is not always that smooth.

She claimed 27 while she's 33!

Removal of 6 good years and person didn't notice. It can only be love.

Mrmooh:
SACK=dismiss from employment
LAY-OFF=give up or stop doing something
RETRENCHMENT= a situation in which someone loses their job because their employer does not need them
FIRED=dismiss (an employee) from a job

At the end of these grammars an employee is losing the job.

They are just nicer words to express the same thing.

Sack is sack!

Euphemism comes to mind.

Kelvin30286063:
They are stored directly in the database and called from the database on request. I use cache to reduce the process but cache is only doing little from what's happening

Media files no matter how small the size are not meant for the database. Create a separate local or cloud storage for it. Store only the media file path in the database.

I strongly believe this is responsible for the slowness.

Do you store these media files on the database or on a local file?

You need to understand Tabs.

https://www.w3schools.com/howto/howto_js_tabs.asp

Juell:
What exactly is your problem? You are here derailing this thread from the purpose this thread was created. This is a place for introverts to freely express themselves without the fear of being misunderstood and misjudged, with people who can relate with them and u're here passing judgment which is exactly why they don't like expressing themselves. There's no way someone like you can understand an introvert talk more of helping them.

I don't understand? What could be the cause of this?

Coronavirus!

Liliantalks:
lol not all tho, cause I don’t , but many do , I am talking about real life mehn , my reading group in my uni days , all introverts , deeper life. If u ain’t intelligent u can’t role with them , I wasn’t all that intelligent but I made it a compulsion to be their friend. When we pause to talk , it’s was about how extrovert don’t read , why they can’t mingle with such people, with so many reasons, I don’t even convince them if not they may think u are like them n cut u off , I was enjoying the reading sections , so I just listened .

This is what I keep telling our people here!

Textbook situations are very different from real life situations.

Juell:
Some of them have something else bothering them, all they need is someone who they can really trust and believe in. Others it's best to avoid them, like my neighbor, I sometimes think she's weird. When you greet her to answer na problem, she just disappeared b4 the lockdown without informing us.

Don't we all?

We humans always have something bothering us all the time bro!

It's funny how you guys hardly trust and believe in people and suddenly when you are going through something you want people to automatically offer you shoulder to lean on.

It doesn't work like that! Life is give and take!

Sard:
Don't you think you are trying too hard on this thread?
You continue saying all the negative things about introverts and still think anyone will be willing to listen to you. Do you think that will ever work?
Why don't you just let people be?

On the thread, we've highlighted various things people can do to improve their social skills. Anyone that wants them will pick the needed information.

You don't have to continue saying vile words about introverts. Continue being an extrovert and let others be. No one needs your pity.

Maybe you need check the meaning of negative and vile before using it. I only said the truth about Introverts.

Why don't you scroll up and see where you beloved Introverts called extros loud and noisy.


To those who keeps calling me an extrovert: truth is, I'm neither and intro nor extros. I not an ambivert either. I hate labels!

Which brings us back to what I've been emphasizing.

If you belong to the second group I mentioned please take your advice from an extrovert, make an extrovert your 'role model'.

I don't know about you but I'd rather take marriage advice from a married fellow.

Liliantalks:
What I noticed is that introvert hates extrovert, they feel they r loud , this , that.

I don’t know why I don’t feel the same way , when all ur family r extroverts n u are the excluded one. Lol it was sure a nightmare, people always saying cm outside , talk jor, they even hv to yab me to make me laugh. Those days I go just frown my face , but deep down it was funny . I thank God atleast I ain’t as i use to be

At least you are sincere.

Many Introverts feel they can do no wrong because they are Introverts. Many of them believe they are extremely wiser than their extroverts counterparts just because they are Introverts and when people call them proud they'll never look inward to ask if this is true or not. It's what I've seen time and time again on this thread.

The bitter truth is; an introvert is naturally proud. It is just like the issue of the peacock.

Let me group Introverts into two groups:

Group 1: These ones have sold their soul to the eternal goddess of silence. They'll rather not talk even if talking was necessary. These are the types that can stay indoor for a year if they have the necessary amenities.


Group 2: These ones like quiet but not always, they secretly wish to be like their talkative friends. Some of them were even extroverts as a kid but only became introvert during adolescent.

They enjoy their me time quite well but they'll often come out of their shell from time to time to catch with the latest in their neighborhood.



I have no business with group 1 but I'm mostly concerned about the second group. They are the reason why I'm doing what I'm doing here.

cochtrane:
All of this self-pity is unwarranted. You need to start thinking of your qualities more from a strong or work-in-progress standpoint than from a weak one. No one is immune to being tired or exhausted or lacking energy. Studies have shown repeatedly that that has little to do with your personality type than it does with your self-motivation, inner drive or determination to succeed. To think that not being introvert (or even extrovert) is the way out is a highly erroneous route to take. Maybe if you are not human, then that's your way out; but I'm digressing.

There is a lot out there in the world to face regardless of one's personality type. Everyone handles it differently. Those who are talkative talk to calm their nerves, even when they feel anxious. Those who aren't talkative on the other hand, stay quiet to calm their nerves. Different people, different reactions to the stimulus called environment. Learn to handle your own reaction well and you shall thrive.

Is it by force to be what you don't want to be?

Is introversion a cult group?

Juell:
U were born that way , no one chose to be an introvert/extrovert. It's all about working on ur weaknesses and developing more of strength. Like for, I'd rather have the right company around me than be all alone, I hardly enjoy my own company. Relating with people has become easy for me.

Wrong!

A lot of people became Introverts/extroverts because of their experience and environment.