₦airaland Forum

WolfOfWalstreet:
I’m without a job at the moment, a friend recommended a security 30k job with free food once a day . Pls would you advise I go for the job?

Start from there. But know at the back of your mind that what you are doing is charity.

Always be on the look out, when a better job comes, do not hesitate to leave.

Purvan:
Nlders with toxic parents, how long did you take you to realize the only solution is to cut contact?


For me , I had a desire to cut contact since my teens but I could never understand why and stayed in denial. I moved out in my early 20s and kept contact to minimum. It was only when I turned 30 that I had the courage to examine the past and accept that my parents used me as a punching bag for their personal failures in life.

Now I'm working on fixing it because I understand that they will not be around forever and I don't want to end our relationship on a bad note.

My advice is that you talk with them about it and explain how it harmed you. They might understand

Stop rewarding terrible attitudes.

Your parents are adults too, if they can't make efforts to mend the broken relationship then keep it at the bearest minimum till forever.

You people should shut up.

It was the daughter that told that story. How can she lie if her dad was a good person?

peleson1:
What about those cross border immigrants that are getting Temporary Protected Statues?

The problem is how to get there.

If to say Nigeria dey south America, no all of us go queue for border, enter and make sure democrats stay in power till the end of time.

The big problem is how to get to Mexico or Canada.

optimusprime2:
You are very right!
Which further expands on the fact that due to the mixed bag one gets when addressing the issue of poverty(there are many reasons why people are poor and amongst those reasons Laziness is also one of the major reasons), one needs to be rather logical than sentimental in his overall outlook on spending money.

Moreover, it's the job of the government to deal with poverty, not you. Unless you are the government tho.

Poor people are also notorious for making poor choices, one of which is the choice of bad leadership.

Why would you do something else.

I'd only take the money if he were a politician.

Seun:
Ladies and gentlemen, the Romance section has gone to the dogs because of the inactivity of the current moderators.

We need 2 new moderators who are passionate about Romance and Nairaland, and can dedicate sufficient time to remove inappropriate content, ban people who break the rules, and create threads on hot topics to ensure that the Romance section attracts more engagement.

Most importantly, the war between men and women on this section must end. Women need to feel safe to participate and share their views in this section without being harassed by men. And vice versa. This requires consistent and unyielding enforcement of the rules every day.

If you know someone who is fit for this role, please nominate them. Someone who has been consistently active in this section for a long time, and who has not been a habitual rule-breaker during this time. If you're nominated, please indicate your acceptance and let's talk.

PS: Sorry, you can't nominate yourself. Someone must nominate you and then you can accept the nomination if you're interested.

While at it, do something about politics and programming section.


Also, put a leesh on your dog, anti spam bot.

Churches like that are prison that torment with the fear of hell.

Nothing you can do at this point.

pocohantas:
@ Kayperry
Ericsmith
Reddingtonblack
Theredaddy
Chidiokay
Jornwhite
Youwanbanme
Anslem01
Anslem02
Anslem03
Anslem04

These monikers are being run by one individual and he has constantly posted slanders against my person in 9 years. I believe you are NL's owner and can see his history. If I am lying, you should be able to tell, INNIT?

When are you giving us a block button?
If we have one, I wouldn't care about misogysm. I just block all of them and go my merry way.

I always thought it was just for the banter. Never knew this was deeper.

Omo! That's some level of wizardry.

Petrol is really cheap in us men.

Chygoz01:
ok bro

no gree for am.

Chygoz01:
Hello nairalanders there is this issue bordering me for some time now my girlfriend anytime we argue she will always say I can get any man I want but I chose you because I love you that word always irritate me ,though she is richer than me but I don’t ask her for any financial assistance what do you guys think is it a red flag ?

My brother. the babe no rate you at all.

Truth is, you are the best guy she can pull, that's why she's with you and you with her. Don't let her money intimidate you, there a lot of rich women that are single to stupor.

YoungLionken:
My own personal encounter below, do with the information what you wish✌...

Una dey try o. Where una dey meet these girls?

If you don't find true love it's honestly better to stay single.

If you buy love, these entitled women will take your money, time and love and give you nothing in return.

I really appreciate this lady for being a good woman.

samuelson06:
Lol. There's nothing I hate like poverty. How can I sit and watch my children that can't even fight for themselves living in want? Many parents in Nigeria today can't even afford baby food let alone children toy.

I have a neighbor with two babies in a self-contain room. We are both paying rent. The wife takes care of the babies in the house while he works, but how much is he paid monthly? Peanut! Not even up to 200k. And he'll be bragging about having a son, when he's always timing to see when I leave the house so I can drop him off. Now, tell me, when is he going to leave behind such poverty? Where is the joy in raising the family? How can I live with two kids in a self-con, even if 1 or 2 bedroom flat sef, as long as it's rented? When am I going to build my own house and stop paying rent?

So, these are the issues. No be say we like to dey fornicate, but that's better than getting into a mess in the name of getting married or raising a family.

It's always interesting to watch Nigerians put themselves into hardship intentionally just by making awful decisions.

I no dey pity them again. Baba! Oil dey your head.

Abee79:
Naija guys are using VPN to enter through US, Philippines & France

Na lie.

We don't even have good network or data plan to waste on porn.

Infact, for a lot of people, it's easier and cheaper to have sex than watch another person have it.

Jayden001:
To be a man no easy at all.
Aunty missed her period lately and from all indications she's pregnant.
But her cravings for seemingly impossible stuffs is just crazy.
She could ask for a fried mango or roasted watermelon
She's allergic to smells and scents, I've removed every air freshener in the house.

She can barely cook, she said everything is smelling.
Omo, e come be like say no be my house again.
Yesterday I went to look for kpomo by 12am
This life shaa 🤣
Legends in the house, na so e dey be

Brotherly, your history ain't adding up.

If they advise you to vet before commitment, una no go hear.

Once you see big nyansh and creamy bum bum una go loose sense.

She almost killed you but you couldn't run for your life because "the sex was soo good".

Mumu man

Gerrard59:
OP seems pained that men like him are taking their girlfriends out for dates and lunches while he is left with sex workers. You made your choice. Why are you angry at the choices made by other men? Weren't you taught to live and let others live? Did anyone stop you from patronising sex workers? OK, fine, "regular girls" are also promiscuous. What are you going to do about it? Call on Tinubu to subsidise regular girls? Ban them? Form a commodity price control board? What?

Something tells me you cannot afford to take girls out, even on random dates. Something tells me you don't have platonic female friends you even gist with randomly. Something tells me you don't have money even to live a comfortable life. Something tells me you will cry if you hear that some men spend 100K per night to have sex with sex workers.

Better go and find something useful to do with your life than lamenting and wailing about what other men decide to use their money for.

Ikot Ekpene alfa meil!

Press his neck! Press it very well!