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PoliticsRe: COVID-19: Can Africa Afford Lockdowns? - Charles Soludo by Kayyy: 2:49am On Apr 25, 2020
prof soludo has spoken well, however let us all talk reality rather than just praise what is at best a theory, everything he has said in his article even he knows cannot be visible but we are all quick to praise the thought process and embrace it, whether we like it or not everyone that is well read here knows we are in a damned if we do, damned if we dont situation here, while the prof was able to diasgnose why lockdown will not work perfectly in africa accurately, every other thing he listed as measures or solutions is just pandering to the people, seriously a blunt and outspoken person might have as well gone straight to the point and and just declare 'ease up the lockdown, and let the people take the gamble of every man for himself and let our fate be decided by ourselves and God', because every measure he is talking about will not reduce nor flatten the curve , so its very simple if we are at the mercy of the west finding a solution to this problem while we lockdown and people are in pains and hunger, we might as well all go out about our daily activities and still be at the mercy of the west, let who will die die finished.

To the people that will query how i arrived at this, when you remove interstate barriers and open up the economy, pls explain to me how soludo's solution will affects activities at computer village, alaba market, eko idumota, yaba market, other heavy populated areas like onitsha market, just to name a few. how do you control yellow buses, rush hour in the evening, let people profer solutions to this from what suggestions soludo has made, its time for reality pls, lest stop the whole lockdown wont work pandering and just say whats on our mind which is open the economy, anybody we go die make e die, period.
RomanceRe: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Kayyy: 7:29pm On Apr 09, 2020
hello @ OP, good evening, i trust you're good, i sent you my number about the CCTV and other installation jobs, i don't know if you saw it, i am putting it here agani should you want to contact me through whatsapp, the number is 08103484915, would be expecting your message, take care.
RomanceRe: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Kayyy: 10:17am On Apr 09, 2020
Good morning @OP and the other handle that replied my message on installations, you can reach me through whatsapp on 08103484915, thanks
RomanceRe: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Kayyy: 1:48am On Apr 09, 2020
@OP , Should you be interested in any CCTV and other installation jobs, you can leave a message or contact me , i can offer installation jobs that you can make money from and even learn other installations , you're a strong and hardworking man from what you wrote here, stay strong .
PoliticsRe: DSS, Army Intimidated Voters, INEC Officials – US Department Of State by Kayyy: 9:14am On Mar 15, 2020
While we agree and demand for more electectoral reforms in this country and also declare that the major problems with electoral malpractise is caused by both evil parties (PDP and APC) we have with each one trying to outrig the other, the US should do not have the moral right to discuss the issues in other countries electoral system not even with different controversies with their recent elections

The issues of Gerrrymanndering and voter supreressiion by majorly Republican and even the decomocratic parties especially concerning black and Latino voters nullifies the moral grounds the US has to discuss the failures of electoral process in other countries, this situation is just like asking FSARS to condemn and deal with state police officers, are they not into the same game ?
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Kayyy: 5:10pm On Feb 27, 2020
Hello all,

urgent need for an experienced driver for a 2005 tokunbo corrolla

should preferably live in or around ikosi, ketu, alapere, ojota, ojudu berger

the expected delivery amount is #25k per week for rental

please call kayode on 08103484915, thanks very much
Foreign AffairsRe: Prince Harry And Meghan Markle To ‘Step Back’ From Royal Duties by Kayyy: 4:11pm On Jan 09, 2020
Copied from a quote on daily mail by Dr Danger Mousette

'The reason people are so angry is that taxpayers got fleeced to pay for a wedding (20 M), Frogmore renovations (3 M), a baby shower (350 K) and a six week holiday (god knows how much). Then as soon as they've swiped the cash, H&M announce that they don't want to do the hard work royal bit but instead keep the titles and associated benefits. All without having the decency to inform the Queen. That's why people are angry.'
Foreign AffairsRe: Prince Harry And Meghan Markle To ‘Step Back’ From Royal Duties by Kayyy: 4:00pm On Jan 09, 2020
Harry and Meghan are not particularly blameless is all this, like said above she knew what she was marrying into, the people also have right to be aggrieved, tax payers money is used to fund the royal family, these are part of people's hard earned money, infact for many years now the people have not been particularly happy with this, from fashion, to special occasions, to security assigned to royal family members, to their estates, so when you say you are stepping down from public functions as duke and duchess which means you are a face of the public , you want to brake the protocol of hundreds of years by taking jobs, making income on duties that royal families are barred from, but at the same time trademarking the duke and duchess tittle you have , you just had a £2.4m renovation done for your residence which you also want to keep from tax payers money, you want to eat your cake and have it .

when you break away from all public duties, you should also break from all the privileges attached to it , the privilges are what makes you a royalty, and a public figure and also makes you run so much charities. Already there is a public outcry from politicians, and members of public to strip the them of their tittles, their residence, their security attachments funded by london MET, and even asking their trademark to be blocked. people should not use the different labels we have now a days (feminism, awoke etc ) to just break long lasting traditions and values just because they deserve to do whatever they want to be happy, full commercialization of the royal family will trigger mass reactions amongst the british people and could be the end of the royal dynasty faster than we can imagine. The people will not allow them get away with funding them while they also take on international roles, jobs and contracts and be raking in hundreds of millions, they are public figures, ooni of ife will not leave ife and move back to lagos and be running his real estate, properties and other business while getting royalty monthly from the osun state governments and other benefits accrued to him. he knows he signed up for a tradition that is over centuries .
TravelRe: Gibram Cruz Mother's Deportation To Mexico By US: Army Officer Cries Out by Kayyy: 9:40am On Jan 04, 2020
See people screaming country of law and order, indeed. A country of law and order that granted melannia trump's parent citizenship on a special dispensation after her husband became president, they travelled to the US permanently after trump's swearing in and within 2years are citizens , but the law does not respect anyone right? , Continue decieving yourselves about US and law and order
PoliticsRe: Court Affirms Ganduje’s Power To Dethrone Emirs by Kayyy: 8:25am On Dec 21, 2019
Kundagarten:
Another governor would repeal this law in future.
FamilyRe: Should I Keep Enduring In This Supposed Marriage? by Kayyy: 10:32am On Dec 15, 2019
The issue here for both guys with similar problem is your wives actually know you have not accepted th as wives and partners in both union, rather you accepted them because of circumstances and have seen them as such, your wives sees your marriage as circumstances and rather than assure them you both want this marriage as men involved and would do everything to make it work and also ask if they the women also want it, you guys have not done that, I believe you should start from there and watch things fall in places
CelebritiesRe: Busola Dakolo: Never Stop Voicing Out Against Rape And Sexual Abuse by Kayyy: 6:06pm On Nov 17, 2019
very soon NGO go start , getting grants from major foundations, foreign governments, world billionaires and elites with their charities (The End Game).
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Kayyy: 9:37pm On Oct 27, 2019
''Abused and insulted mercilessly
• Sent death threats
• Pregnant wife harassed
• Has to disable comments on social media
• Booed and jeered by supposed Arsenal fans

I don’t give a Bleep what you say, his reaction was completely justified''


First time posting on the arsenal thread, found this online but cant verify how true this is, but if this is the actual reality, too bad then, sure you fans make the club and pay their wages and xhaka shouldnt have sworn on the fans openly in his reaction, but i believe its time arsenal fans reason deeply about this atitude, you once did it to ebuoe, he was going off, was there any need to boo and sing him off again?
PoliticsRe: Magodo Residents Now Enjoy Stable Electricity After Signing An Agreement by Kayyy: 9:07pm On Sep 02, 2019
No one has asked or bothered to know what the new rate the residents in magodo pay, the rate was increased from 21per KWH to 47naira per KWH
FamilyRe: Help! Help! Help! by Kayyy: 4:08pm On Sep 01, 2019
Good afternoon everyone and happy Sunday to all, please we are still soliciting for assistance in whatever way you could help with , pls take a time to show mercy and favour concerning olamiposi's case, God bless you as you do, thanks very much
FamilyRe: Help! Help! Help! by Kayyy: 11:15pm On Aug 30, 2019
Good evening guys, we would like to appreciate the people that have been able to assist us out of the kindness of their heart, may God continue to bless you and may you and yours never have to suffer any terminal illness, please we are still soliciting more for help, she needs every help available, i mean every, financial, physical, moral, and spiritual as well, should anyone know any charitable organisation or any foundation that might be interested in assisting with a case like this, we would welcome such. while the mother is strong and doing all she can, she is open to helping hands that can assist her to be able handle this situation and the family and friends are not sitting back at all. we're all doing all we can but as i say continously we would appreciate more

she's been able to raise about 70k as at this night and we still have a long way to go, the pcv count after the last tranfusion has reduced abit as at the last check today and we need all the help we can to help start the chemotherapy while she is not so pale and weak or we might need to tranfuse again, please kindly help us everyone and God bless you as you do. thank you.
FamilyRe: Help! Help! Help! by Kayyy: 8:24pm On Aug 28, 2019
should people want an account to be opened in this girls name for assistance, she can do this and get it done for people's peace of mind
FamilyRe: Help! Help! Help! by Kayyy: 8:20pm On Aug 28, 2019
Good evening everyone, please the lady involved in this issue is a family friend of over 21yrs , i grew up with her along with her siblings, and i was very welcomed in their house likewise mine as well and this has not changed even though we've all moved to different places interms of forging a living and our daily bread. she is someone i know personally and the kid that is ill as well, i was still with her this evening. this result and diagnosis was given to her yesterday and thats why she looks like she hasnt been able to gather herself very well, this sickness started with normal treatment for malaria and fever at ikorodu before she was referred to lasuth last week, olamiposi has had about 3 blood transfusion and other tests carried out on her before the bone marrow result revealed this yesterday.

like she said above , her husband passed on about 3 yrs ago, leaving very little safety net, concerning her inlaws, they're aware and with her, but they can only do so little as firstly they're not based in lagos and only rushed down after the result yesterday and secondly they're not that buoyant but are doing the little they can.

concerning the kind of assistance she needs, i believe she would come online to speak further about this , but i can say little based on the issues i have seen on ground so far, firstly while it is important she needs every financial assistance she can get individually at this desperate time, we also need further assistance, i would beg and implore you if you know any foundation, charity organisation or even people God can use to assist this lady we would welcome all, already she has been told the girl needs to start chemotherapy immediately, she has been given a bill for the first treatment for 28days which she posted above wic would cost #226,000 plus other drugs she buys daily, going forward we need people that can assist us , advise us and come to her aid, we dont know how many more sessions of chemotherapy she would be doing and what the cost would be, she's been advised that she has a fighting chance and successful chance, and we need people to aid her in this fight, any further uestions i believe she would come here and answer appropriately, olamiposi can be verified, she is at lasuth currently, thanks everyone as you assist, may we not mourn over our loved ones, please after the pains of loosing her husband 3yrs ago, this lady needs everyhelp she can get so she doesnt suffer another one, thank you all.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Kayyy: 10:04am On Aug 17, 2019
Kayyy:
While you're very right and all you stated is true he is is right as well, all what you wrote there truly are the reasons almost everyone in the house has issues with seyi , and while I might not agree that frodd is a tribalist if you've been watching this show as you truly claim frodd was the first and only housemate to mention seyi's grandfather and lineage amonsgt the housemate. And also do not forget seyi never introduced himself as seyi awolowo on entering the house, maybe you should question why ebuka did not ask others for their surname on stage and asked only seyi what is interesting about his surname, I guess this was the Genesis of this issue. If ebuka did not make him reference awolowo I guess only viewers wppuld be aware of his surname, but I agree seyi is partly the reason for all his beefs with other housemates.

But you cannot defend the tribalistic tendencies of viewers and the posters on this thread , like literally from the first page of this thread you can read up and see the origin on tribalistic attack on here , everything seyi has done on this show so far has always been associated to his grandad and lineage on here , he is either called a coward, drank rat poison like his dad, tried to commit suicide like his dad, a betrayer, a chip off an old block , so to pretend majority of posters do not watch and post about seyi based on hatred and tribal lenses is simply living in denial. infact I can bet that seyi has no fan who is igbo on this thread and we would all know the reason why, so do not shut down his words while you're right he is right as well.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Kayyy: 9:59am On Aug 17, 2019
Beorn1:
Even though I'm not surprised with the tribal line you always whip out all the time due to your antecedents as a tribal bigot in the Politics section and your time on this thread, I still wonder how you manage to defend a wrong without a conscience. It beats my imagination every freaking time.


The day Seyi regurgitated those cringe worthy words to Esther, I didn't see you criticizing him on this thread with the strongest of words. All I've you seen do is act aloof about his bad character and defend all he does simply because he's your tribesman.


So, it was envy/hatred about Awolowo from Thelma that made Seyi say those words to her?


Mercy was also envious of Awolowo and had hatred in her heart which led to their beef?

It was hatred and envy for Awolowo made Seyi hide drinks in the house which led to the beef with Ike and Frodd?

Mike, a Yoruba, was hating on Awolowo too when he clashed with Seyi?

Seyi's cockiness when countered is because of hatred for Awolowo? Two men are quarreling, and Seyi is feeling too big telling him if he knows about his reputation, then his opponent should shut up and bow down to him simply because of who he is. When the man points it out and refuses to cower, you say it is envy and hatred.


None of them in that house has achieved more than Mike, not even Seyi, but I've never seen Mike try to rub it in their faces and expects the HMs not to stand up to him. But Seyi who has not done anything special, should be worshipped so that they won't be seen as haters and envious people. How you've managed to spin criticisms of Seyi as inferiority complex is very comical.


One poster was even alluding that any Yoruba poster that criticizes Seyi is akin to a bastard as Igbo posters would not do the same if the son of Ojukwu was on the show. See the kind of mentality one is proud to litter here with and we wonder why nepotism is rife in this country.

The kind of things one reads on here both from the Igbo and Yoruba tribal bigots are disgusting and reinforces my conclusions about the state and citizens of this country.
While you're very right and all you stated is true he is is right as well, all what you wrote there truly are the reasons almost everyone in the house has issues with seyi , and while I might not agree that frodd is a tribalist if you've been watching this show as you truly claim frodd was the first and only housemate to mention seyi's grandfather and lineage amonsgt the housemate. And also do not forget seyi never introduced himself as seyi awolowo onneneyring the house, maybe you should question why ebuka did not ask others for their surname on stage and asked only seyi what is interesting about his surname, I guess this was the Genesis of this issue. If ebuka did not make him reference awolowo I guess only viewers wppuld be aware of his surname, but I agree seyi is partly the reason for all his beefs with other housemates.

But you cannot defend the tribalistic tendencies of viewers and the posters on this thread , like literally from the first page of this thread you can read up and see the origin on tribalistic attack on here , everything seyi has done on this show so far has always been associated to his grandad and lineage on here , he is either called a coward, drank rat poison like his dad, tried to commit suicide like his dad, a betrayer, a chip off an old block , so to pretend majority of ignored posters Don not watchand post about seyi based on hatred and tribal lenses is simply living in denial. infact I can bet that seyi has no fan who is ignored on this thread and we would all know the reason why, so do not shut down his words while you're right he is right as well.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Kayyy: 10:25pm On Jul 29, 2019
safarigirl:
everybody on that show is there because of one connect or the other.

Seyi's introduction to us is incomplete without "Grandson of Awolowo...." In fact, if he wss just another random Awolowo, unconnected to Obafemi, it wouldn't even matter, but since someone in the family decided that BBN was a ticket to more fame, then, it is a given, that he will be dragged into discussions one way or the other.

Nothing personal, no need to get your panties in a bunch undecided
Like I said up there, no need to give useless excuses here and there, because he is an awolowo he can't decide to do more for himself,. You mean he can't have a drive to build his own fame, he should live in the shadows of his grandfather's fame, admit what you are and stop giving useless excuse , a tribalist , trying to be a closet tribalist is worse, condeming tribalism and name calling and doing it after shows you're actually worse than the snake and bacbiter you call seyi, you're a tribalist, a disgusting one for that matter for trying to pretend you're not one, from now on wear it as an armour, be proud you are one, celebrate it, flaunt it , do not give people any other perception of yourself than being a tribalist .

At least thatigboman might be a disgusting tribalist, but he never did it from the first time he heard the name seyi awolowo, why you were trying to call him out last week when you were siblings in arms I would not understand
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Kayyy: 10:03pm On Jul 29, 2019
safarigirl:
Is it not his Grandson that is on BBNaija? How can you say you don't know what he has to do with BBNaija and nominations when there is a whole human being that is only inside that house because he has Awolowo attached to his name?
And you know seyi was put on the show because he is an Awolowo, you were there during the selection process to know that he didn't do anything to impress in his audition and all through selection process, he was only chosen because he was an Awolowo. Few weeks ago you were amonsgt the first set of people that strictly warned about bringing tribalism into this thread, you went as far as condemning it, but today all your pretense has been let out , your obvious tribalistic tendencies has been put out to all to see, so why you were pretending and warning about not derailing this thread with tribal sentiments initially I don't get , what was the need for all the pretense.

There are so many of us that have been reading and enjoying bbnaija thread on this forum for years but hardly comment, like I said what you guys want to stir up, you can't handle, people of different tribes and religion have all read, contributed and enjoyed bbnaija on this forum for years, don't destroy it like you all turned other sections on this forum, this is my last word on this matter
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Kayyy: 9:44pm On Jul 29, 2019
The MOD on this section or thread better watch it, cos this whole awolowo and backbiting and tribalism thing will not only detail this thread but totally destroy it, if you want to play tribalism, bring it on, if you want to divert the attention of tribalists from politics section straight down here and totally derail this thread then bring it on, it's ok to even label him a back biter, TTT nominated efe, was labelled one, but nobody dragged his name or tribe into it.

But should you want to bring forth the madness displayed all around this forum onto this thread, kindly bring it and watch how you derail and destroy this thread completely, and as for the mods watching and allowing tribal bashing and name calling, you won't be able to handle it when it gets crazy, I don't know what obafemi awolowo has got to do with bbnaija and nominations
PoliticsRe: Why Are You Not Voting Today? by Kayyy: 8:03am On Feb 23, 2019
Apart from first time voters that might be excited to be voting what is so exciting and promising about the next four years between major contenders, infact has any of them given us a real direction, policy, blueprint and expectations for the next four years through out the campaign, and dont tell me to go read any plan online, has anyone revealed how and through what means the plans would be achievable?, is anyone looking/watching international politics , can you see the process through which the democratic party nominees are putting themselves up for contesting their primaries, town hall meetings, plans, programmes ? , have you been watching bernie sanders, kamala harris, tulsi gabbard, cory booker etc yeah even in international politics loads of politicians are owned by coporations and usually sell their lies but my argument is their discussion is deep, its wide and interesting, its inclusive, we dont have half that over here, atiku and buhari do not excite me one bit and none will offer a promising four yrs ahead , thus my reason to sit at home.
PoliticsRe: President Buhari’s Children And Where They Schooled - Premium Times by Kayyy: 6:18pm On Feb 08, 2019
if my mum a major distributor with a fmcg company spanning over 15 years and my dad a printer can send 4 kids to study abroad , then i am trying to wonder how you can find it hard to believe that a retired general, a former petroleum minister, a former head of state, a former ptf chairman, a major farmer can send his children to study abroad. Are people on this forum so young that they cant ask or research buhari's contemporaries/ colleagues in the military/politics and compare and contrast them, compare buhari with obasanjo, babangida, abdulsalam abubakar, theophilus danjuma, jerry useni, late abacha, even people like buba marwa who were juniors etc. Compare what is each is worth before you can see how buhari stands out amongst them.
PoliticsRe: Onnoghen: Buhari Broke Into, Desecrated Supreme Court – Bishop Kukah by Kayyy: 6:27pm On Jan 29, 2019
why is Bishop Kukah fooling himself as an elder statesman, a member of the peace pact committee, when will Abdulsalami Abubakar remove this man from this committee and let him finally join PDP BOT which is what suits him?, for over five years this man has openly shown partisanship from campaigning for Jonathan, writing articles why Jonathan should continue and why Buhari should never be voted in 2015, through out the five years of Jonathan this man never saw a single thing to criticize in his leadership or govt, but right from when Buhari took over to into the thick of the recession this man has written and has continued to write many articles disparaging the government.

My grouse with Bishop Kukah is you went to otta to recieve Atiku and endorse him through Obasanjo and Bishop Oyedepo yet you still stand unshaken and without shame when the peace pact committee which serves as neutral umpires, observers, elders of the country, the peacemakers schedule meetings or public hearing, have you seen Abdulsalami Abubakar at any point endorse any candidate since he has been chairing this peace pact committee? when a religious leader doesn't have shame, decurom and is dishonest, little can be said about the judiciary, legislative and executives and this is where we are today.
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Kayyy: 1:01pm On Jan 23, 2019
Hello everyone, please house I would really like to ask this question, why would someone leave his house to seek to work as a driver for a partner, you take the car, the car is not faulty at all, and after 7days it becomes a battle to pay remittance, I mean the car you drive is even maintained by the partner, everytime you have conversations during the week there is no report whatsoever of any faults, but to pay becomes serious battle where you chased up and down and even takes involving your guarantors for you to do the needful.

This is not a one off experience, I have had 2 of such experience, in fact the second driver started this attitude from the second week of driving I had to collect the car after 4 weeks, and I have had several complaints as well, my coysin had to sell his 2 cars on the platform, my in-law same, in fact my close friend had to result to thuggery and blows to get his money by visiting drivers houses, why sign up for what you might not be able to do, and even after signing up and you discover you can't cope,what is difficult in calling the partner explaining to them and releasing their car to them.please can someone explain why this is very rampant.


For people that would ask remittance is 30k per week, both cars corolla Tokunbo, and servicing is done by partner and other major repairs, I even had to repair the legs of one car with the first 10weeks.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Is The 6th Cheapest Place To Buy Petrol In The World by Kayyy: 1:19pm On Jan 17, 2019
whenever the prices of petrol is discussed people just get very emotional and sensitive without opening their minds to broader issues that we have been facing for years, it is true political parties have politicized and toy with us using us against the other on this matter, yes we can rant and curse apc this, pdp that, but anyone who has studied the trends of the petrol increase over the years will realize that all parties involved are to be blamed for close to 20 years (16pdp, 4 apc) nothing has been done to revamp our refineries except looting and corruption now it has dawned on us the failure to do so over the years. it is important to let everyone know that whether buhari, atiku, sowore etc that petrol prices will increase steadily over the next term.

subsidy will not be sustainable regardless of who wins election as no party would be willing to support our petrol prices with 1trillion annually, even the subsidy in the budget this year is only to cushion the effect cos of election period as it would be suicidal for the government of the day to increase petrol prices months before election. so for petrol prices to find its accurate market price, importers would calculate the cost of refining, importation, transport and landing cost into the new price after subsidy , even atiku has talked about removing subsidy thru peter obi during the debate, so whichever divide you are on petrol prices will increase. except all our refineries including dangote can by miracle start working optimally this year and even at that refineries will include the cost of refining, transport and all other government charges into their price along with recouping their investments on the structure they built, it is business after all and not charity.
PoliticsRe: I've Officially Decamped To PDP by Kayyy: 12:48pm On Dec 29, 2018
How does someone with over 30 headline topics pro pdp and topics rubbish apc suddenly decamps officially , someone pro pdp over 6 months now claiming apc but officially decamping?, All you paid pdp and apc warriors have turned this site to a joke .
Christianity EtcRe: Adegboyega Alvin Adefarasin Graduates From University (Convocation Photos) by Kayyy: 10:46am On Nov 24, 2018
The school is Coventry university Uk, the background of the pictures showing the old cathedral and the school logo on the gown gave it up
FamilyRe: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Kayyy: 2:00am On Jul 21, 2018
Nihilstjnr:
If you think abuse is the reason for this mess, you're clearly in denial or deluded.

The alleged abuse is a symptom of the a much deeper malaise in the marriage - the wife had clearly recognised her husband's capability for greed and cruelty.

If you're able to analyse properly, you can see that at every stage, this woman took steps to protect her investment because she knows who she married.

They made money together, but hubby decides he wants to use joint profits to fly his dad out of the country for medical treatment, as well as build a house for his parents. The woman realises that this man is ready to take full control of, and squander their joint funds, so she demands a split.

A sensible man with kids would know that his first priority is to his kids and would have first focused on putting a roof over his children's head. Instead he left his kids under rain and went to build a house for his parents. No surprise he walked away from those kids in the end.

Next, the woman builds the house in her name, again because she knows who she married. If you genuinely think that it's a mere coincidence that the man tried to order her out of the house, then I have a bridge to sell you.

Think about it, the man is claiming to be annoyed that the deeds weren't in both their names, yet he stold her to get out of a house, where as far as he knew at the time, she was listed as a co-owner anyway.

This is a guy who wasn't concerned about her rights in the first place, and the woman clearly recognised these tendencies and took steps to protect her neck.

Steps that have been justified in the end.

I believe there's a lot that hasn't been said yet, but if you think that her insulting his parents is what triggered this wahala, then mehn...you're inexperienced in life.
I just read your last reply, believing all the plan the man made was well calculated towards an aim here is reaching to far, to even assume all you said was the man's intention did you read where they sat down, discussed this and agreed on the way to go, them man paid for his dad ailment and flew out with him, and he knew the wife was buying and developing their house not his/hers, he probably completed his parents house because he wanted a better living condition for him after his treatment and the budget could afford it and still contribute to their own building, will you actually declare a man that had all these discussion with his wife had sinister motives, make we fear GOD ooh

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