₦airaland Forum

kjhova:
Pretty wrong assumptions there, mate. No serious atheist waivers at old age unless dementia set in. I assume you believe in the bible God. I assume therefore that you are familiar with the bible's claims about the origin of the rainbow. Now do a simple google search on rainbow to realise it is the separation of white light from the Sun by water vapour in the atmosphere into the spectrum. Anywhere else you have liquid form on this universe along with a star, rainbows form routinely. Did Yahweh make a covenant with some alien species too?

Please don't patronise atheists. Keep your religion if you will and enjoy your stay on this planet. We are enjoying ours too.

elektra:
I don't know why you are referring your version as the true story, this is the exact story your wife told us.

Now let's be honest with each other, I know you know that the document should not be changed to your name ONLY.
She put in 100% of her part of the profit into that house. You split yours into three, contributed a lot less than she did. Why do you feel you deserve to have your name ONLY on the document? Why aren't you asking for both your names on the document?

You are planning to take away something very precious to your wife (her kids) because you want to cheat her out of the house.
You know your wife will probably choose her kids over the house, aren't you being wicked?
So this is how your wife will entirely lose out of that business that she worked so hard for?
Once she changes the document to your name, you will own both your parent's house and the house your wife built. And she will have nothing to show for her sweat

You claim you did not mean it when you asked her to leave the house. I don't believe it, because if you can cheat her entirely out of her efforts like this then you likely meant what you said

Acidosis:
The marriage was built on a faulty foundation: The idea of my money, your money, I will spend my money on this, you will spend your own on that . weakened the marriage. No love relationship can function on that platform. It is a mere partnership, and partnerships are bound to break someday.

For some selfish reasons (not love), a lot of couples have embraced this system. This is not entirely bad as far as OP and his spouse share the same ideology about marriage and properties.

As far as marriage is concerned in my own school of thought, all receipts must be in the name Mr. & Mrs (except those gotten before marriage). It doesn't matter who bought them or who paid the children's school fees, it doesn't matter whether you married a sit at home wife or a career woman.

If my wife decides to embrace some selfish interests or make plans for my demise, then she's merely wasting her time. In my lineage, only my grandfather died "prematurely" at age 96. The house he left behind is currently wasting away cos grandmom at age 95+ don't need it anymore. All she does now is sleep and eat. The only way a selfishly acquired property would meet the intended purpose is when a spouse die prematurely (- now this is the message we preach).

@OP, whether in her name or not, if you both see yourselves together in year 2070, there wouldn't be a fight in the first place. However to avoid issues of any form, buy everything in the name - Mr & Mrs and save your marriage.

adoyi8:
Do you know that you used the word "Throne" only because the bible was written during the time of kings? if it was written now, i guess you would have used words like The Oval Office, Presidential villa, Aso Rock, White house etc. Which weapon do you think Angel Michael would be depicted to use if the bible was written in the modern era? definitely not a sword. probably an AK47 commando style.

webizone:
Mannerisms and Language were imposed. Religion wasn't. Christianity is based on the belief of the Lord Jesus Christ. Get your facts right.

oneolajire:
The main purpose of christianity isn't to check mate politics. If it were so, Jesus would have told us. The fact that Martin Luther King Junior might have made such a statement doesn't mean he is actually correct. The purpose of christianity is far much beyond that of policing the government. 

Nigerian leaders don't seek advice from church and her leaders, if they had been, our society would have been much better. Most of our politicians are proud, selfish and clueless. Their motive is not to develop the society, hence they don't seek divine direction. Even when they deliver little dividends of democracy, they do so in order to have some projects to campaign with. Politicians only need church leaders for religious aspect of public ceremonies and solidarity during election season
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els0nm0rali:
Was I where?

els0nm0rali:
And you knew all these and still voted him again in 2015?

See who's talking about pedigree.

els0nm0rali:
So Yorubas played the tribal game when they voted for Buhari. What game were they playing when they fought for Jonathan to be made substantive president after the death of Yar'Adua?

What game were they playing when they voted for Jonathan in 2013?

What game were they playing when they rejected Buhari more than 3times at the poll prior to 2015?

Are you even aware of what's going on in Nigerian politics? I doubt it.

It is fine to mention pedigree when talking about Buhari. You voted for Jonathan despite his pedigree as a non achiever. He as deputy governor and then governor of Bayelsa state yet did nothing.

He was vice President and then President for 6years yet all we got was corruption.

He didn't even clean up the oil spillage in his home town and it took a Fulani man, the same Buhari to start the process. Yet you talk of pedigree? Ok o

But then its your vote, your life. You've got one. You are free to vote in whoever you like.

authority2006:
You guys just made it look like the Yorubas votes are being controlled by Tinubu. Funny. Check the last presidential votes for both Jonathan and Buhari in the SW and tell us the margin. People belong to political parties because they see themselves as politicians and they will vote for the parties they belong to irrespective of the tribe of the candidates.
Let Tinubu cross to SDP or LP today and let's see if APC and PDP won't record more votes for their presidential candidates in 2019.
Lastly, Yorubas don't play tribal games, we're the most detribalised ethnic group in Nigeria of today. Go to SE and SS and see the block votes for a particular party. In the SW, you can never see anything like that. So, where is the tribal game coming from? May be, you would have preferred a block votes from the Yorubas too which is the real tribal game.

els0nm0rali:
He was instrumental in PDP's loss at the 2015 elections. APC was a party that was hoped would liberate Nigerians. They failed. How is that Sowore's fault?

Were you in Nigeria during the Jonathan era? Maybe then you would understand why people said they would vote anybody but Jonathan.

You claim you knew, but I beg to differ. You only didn't like Buhari because he is from the North and a moslem too.

For all of Buhari's faults one can say that he is way better than Jonathan a man that had to get drunk so that he could face the crowd.

Just visit the website and Sahara Reporters and get more information. Don't rely on hearsay.

Abagworo:
The new Port-Harcourt Airport terminals though not yet in use is well structured and beautiful. Amaechi has done well in that aspect.

els0nm0rali:
But you are not concerned with the motives of people like Atiku who want power at all cost?

Or Buhari and Saraki who want to retain power at all cost?

Do you have proof that he was used by politicians in the past?

Who do you think his paymaster is according to you?

Are you aware that he was the one that revealed that Tinubu was wanted for drug smuggling in the US?

In a civilized world when you have a question about a candidate, you ask. Why don't you visit his website. You'll get the answers you seek and then you can make an informed decision.

This is not the time for assumptions or relying on old incorrect information.

I think sowore2019 should be able to help provide the website.

I visited the website and I liked it.

theoldpretender:
Yes, we know. We can all recite this poem off head.

But then,you Nigerians go and vote for a party that messed us up for 16 years....or the ruling party that has no idea to bring in the needed change to make things better.

And bills? You people insist on paying less than $5 for light monthly...and you expect 24 hours light...when you should be paying 5 times that? And you expect DISCOS and GENCOS to suddenly have the cash to be able to pay for gas?

You want good universites...and you insist on paying N50000 fees for N1 million naira education?

You insist on paying N97 for fuel that should at least cost N250 per liter...and you wonder why there are scarcity (and you blame govrement...for the worng reasons).

You know that there is a lot of infrastructure in a lot of countries...because people pay heavily in taxes and bills. Not the cheap thing we pay for in Nigeria.

Oil money cannot feed all of us. Neither can restructuring...because the prices of agric and other commodities rise and fall like oilprice[b].We need to invest in industrial development,and making things that the world needs...not in importing stuff and wasting our money on useless subsides...that prevent job creation, and leave millions unemployed.[/b]

els0nm0rali:
When you tell them to vote for a fresh mind and fresh face they say he doesn't have experience.

Enjoy your very experienced thieves.

ogedengbeakogun:
The problem is my Yoruba pple who re so scared as per where to start from... Lily livered prayer warriors, we've used all our lives to acquire education that will eventually become useless in this kind of country... It's now our eyes re clearing that.. It's not just acquisition of education that guarantee a sure future... Hence, the reason why we defend all sort of failures all our lives just so we can eat nd pay bills...

GavelSlam:
The domestic wing of the Port Harcourt airport is being handled by Inter-BAU construction.

Contract issued since 2012.

INTER-BAU is owned by Chief Nath Okechukwu Past President General of Ohaneze Ndigbo.

It is on record that the Senate and the ministry of aviation have been reluctant to penalise him for his failure to deliver.

elujah1:
The Chinese have already helped, This is the new international wing

ImaIma1:
Ufan mmi,

I see that you have slept with at least 75% of Nigerian ladies to come to your conclusion.

Well...i am not useless...at least be fair to your mum, your sisters and all the females in your family. Or are you ruling them out of the uselessness?

Be responsible for your choices and stop generalizing it. You sound more intelligent than that.

An ex took off with over 500k of my money that he was supposed to pay down for a car for me. I never got it back. Do you see me calling you useless?

Or should i create a thread about the Nigerian guys that i have had to deal with that showed they were useless?

Please quit all this already. You are not the only one that has been hurt. People have had it worse than you.

Lazyreporta:
I have a question:

1. The one who was drawing the maps of the world were was he standing?

2. The person who made money how much was he paid?

3. The person who started eduction who taught him?

4 the first person to have a degree who was his teacher?

Aderewah:
The west gave us a lot. Ground breaking discoveries like electricity, gravity, the Internet, planes, wireless communication. What are we going to give except show off the inventions of the white man?

XhosaNostra:
1. To stop being so reactive- I'll give myself an ulcer one day

2. Stress less, things have a way of working themselves out.

3. Learn to be in the moment- Because I swear most of the time I'm in an alternate universe, sitting on a back of a unicorn, while trying to catch rainbow coloured butterflies. I'm a very active person mentally, so it's really hard to focus sometimes. I'm always zoning off.

franchasng:
We lack pace, we lack energy, we can't mark, we can't pass ball accurately and we can't even score open goals. People shouting FIFA and Referee ojoro, how? must we score by penalty

Watch Senegal team, even if they lose, if u are a Senegalese u will be proud of them watching how dedicated, agile, fast and determined they are.

Our players don't even know what to do with ball when they get ball. Run, they can't run. Chase, they can't chase. Mark ball, they can't mark. Score goal, they can't score , ah ah how una wan take score na

I don't know why we keep playing the same useless, dull football since ages, we need to start training on how to play energetic, fast game if we intend to go far in FIFA senior world cup anytime

Musa is the only player in the team that deserves to be a footballer. Others are just plain idiots strolling around pitch.

Iheanacho and Ighalo deserves to be banished from Nigeria; two useless strikers and they still got signed with millions by European teams, mhen life is just luck and destiny. Because if not luck and destiny how can Iheanacho and Ighalo become international footballers playing in European clubs and earning millions while some hot players die in their village wretched

If life isnt about luck and destiny how can a dull, heartless person like Buhari become a military general and later the president of 190 million smarter people

My people no kill yourself in life o, whatever u will be, u will be it whether u are good or bad simple

piamily:
Cry and find out