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twinskenny:
I have two growatt 5kva inverter for sale ..

Like new

450k each

08051355133

Where's ur location?

Any one has an inverter for sale?

keepingmum:
I am interested in a solar panel that can carry
1 TV, a deep freezer, bulbs and one can charge phone with. Needed in abuja, airport axis

I am asking on behalf of a third party please however if you can, send a msg

Any suggestions please

I am interested in a solar panel that can carry
1 TV, a deep freezer, bulbs and one can charge phone with. Needed in abuja, airport axis

I am asking on behalf of a third party please however if you can, send a msg

akinmobola2019:
Lenovo laptop 4g 500g 80k

Lenovon laptop 4g 500g 70k

Lenovo laptop 4g 500g 65k

Changer over 25k

Juice mixer 25k

Samsung 1and half hp split ac 150k

2.5kav inverter with 200 mah battery for sale can work for 2days price 900k

Used battery 200mah 230k

New wet cell battery 220 mah 290k

1kav inverter with battery 400k

Inveter battery use toks and new one available

2 month use solar power with panel 120k

X box 360 with pad 60k

Mac air 2012 not coming up 100k

Mac pro 2007 not coming up 100k swap allow

Big photocopy machine for business center 420k

I pad mini 70k

Shoe 46 and 45 15k original uk bought them and discover is too big swap allow with phone ,

Treamil big 210k

Di photocopy machine 380k

Water dispenser 45k

Water teatment plant 2.100k each

Hand dryer 25k

Insect killer machine 18k

Rice cooker 18k

2,6 inverter with 36v 150k

3.6 inverter with 48k 200k

3000 wat stabilizer for 68k

Media split ac 1 and half hp 120k

Dvr 80k

1 terabyte hard drive 60k

Panasonic land phone 15k

X box 360 65k

Ps 3 150g 90k

Mini i pad 32g 60k

Traveling box 40k

Paper shredder 85k

New canon printer 35k

Fuse box for charging business 40k

Mini laptop 45k

Toys for kids

Inverter 1000wat with 200mah battery 450k

Inverter 1000wat with 100mah battry 380k

Inverter 10000 wat with 60 mah battry 350k

Pls and pls serious buyer only if you are not ready just ignore pls

New printer 35k

08022219777 whatapp no 08026267624. Serious buyer pls

Your location

How do you accuse ECOWAS that they haven't helped you fight Jihadists violence yet you jump in bed with Turkey & Iran?? Countries that have been accused of sponsoring Jihadists to destabilise other nations?

Ecowas may have its flaws and you, as a leader of a sovereign nation reserves the right to withdraw your membership from Ecowas but your rationale should be more accurate.

May Africa as a continent get it right 🙏🏽

borngeologist:
did you later give birth to twins

Nope.

Come with a gift for both parents; doesn't have to be expensive.

Expect to wash her dad's car and accompany him to the farm (we dont want your fil to be thinking you are not man enough now do we?)

Expect to accompany your fil to his village towns meeting where you ll natirally be expected to assist the older men with the chopping and bxtchering of cow/goats etc ( you have to show your husband material especially the respect part). Cant be seating down whilst elderly men are working.....wheres your home training??

Expect to follow her dad to their family church where the pastor will ask you about your ssxx life and conduct a deliverance from spirit wife....(cant have their daughter getting married to some one who isn't spiritually sound )

See

I dont think theres a spiritual element to it. I believe this bores down to money and a clear lack of plan.

Your dad had no stable source of income, no real business or steady side hustle and your mum, for lack of better words was unemployed. Petty trading cannot even yield profit enough to pay Nepa bills nor feed a family of 4 for a week

Yet rather than stop procreating at 2 children, your parents continued to give birth to 5.

Its possible that if they had stopped at 2 children, they ll still be poor however not at the level of poverty they are in and therefore your siblings would not need to experience the hardship they have experienced.

Your oldest brother choose a life of crime. Poverty is no excuse. Thats why we have rich kids and even politicians stealing from parastatals and positions of power. A criminal minded person will always have a "valid" reason to perpetuate crime. For example, imagine if the owner of the company that employed your brother (in good faith), took out a loan to start that business and relied on the profit off that business to not only sustain the business, pay back the loan, look after his own children's tuition, parents rent etc but he couldn't meet up because your brother choose to steal off him. Would that be fair?? (I also did not see where you said your brother used the proceeds of his crime to elevate your family/support your tuition in sch/set up your parents a new business).

Again, neither your parents appear to have any good business acumen nor hustling spirit because i didnt see where your dad went pick up driving work to support his family not your mum set up fry pan to fry akara at the bus stop to support her family. Your parents appear to havr the mentality of "i have given birth to you , its now your turn to look after me and your siblings".
This type of mentality often puts unnecessary pressure on young minds and children with little direction can be easily swayed especially if there arent decent role models in their lives.

Despite what life has thrown at you, i am glad you realised that to save people from a burning car, you need to get out first......hence the step you took to reduce the support you were sending home until u achieved your own milestones. I am afraid you will need to continue to do that for a while until your finances improve.

Keep praying, keep striving hard, stay away from crime and ALWAYS be in charge of your destiny. Dont forget where you are coming from but use that as a reminder of all the mistakes to avoid in order to get to your desired destination.

Good luck and God bless you

Pls where can i watch afcon for free online?

Oga it rains everywhere ohh. So hold your wife close.
There are no wife materials in the abroad thats why our men come home to marry.

Also remember that there are also no wife material in the 9ja again sef.
Imagine you divorce this one and then remarry and leave the new one in 9ja? What the new iyawo might be upto in your absence??

It rains everywhere is all i am saying. Marriage is love, patience and continuous forgiveness. Forgive your wife and hold onto your vows. Remember its for better for worse?

Pay more attention to her (like your rival). See as men de pursue her even after how many children she dropped for you.

Watch war room whilst at it. Many marriages are been attacked oh. Stand in the gap for your home as the head of your family and pray the devil away. Shower her with more love, attention and money and watch her fall in love with you over again

Nanorest:
What do you mean by white goods

Washing machine, fridge freezer, kettle, microwave and cooker

2 rooms available in a 2bed flat Birmingham UK, B29 for short rent.

Single room - £450pm
Double room £575pm.

All bills inclusive.

Both rooms are furnished with beds, pillows, duvet and curtains, wardrobes.
Shared Kitchen with white goods.

Pics attached

Interested pls send an email to
Oche_ stephanie1 at yahoo dot con

Has anyone got any decent phone for under 30k?

beautifulsoul12:
Yes.
We've tried and still trying.
They said is an attack. Family problem. We have been praying, maybe is yet time for God to intervine otherwise we have tried all our best

Can you be specific with exactly what you have tried? Has he seen a psychiatrist? Had a proper mental health assessment and subsequent diagnosis?

Since he currently has a crisis have you taken him to a teaching hospital for the above? What were you told by qualified medical practitioners? @beautifulsoul12

Mindlog:
It is a draft and the Masters student is still working on it, as she is going to present and submit it in September, for her graduation in November. So I do not have the rights to share her academic work as she shared it with me in confidence, for my insights as I encouraged her to opt for Psychology fot her Masters.

Please encourage her to publish it if she can. It will make for an educational piece to the men who think otherwise. I for one, support her thesis though i only know off the summary u shared

Mindlog:
Were they truly "happily married" while still in Nigeria?

The Nigerian environment tends to subsidize a lot of unhealthy marriages and then tagged a "happy marriage".

A lot of things need unlearning but some are stuck in their ways... one said it was emasculating doing the dishes.😆😆😆

That reminds me of a draft dissertation of a Nigerian Psychology postgraduate student, I read and it was really insightful as it focused on the breakdown in marital relationships of some Nigerian migrants to the UK as the focus.

The project detailed how the UK system hits hard on Nigerian husbands who are so high on control and submission as the UK system deflates these. The researcher also brought up the demystication of income which counters many threads here that advocates a man should not let his wife know how much his income is but here in the UK, the wife knows it before it even reaches the man's account and the system forces the couples to be more open about their finances and they are forced to make joint decisions as it forces accountable leadership on husbands as against the lordship status, they "enjoyed" in Nigeria ....d person write many, many for the dissertation.😆😆😆😆

Pls could you point me to the dissertation? It ll make a good read please.

An update:

There's a Whatsapp group, created by amdman to support the girl and her dreams. If you would like to be part of this project please reach out to amdman so that you can be added to the group. Her results are amazing.

I would also like to encourage anyone who might be willing to support the family, especially the widowed mother to start a small-scale business. It could be a supply business, wholesale/retail. The family reside in the Agbara Lagos state axis.

Finally, if you have a fashion house around Agbara axis and would be willing to chip in to support this young female by helping to improve her fashion skills: please and please reach out to amdman to support practically. Your help doesnt have to be via physical cash.

I have read your previous posts and it appears that whilst your husband was cheating on you with multiple ladies, cheating wasnt a deal breaker for you: it was an irritant but not a deal breaker.
However when he made moves to take in a 2nd wife, you drew the line and bounced off the marriage whilst pregnant. With no finances, zero plans for your self or children.

You are still in the same town abuja with your husband, inconveniencing your parents (by living with them), inconveniencing nairalanders (by begging for money and antenatal list items) whilst your husband is gallivanting around abj spending money on others. When your 3yr old son starts school who will pay his tuition/lunch money/uniforms/bus fare etc??

My words may be harsh and i apologise in advance. If you were my friend or sister, i would advise that you go back to your husband’s home, he didnt drive you. You are pregnant and legally married. Stay there and have your children whilst he remains financially responsible. Then plan your exit properly if you decide that you still want to leave the marriage. It might take months or years but plan properly because this route you have taken, is setting your children for suffering.

Dont allow emotions cause younto make irrational decisions

VoidLife7:
i have sent it to your mail

Sent. Pls pay the outstanding bal of her training and use the rest for her.
I hope u get the remaining help necessary as it will be a shame for her to end her dreams when she should just be starting.