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Olawealth, the famous SDK blog visitors, ankara seller, instagram username ankaraowl,....you said on sdk that you are a graduate though so why the different storyline here?
Anyhoo, may you find that which you seek

Pls where can i buy half bag of white beans in abj for cheap?

I returned from 9ja recently.....have no immediate plans to visit soon.
I have a sim i always use when in 9ja however i have now lost that sim.
Is there a way i can do a welcome back whilst here (UK) or do they sell 9ja sim cards in the UK that i can buy and activate from hete for use please?

Typical APC comments

Yes i have. What i did was to ask for feedback on areas i didnt respond well and areas they (interviewers) felt i underperformed.
I worked on those areas at future interviews

You choose to marry a man with baggage. You also have your own baggage you brought to the family.
I am unsure what you mean by how do u handle this?

You camped outside their home without an invite, waiting for ur prince charming/king kong to return with thugs to snatch the kids from their loving mum and u were expecting them to set up a picnic or a bush bar for u with drinks and peppersoup whilst u wait??

The ex wife told you dt ur hubby was physically violent to her during the marriage. I am surprised you expect the kids to worship you when all they experienced and were exposed to was violence which to them is the norm....

2ndly, you are in ur own home with your own kids (a privilege ur ex hubby allowed u), and u now want to support ur hubby to deprive his ex off her kids?? Are you okay or is his blokos that sweet and huge and veiny and long that you cant reason properly??

Madam watch it!!!! And keep and eye on ur kids and be their best friend whilst at it......especially with a step dad in the house

Godzchild send me a msg please

Godzchild send me a msg pls

Chariza:
I have tried every help suggested ma, coming here ma is the last resort. Squatting in the hostel, I tried that. I couldn't find, going to church?? I have gone to my church already and they said they couldn't help now as they have life threatening situations to help with.

Good evening ma,
I am just looking for a place to stay ard school, Even a family, I could assist in everywhere, chores, cooking, cleaning etc. I actually have messages and chat of all the assistance I sought for before coming here,thank you for ur comment

Someone suggested you try the fellowships on campus...have you explored that option?

I am unsure what help you need exactly. Every suggestion offered on this platform has been rejected by you

Or she has now found out about your love child mydebby or Soulq

Help With Your Advice Am In Dilema Over This Relationship by MYDEBBY(m): 4:00pm On Dec 19, 2015

Dear Nairalanders compliment of the season,I just came back from dubai where I reconciled with my wife and kids.before this reconciliation,I had already gone into a serious relationship with a girl here in Nigeria.The family of this girl had known me and my intention of getting married to this girl without any of them knowing am married already which I concealed from them intentionally so I can marry this girl.Having gained the trust of both the girl and her parents,she became pregnant for me and is delivered of a baby girl.But now am reconciled with my wife.and don't want to have a second wife again.how do I go about with this girl am into a relationship with without hurting any party? thanks in anticipation of your advice.

Or she has now found out about your love child mydebby/soulq

Help With Your Advice Am In Dilema Over This Relationship by MYDEBBY(m): 4:00pm On Dec 19, 2015

Dear Nairalanders compliment of the season,I just came back from dubai where I reconciled with my wife and kids.before this reconciliation,I had already gone into a serious relationship with a girl here in Nigeria.The family of this girl had known me and my intention of getting married to this girl without any of them knowing am married already which I concealed from them intentionally so I can marry this girl.Having gained the trust of both the girl and her parents,she became pregnant for me and is delivered of a baby girl.But now am reconciled with my wife.and don't want to have a second wife again.how do I go about with this girl am into a relationship with without hurting any party? thanks in anticipation of your advice.

Perhaps shes aware of the widow you are shagging hence the need for space

https://www.nairaland.com/3795406/relationship-widow
n May 12, 2017

Dear Nairalanders,I was travelling one day when,when I met this pretty woman along the way,we exchanged numbers and went our different ways only for me to call her later that same day to tell her I like to relate with her,and she agreed.calls to each other became frequent until I visited her and discovered she was a widow with 3 little kids,I became surprised and ask her how come which she told me her husband died on health grounds.tho this woman had been a very hardworking business woman taking good care of her 3 kids alone.I then out of sympathy supported her financially, but also told her am married but my wife is outside the country and within me,I made up my mind to quit.However she herself would not let go calling my lines and beckoning on me to always come and spend the night with her,once I tried that I became tempted to continue, but I feel I might be taking a risk,house what do I do at this stage,please no insult just a counsel or advice, thanks.

KanwuliaExtra:
Wetin you want the MODs to delete WITHOUT PROOF?
Where is the proof that the story is 'fake'?
Until YOU PROVIDE THE 'DEBUNKER'. . . nothing to delete o.
If na my own tory now. . . una go leave am for 2 years before NL HACKER-CRASHERS blow the threads away.

Jesuuuuuuu!!!!
Please, provide the 'debunker' let us see.

Whose nyanshes were in those pictures?
Whose breast was being squeezed then?
Who is that 'BABA'?
NA WHO BE THE PIPO WEY DEY FOR THE PICTURES?
Are you saying PICTURES ARE LYING?
Until the BABA tok im own. . . .we have not got to the end of the tory o!

SO. . . WHO JUMPED INTO THE LAGOS LAGOON?

Shuoooooooo? See 'gbege'?

in the interim, do you have a "body" pulled out of 3MB thats been identified as the woman in the picture? DO you have any statements from the authorities ie Hospital/Police etc that confirms your version of events?
Your entire thread is based on an unverified forwarded message from several social media platforms

kanwulia - the lady in the picture has come out to debunk the story. She is not the same person who committed suicide and its unfortunate her kids and her family are been blasted to the spotlight with false accusations.
MOD's kindly delete this page/topic please

Find out how much it is to share a room for 6 months with a student who has a room and is willing to pair at a cost..............then come back here

and that useless ghana with their useless ugly president and its blacker than black citizens will open their yeye mouth to accuse nigerians of kwarapshum!!!
Imagine, una no get shame or respect

I am about to order mine from aliexpress.....though i think the jersey is bad luck

I am interested in the mortgagr loan. Can you explain in detail here how to apply? What the criteria is and the minimum deposit required to purchase a home in abuja. By a home i mean a completed home not a carcass or one without windows/kitchen etc.
People will be reading this thread so to avoid wasting ur precious time on the phone and my kobo kobo credit, pls answer the above on this thread.

what about the coil, its non hormonal, the implant? there are many other options she could have used but most 9ja women due to ignorance believe contraceptives are evil and poison but will instead be drinking ogogoro or washing their bits with dettol and salt as a form of "contraceptive"

I hope mr horseband also has his bits snipped....cant have him going to get other women pregnant when he can barely feed the family of 8 he has created

All those men with non existent non functioning blokos that ll lie and decieve sisters into marriage with the hope that they ll endure "for better for worse" ish......no more hiding place.

Next the churches should do, is insist the man masturbates and should take atleast 5mins doing dt b4 cuming to rid off these 20 second men that cannot even satisfy their wives yet their libido is as high as buharis taste and desire for power

What if Its a case of mistaken identity Now theres no difference between this man and the mob that perpetrated this act

Says whom? The man ma infact be his hubby....there are lots of closet gays with families masking their true preferences because of the judgemental society we live in

Is there a job that restricts you once married?? Unless you have myopic out of date beliefs ......which you are entitled to have thst restricts your choices

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Since we are on this matter, I want to clear some niggling questions. Baby124, what's the deal with Ahnie? What connection is she trying to draw with you and Siena? I've wondered for a long time since she first brought it up.

I hv bn under the impression that shes babyosisi and i think she was one of the ladies linked with Siena re affairs??

EfemenaXY:
Okay, now this really begs the question:

How come you know all this? And more importantly, how is any of this your business?

Only a home wrecker would create such a thread and post all this.

If on the other hand you’re the wife in question (which I suspect you are), then why hide your identity?? How can you or your claims be taken seriously if you’re hiding under a fake moniker?

I get you feel hard done by, with him not “supporting his kids” as you claim, but even then you’re taking the pîss here aren’t you?

Your husband runs a business which is based on customer confidence. If you go about tarnishing his name and business online just to score cheap points, where do you expect him to get the money from to support your monetary demands on him??

It’s obvious he’s moved on and you haven’t, hence your chasing all the women he’s interested in forming a relationship with. How is the Ugandan fiancée any of your business?? There are millions of women out there in the world. Are you going to chase them off too??

You need to get your priorities right. Focus on legalising your stay if you can’t handle hustling in Nigeria. Then go train up and get yourself a decent job to support yourself and your kids, rather than wait hand and foot for a man to do it for you.

Really? Are you dickmatized or are you sienna or are you a Buhari? Alot of us know the ins of our friends and relatives marriages as they share some of their challenges with us so ur question madam is invalid.
Finally, spreading stories doesnt make u a home wrecker.
Mr sienna wrecked his home with his actions over 5years ago when he started his love affair with mercedes.....atleast thats when i became aware of his philandering cos he actually kicked his wife out of the home they lived at the time.

i am actually shocked at EfemenaXy's comments on this thread......but then again, i was also shocked when i read about the married " nairaland celebrity senior specialist armchair advisers" he was having numerous affairs with so....

At the end of the day, if Madam Esther is wise, there is ample advise she can get from her to start a case. all she needs to do is make her way to a Citizens advise office
She qualifies for legal aid as she is an unemployed battered wife who has suffered DV
Yes she may be asked to sign weekly of bi monthly at a Immigration holding centre but she wont be deported
And she will be offered a home by the council as a battered woman with her kids and benefits as she ll be entitled to it.
but a lawyer will file a discretionary leave to remain for her. She wont need to pay the legal fees nor application fee due to her income ....the lawyer will claim his costs from legalaid.
her application will probably be rejected on the 1st hurdle but will be accepted and approved at the lower or upper tribunal.
In the mean time irrespective of whether Mr Sperm Donor " aka Mr sienna puts his names on the birth certificate or not, the oldest kid should be clocking 10 soon and will be able to file on her own basis for british citizenship
She will however be foolish if she follows these war room advocate nigerians and "leave everything to God" or just decide not to file and pray that some 9ja miracle magically happens to her and HOme office miraculously sends her a permit that she never applied for.
She ll equally be foolish if she decudes ro do some arrangee marriage or refuses to file for child suppprt using his NI number.
And she ll be a bigger fool should she use a 9ja lawyer for ANY of her legal cases.
Let thr CAB guide her and i hope she listens to them
At the end of the day, there are so many stories with recurring themes from several women on this forum through the years that has described mr sienna as a controlling violent, abusive individual. they cannot all be wrong ...my opinion

Did she forget to use hypo on her feet?

Part of the problem and solutions is family planning. People should learn to havr the number of children they can look after by themselves under their roof....stop breeding kids under the disguise of na God de bring the child, na God go provide, shildren are a blessing, they open doors etc
Other school of thoughts are
- we will not always be poor.....reality is not everyone will break out of thr poverty hold but you can improve your odds by having few kids eg 2 children.....irrespective of gender
- Madam my horseband is sleeping around so i wee born 5 shildren to tie him and secure my leg inside his palace....wehdone, after you born your shildren and ur oga die i hope you have the means to look after these shildren without fobbing them off to relatives for them 2 be abused sexually and physically and mentally?
- Mr i want 4 boys to carry my name when you are a 40+ old man, still struggling 2 provide 2 square meals a dy for ur family of 6 children (4 girls and 2 boys)....please what are the boys coming to inherit? Poverty name that doesnt open doors or what?
Dangote with all his wealth have 3 children....all girls
Bill gates has one child
Richard branson has x2 children
Obama has 2 girls
Bill clinton has one child
If all these billuonaires with names dt dont even need introduction are sticking 2 few kids irrespective of gender and you an employee, renting room and parlour are still knacking ur wife say she must born, my brother d story of the girl above may not be far from the future you have carved out for ur kids