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psilord:
Hello house, please where can I buy whey protein(milk) in Port Harcourt?
I have tried several supermarkets but to avail.

Thanks.

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Ezkid:
I have 28k left to clear it ma, anything u help me with will be appreciated, and I will provide my wife account cos I have an outstanding loan on my account now and they'll automatically deduct any money that is credited from today.

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Oga you should get the alert before noon Tuesday. Thanks to Buhari we have limited options for money trfs

Ezkid:
Thanks for your concern sir. I have a business I'm into and its sustaining until it was stopped abruptly, we are waiting for the government to lift the suspension so we can start working again, in the meantime, I've diverted to another business to keep things in order.

It won't be this difficult if she delivered without the surgery, the surgery really drained our financial capacity , and I' spent all I have in savings the very first night we brought her into the hospital before coming online to solicit for help, She's still in the hospital now because the nurses are on strike with no one to attend to her folder.

She's Igbo and I'm Yoruba, and we are not planning to do any marriage rites immediately, about 153k gone so far would've been more than enough to hold a firm grip on my business, and I wouldn't need to sink into the thoughts of how I'll take care of them.
She registered at the state hospital where those vaccines are given freely, and that's where we took her to when she was in labour before being referred to the FMC, she'll be getting the vaccines there once she's been discharged from here.

Thanks for your concern sir.

How much do you need to pay your complete hospital bill

have they notified the airlines and immigration? Because i rememeber when flying to 9ja one time with an expired passport, i wasnt allowed to board for same reasons.

Souqwaqif:
Good day all,

Please I need good advice from married folks. I have been doing my best in providing for my wife and children. Without much input of support from her despite the fact that she runs a little business and works as a teacher.

I pay the house rent, children school fees, her shop rent, feeding for the house etc. because she is not usually paid alongside others by her state government.

However, from recent findings, I discovered the govt. Has gradually and almost cleared their salary arrears remaining just a few months and yet she does not seem it necessary to at least let me know. Although I won't ask her to give me her money nor subject her outside voluntary support of the family, but one thing is that I am very much disappointed that despite all my efforts in taking care of the family, now that she has money she cannot tell me nor deem it necessary to at least pay for her shop rent.

Please I have called her one on one to talk sense to her after which she will agree to change but am not seeing any change. What else can I be advised on,thanks.

Ur wife should really pay her shop rent from her purse and if she argues the business isnt yielding enough profit to sustain itself, and truly she doesn't support the home then let the rent expire and do not renew it.........atleast not from your purse

Mynd lalasticlala can i please have this on front page to get some feedback.

Just need info particularly from those with smart tvs how do they use the services. What broadband or data provider is used, package they subscribe to etc

Yes both intending parties should contribute to the wedding. However, you should both consent and plan to host a wedding that YOU BOTH can afford without relying on external aids, loans or burdening family members.

All those "you only get married once, i must show my i laws i am capable yen yen yen, i am the only daughter, i am the first graduate in my family, i am the first to marry without been pregnant or been a lazy youth therefore i must have a big wedding DOESNT COUNT NEITHER should that be a reason to have an elaborate ceremony that YOUR POCKET cannot fund.

Finally, as the intending groom, if you want your wife to be to fund part of the wedding then ensure she works and that her contributions is equal to the percentage of her earnings.

chaotik:
Housing (ibara), Abeokuta ... Airtel is good but the question is don't they have designated ISPs in this state like spectranet and ipnx

are their prices on the package you use fair and reasonable?

This thread is to seek advise or comment on your experiences of the best broadband or home internet providers in your area. Please be mindful that whilst certain internet providers may be strong or better in area A, their connectivity might be weaker in area B so let us all be mindful of casting wrong aspersions on commenters.

Also, to help our fellow nairalanders, it will be helpful to be specific but not too specific (due to security reasons in todays nigeria) to NOT mention your exact street when stating which provider you use

I am specifically asking our people that work from home or use smart TV's to share their recommended internet providers so that others can learn please.

In Kuje, Abuja - I have heard Airtel is good and affordable but yet to explore it

Broken2020:
Trying is where my confusion is

Send me a pm , perhaps i can give you a few suggestions that may help

If i had seen ur post below, i d have saved myself of this mockery


Am I Not Justified? by dprincedej: 12:08pm On Mar 24, 2017

I am a typical Yoruba man. I loved my wife. No marriage is perfect. I hav beaten her several times and sent her out of the house, I hav two kids. I hav cheated on her inside and outside my matrimonial home. I hav been rude to her parents. I hav avoided paying my kids sch fees at times. I hav abstained from sex with her for several months in a roll. I hav borrowed money from her family members without paying back. I hav denied her as my wife. I hav embarrasses her in public and turned my people against her. But guess what. She is not perfect either. She can not take risk for me. She hates all my ideas. She doesn't trust me. She is unfriendly. She is lazy. She is a bad cook. She loves her family to a fault while hating mine. We got into a fight and I sent her packing out of anger She was arrogant enough to leave with all her belongings even the dust pan. I hav admitted my wrong doing and begged for forgiveness from everyone she knows. She said she would only trust me if I send her upkeep but I no longer had a job. I begged for years but she didn't give me a chance. It has been six years now and I have made it. I hav remarried now to a caring woman who helped me to prosper and stood by me. Have I done any wrong? I begged for years. I admitted my mistakes and promised. If my first wife loved me the way I loved her, would she not hav come back? Should a Yoruba woman ever desert her husband and father of her kids for that long? Did she expect me to stay single forever? She is talking bad about me because she didn't expect I would make it. God has put her to shame. Please comment only if you are above 40yrs. I don't need comment from small idiots who are not married.

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You are gbenshing ur new wife yet expect ur old wife not to gbensh? E shock you abi? Shes certainly getting better sexual satisfaction now sef than what she was managing with you.

The law has told you: whether she speaks with you or not, ur children need food/shelter/clothes/education and you should contribute atleast half towards those expenses.

You should do that for a minimum of 3months sending upkeep and tuition and if she doesnt reneged, then revisit the social welfare again.

Your ex wife doesnt have to tell you her address or anything about her personal life: she doesnt owe you that and your conversations should focus solely on the children.

If you dont do the above...........goodluck to you and your new family

Just under 70gb

Viceni111:
Doctor simply told us it is Metastatic cancer. It is stage four but we don't know how severe it is now except that she can barely use her left leg, and there are multiple sores and injuries on the affected breast. I also do not know the next Doctor's move.

I dont know how much you know about cancer but what the doctor means is that its terminal and at the last stage. Stage 4 cancer. Your mother CANNOT be treated. What she ll be given is palliative treatment to make her remaining stay comfortable and painfree because she ll be in alot of pain.

You need to be strong and spend the next few weeks creating and enjoying memories with your mother and family. Stage 4 might be 4 weeks left or 8months- only the doctor can advice specifically.

I am truly sorry it has come to this but i ll encourage everyone whom has a diagnosis or suspected diagnosis to always speak up early and seek adequate medical advice and attention as early detection saves lives.

When you hit 28 and above, pls check your breasts regularly for any lumps as certain breast cancers are genetic and you might be at risk if you have inherited the gene. Gosh, i wish i could see you and just hug you and reassure you that you will be fine......this is heavy

When you are free, please read up this links to equip yourself with what to expect over the next few weeks.

https://www.cancerresearchuk.org/about-cancer/breast-cancer/stages-types-grades/number-stages/stage-4

https://www.cancer.net/navigating-cancer-care/advanced-cancer/care-through-final-days

https://www.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-information-and-support/breast-cancer/staging-and-grading-of-breast-cancer-in-men

Viceni111:
Received thanks

Whats the update ff ur visit to the hospital

Squillaci:
Na keepingmum.

Actually, it wasn't me but God has blessed the poster and giver

PSTEMMA1960:
Abeg make una no just view and pass ooo.... In case if anyone has a job offer for me, here is my number..... (08138958833) thanks and God bless..

per year or pm?

How much is ur rent

Viceni111:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=usQZ-8Q6KGQ

This is sooooooo sad. A progressive country will atleast provide decent affordable care to its citizens. Pls try the teaching hospital you were reffered to in Ife and also explore missionary hospitals, especially the catholic hospitals as they are heavily subsidized and specialised .

May we not go through what will end us and may we not experience what will overwhelm us

Wheres your location....fyi new one on jumia is 150k

How much? Do you have R of O and C of O? Whicb axis in Lugbe

Jessie21:
The link I posted was last year not this year so guys think about it...

The slaps he talked about happened 2017 that was the period I took in but I didn't know then... I was only vomiting then, It didn't occur to me that I was pregnant because I didn't have the experience of it.

The slaps was as a result of him accusing me and fighting me that I'm having an affair..... He embarrassed me even in the presence of his friends so I didn't resist the urge to slap him twice for disrespecting me.

NOTE: Pregnancy hormones were already doing their job in my body.

Remember I said we started dating early 2016, December that same year,I traveled with him to his village few days before we return back to Lagos,he made me swear an oath never to have any thing to do with someone else if not I will die... He took sand from the ground and dropped it into the cup of water he wanted me to drink to seal the oath... I drankk the water willingly because I am sure of my self, because I know I will never cheat..... After doing this for him to trust me he still had the guts to accuse and hit me for something I'm not guilty of...The slaps are justified.
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Even before the slaps, hitting me and embarrassing me in public was his profession.

babe, MOVE ON from this guy. Cut OFF EVERY contact with him. OBEY and LISTEN to your PARENTS. This boychild has NO respect or regards for you
he cheats on you yet accused you of having an affair
he doesnt provide for you
he is physically abusive to you
he doesnt respect your family

HE IS A NARCISSIST - never taking ownership of his actions rather looks for whom to blame for his bad behavior - what he feels for you isnt love but CONTROL......girl, go and do something meaningful with your life than waste it with someone who would rather you are UNHAPPY with him than HAPPY elsewhere.

You wont be the first or last single mother. Focus on your growing yourself either through trade/education. You have no business returning to this guy's house either to (discuss child's welfare, pick up clothes , he is sick, collect money etc) - I REPEAT, NEVER be in the same roof with this monster.
and stop doing things on social media or in the public to get his attention, he isnt worth it. GOD BLESS YOU

Your hubby's family havent been honest with you. They were probably aware he was dating her. They certainly were aware she was pregnant because she cannot magically have been able " to locate his aunt/family to complain" without him taking her to introduce or bringing them to the lady's place or whichever rendezvous spot ..... even your BIL in the UK would have been aware- perhaps he didnt support ur hubby's action but he certainly would have been in the know.
My dear think of ONLY yourself and YOUR happiness alone because your hubby NEVER thought of you or your feelings at any point during his pathway.....he choose selfishness and public disgrace for you because now, nitwits will start looking at you like the barren one. Wipe your tears babe, Joy comes in the morning CERTAINLY and your morning is nigh but i applaud your steps....especially separating every financial ties with this man.
God bless you

Been married for 16yrs plus and can tell you this, love will fade at some point in marriage.......beauty and looks aint skin deep, they are superficial and WILL fade.. my FIL is as white as an albino but hubby is dark skinned and i am light skinned but NOT fair....both my kids took my FIL's skin colour ie hubby's recessive genes.......you may marry a fair skinned girl whom pregnancy hormones messes up with and she goes dark during preg and never returns to her birth colour yet ur kids end up with your colour......will you then dump her and your kids because they dont have your "preferred skin
colour"...

.friendship is what will keep your marriage through those tough times because believe me as a spouse, u ll offend your spouse so much that they might resent you....but then because they miss their "friend" they reconcile and forgive you.

I think the bigger question here is do you know what friendship is

If you were not married traditionally, religiously or legally then u cant seek redress from the customary court, church or divorce court.

If you didnt think the court, church/mosque or customs important enough to seek their approval for your cohabitation you cant go to them for redress when things fall apart

If your cohabitation produced children, go to your state family services or social welfare and they will draw up a financial support plan in place as well as visitation and custody agreement for both parties.

Oluwatunmise529:
My mum is late

Why did you move to stay with your aunt? I must commend you for completing your ND at 21. What is it that you want to do with yourself moving forward? learning a skill or returning to school? Do you live in the same state with your dad and aunt?

nelsoooooo:
Ur rite its the same thing from where I come from , but its unfortunate that my father in-law is no more , that's why the family is not interested in what ppl will say .

How has your attitude being to your wife during the years preceding her leaving? Please answer truthfully

- Have you been physically abusive to her ie hit her with your hands or an object?
- Have you been verbally or emotionally abusive to her? Use negative words on her?
- Have you been cheating or has she caught you cheating?
- Prior to your "setbacks", do you provide monthly upkeeps to sustain the children and the home to her or do you expect the family is fed/sustained from the "business" you opened for her?
- Are there any of your relatives staying in your home, if yes, how long have they been around?

edward2018:
I used someone not quiet long ago, I didn’t know his handle here but I have his personal contact. His work is ok as no complain when we submitted all the documents. You can contact through my mail. His previous work is here on request. Hopefully you can Contact me through
Email:: tunwardprojectconsult@gmail.com
Whatsapp::+2347031571105

Hi, thank you, could you mention the person username so i can check their work pls

Hello all, a friend needs an engineer or surveyor to check/inspect the worthiness and safety of a building at agbara, lagos.

Can anyone pls recommend someone with evidence of previous work that can be verified.

Can i also have some idea on the costs involved and the duration of the inspection/report please.

hello, is this job still available pls