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jeff1607:
a smart phone or something else?

royalguy123:
What is food,that will ruin your own wedding,!!!
I experienced it in my own marriage,my family rejected the food my in-laws gave to them,but I have to take the whole food home ate it for a whole 2weeks!!!
my family is intact,my marriage is intact,my in-laws still respected me till date,
lesson the DIL over reacted,what's food compare to her MARRIAGE?

engrj:
I contacted this what i got as a response from her.
Screenshot below.
Though u have sent another mail to her again.

Osila2:
I am a concerned friend of the father of the 28years old boy.

Here are the reasons he gave for quitting LASU that he text to his father, which the latter showed me now:

"d following reasons aids me quiting lasu: 1 no hostel nor proper accommodation 2. Inavailability of study materials e.g txtbks, pc nd cell phone inorder to solve assignments nd project or research works 3. No pocket money or food stuff 4. cultist treat"

Osila2:
what's your opinion?

Osila2:
SON:
forget that law of karma will visit u soonest.
i regret having as a father.

FATHER:
Thank you very much.

Osila2:
FATHER:
Have you ever asked yourself if you have ever followed my advise, even when I asked you to come and live with me?
Have you forgotten how many people you went to in Badagry, when I was living in my old place, to collect money for jamb even after I've given you?
How many times have I given you money in my old place, even from the little with me?
I advised you to work with me when I was doing my former consultancy work, did you agreed?
I paid your LASU school fees and also gave you my 1st bank ATM to withdrew some money but what did you do:
1. You withdrew all money in the account
2. You refused to return the ATM until an in-law collected it from you and brought it back.
You played trick of your school accommodation need costing N70,000 on me. I gave your senior sister N80,000 in your presence and to follow you to the house but what happens next - no house at all.
You initiated another trick to obtain money from me by telling me you need a laptop and accommodation. I initiated Jumia to bring laptop to you but you says you don't want the type and thereafter setup your friend to play me as your lecturer, I then realised that you've dropped out of school before then and you need the laptop for yahoo yahoo !!
Even when I decided again to support and came to you where you're squatting only for me to realise that you don't really know what you want and what to do in life at 28 years old.
I told and advised you severally about facts of life yet you are inconsistent in your ways. At your age, do you need to hang on someone?
Some of your friend are working and planning for their future but you turn yourself to parasite.
You stated that I only knows how to give birth to children without taking care of them, I really thank you very much for that statement and God bless you.
You want me and my so called wife to get ready for you as it won't be funny for us the day you will come to us. With these threat from you to us, no problem. I hope after killing us you will be satisfied.
You called me Dad yet you want to kill me and others, well I pray for you that the law of karma be yours, Amen.

Osila2:
check out the screenshots of caustic words from a son to his father

SON: Hello Dad.
for what's money without happiness or a home without the people you loved? bcoz u ain't ever gonna be happy without the you loved.
why I have a father and still suffer like have none.
always do to your wards cos u brought them to this helly life.
Am seeing myself that I don't have a father nor a mother......so just know that if u don't change and do the right things for your children the Lord will surely judge you on the last day.
you forget your earlier beginning and all the ups and downs will suffered with you and one woman from nowhere those not want you to have our time again just remember that there God oooo.
all what you know how to do is to give birth to children and you won't take care of them.
The talk time is not now yet the day I will come to your house it won't be funny at all
you and your so called wife should get ready for me oooo.
lord in heaven knows am tired people referring to you as my father and thats why am also sick and fed up with all your empty promises.

GreatDad19:
Madam this talk is getting old. But even if this is the case, a man should suffer because of the way God made him? Never will I leave my wife because of a situation that I know can be fixed hence me trying to find a solution. I finally addressed it to her and what did I get in return? Attitude and disrespect. I have helped my wife in so many ways, that I do not want to go into detail because I did this out of the love I have for her. I’m not innocent and I’m a human being and have been as transparent as possible, but please respect the fact that I’m asking for genuine advice and your insults are very unnecessary. Thanks.

GreatDad19:
Hello nlanders

This is an update to my old thread from last month https://www.nairaland.com/4647838/wifes-vagina-loose-please

I experienced some negative feedback but was able to receive help from a generous lady who sent me a pm and advised me on what to do. I ended up buying what this said lady suggested for my wife and I thought at this point maybe this issue would be solved. Despite me avoiding this situation for years, I finally decided to address it after frustration.

After purchasing this item, I sat down with my wife in the calmest way possible to explain how I’ve not been satisfied sexually due to her giving birth. I explained to her that I felt her vagina had loosened after the birth of our child and I handed over the product that I had bought for her. My wife stayed silent all throughout the time I spoke to her. When I finished talking she gave me a very nasty look and left the room without saying a word and also eased as she left. Since that day I have been living in pure misery.

My wife has refused to sleep in the same bed with me, she has deprived me of sex. She barely cooks. Every time I try to talk to her, she shuts me or up or she doesn’t respond. She’s constantly on her phone talking to one friend or the other. Completely disrespecting me in my own house. Yesterday night was the last straw and we got into a heated fight. She compared me to one of her ex’s and claimed that it was a mistake that she married me. I ended up calling her all sorts of names and told her to leave my house. I called her mother, and she was begging on her behalf but I’m no longer tolerating her nasty behaviour. It was God that stopped me from slapping her yesterday, because I’ve never been insulted like that all my life. This morning she’s packed her stuff and she has left with our daughter.
At this point I’m falling out of love with this ungrateful woman. Since the birth of our child it’s been hell and I’ve tried my best. At this point I don’t know if I should just leave my wife or try to reconcile. I have tried to my best ability but she’s very ungrateful and miserable. I believe our marriage is dead at this point and I don’t think there’s any way to revive it. She has completely let herself go emotionally and physically. She doesn’t care about herself nor myself.

I just want to know the next wise step to take

Thanks.

badwife:
Thoughts of killing myself.... Help I want to talk to someone...
Please...