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I didn't finish this...but all I have to say is collect ur own share and bounce, the stress is not worth it. When u meet somebody who wants something serious no be person go tell u. For now she is on ''community service''.

Now imagine this happening in a place like Lagos, Nigeria for just 30 days; many ppl would drop down dead because of stress resulting from lack of sleep. Na night dey halt the hustle for most of us.

IYANGBALI:
She no even fine sef

What has physical beauty got to do with this? And u are not even good at judging beauty 'cos she is fine.

Mehn...Mercedes v-boot as of 1996. This car was the rave of the moment in the early 2000. Now I believe Abiola was in real money during his lifetime. Baba God I wan start with just Golf 3. Bless my hustle bikonu!

For ur peace of mind pls find way and leave. It will hard for you to succeed in such a toxic environment.

apache22b:
Guy they are just 33yrs of age ....My class mates both Secondary & University

Hmm...udonminit! They look 40+ to me. All the best to them.

So these old men had to wait this long.... see bald head everywhere.

Have you gone for service (NYSC)?

Tell ur mum cos if something really bad happened to ur sister in the course of her living with that aunt of urs, I bet u will never forgive urself.

Abcruz:
Apply wisdom in this family issue and let them do what pleases them because some have lost their lives dragging properties.

Take this advice and u will be fine.

Maybe u are called to be a minister.Just like Jonah in the bible, I have heard similar stories of people not succeeding in virtually all that they lay their hands on until they face their divine call. And what about marriage? At 37 you are not getting younger. Maybe ur destiny lies with ur future wife. Maybe u need a life partner to handle ur finances.

buygala:
Happy Birthday to him



But he has a strong face for someone who is 30 ....He looks more like my 43-yr old Uncle Boniface

buygala:
Happy Birthday to him



But he has a strong face for someone who is 30 ....He looks more like my 43-yr old Uncle Boniface

You cracked me up big time. Lol... I think his thick beards gave him that kind of old look, unlike when he had it small he looked younger.

mariobobby:
same shit is about to repeat itself ��‍♂️

Now take a look at the picture, see the number of persons therein.....
Today, no single soul among them is alive. They are all dead and gone. Their remains nothing but dust. The thought of that alone makes me shiver.
Just take a moment and reflect on the essence of life.
But the funny thing is, no matter how sober u feel right now, it's only fleeting. U are still going to carry on the moment u leave this thread. Just like looking urself in the mirror and forgetting what u look like when u look away.
This life ehn........
MODIFIED
I just checked the time frame, 1918-2020 and it's 102 years. Maybe some, few or a handful are still alive. But how many?
LIFE!

LetHraven:
This is relieving for me.

Thanks so much. God bless you

God bless you too

At this point going back home is ur best bet. Life in the city can become extremely hard for the struggling post covid-19. It will not be easy but u need that comfort zone at this moment. With rent and some other expenses aside, u have ur load lighter. Be strong. If u had come this far,u surely are strong. This is not time to quit,cos u are closer to ur breakthrough than u think. May God see u through.

Bro make I tell u the simple but hard truth, when u stay with ur parents for too long be u a man or woman but most especially a man, at a point ur younger siblings will get so used to you that they start losing respect for you. The situation is even worse if u don't have money. Even ur parents will belittle u and make u feel like a child. Familiarity they say breeds contempt. But if you are the type that comes and goes, u will always command respect. Maybe this lockdown is to be blamed. Move as soon as u have the chance and see how much respect u will command next time u come around.

Hey, don't despair. U are not alone. Myself, I'v been through similar challenge but pulling through and getting stronger now. One thing I noticed that make one go one step forward and two steps backwards is trying to gratify ur immediate desires at any little chance of success instead of reinvesting the gain and satifying the desire later. Small money u want to buy this, u want to buy that. U want to improve ur standard of living. In the event of sudden economic downturn like we are having now, u will have nothing to fall back on. Thus, one is back to square one. Though it takes a lot of self-discipline but strive to learn how to delay satifiying certain things. Build ur investment and savings to a robust level first. Only then do u have options. It's hard in today's society that is consumption-oriented but if u try hard u will succeed. It begins with u. Time to beat urself hard. Meanwhile, I'm talking to myself too. ALL THE BEST.

Oga na on top this small scar u dey para ??
See ehn.... If u are totally honest with yourself, this scar is the least of ur problems.
I'm glad u know fully well how to fix ur esteem problem even though u have chosen to shy away from it. Sad, u even warned us beforehand it's a no-go area.
See until u face ur problem squarely, it will forever toment u no matter how u deny it.

All this problem just because of #400. Now how much has it cost u both financially, emotionally and otherwise.
The truth is bitter but someone must say it.
I'm talking to myself too because I have my own peculiar problems I'm tackling.
I come in peace.

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No downloads

It's not funny but rather annoying. If u feel like not checking up on ur friends, then do well not to contact them when u need help. That's how one female friend with whom I normally exchange calls,chats and text with, suddenly changed. Only to remember me one day with "pls recharge for me nau". I made her understand I was not happy wit her for not reaching out again but still recharged for her anyways for friendship sake. Her attitude didn't change either. She locked up afterwards only to remember me few days to her birthday with a text ending with her birthday reminder. I shaa bone and ignored. Met me online and was like "did u see my text?" I said yes. On her birthday I just wrote on her wall and packed. She hasn't reacted ever since while on my part I'm waiting for any wrong move make I drop it like it's hot! And I know the silence won't take long.

SymonLFC:
OK thanks, but why do they call themeselves that are they titled holders, i thought titles are for elderly men in igboland or is it mere expression of love for culture. BTW have any idea on the meaning of onye na kpom and onye me me google translate is giving me rubbish. thank you meobizy lordfarquaad

It has nothing to do with title just normal hailing among guys, just like "chairman,chief,oga,etf". For "onye na-akpo m" means who is calling me. The other one onye me me actually is "onye mmemme" meaning happening guy. Guy wey dey make this happen, man wey dey spend on people.

Moderation is the watchword. U can have any style u want but don't over do it. It sends a wrong signal. Appearance is everything.

So just one chat has revealed to u that she is not decent? What happens to getting to know each other. U didn't even take into consideration that most people often wear a false personality online. If this is how u judge people then I'm sorry to say that u are too shallow.

NWAFO (not nwafor) means son of the soil. ***ODOGWU Means mighty,great,etc.

TeamLeader:
Na your location spoil this deal. I de lag bro. You might meet your buyer here tho

Yeah The location issue keeps occurring each time
Seems most buyers are based in Lagos

[quote author=Soleye24 post=89252890]20k?[/quot
Send me pm

TeamLeader:
1gig ram or 2gig ?

1gig

Infinix smart 4 up for sale @25k
Location: Anambra
Fone is just 3 months old.

[i][/i] By staying away from the environment where such thing is. In other words become unavailable. Two, find a replacement.

When u fail in ur duty as a man to discipline ur woman u suffer for it for a lifetime.
When I say discipline, I do not mean beating, insult, harassment or the like. As a man there are certain things u don't take lightly and ur woman should know better not to cross those boundaries.
Sometimes, woman are like children. U don't give a child access to whatever he/she wants 'cos that might end up hurting them. When u pamper ur child too much to the extent of downplaying the role of discipline, u have urself to blame.
Be firm and correct ur woman and make her understand the realities of life.
U pamper her too much and that's bad.

dangoteinlaw:
This was a really bad time for those girls staying patient with their broke boyfriends how does it feel seeing your boyfriends account details all over instagram

Do they really know their boyfriend's account details?
Forget, those girls are broke too
No be who they send money for person dey know im details?

aminusodiq:
Dats wen silly tins wil be happening!!! ur laptop charger fit spoil or u will just exhaust data

On a serious note I still dey wonder how these things happen. Like in quick succession. I just tire.