₦airaland Forum

Your wife should start doing something to augument ur income. If she already has something doing, she should contribute meaningfully to ease to load otherwise you or that union would crash sooner or later. The responsibility is too much for one person that's why u are two. No kill ursef by ursef.

softwerk:


I see no actress here because I've never seen her movies, only a spent horse and a troop of old layers on a mission!

I'm not sure a lady is behind this moniker cos this bashing is so not lady-like. What happened to ladies having each others back? This is so typical of an uncouth nairaland male or probably an attention seeker.

luluosas:
Wow! This is a great piece of advice ahead of 2020.
But please, I have a request, and I don't know if you can help me. Thank you

Sure. Send me a mail,so long as money no dey involve. LOL!

DavidEsq:
Poverty nko?

Hahahaha....Omo u are right o... Na poverty be the primary cause. Every other factor is either directly or indirectly linked to poverty. Poverty na bastard las las.

I only assist ppl financially once. Ask me again and I tell u I don't hav. Adopt this approach and u see a big difference in ur dealings with ppl especially Nigerians. I hav com to realize dat Nigerians will continue to ask u for financial favour so long as u keep giving them. Learn how to say "NO" from today and see urself free from unnecessary troubles. I learnt it not too long ago and I bet u, it's one of the biggest lessons of my life.

Chi59:
I've never really been in a relationship. It always breaks off before it truly forms.

Same here. Maybe everything is not for everyone anyway.

dilodavid:
It's obvious she loves him more. That's the standard. Na woman love suppose plenty pass. If you babe or wife loves you more, you are blessed.

As in ehn....that's my number one task any tym I'm wit a new girl, "make her love me more". Nothing else happens until this is achieved. I then sit back and enjoy myself.

[b][/b] 63-3?? Which kain loss be dis? Omo jazz follow for this one oo... unbelievable!

Give white-collar jobs a break for now...Try blue-collar jobs and thank me later.

DON'T DO IT! Irrespective of modernity and civilization,Nigeria is still rooted in culture and traditions. So in the case of disunity and breakup which is bound to happen,who then owns the child/children? From where I come from, a man has no right whatsoever on the child/children begotten to him by a woman on whom he paid no dowry on. The child/children belong to the woman's family. Think 'bout dat. It's a typical case of monkey dey work baboon dey chop. Moreover there is no legal backing to such contract. It is more or less ordinary friendship and anything goes. U can still find a decent girl to marry and u don't hav to break the bank to start a family. Everything boils down to how u as the man plan ur life to be. P.S: OK u live abroad? Still don't do it. History on such cases are not nice.

Toks2008:
Both you and the person you quoted need serious medication.

I guess you two are toddlers else you won't call these very young looking couple old.

Happy life to the couple.

You are not the man getting married so why take it personally? I still maintain my stand that the couple are tying the knot a bit late,their throwback was ideal. And that's my opinion. So if u hav a problem with dat,that's ur headache. Go find a post that aligns to ur thinking and quote and leave mine.

Abfinest007:
They now look old

Yes,not just looking it but really old. Yea becos they waited for too long. They were good to go judging by the throwback. All the best to them anyway.

Charleys:
Na llamina thread be this, OP you are impersonating.

Hahahaha...
Aswear that girl is nuts. The way I skip her post ehn... No substance, just like this one.

BanevsJoker:
This guy don dey fade. Everybody don turn Marlian overnight.

Zlatan Ibile has overshadowed him in the street game. He is now reduced to a noisy singer. This was a one time self-acclaimed street rap king. Consistency is key. He lost it the moment he chose to sing for quick commercial money not minding the long-term effects. Now when he try to rap, it seems like a child's play. Shey him been dey release albums back to back since 2011? But we never hear from him for 3 yrs now or so. Phyno is next. That 0ne has lost it also.

blizard44:
Believe me, this is the first time I'm gonna use this line : 'Hustle o'...Make you no come dey type 'You don forget me'. ��
Make you no try dey connect with who no wan connect with you.

'' U don forget me na''
I hate that line so much. They themselves what kept them from keeping in touch? Infact I have made up my mind this yr to forget such ppl.

Amstupid:
wizzy is 27 and tiwa is 35,,, ( use BODMAS) 35 - p = 35p + x ( 27) = 62...
P is 62, oya find x
X ÷ 62 = x 6+2.... X is 8

62 ÷ 8 = 8/2..... XP is 8/2

Tiwa use 8 and half yrs senior wizzy

Wizzy is 29
Turned 29 in July

GODPUNISHALABI:
Johnny bravo naija guys prefer to gym all their body but will always neglect legs

What exercises do u recommend to build the legs? And
Do u work on the legs same time with the arms and chest or on a separate time?

U lack confidence as a person, not just as a man. Something tells me u are also introverted, but that's not the problem. The problem is not even the market women but you. Are u the only single man that goes to market ? I think u are taking life a little too seriously. U need to ease up a little.
I'm also a single man and I do my shopping and cooking myself. See u can't stop these women from making such negative comments. It's the way u react that matters. Don't take their comments too seriously. Sometimes they do tell me ''men don't bargain, men don't ask for jara, bla bla bla'', I laugh it off and reply jokingly like '' so as a man I should 'dash' u all my money abi? And life goes on.
One good tip I also use is buying always from particular sellers instead of roaming the market every time. I have at least one or two particular sellers I buy from, be it meat, fish, garri, oil etc. It makes my shopping easier plus they always treat me well not wanting me to patronize another seller but them.
Sometimes I leave change for them.....
Like I said earlier, it's not about these w0men but about you. See the fun side of it.

obillyj:
Am tired of the 8-5 jobs 6 days a week. You get salaries that you can hardly save. You spend years building someone else dream with nothing to show for it while yours is busy drinking Pepsi.
One needs to take the bold step now or remain at the mercy of employers

I thought as much u don't want a salaried job, and I quite understand how difficult it is to save as an employee in Nigeria that's why I said ''a job that allows you flexiblity of time''. One major reason most employees save little or nothing is
because they spend a lot of time at work. Some don't even have time to cook, wash their clothes and do certain things for themselves let alone think of a side hustle. They come back each day fatigued only to jet off the next day. It therefore becomes difficult to save with this kind of lifestyle. But when u have a job that allows u free time, say a part-time job, contract job, etc, u have time for urself and above all, time for a side hustle. I bet u many contract/part-time workers are better off than their regular counterparts. Do not neglect flexibility of time in any job. Infact it's a criterion some job seekers look out for.

lomprico:
if him see the job he for no create this thread! Abi u get job to give am? pipo sef

From the tone of her post, I don't think the OP has the mindset of working for a salary / wage. Her concern is how to raise fund for her biz besides loan, and I'm trying to let her know she could actually raise fund by getting a job.
I hope you are now clear??

MaziEDOZIE:
As if getting a Job is that easy in Nigeria.

Getting a job in Nigeria, I agree is not easy but it's not difficult either. The major problem is that the available jobs are not what job seekers really want.

Get a job that allows you flexibility of time. May be a part-time or contract job. Save as much as you can. Use the free time to build urself and the business.

Even if there is biz u can start up with this paltry sum, u will still need more money sooner or later to grow the biz. I suggest u save ur money cos running a biz with this sum will only amount to blowing money away.Unless u just want to just experiment.

iammo:



Hausa is an hybrid of hebrew, and they get f and p confused... same way yoruba gets s and sh tangled and Ibos always make R sound like L



..

.....an hybrid..... (a hybrid)
U are Yoruba to the core

Amstupid:
. I went too buy 4 indomie
and I saw my crush at the aboki
shop ... so I bought 40 ..... am still
selling the remaining 36 ......Abeg
help my ministry..

A carton of indomie contains 40 packs. If u had bought a carton instead of 40 packs, u would've saved more money plus the carton would've made ur hawking biz easier...
Borrow sense next time.

AstroG:
Rubbish!!!

All this nonsense because u don't agree with me. What happens to disagreeing politely or better still waka pass? U know what? Ur post is the real rubbish .

RejectedStone:
I see this too bro, it seems every girl you meet out there has one boyfriend or the other

True. Every good looking lady will have at least 2 different men woo her every week. Even married ladies are not left out. U see how difficult it is for a lady to be single. Even ur girlfriend has ''toasters'' on a daily. But this is not so for we men. If u don't go out there and talk to a woman, u could remain single for ages.
See, when I like a girl, I don't care whether or not she has a boyfriend. I shoot my shot and hang around. It's now left for her to decide if she is single or not.

No woman is really single. If ur feelings for her is really genuine, then be patient with her. But if na to just chop & clean mouth, let her go.

Stop it. It's childish. Poeple must be better than you. Just give urself some break from all social media platforms, say 6 months. You can use alternate accounts to keep up with updates till things turn around. With ur alternate account, just keep/follow very few people. Truth is, social media has a way of making one look inferior when one is struggling to find his/her feet.
Mind u Xmas is coming, it's gonna be crazy on social media.

Conceptman:
Nigeria can buy these trains cheap na, Japan will survive trust me.

On which rail den go run?
We neva reach

Finally Alexx balding is 90% completed yet im neva marry, pikin im neva born. Kind of strange for today's celebrity.