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I want to agree with that opinion. Those 2007-2011 CRV look really feminine with the shape and all the curves. I think I like the shape of the older 2003-2006 models, especially the 05-06 models.

PenSniper:
You got it. This was a life-threatening situation. So there is no going back. Escape for dear life by the whiskers !!!

Oh, that is serious! In that case, I support that you move without hesitation though I wish to know the details.

Such kind of relative would drain you until you come back to Nigeria empty handed and join the relatives in the aluta continua suffering. They are the kind of relatives that will divert money sent for a building project for their own personal lavish spending not minding how the hustler abroad is risking her life to survive.
That your sister is heartless and callous. Hope you are not sending any money to her for any other thing because I can assure you, she will practically stop working and be using your money to shine and live an extravagant life here. That your sister cannot be trusted, therefore look for any other available guardian that you can entrust your child with.

Klass99:
You made me smile, what exactly is good about the relationship between OP and her sister? OP is the one being good by taking care of her sister's responsibility towards her children, while the sister is being a typical grabber and entitled relative. There is nothing good about parasitic relatives who leech off you, who only know how to take, take and take some more, hardly ever giving back in return. Blood should never be thicker than water when it comes to such relatives.

God bless you. Such kind of relative would drain her until she comes back to Nigeria empty handed and join the relatives in the aluta continua suffering. They are the kind of relatives that will divert money sent for a building project for their own personal lavish spending not minding how the hustler abroad is risking her life to survive.

ccjoe:
I haven't been able to sleep since yesterday. I'm a promising young guy and still in school and this girl is my bestie in school.
We do it regularly and without condom, I never knew it will end like this.
Pls i'm just an orphan and still very young.. I need advice on how to handle this situation now..

##Mature minds only and no insult pls.

Well the deed is done already. Make sure she doesnt harm the pregnancy and you keep the child. The next thing now is for the two of you to arrange how to meet her family (and yours). Be prepared for all manner of insults and she should be ready to face hers as well. Having a child at a very young age has many advantages. Everyone should ensure that her education does not suffer for it and you also must start having a source of income because fatherhood is not an easy thing in today's Nigeria.

PenSniper:
But you're female

Lol, the guy forgot that he is a female.
So how far with the divorce process? Honestly I dont like when couples who were once in love with eachother and have fought many battles against their homes together, to now start thinking of divorce except there are cases of violence and life-threatening differences. I wish the two of you could swallow the pride by coming together and tackling the problem headlong. It is well sha.

Did the guy offend you before, why did you make him look like anaconda?

OP, i just read your update on the issue. From your narration, I notice that your so-called wife is very immature and highly dependent on her family decision for her life. If she truly does not have any issue with you, why did she leave your home in the first place and why giving you condition of opening shop for her before she can fully reconcile with you? Is it to prove to her family that you are a capable man? Or are you sure she is still not been pushed by her family to request for this before they can fully accept you ?
Anyway, if it is convinient for you and you are sure she is not trying to use you to achieve financial freedom and then turn against you again, you may open the business for her but make sure the business is close to where you stay and not where she stays with her people, make sure everything is in your name in case problem arises again, so that you can have evidence of what you did and she wont deny you establish her. I wish you all the best.

Richy4:
If I understand what you posted up there correctly, She was not refusing out rightly? She gave a valid reason which is endangerment not from you but from unforeseen on the road....Do you really want her to endanger your child after stating those facts?..

You can also say that you can't come because of the same reason (insecurity) and speak to her on zoom... She is a kid and little things impresses them...It doesn't even warrant opening a thread

But if somebody asks the wife to come to another state with the baby to collect N1million, she will not see the danger on the road, would she? The truth is that she has been advised not to take the child to him. She or her people don't trust the guy, They may be thinking the guy wants to collect the baby from her. Her refusal to come will surely be due to some reasons linked to their separation.

missyojo:
Better still go to the office he was working before he died and ask how you will go about it. I'm sure you will find the answers you need there.

I wish you best wishes!!

DO THIS FIRST BEFORE ANY OTHER THING.

This should have been a nice write-up but the moment you started advertising BAT in the so-called sunday school lesson, you spoiled everything. Tinubu's main goal is to achieve his number one life long ambition and leave the inheritance of his wealth he acquired through Lagos and Nigeria for his children and future generations.

The whole issue is easy to decode. Police team stopped the youths' vehicle to ask them questions and search through their phones trying to tag them as yahoo guys. The guys resisted the molestation and started recording the argument to nail the police for going against the proper duty conduct. Police too started recording the scene as an evidence of people resisting law enforcement agents from carrying out their "lawful" duties.
Last last, these guys will not go scot free as the case has already been escalated to the police authorities. Disciplinary actions may be taken against the police officers too if found culpable by the video evidence.

This is more reason the government is insensitive to the plight of the masses. They believe that no matter how high the price of beer is, people will not stop patronising beer parlours, so if people can afford to buy beer without complain, why should they complain about price of fuel and other commodities in the market? The government forgets that drinkers are not up to 15% of the adult population despite the huge turnover on sales of beer.

It's true.
If you see how people lavish money at joints and beer parlours you will not doubt. Some people even prefer to declare beers for their fellow drinkers at clubs and joints so that they can call them big men rather than using the money to take care of their families or help their friends in need.

No matter how hard Alhaji Lai Mohammed tries to deceive the internationl community about peaceful co-existence and religious tolerance in Nigeria, they are watching things themselves and they know the truth.

Mufakirnaqdiun:
It would have been great if you gave yourself the credit instead of attributing it to God.
Did he fly down to stop you?look, if you weren't determined, there's no way you'd stop it.

We keep asking why your God can't feed the hungry children or those kids born with cancer and disease, or your God couldn't save Deborah from being lynched, or better still those people who died in owo the other day.

I bet you no Christian will ever be able to give an answer because deep down they know their God only exist in their mind, the moment they try to give an answer they start sounding stupid and illogical.

I didn't want to answer you because most conversations like this usually end up in throwing insults on God and scorning the Christian faith, but I feel I should just quickly let you know one thing and move. The reason why all those bad things happen in this world to good people and innocent children is because the earth has been handed over to the devil who now controls most of the affairs in it. And the mission of the devil is just three; to kill, to steal and to destroy. You will be wondering who handed it over to the devil, how, why and when. You see, when God finished making the world, He made man and his wife to rule the world and have dominion. But the devil was jealous and came to deceive the wife of the man. The day Adam and Eve listened to the devil and disobeyed God was the very day they handed it over to the devil. But goodnews is that all these evil that are happening have an expiry date. It is all for a little while. Vengeance belongs to God. The last day will come when Jesus Himself will takeover and judge the world, then He will destroy both death and the devil. How do I know these? God Himself said it in His word, and you know what, God cannot lie. Bye.

8. FRAUDSTERS AND SCAMMERS
BASED on your first point that a lot of people believe Nairaland is a faceless forum, there are those that openly declare they are scammers and internet fraudsters. They are so proud of themselves that they sometimes display some of their personal effects like phones, laptop etc on the forum. They will even justify themselves telling you what they have achieved by committing this crime. These are young guys that could have channeled their energies and smartness into better creativities. When I see these, I feel like is there still hope for this country?

9. DRUG ADDICTION AND ALCOHOLISM
AGAIN, many youths proudly and openly admit that they take all sorts of hard drugs and marijuana on this forum. This proves further that the problem with our society is not only about the leaders, majority of the societal ills are caused by influence of hard drugs and alcohol. Most of these habits are either influenced either by the celebrities they see in the entertainment industry or to deaden their conscience so as to be able to carry out their nefarious activities like scamming and sexual immoralities, this leads to my next point.

10. SEXUAL IMMORALITIES
MOST of the people especially the youths on Nairaland are sexually immoral. One would be amazed at how sex has been commonized among the youths in this forum. Many of the discussions and expressions here reflect how lifestyle of a lot of people are offline. It is safe to say that Nigeria youths are much more interested in engaging in sex than in their education. They believe that the essense of a relationship is because of having access to regular sex anytime they want. It is very common to read how people are quick to advise others who have posted about a relationship problem, such people would be advised not to take the relationship serious but to only "bang" and never care. Fornication and adultery has been reduced to mere fun here and this can be safely used as a sample of the youths in the larger Nigeria as a whole. The other time, somebody made a post about the spiritual implication of sleeping with another man's wife. A lot of people refute the claim that there is any implication other than just the guilty conscience. Some even said it is the best sexual encounter that one could have. What a generation!

11. GENDER ABHORRENCE
IT is very common to read derogatory comments by some members of the forum against the opposite gender. A lady in this forum has been making this habit contagious by influencing other ladies to also join her in hating men generally without any exceptional consideration. One would keep wondering what experience could make a lady have such hatred for men to the extent of always hunting for news against men to post on the platform so that she could make other women join her bandwagon. Also, some men profile themselves as redpillars, a tag they ascribe to men who have little or no esteem for women. They believe that women are not worthy of any special regard and that they don't deserve care and empathy. They rather see women as tools to be used to satisfy personal needs and sexual pleasures, nothing more. Any other women aside their mothers, sisters, daughters or female relative does not mean anything to them. Either way, it is wrong to have such gender hatred towards the opposite sex.

12. PROUD AND HAUGHTY
THESE people are always looking for oppotunities to show that they are comfortable and superior to others on Nairaland. They find it very convinient to inflate the price they pay for anything when anybody asks. They like to form. They give an impression about who they are actually not and they offer to gist on anything that will make people see them as being rich. When they see a post where somebody appears to be living an average life or below average, they feel irritated and are quick to point to the person how poor he or she is. Though there are people in Nairaland who are genuinely doing well financially and are sometimes touched by other people's poor story and are willing to help, yet some would rather express disgust, make jest and move.

Lamanii22:
I have spent so many years that gave me so much happiness and joy in abundance. I wish the same in the coming years! Happiest birthday to myself! I am 27 on the 27th day of August! �

Happy birthday to you. Wishing you many more years in peace and prosperity. Cheers!

Gambling can never give you true riches. Even if you win and become rich, all the money will still likely go back to where they came from. Gambling is foolish, those companies collect money from millions of foolish people to reward very few foolish people. Gambling companies should have folded up if everyone wins everyday. Rather, the companies keep using foolish people's money to establish other branches and collect more money from more foolish people.

I just read your post, I saw people's comments and I saw your replies too. I observe that you seem to be a responsible man irrespective of the situation that led to having a baby mama. Even some men that are legally married are not half as responsible as you are to their families. I saw the breakdown of how you spend your salary and it is commendable. Many of them have condemned you here especially those saying N50k is too small to give a baby mama for business. Let me tell you, you don't owe her anything because you didn't marry her and you don't have any spousal agreement, you only owe your baby care and responsibility. She cannot make you her life saver just because she has a baby through you.
What I want you to know is that you are entitled to seeing your child and you should be sending some money for his upkeep, not for your baby mama's upkeep. She should go and find work or her family should establish a business for her.
As a matter of fact, you are free to marry if you want and you see a suitable lady for you. Nobody can stop you. Don't let that baby mama hold you to ransome because of your child, live your life and be happy. Just ensure you are sending some money for your child's upkeep. Let her and her family know that you cannot be tied down because she has your baby.

Mercury12:
It was about to do that until the grandma interrupted the process and called the police.

Who keeps snakes as pet anyway. Only idiots do.

Snakes that don't have emotions lol
They just care about gulping down their meals and humans can pass as meals too.
A very huge and satisfying meal

Lol, they interrupted its breakfast

Forgive them for they know not what they were doing. I pray the suspension will not end in dismissal.

I blame the snake, it should have also swallowed him after strangulating him. Stupid man.

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The feeling of a racing or pounding heart normally doesn’t last long and isn’t a reason to worry.
Since some heart palpitations are caused by things you can control, you may be able to prevent them.

Stress, exercise, medication or, rarely, a medical condition can trigger them.
Although heart palpitations can be worrisome, they're usually harmless.
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We did a research for you online because we care.

Meanwhile,
Get ready to see your physician NOW!

Doctors in the house, kindly help a member out.


AMEN.
God bless you. .[/quote]YOU talk too much oga. Your comments are always longer than the main post. Small post, you will quote like 5 people and your comment will almost get to the bottom of the page. cho cho cho cho.....

tomtomastom4:
Thanks a lot. Though there are houses of 70-80k. But na public houses. Me I cant leave in such places at all.

Lagos is very hostile and not eash to survive on that range of salary. In a good location of Lagos, room and palour with your private kitchen and toilet will cost a minimum of N300k. Married men that earn your kind of salary in Lagos are not living a fulfilled life. It is well.

Raregem9000:
No, not new sir

Then that 65k mileage is not true. It has been rolled back by the seller to impress potential buyer before you bought the car. Now about the steam from the engine, it is not a problem, it only means that the engine has a good compression.

Raregem9000:
Corolla 2010. I hardly take it out coz I have spares

Ok, you must have bought the car brand new then?

Raregem9000:
Good evening,
I warmed my car off this evening as i didn't take it out today and look around it, then i notice few droplets of water dripping off the exhaust pipe, please is it normal? Car mileage is 65k.

Your mileage is 65k? What is the brand and year of manufacture of the car?

The surgery shall be successful by God's grace, you will not die, Amen.

I fully understand your agony brother. I believe there will definitely be a medical solution to it. Consult a good doctor in a trusted hospital for treatment asap. My prayers are with you. May God see you through and make you overcome this challenge, amen.

Hmmm, you have seen the handwriting now?