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born2fuck: I have thought about a way of avoiding female child because I have done more harm than good when it come to girls,if blood group type help or consulting doctor before sex can help because one thing bothering me is I do not want to reap what I sow,I have had different curses from ex as well

Wow! So u actually DO consider the consequences of your actions...
You know what they say about Karma. Would you like to have kids in the future?

If not then get a vasectomy .

REALITY101: And you posted the broke arse niggaz photo here? You're one hell of e-diotic ghetto biach.

Reality101

You are entitled to your own opinion.

Sticks and stones...

"Don't care if you no get money".. I'm just wondering, how's your security, financially that is. Are you broke,average,middle class ,high class or wealthy? The reason why I'm asking this is because I find it hard to believe that unless you are broke (and there's nothing wrong with that) you would not know if you would be shagge.d by a caucasian chick or not ,without money.

Oh and I'm happy for you. Black chicks are often afraid of having their asses bleeped so you need to go for what works for you as an individual.

naffiesully: Helo house, each time me and my guy have a serious kiss or romance, he tends to ejaculates. His JT gets hard later though, to penetrates and last a little long. Its nt a problem to me bt I just wana know if some other guys cum during romance sessions as well witout penetration. Thanks.

It might be premature ejaculation. Nothing is as frustrating as a man with performance problems.
Maybe you can suggest that he goes to a mans clinic.

naffiesully: Helo house, each time me and my guy have a serious kiss or romance, he tends to ejaculates. His JT gets hard later though, to penetrates and last a little long. Its nt a problem to me bt I just wana know if some other guys cum during romance sessions as well witout penetration. Thanks.

It might be premature ejaculation. Nothing is as frustrating as a man with d.ick problems.
Maybe you can suggest that he goes to a mans clinic.

[quote author=Doc-osward]Hi @hassymo5, your story was so sad to hear and i feel so sorry for the inocent girl, i will like to advise u not to give up too soon on her i believed there is still hope for her to get her life back, just think about it...if it were u in her situation will u like her to quit too soon?. There is an herbal solution for her, Pls contact me on jonathanosward@yahoo.com[/quote] Naija man and business... You see business opportunity everywhere.

[quote author=Doc-osward]Hi @hassymo5, your story was so sad to hear and i feel so sorry for the inocent girl, i will like to advise u not to give up too soon on her i believed there is still hope for her to get her life back, just think about it...if it were u in her situation will u like her to quit too soon?. There is an herbal solution for her, Pls contact me on jonathanosward@yahoo.com[/quote] Nigerians and business... You see business opportunity everywhere.

Geez! That is kind of weird for a married woman. Perhaps its something she's always wanted to do. Getting a tattoo is painful so I wonder how she could've gotten so many at once..

In any case talk to her then you'll know. Maybe she wanted to feel young again cause some people feel like they've lost their identity after the marriage and the "we" this "we" that of being a couple can be overwhelming ...or she's having a mid-life crisis but y'll still sound like a young couple though.

Na your wife, for better for worst.

Egbeman: thanks

Okay done

[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030]^^^
Hello "Cookie". . . [/color][/quote]Hello Sexy

[quote author=Kevin_II]i talk am say this guy is mad now he has confirmed it. cugre you are a certified mad man
infact you are a charterd mad man. ode[/quote] *falls off chair with laughter*

mashnino: [size=15pt]DUMB BLACK A.S.S MODZAFUCKIN NICCA

I ACTUALLY THOUGHT YOU HAD BRAIN..

NOW I CAN SEE YOUR CRANIUM IS JUST FULL OF CATARRH AND COB-WEBS..

YOU ARE SO DUMB

NB: Don't bother exchanging words with me cos i won't even ansa you

i have said all i have to say to you...

you are a disgrace to infants[/size]

to infants Bra! That's hectic Lol!

Callotti: As usual. . . the bigots have reported for duty.
This is about Ojukwu the man. . . not about Igbo vs Yoruba.
I frankly do not give a wiff of fart for your Nigerian tribes darling. . .I only deal with issue involving Nigeria as a whole.
Not innarestid in any useless NL fight involving rabid ethnicists.
You have bored NL and the world enough with your irredeemable stoopidity.
Thank you!

Back to topic please.

Lol! @ irredeemable stoopidity!

The government needs to have some serious Diversity workshops for everyone. Infact we should take the president and his cabinet to 1 first.

Excelboi: Op, your mates re celebratin' success, ur celebratin' foolishess....

Chimezie.. You are unique that's for sho.

I totally agree with you. Imagine having a husband who listens to Romans revenge infront of your kids...
I believe the kind of music you listen to has an influence on your world view and ultimately your behavior.

You can tell on NL who listens to Rap music Onila...i.e 190, Realist101 these are the 2 names that come to mind right now.

Study: Association Found Between
Viewing Time and Risky Behaviors

By Sid Kirchheimer
WebMD Health News

March 3, 2003 -- Teens who spend more time watching the sex and violence depicted in the "real" life of "gangsta" rap music videos are more likely to practice these behaviors in real life, suggests one of the first studies to specifically explore how rap videos influence emotional and physical health.

After studying 522 black girls between the ages of 14 and 18 from non-urban, lower socioeconomic neighborhoods, researchers found that compared to those who never or rarely watched these videos, the girls who viewed these gangsta videos for at least 14 hours per week were far more likely to practice numerous destructive behaviors. Over the course of the one-year study, they were:

Three times more likely to hit a teacher

Over 2.5 times more likely to get arrested

Twice as likely to have multiple sexual partners

1.5 times more likely to get a sexually transmitted disease, use drugs, or drink alcohol.

"What is particularly alarming about our findings is that we didn't find an association with just violence or one or two risky behaviors," says researcher Ralph J. DiClemente, PhD, of Emory University's Rollins School of Public Health. "We found an association with a string of these behaviors."

His study, published in the March issue of the American Journal of Public Health, only involved black girls living in Birmingham, Ala. -- all of whom were already sexually active. While the researchers surveyed viewing habits for various types of rap videos, gangsta rap was by far the most popular among the girls practicing these destructive behaviors.

"We wanted to focus on young, African American women, a population that is very vulnerable," DiClemente tells WebMD. "In these videos, men hold the power and women don't and as a result, are subservient. I'm not sure that the girls in our study were lashing out because of this, but more likely role-modeling the behaviors they see. The women in these videos are doing OK, they're hanging around with a man who is powerful, affluent, going to nice clubs



Even though this study is about the effect of girls who view violent music videos rather than boys listening to rap music, . I believe violent music has the same effect.

I've had to pay for dates to save myself from embarrassing situations. This happened to me twice. Went out and the guy seemed confused when he was supposed to pay cause apparently he was waiting for funds to be cleared by his bank ...and I was thinking yeah right.

So I ordered the starter and main course. I was starving cause we'd been drinking the previous day and I was kinda hung over .


Imagine the embarrassment when he was still waiting for funds to clear 2 hours later. Fortunately I don't go out without my own cash.

The next time he was buying everyone he knew drinks in the spot we where at. Then the next thing he claims to have lost his wallet but he had it with him, it just had no money cause he was playing big.After he did that , I cut all contact with that hot-for-nothing nigga. Realized he was just a pretty face. I don't do broke men - I've tried I just can't . I work too hard and I need an equally hard working partner. Especially one's who tell lies and have no clear career path I'd rather be a cougar in the next 20 yrs if I'm really stranded than provide for a man at my young age.

@OP

The display pictures are often not on the NL profiles so I am just wondering how you got to the conclusion above.

2buff: There is in Canada.
Just don't be so bush or too local and don't confirm their negative stereotypes and in time they would look the fool and accept you, if they even care to waste time not accepting you in the first place.
The problem is Nigerians hardly ever fail to confirm their stereotypes. Personally, even here, I do very little with Nigerians until I have examined their life in a very solid, non-bullshity, broda-sista sort of way.

True that! Nigerians often hardly ever fail to confirm their stereotypes.

NL ...

slimyem:

This Bandit C character is ill... He seems to have a problem with africans in general. He seems xenophobic as well...going on about how african americans contributed nothing to america and how south africans did not contribute to their own country. Who liberated them,.. The chinese?!!

Please do your research properly before posting such things in the future.

deniyor: The guy is not right for you.
He is too controlling and possessive and will not leave room for your individuality.
Even a marriage shouldn't be that restrictive as long as you are posting very personal stuff of social networks.

It's in your best interest to sit down and have a very serious talk with him on how you wont let him control your life.
He is most likely going to accuse you of being stubborn, bad girlfriend etc which will lead to your inevitable action of breaking up with him.

PS the reason he is trying to get rid of your social networks is cos of the things he does there himself. He just doesn't trust you.

Come to think of it... Ur b.friend is probably one of those characters similar to 190/born2fuck and all the other mischevious characters on NL ...

Did he say this cause u r online even when he's with you?..

Wow! This is shocking news! Can't you expose them in the media? The level of corruption there is just so unacceptable... They're ruining this young mans future plans now. I've heard of similar stories before, I even know a guy here in SA who uses a fake passport that belongs to another Naija man he doesn't know cause he doesn't have his proper documents.... Its just unbelievable the kind of things people do.

dabrake: i swear, you dey mad.

What's with you...

Calamama: The majority of replies here are not Nigerians. OP is not a Nigerian. Please stop hiding under the guise of being Nigerian and creating stupid thread.



Every country has its traits

Nigerian hard working, resilience, upfront will tell you what they think of you


Ghanians- are Judas Iscariot betrayer of Jesus. Hypocrites, backstabbers they are very slimy bunch


South Africans- cowardly, only courageous in the face of other black tremble at the sight of whites.

trembles in the face of whites... In ur dreams. Perhaps the older generations. We went to school with those whites and remember our country has more human rights than any other. So we don't get bull shit from whites as much as u would like to believe other wise.

We can play the racism card and they know they're fuc.ked!

Flashaldrin: Eeyaa, quite an emotional lad he is. . .

NL does has that effect on people.

freecocoa: Yes we agree we are jobless kids that's why we are here,oya what is a jobful grandpa like yourself looking for here?leave us to enjoy our childhood na.

Lol!

Stesibelle17: Hm, can't a thread go on successfully without insults and harsh words?

no.

torkaka: no offense but my guy, if you want to step into the 21st century and your better half is pulling you towards the 17th century how do you hope to move forward? how do you move forward when some sees the damming effect of polio but yet refuses vaccination in the name of religion? how do you move forward when people have now decided western education is bad? how do you move forward when the best for the job takes a back sit while the one qouta favours takes the front sit? how do you move forward when street begging is considered the right thing? how do you move forward when some one has no regard for another who farms on he's property cause he prefers to destroy it in the name of grazing? how do you move forward when your neighbour from birth is taught to consider you an infidel?

How do you move forward when one refuses to have yellow fever shots before travelling .