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bukatyne:
More than ready for e-fight, shift to the next bust stop.

The guy has said what he will do and you keep twisting it round and round.

Not every man will have issues dishing out a meal already served in front of him if his wife cannot do so.

Deal with it.

If you need the English lesson, then swallow your pride and learn from it instead of quoting me and translating nonsense. Yet, you are not ready for an e-fight

And I repeat, I will not go back and forth with someone of my daughter's age on marriage issues. I will teach them instead where they make themselves teachable. So you deal with that.

sinizia:
I made a mistake explaining myself to that dumb thing spoiling for a war, i'll never quote it again on this thread.

Let Bukatyne push you this morning, that's what she knows how to do best. Anyways, I hope you have taken the English lesson.

bukatyne:
There is no need to twist the guy's quotes to suit yourself

And the fact someone is not married doesn't mean he/she doesn't have a roadmap for his/her marriage...

He has said he will dish out the food served in front of him if his wife is busy to do it.

Do you have comprehension issues? Or are there more issues you will like to spill out?

Whatever it is pushing you this early morning, you know I am more than ready.

sinizia:
I can serve myself. I don't mind. I never said it's a must that she must serve me. If let's say she is busy or not around, i can go serve myself. But if she is not, then she serves me or put the food in plate and give our kids to bring for me. I do cook and serve my girl when she comes around No big deal in it.

I highlighted "will" in my response for a reason. When an action is conditional, you don't use "will", you are better off using "would".

You negated everything you said with that conclusion of yours. And this is why people fail.

"my girl" - whaaat You are still in the boyfriend-girlfriend/oshofree stage? Mtcheewwwww Run along kid! Forget I quoted you but take away the English lesson sha for your own good.

sinizia:
Sir, I'm not "wife-wrapper" or a "woman pleaser". I'm not here to please any woman on earth or NL. I've a moral conduct/compass, a conscience and a common sense that would never allow me to treat a fellow human like a slave much more my own wife/mother of my kids. My main grouse is not that the wife dishes his food, but the fact that even when the wife is extremely busy the arrogant man insisted she must dish his food ALREADY served to him.


I started visiting my grand parents from 7-years-old and have never seen my grandmom dish the food she had already served my granddad. Does that make my granddad a "wife-wrapper" too? Does that make my dad a "wife-wrapper" too? Even if it makes them one would you prefer them to be "wife-wrapper" to another lady but their own wives? So if your wife was busy tending to your baby that's just defecated while trying to bath and prepare for work, you'll call her from your sitting room from wherever she is ONLY for her to come and DISH you a meal she's ALREADY served you? Dafuq?!! What kind of wickedness is this?!!


OMG!! My pity goes out to various women in bondage all in the name of being tagged a "Mrs." I pray my sisters, cousins, nieces and future daughters NEVER meet or settle down with your kind, Amen!!

My future wife will serve my food but will NEVER dish it out for me for i have my hands and that's how i was raised, and if that makes me a "wife-wrapper" to my OWN WIFE, then on this day, let it be known that i, Sinizia, claim the title unabashed, and i'll die a "wife-wrapper" to the mother of unborn kids. To hell with the ego and tradition!!

She will serve you but never dish the food because you have your own hands??

If I may ask oga, are those hands of yours immuned from serving yourself??

And you think you are any different from the man in question

Phema:
My dear, that was the reason i said i really don't know what i would do. Truth is, it is very difficult to say till it happens to one. Hmmn. . .

But those other ones i can definitely see myself doing.

Oya, what will you do?

lol..

You've really been honest I must confess. It's difficult to predict what one will really do which is why I tend to feel for instead of mock those it happens to. It's a crazy situation to be in

there are two options really, to react or not to react and that will depend on several factors

I can't undo what has happened, so I might ignore and move on but if I choose to react, then there will be a separation - temporary or permanent, I wouldn't know. And I will not be the one to move out in the event of a separation

Iffffffy:
to peep o,

Zaynie - my people don reach here

lionphil:
If u can take like an hour and above to cook for him, is it just 2 mins to dish the food that's the problem? Chai!!!!! Women no get sense at all...fish brains everywhere.

May you live long Oga. I might as well not cook the damn food at all and tell him to go to the kitchen himself...why sweat for 1hr cooking the food, then come to NL to whine about an extra service that will take just 2 mins?? I can't even reconcile where the issue is exactly. Fish brains indeed

menxer:
This lady sef, you want us to advice you against serving your husband thereby saving your marriage?

You should be ashame for exposing your ignorance of your responsibility as a wife on social media.

You neva chi Chong ching.

I have learnt another one today ooo

You neva chi chong chin

naijababe:
In my books, you have no business visiting a man you are yet to be married to for a few days. Why would he not disrespect you, when you put out yourself as 'oshofree'

Naijababe

TV01:
Ah, ah. CCTV ke!...na penitentiary? .

What do you expect? Men and their children - especially boys - na rough play and proper "manhandling" !


TV

What is penitentiary nitori Olorun?? TV, this grammar you are blowing is too much o

Onegai:
Cor-rection: the gbam sometimes happens to another part of the body, depending on how the child falls. And no, the child should not run to mummy or daddy (why report yourself for punishment!), instead meet the nearest oldest sibling to deliver punishments on the other children who clearly goaded you into putting a mattress on the stairs and angling it in a way to make it go as fast as possible before ending up slamming into the wall, shrieking in pain. Good luck trying to CCTV that.

Not that I'm speaking from experience or anything

Onegai!!!!

I suspect you used to do this as a kid see the perfect description...but anyhow, mummy must still hear about it

I have my first aid box handy with all sort of colorful plasters ready for them, I will even ask them to choose the plaster they want

Jabojafa, you are hurting my eyes yet I like to read what you are writing. Pls write in proper English I can't read shorthand writing

boxypane:
2face na learner. Eye-rinze is 3face.

Lollzzzz 2face na learner true true

QueenEdna:
yes she is, Α̲̅Ω̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ has always been open about her age unlike other nollywood artists...

Thanks, I honestly thought she was younger. Maybe cuz of that secondary school series she started with.

Is she 39??

MadCow1:
Mark My Words.Wetin do Bendel State and Gongola State na ehn go do Ekiti State..

See who dey challenge President Buhari..

If this is the best man to be Governor of Ekiti State, then Ekiti State isn't worthy of being a Local Government Area talkless of being a State.

The Governor obviously has no idea what his scope of work is.

While others are planning long term, strategizing, he is showing off his ability to excel in mundane tasks

It's not rocket science to see where Ekiti will be in the next few years. And to think that state has got lots of learned people...smh

Dajugba:
hahahaha... Never mind my friend. I can see you're being inquisitive. A man's conscience is the Lord's searchlight exposing his hidden motives.

okay no wahala. I wish you would answer though

This governor is a joke!

Phema:
I will go shopping and buy me some red Victoria Secret underwears, improve on my bedmatic and kitchen skills. Because I know I must have done something wrong for him to cheat on me. It just must be my fault, somehow.

I'll also get closer to God. Seek His face and fast and pray fervently for God to turn him over to me while also secretly stocking his car and suit pocket with CDs.

If all fails, I'll just wait it out. Till he is old and feeble and can no longer get it up talk more go looking out. That will be the 'perfect' time to enjoy the "husband of my youth". Hehehehehehe

What can I say? I'm a virtuous woman.


Now, on a serious note, what will I do. . .

I honestly don't know. What I do know, however, is that my marriage will never be the same, no matter the circumstances. A great part of it will die with the affair and can never be resurrected. The true essence of it will be no more and we might just remain in it for the good ol' sake of the children cliche.

Hi Phema

But I didn't see any difference between your unserious (joking) answer and the serious one. I note that in both cases, you will still stay in the marriage but just slightly different coping mechanisms.

Was the second answer a joke as well?

Hmnnnn

It is well

staymore:
Jobless man trying to please his wife

Oga, you dey vex o...Is it wrong for a man to please his wife ni?

Dajugba:
It's neither wrong. But if she insist he do that, then it's so wrong. But if He willingly wants to help her, I dont see it worng. I can do as well. If my wife to be can wash my pants why can't I show same? But not the one on stain.

but why not the one on stain naa

5minsmadness:
You are seriously paranoid.

Oh wait, you already admitted it.

Somtimes I let them slide from the Stairway and catch them as they fall. It's mad fun

you are not serious

Letting them slide from the stairway kwa and I'm sure the kids will be enjoying it until they hear "gbam" on their head

And they'll come running to mummy

Of course I had to get a CCTV, but of course, it's for the nannies and co.

SAMBARRY:
Then dish it na.kini big deal


anything can cause marriage break down these days


if your yash is getting unusually big he'll divorce you. If you sleep too much divorce. If you are not horney when you are supposed to be honey divorce. Meanwhile


I don't see anything extraordinary in dishing food. What is there?

he's not asking for too much as far as I'm concerned

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SAMBARRY:
Then dish it na.kini big deal


anything can cause marriage break down these days


if your yash is getting unusually big he'll divorce you. If you sleep too much divorce. If you are not horney when you are supposed to be honey divorce. Meanwhile


I don't see anything extraordinary in dishing food. What is there?

he's not asking for too much as far as I'm concerned

I just tire ooo

proudmom38:
Good evening mamas in d house. Pls wen can I start washing my lo's mouth n with wat?


NB. He's 1month old!

I start when they go on solids. Before them, the mouth is self cleaning.

tchiwinnie:
@ mamas, pls how do u brush ur Los teeth? Is it to just use d paste to brush their teeth and they swallow it, u gv dem water. Dats all ba?
Secondly, I m having difficulty potty training my 18month old. I guess I started late. BT wen I started initially, he ll just sit for a few seconds, get up and carry d potty. Nw, its difficult cos in d mornings I don't HV DAT tym as I prepare him for school and myself for work. Any input, abi mk I just wait it out?

Pls don't make them swallow it even though children's toothpaste contains less fluoride. I put a bean size on the brush and clean their teeth, then encourage them to spill it out.

It's not easy potty training a child when one is not with them all day. But getting a very colorful potty for my LOs sort of motivated them to use the potty.

Chillisauce:
Boli

Portharcourt style

Yayyyyyy

My plate is back!

TV01:
...abi 0, 5 mins.

You too have the type that thinks nobody can look after the child like she can? Always raising an eyebrow at my unique "manparenting" methodology

She went on a 5 day residential course once. Always calling, constant face-timing. We'd be playing our special "gbosa" wrestling game, F/T, just sitting down to eat F/T, we'd be in the middle of having water games in the bath, F/T. And I rarely keep my phone to hand. Kilode gan sef

Even small things like calling the baby carrier a holster? Slightly late nappy changes or not feeding to the second. Proper helicopter mum. I can't even tell her half the escapades we have when she's not around - she'd like faint .
TV

I just had this feeling I don't hear half of it and nobody would tell, so I had to install a CCTV in the house so I can see every damn thing that goes on in the house. And the app is right there on my phone so I get to see it all from anywhere on this planet

It's just that I rarely have the chance to playback everything I miss Of course, my husband thinks I am paranoid but I remind him of my 9 month journey

@ Coogar

I just read Senator Shehu Sanni's reply to Ayo Fayose and I don't know why, but every line I was reading seemed like I was reading from Coogar. Did you guys to the same school by any chance?

That guy is wicked!!!