₦airaland Forum

TV01:
Kim, men and women do as instructed, as schooled. It's called nurture. But men who lack instruction, or are unschooled, also "do". They just don't fully grasp the how and why. What they will do is what they are grounded in.

It's not chance and mindless destiny. What will be is what - with faith and grace - they are instructed in Or do you think the boys that sag, and the girls who like boys that sag, don't learn that? !

TV

Again I have to agree with the bolded **banging my head against the wall**

Note - I corrected the first sentence

TV01:
In as much as it is tue, it has limits and is contextual.

That is "polarity", same principle as male/female - there is an outcome for both, vis energy or life.

Again, limits and context. I don't have a womb ! But I ain't gettin; with no plain jane on acount of the fact that I'm foine !


I explained in my first response to you. People who are cultures/mature/scholled enough to choose with understanding and act wisely are freed from such laws.

Knowledge tells me fornication is bad, understanding gives me insight as to why, and wisdom enables me to choose/act appropriately. Control of - or better still elimination of - a carnal response to my basel desires means I am elevated above such laws.

I do it by faith and grace - which I believe has implications and benefits beyond the here and now, but there are other ways to attain to this state.

I used to appraise women "carnally". Then I renewed my mind. Understanding flooded in. So whilst I can still appreciate the leggy girl inthe pencil skirt and even be attracted to her, I act on more fined motivations.

The law is for the ungodly !


TV

And I agree wholeheartedly with the bolded. Sorry I missed it earlier.

As for the last part, I already admitted that Shymexx examples were very extreme. I am on the quiet side but my hubby is very outgoing, I like to be analytical, he is quite spontaneous. We are opposites in several ways but not necessarily bad. I have never been attracted to a quiet man, yet I am quiet . We choose people who complement us. That's what I meant and same logic applies to Shymmmex examples.

juliusjulius:
The 7k has been paid to my caretaker as part payment of my rent. I have a balance of 10k now.
The tuition remains 19k.

Is your school fees not more important than the rent? Would you live in the house if you are out of school?

Pls list/itemize the amounts received so far.

Eg

1. N100
2. N300
3. N150

Sagamite:
I have always said repeatedly on NL that this was the case.

All these yeye claim of "happily married", "the only jam in my donut" etc is a pure scam.

Marriage is an institution of "Settling", "Compromise" and "Endurance" in virtually all cases.

All these stewpid claim of love pisses me off as I can see through it.

As for the friend's claim that she is "happy", BS!

She is "content". She has settled for him, will compromise to be in a marriage with him and will endure the marriage.

Just like a vast majority of married men and women.

Saga, you are a clown.

"Happily married" does not mean there are no challenges naa

How can true love be a scam biko. Too much book is affecting you o

juliusjulius:
I have received 10k, I need 19k more.

But you said you received money from some two people yesterday? And you had 7k saved before now?

Can you just list the different amounts you have received from the beginning, your savings and what the required balance is?

Being transparent makes it easier for people to help.

Tim and TV - I just dey laugh both of you ni o. Instruct your sons from today till eternity, what they will do is what they will do. You won't be the only one to teach and influence them in this life baa

What will be will surely be

TV01:
Law ke? Everyone likes good things - and I''m not attracted to my burriful sesi wife 'cos I'm bugly !

I'm of the mind that it's more of "a choice" - based on knowledge, understanding, wisdom and discernment - than a law. Indeed, when you are deficient in any of those areas and make bad choices - and perhaps repeatedly so - it may seem like a law, but it's poor outcomes preicated on poor choices.

TV

That law has been in existence before you and I were born. And it will not change when you and I leave.

TV, how do you make two batteries work? Placing two negative sides together, two positive sides together or placing the positive after the negative side?

And remember I used "often" for humans; because we are humans, there would be a few rare exceptions but naturally, we all tend to attract qualities we don't have.

Shymmex examples are kind of extreme but the phenomenon cannot be argued, so kindly explain why it happens, if you disagree with the law. Why do humans make such choices over and over again?

Bellong!!! Are you in?

juliusjulius:
I have sent it again this time with an attachment that contains my school id card, recommendation letter and my PVC.

Thanks.

Why don't you outline what you have received and how much balance is required?

How do we know you have not received more than you were looking for

Like poles repel, unlike poles attract. It's a universal law that applies to humans as well.

It's very natural to attract to yourself one who has those qualities that you do not possess and it's doesn't apply to women alone, same law applies to men. The good guys often end up with bad girls and vice versa. It is what it is.

viviparity:
Is nolonger funny on my side..o, spoting this morning 35+,been 2 scan this morning.stil in the hosp wil let u mamas kn the situatn

Don't worry dear. It is well with you and your baby. No shaking!

jaybee3:
You've got mail

K

tyconcepts:
Hadley Chase readers and their wannabe detective nature.

Am guilt.

Lol...we know ourselves baa

2CatWoman:
Horses for courses dear, my dad loved cats and so do I. I love them soo much I named myself after them

Awwwww

Such depth of love...you must feel miserable with Nigerians and our hatred for cats

I don't like them too though but I recognize its more about me than them.

proudmom38:
Believe me,I ve only one account n moniker...

Of course I believe you, I am just wondering who the person is cuz I have not seen any comment since he/she registered a few months ago.

Never mind jare. Too much Hadely Chase dey worry me.

proudmom38:
I no be proudmum11 o,I remain d 1 n only proudmom38 lol...I guess proudmum11 is a newbies!

Hian!! Newbie Okay naa

franky2013:
tnx for ur response Kimoni, i used her washcloth, but to b sincere i didnt do much of d cleaning i was bn careful not to make mistakes. we r back frm d hospital, was given eyedrop. God bless

Great. It is well with him.

safe06:
Abiagirl777,just admit it,you were harsh in your tone. There are many nice ways you could express your displeasure towards the post,not by sounding like she's the cause of your morning sickness ...

Many of us regard duplicates as either aba made or China, for our mind na only America dey produce original things... ..[/color]

**falls from coconut tree**

Proudmum11, are you also proudmum38??

@ tyconcepts - nothing serious happened. Your system just rejected the food. Could be that you ate too fast, too much or there wasn't enough pepper in it. But there is really no big deal about it since you feel better after taking the peppersoup. That was really the perfect thing to take after.

proudmom38:
U mean u didn't bath wit hot water at all? Was thr anythin u did in place of d hot water? Cos MIL make look as if it's a must n me I don tire.

Honestly, I didn't do anything. But I started slight abs workout after 4 months. Asides that, nothing o and my tummy is flatter than ever now. I don't believe in hot water baths.

missusadey:
Lol Nurse Kaffy...I'm sorry ooo. Na desperate needs wan call for desperate measures o . I won't take the agbo. Thank you.

A whole Miss USA wan take agbo We go dethrone you o

edwife:
Thanks,it has been a while-i have been just so busy with other things.

This is for today.It has been raining so i thought of having some puff puff and vegetable sauce(my healthy eating here).

Give me that!!




Akposy - my one and only Mr Nairaland (any other one is a counterfeit) how are you now? How is school? Regards to family dear.

bimsusy:
Happy weekend sisters, pls my son has rashes n I used tribotan cream for him. Now d rashes has gone bt his skin now has 2colours. Pls any1 with experience? Dont know what I can use. I cant even take him out. Pls help out sis. God bless u all

Buy why? So many mothers are dying to have your bundle of joy.

Biko, take him out and let him have fresh air jor. His skin will even out in no time. God bless.

franky2013:
gud day mamas in d house n happy new week. one of my LO's eyes is swollen, few days ago there was whitish substance from both eyes n now one of it is swollen, pls sabi mamas what could b d cause n what should i do to it?

What were you using to clean it or applying on it before it became swollen? Since it's swollen, pls go see ur pediatrician.

If it were only the white discharge, clean droplets of bm would have helped but since it's now swollen, the Dr needs to have a look.

viviparity:
She confessd 2 me dat she cause the miscarriage, it took another yr nd mnths b4 she took in again.it was a lesson 2 me. Pls sept mamas nd all an seeing watering discharge 35+ weeks shld i worry?.for constipatiom pawpaw nd vegetable soup workd for me

You need to call your doctor asap to check and confirm that you are not leaking amniotic fluid. Pls take action immediately. The fluid must not be short.

Shuo Billionaire's Wife International Limited don crash

jaybee3:
So Ambode is doing Tinubu's billing by painting Messiah Fashola as a lil demon so as to block him from any potential consideration for power in the centre in PMB's ministerial configuration

I get that but Fashola sef fall hand sha cos everything still probably points to Jagaban Bogu.

The okunola dude is a known tinubu boy so why would he get his hand dangerously dirty in murky deals?

It's obvious Jagaban is out to get Fashola right, but if after how many months in office, all Ambode can see is some inflated "chicken change", then Fashola is either a saint or Ambode is very dumb.

But I don't even believe the accusations. I read Fashola's defence on the website saga, and the statement from the concessionaire's handling the Falomo shopping complex; Ambode quoted only the "expression of interest" fee and gave that out to the public as the total project cost just to blackmail him. Who does that I have stopped believing him henceforth. I hate people like that. They can't even find a real crime this man committed.

And I expect no change in Lagos in the next 4 years. No Jonathan puppet can make any impact in Lagos State.

jaybee3:
Goes to show ain't no saint in Naija political sphere

Besides, i'm pretty sure that's why he was against domesticating the FOI ish

Which way Nigeria?

Lol...If only Ambode was not acting out a known script, I would have believed him. But as it is, the joke is on him...

proudmom38:
My sabi mamas I hail o...Pls I want 2 ask some questions. (1) How many months does ftm ve 2 bath hot water b4 they stop? (2) How long does it take 4 bleeding 2 stop after giving birth? Na my ques b dat cos MIL said 3mth 4d hot water n me I don tire n 4 d bleeding I still dey see small small blood o.Sorry 4d long post n thanks in advance.

1) I didn't bathe with "special" hot water for a day. Just my normal warm water bathing.

2) I think about 2 weeks plus or minus if I remember correctly. But you might continue to see droplets when you take long walks or engage in strenuous activities.

All this small small millions Fashola is stealing, he must be a saint truly. Ambode, thank you for letting me know you can never compare Fashola to Ibori.