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mamacajah:
I use president or oldenberg..any foreign butter sold in the supermarkets is fine. Someone also taught me her method. Get carrots, sweet pea, fish (titus) and potatoes. Boil the carrots, peas and potatoes together. boil fish seperate, de-bone and mash. once boiled, put the potato mixture into a blender, add the mashed fish, a little water and blend. It produces a smooth nutrious pudding.
Keep in freezer. when you want to warm, dethraw the food, either use microwave or put a little president butter on the frying pan and add the food for warming. Tastes delicious.

I also followed the advice here, bought basmati rice, boiled it, grinded it into rice pudding.
Then I served it with either milk or my special stew sauce.
Stew sauce: buy tomatoes, onions, pepper (shonbo-non peppery), beef, chicken and fish.
Boiled all the meat and fish. debone and mash fish, meat. For the meat, I used my salad grater to grate the beef and chicken. Blend the tomatoes ingredients. Put on fire to boil with a little oil. when cooked, add the mashed meat/fish, including little salt to taste and mix. Voila -tomatoes sauce with mashed mixed meat.

Its not been easy trying all the recipes I get here becos I work all week, take her with me for office creche and can't stop at the market on the way home but I now a system of cooking her meals on Saturday for the week, freezing it and bring it out when I need it. Thank GOD for improved light situation.

Your post is very inspiring. Thanks.

Sayoberry @

Great news. Thanks Mutter, may God bless and reward you. This little ray of light will shine brighter till its purpose is achieved in Jesus Name.

jaybee3:
I swear down... I initially added that caveat of either parent employing a concentration of dedicated resource to otherwise alarming cost attached to parenting to my submission only to delete afterwards.

Lolllzzz I got ya!!

Re - That stuff

Do you reckon it's going to be before the 16th as i'm going to be off for a tad bit

Yeeeppaaarrriippaaa
So what will you do with me naa?

I'm def sending this weekend.

jaybee3:
Na true na

Only a regular man that's willing to break his back will play bruce almighty in western world. Single income can't/won't be far reaching!

Lol...

@Bolded - makes the difference cuz the expectations from both sides are higher. However, I know quite a number of families still dependent on single income as the woman is concentrating fully on the home front.



***I'm sending the stuff shortly. Been battling with it, lost for ideas on how to package it

jaybee3:
GBAM

Lolllzzz

debbie:
First when you married her,she came in as a help-mate .As for her salary i think you shouldnt ask for it,but try to advice her to manage it well.
Remember there are some minor expenses she can handle without calling for your help.There are things she will want to buy for the family which you may not know about...that is for the wise women.

There are times when the income wont be flowing as it should,she will step in to help.
If you have kids,she might see things she wants to get for them and will go ahead to buy them.....it helps build her sense of responsibility and support to the family.
This is for the women who care about their family.
Remember she came from a family with parents ,siblings and relations....she may decide to support and help anyone of them when the need arises...it is from her salary she will do it.

Now you know that the wives salary is also used for them home in general.

Great post Debbie. Your opening post says it all.

espionagesavvy:
Ur own good oo, my wife's own na anger issues, the other day she fought two policemen at balogun, shes six month full.

you mean you prefer farting to fighting??

Don't worry pls, by the time your angel comes, all this will become history

Phema:
My mum taught me when i was little, but have forgotten my way around it. Might just have to pick this up as a hobby.

If you are ready to pay me, I can teach/remind you

@Bellong - Oloru of Oru

Thanks bro. Appreciate

nonsense post

Huge talent ynnk. I pray your talent takes you places. God bless!

Pickabeau!!! Hmnnnnn

Timbuktou:
Lol. It's a widespread issue, I must confess. I remember going to the Kainji Lake National Park in SS1, I think for a class field trip. We get to the community where the park's located and I'm hungry and decided to buy fruits and I approach this elderly looking "unlearned" abokii and in my slowest pidgin ask for mangoes. The guy then replies "three (θriː) for 10 naira" in English better than the Queen's . I felt stewpid. . My pops told me he was shocked at Tafawa Balewa's speech at Independence. He thought they were all cattle-rearing nomads

No, I haven't. Could you post a link?

http://www.naijaspice.net/2015/09/ewwooo-fayose-is-glorified-tout-sen.html

When I got to "Fayose's utterances are farts from a rotten roadside beans meal", it was at that point I just had to come and ask Coogar if they were school mates. Choi!!

jellymom:
Oh!!... i'm so happy I have a junior in the hus.. nwarosa: you're welcome all I do now is to sit and learn from the mama's in the hus#teamApril

Funny mamas everywhere

tchiwinnie:
So na how many missionary journeys u wan dash me? Mba o biko. After u born ur own 7, I fit consider.

Lol..

tchiwinnie:
Just hearing d upper part of ur post for d first tym.
Some pple start cleaning from day 1 wt warm salty water and a clean cloth.

But isn't salt in the system of a newborn dangerous? Cuz there is no way the baby won't swallow part of the salt?

Some mothers say they use honey...different people, different views

edwife:
You will still complain,I am still here

Timbuktou:
Lol. Hausa people have brains too, you know? I did secondary education in Niger State and I realised everybody is the same. My bunk mates younger brother(Fulani guys) had his article published ny punch and has actually written books with regard to the Nigerian polity. Forget all the senseless stereotyping you hear and read. There are imbeciiles and geniuses in every ethnic group. Isn't Fayose supposed to be a product of the "Fountain of Knowledge"?

I must confess I was guilty of (maybe still guilty) of the stereotyping until I went to serve. I didn't even know there were Christians in Maiduguri back then I had to embark on a deliberate research to get to know more about them. Now, they are my best friends
But I was still shocked at those words from Shehu Garba, nevertheless. Maybe because I still look at them as being gentle and meek. Did you read those lines by the way?

edwife:
Kimoni don't be stingy,share the ££ and i will teach you and even send you gifs.....

Lolzzzz I have plentyyy, it's just that they never work when I paste on NL but I see it live on my mails.

Maybe I should try posting from a laptop. Got it!! Edwife, ntorrrrrrrrr

Edwife!!!!!!!! See how you are sharrringgg gifs anyhow

Pls who will teach me for Heaven's sake! It never works when I post on NL but works everywhere else

tchiwinnie:
Pls what do u mean by self cleaning in this context?

That the bacteria in the mouth are not harmful when there are no teeth yet or before they start solids.

Babycenter advises that you start cleaning just before the teeth sprouts. Some people then use glycerine at this stage instead of toothpaste.

edwife:
HAHAHAHA I don't know but i love these two,we need to have some clowns in the country-otherwise it will be boring....

We are back here again? some people will die this time around.

That's exactly what both of them are to me - clowns. Not to be taken seriously

It's just they can be annoying sometimes

missmalachi:
My E family, I came for acn as usual n d doctor examin me n said my membrane is raptured already dat they hv 2 induce me.they hv done it oooo n me hv even throw up d sweet rice my mum made b4 coming.

Oh my darling, it is well with you.

Like my people will say, in a few mins from now, we will hear the cry of the baby and the laughter of the mother. Amen.

I was induced for my first pregnancy, and it's the most beautiful experience of my life. Be strong and bring forth your LO in joy. #hugz

tchiwinnie:
@nwarosa, u re very much welcome! Wishing u a safe 9months journey.
So May mamas don carry belle?! January mamas come o, we don senior plenty pple o. @Tatacherie how body? Hope d leg pain has stopped.
#teamjanuaryrocks#

Senior dey sweet like this?

But on your 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th and final missionary journeys, so you go still be junior naa

**runs out of thread**

Marketing is a skill, once you got the required skill set, you will be in paradise. And if you have been performing, one or two years of drought will not kill you. Organizations know there are seasons like that.

But I guess the most important thing for any one is to enjoy his/her career.

coogar:
fayose will change if people keep bashing him like senator shehu did.

Lol...you think so? I doubt it sha. It's just like saying FFK will change. Those guys have a consistent history

edwife:
I know that dinachi,no need. she is not a happy person,i have always ignored her.... yes YOU...

Thanks timbuktou and dinachi....

@yes YOU

coogar:
i saw it....
the penmanship was excellent. someone needed to put a leash on the rabid dog known as fayose.

Coming from an Hausaman, I was quite shocked. Forget Fayose, some people cannot just be tamed; I don't see him changing.

coogar:
you guys should learn to appreciate the finer points of bad behaviour.
sometimes, there's a bit of good in evil.

But seriously Coogar, have you read what that guy wrote??

Bodashee, tell me about it

edwife:
https://38.media.tumblr.com/c7386d6d4903000f3178af1e957bcaa9/tumblr_ml3zjyGk2f1s2kzvmo1_500.gif


We can all see who is bitter to the point of creating an account to mention "bitter women",off to the boys room.....

Edwife, teach me gifs oooo NL's emoticons will not do it for me this morning.

The kid has added me to the list

bukatyne:
Have you done something wrong that will make me have 'issues' with you?

Confess, I will forgive and forget.

Abi you want my age to know if I am your daughter's age mate?

I have updated this comment you quoted. Go back, read it and deduce whatever you wish from it. I won't tell my own blood sister anything different.

bukatyne:
Then you shouldn't have quoted him in the first place.

You can also tell people to indicate their ages before engaging them to save you the stress

So my quoting him is what is giving you headache? Is he too young to explain himself? Or it's just an excuse to vent over an unfinished issue that has been eating you up?

you have issues Bukatyne. You have been told you cannot serve two masters, but you continue to do the impossible weighing yourself down unnecessarily. I feel pity for you more than anything else.

I dont need to ask anybody's age, it always comes out in the comments. The moment he tells me his girl is already playing wife to him, cooking and serving him, then I won't continue the arguments cuz it's pointless. Those are not my values. I see they are yours, for you, it's all about feminism. Nothing else matters, they might be devil worshippers for all you care, they can blaspheme against your God; it doesn't matter, as long as they are feminist. feminism is your God. Lollzzzz good to know sha