WORDWORLD:
All that it takes is simple observation and just a little reflection about our realities. This reality starts from such question as how does our 'PROCREATION' come about? Is it from malleable clay or from the union of sperm cells and ovaries? gentlegenius as far as the question of PROCREATION is concern, the later is the answer. Procreation comes about NATURALLY through sexual intercourse between a man and a woman, though there are other BY-PASSES which men have invented apart from the physical contacts between the male and female sex organs yet it still remains a CONSTANT that  the man produces the sperm cell while the woman the ovaries for this by-passes to work.  Procreation is the primary essence of SEX INTERCOURSE every other thing is secondary It does not mean that every time sex is engaged in, the aim is procreation.

The question is what does it mean a VIRGIN as regards a woman? Is it a lady who has never had sex before or one who bleeds on her first sexual encounter with her lawful husband? Try to understand that straight forward question.

There is always a first time to the act called sexual intercourse and as long as you have NEVER participated in such an act you are a VIRGIN irrespective of having a HYMEN or not. It is NEVER EVER having participated in the ACT and not BLOOD that defines who is a virgin.



Do you know that there are ladies who have ever had sex once or twice and never had again and for a long, long time years passed by until they became married and on that wedding night, they still BLED . The hymen is nothing but a membrene. So because she bled on her wedding night what does it prove? THAT SHE IS A VIRGIN?! NEVER HAD SEX?  My point here is BLOOD HAS NOTHING to do with it. Its is more inclined towards SUPPERSTITION than being REALISTIC. Because not every woman who bleeds on their wedding night is a virgin. And not every woman who doesn't is automatically NOT A VIRGIN.

The commandment against FORNICATION, to avoid sexual intercourse until you are married is so as to:

1. Build TRUST which is fundamental for a solid foundation in any contract, at all . MARRIAGE IS DEFINED AS A CONTRACT BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN it been defined as so until today's up-side-down mentalities which has given birth same sex marriage.


2. Abstainance is the most effective way of controlling SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES. That is another wisdom behind "remain a virgin before marriage". Which is to your advantage if you adhere and to the benefit of societies that ensure it as so.

3. Now it is expected that if you remain faithful before marriage you will in your marriage remain faithful too. Its is not an absolutionist assertion but the probability is higher to not commit adultery because you weren't promiscuous to start with. Hence, far less broken homes and broken innocent lives. Children of homes mostly live a very bitter life, which bitterness does infect the society.

4. It save bringing children into the world outside the established institution called marriage which transforms to FAMILY which is meant to take care of this procreated.

The list goes on and on. Until people realize that what so ever GOD commands as "DO NOT DO" or "DO", is for your own good as an individual and as a summation of collective individuals which amounts to what is called society and not as if you are doing GOD any favour at all by obeying or disobeying. THE CONSEQUENCE IS YOURS TO BEAR AND OF COURSE THE SOCIETY WHICH CHOOSES TO RUN AGAINST THIS COMMANDMENTS SUFFERS. If its the type that promotes promicusity then they earn what it bears, GOD doesn't earn shit, does not suffer lose, is not after anybody's blood. If you choose to be chaste, the fruits is of chasity yours us to enjoy.

It is as simple as that. Why do people like to make MYSTRERY out of what is so plain.   

They are all METAPHYSICAL laws with ends that never changes. A promiscous society will suffer all kinds of ills while a society built on chastity will be successful. ITS NOT DEPENDANT UPON BELIEVING IN GOD OR NOT THOSE ENDS ARE CERTAIN.

menvocate:
Parents that fight for girls always forget the girls too enjoy it.

dochenaj:

None of the above. Love is not enough parameter to decide who to make your lifetime partner.

The truth is that, you can actually love anybody. Except you're not really talking about love but attraction.

For me you can love absolutely anybody, it is all about realizing that the person is important to you. Just like you love your parents and siblings. They were first your parents and siblings before you came to love them. In the same vein, I am certain you can love anybody who eventually becomes your spouse.

Attraction, compatibility, complementation. These are the most vital factors in that order to consider before choosing a spouse.

OkaNaUbe:
I shuddered when I saw that in the news yesterday.


He should be compensated with NGN27million