₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
So his family can save him and his marriage? Therapy works so how long does she have to wait to get a husband back?

Ok let her divorce him then. Hope you will be there for her when the problems of divorce comes and the children torn by broken marriage.

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

He is suffering from gambling addiction.
Take the issue to his family and recommend therapy. He needs help. It works. Just try this as the last resort. Divorce won't pay you.

triple996:
This man(wike) will not rest until he destroy atiku completely

And if Atiku becomes president, then he will know the wrath of the Turaki of Adamawa.

Cerebellum:
The most insensitive word to type.
You people should stop been inhumane to each other.

This section just keep breeding bad eggs everyday.
Perhaps, you yourself have passed through the same ordeal and things didn't go well...

Then help the person not to drop out

beautyhd:
He (Ihedioha),vilified Peter Obi and condemned the people’s choice hence the rejection.

Although he later apologized but the damage done remained indelible in the hearts of many.

After 2023 elections, Obi will go down the path to obscurity.

If there was no polygamy, this would never happen.
Polygamy is no sin but it gives room for the devil to operate.

nedekid:
True talk.
The closest I ever got to know about drugs was in the early 2000s. A paddy I did business with. Business was slow, yet I saw he still had reasonable spending money. One enquiry, he informed me of his source of income. He said in festac, you had "investment houses". Just as you currently have bet naija or naira bet kiosks. You go there and buy a stake in their batch of products. To you its just a number and date to stake your money. They pay you eg double or triple your money if sucessful. Ofcourse the products your state your money for is exportation of "illicits" ultimately. But to you it is just a ticket with a number.
If you check the the date of your payout, you see sucessful or not and receive your "investment" payment or loss!
Can you imagine? I am sure till today such "investment houses" are still up and running.
To show how I detest such, it did not attract me despite money issue back then to make money off such even though others, Yoruba, igbo, calabar, Hausa etc and all tribes did. Afterall na just to stake money against a number.

It is called doubling. I was once introduced into the business by a friend over a decade ago. Infact I wanted to begin it with 500k then. They say you invest the money in a laptop importation business and when the goods come in 3 months time you get double your money. I later got coded info that my friend is a drug baron, that is how I pulled out. I actually pulled out because a drug deal could go wrong. But on learning more about drug addiction and seeing why most Asian countries execute dealers, I will never have a drug deal on my conscience.
Nice talking with you man. Pardon my earlier silly banters.

nedekid:
Yes I know. Quite unfortunate too.
My sibling had to pay 3m for her child at one place in lekki because of one stupid boyfriend that feed her with drugs.
Immediately she came out, she flew her abroad for 6 months to break the relationship. She is OK now.

I pray for her to continually resist the addiction. The one I talked about is presently in a rehabilitation after he almost overdosed. It was then I discovered that there is no drug done in America that is not done in Naija. Many families are losing their loved ones to drug addiction regularly and it is undocumented.

What bloody incompetence from the Nigerian police. If he has malaria, why treat him?

Datti I like you way better than that fraud Obi. But crying over insults is ineptitude and weakness.

PureMe01:
We love to see your tears all over nairaland. So much joy to our soul. Peter Obi is your next president. You can jump into the lagoon

You must be happy when you hear ESN murdering his people.

nedekid:
Irrespective of illegality, legality, you will still have been rich. Afterall oga in bourdillion is rich despite his hand deep to the elbows in the white substance, so is Obi the righteous one rich also.
My family uses what I sell, can you boast yours doing the same?

I will never sell drugs. I will dissociate from anyone I know who sells either.

nedekid:
Ahaa, here lies the issues.
You have an associate taking some of the substance the bourdillion baba indulges and deals with.
Quite unfortunate. But don't take it on me Bros.

It is in many families. Drug addiction is real man.

nedekid:
If you were, you probably would have been rich.

I can never ever sell something that kills people, makes people insane or make families cry.
Better tell your relatives that drug business is completely evil. If you think it is good, then let their families use what they sell like Dangote's family proudly consumes the sugar he manufactures.

nedekid:
Thank God this tramadol dealing (using your words) "obidient developer" is not running for president.

Baby factory estate developer thinks I am one of his tramadol and mkpurummiri supplier.

The drug dealer is an obidient developer.

SenatePresdo:
I pray she would be found.

Nigeria needs to integrate more cctv in our country.

Most missing persons are not supposed to be measing, and
Most abductors in these country are not wise.

Even if we integrate CCTV, if the police are useless, it is of no point.

hammerT:
FIRST AND FOREMOST NIGERIA IS NOT A COUNTRY, IT IS A GEOGRAPHICAL EXPRESSION.



WE WILL CRASH IT THIS YEAR, FOR THE SAKE OF PEACE,



THE IGBO MAN DONT WANT ANYTHING FROM NORTH OR SOUTH WEST.



YORUBA TAKE LAGOS AND GO YOUR WAY.


WE WILL TAKE OUR BIAFRA AND LEAVE.


LET EVERYBODY GO AND LOVE THEMSELVES.

Na dem dem

Abeg shattap.
I blame Basketmouth. He gave you the fame you are presently using to turn motivational speaker.

The5DME:
Good afternoon everyone. I just resume schooling in Uniben, and already two guys are already sort of "toasting me". I was walking with some girls when the called me. Come see the way I was trembling with fear they asked for my name and department, and I gave them a fake name and department. Na scope I use escape from them run. Maybe because I was on Ann black, don't know why. Please, I need advice on how to run away from these people. I know they'll probably visit the fake department I gave them sha.

I'm probably just paranoid. I don't know if they're cult guys sha. But them wan dey intimidate me sha

Me when my mama don give me warning before I come this school.
Cc saynotocultism, freshkpomo kingthreat I need advice

This boy, well bygones are bygones.
I'll advice you not to show fear. Those boys are most probably cultists and are looking for new recruits.
Be careful of company you keep, don't go to party anyhow, avoid yahoo boy company. Keep your head low and focused. Also active in church, so you can use church matter as excuse from their unnecessary wahala. Avoid late nights too. I know many guys that went through Uniben and Ekpoma without any confrontation with cultism. The company they kept went a very long way in making that possible. Stay safe.

dapsoneh:
not this bro, this TB picture showed she no get breast at all just like iyabo ojo in the past

She get breasts na but it was packaged. But as women get fatter, the breast fat adds up too. Funny enough, that fat doesn't go easily when they have a weight loss.

dapsoneh:
Where did the big breast come from?

Big breast can hide in native wears.

Ipob women and failed marriages to become something worse.
Just like that Professor Uju who dumped her husband to become a fulltime lesbian.

saintjimos:
May this not happen in Nigeria

With the way cult gangs are killing with impunity, drug trade is booming and police is corrupt, we may actually be on the way there. That is if a no-nonsense leader rises up.

If Obi wins 2023 elections, that means Nottingham Forest will will the English Premier League.

hammerT:
THE IGBOS ARE NOBODY SLAVE.


2023, IS EITHER YOU HAND THE PRESIDENCY OVER OR YOU SAY YOUR GOOD BYE TO SE NIGERIA. (BIAFRA)

Nigeria remains. You can leave.

Nsobu Nsobu association of Ekiti state. I greet una

Badagry is not a good place to get missing.
Praying she escapes whatever bondage she is in. Missing people stats just keeps increasing. God help us.

Some African cultures need to die.

Skankamola:
Which of the cults? Fulani bandits? Ugm? ? Aiye? Community and state policing is the solution but...the fear of ipob no allow aboki agree

If you must quote me, respond on my level of intelligence or higher.

When Christianity and Traditional Religion meets, it ends up in a disaster