₦airaland Forum

jmoore:
She is 26 years plus, has 4 kids already.

Her husband has been working and providing for the family until he had an accident which affected his waist. The company stopped him from working because it affected his mobility and productivity.

She reached out to her mother for capital so she can start a business. The mother refused to help her. She gave him a condition that she should leave the marriage and she will sponsor her to travel abroad.

The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.

randy01:
Dairy of Forex trader trying to build from scratch

philus66:
Dear one, give yourself an average good life before you say "I do" to someone else for a couple of reasons.

1. Though no one is perfect, but get rid of any character/behavior you know that is not good. Do not allow your future spouse to deal with everything.

2. Make friends not enemies: it might be surprising to you to know that some persons got married to their spouse and also got married to their enemies. Do not allow your future spouse get to make enmity with someone they know nothing about. Your relationship with people will eventually affect your spouse's relationship with them.


3. Be financially okay: yes 'okay' not perfect. You don't need all the money in the world to make your spouse happy, but when there isn't enough of it, your spouse is not happy either. Money is like gas that keeps the engine running. Have a good financial life even though not perfect,it should be enough.


Till I come your way again. CIAO!!

DyingFetus:
I'm 21. My mom hanged herself when I was 10 after a heated argument with my dad and her.
I recently found out I'm autistic( Galatians syndrome) and i hate myself because of it, because of how obsessed I get over my special interests, because of how weird and uncaring i am with others.
I started therapy recently, and yet i feel so small and insignificant. I feel no consolation from knowing that there are others who are in my same condition.
If anything i feel like a massive hypocrite, sharing snippets of my life that nobody cares about, and yet here i am, asking for a fix like the lowly addict i am.
Is there any hope left for me?

Meritjoshua:
If you are to choose between 3million naira to start a business or 50k monthly as a starter at a government institution. Which offer will you accept?
As a single individual.

Meerahbel:
From tushd.

jetroolowole:
My banker friend is looking for something he can do on the side without affecting his current job.
We have consider different options but what will you guys suggest?

Zigzagman:
In this interesting video, a young man quit his high-paying job and followed his passion. His Wife-to-be exed him instantly.

How can a young man handle the relationship uncertainties that can follow chasing his dreams?

Can you convince today's woman to stay with you through thick and thin like our mothers of old?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sryz0jjIXlU

woginid967:
Banker wey dey yansh women... Mtchew

He should cleanse himself spiritually first then go into importation biz and POS. He will be alright

Jennyclay:
Hello everyone.

During the course of my ban (nairaland prison ) I came across a thread where a "man killed his 22 yrs old girlfriend in anambra", in another thread I also read about how "a man set his wife ablaze just because she bought a property with her own hard earned money" ...I was so pained, I couldn't comment.

Dating or married to a man who physically abuse or sexually assault you, it's highly risky and is not good. Pls detach yourself away from such man. Onyeka Onwenu said "I didn't want my marriage to end but it could have killed me". Is not a do or die affair, delete those mentality from your head that he will change, he can never change. Violence is in Nigerian men's DNA.

If ladies can hearken to this advice, men wouldn't be setting us ablaze or beating us to death. "Many receive advice but only the wise profit from it"

Ladies, get a job, learn a skill, be business minded, improve yourself, don't sleep over in a man's house, learn to be independent. You're relegating yourself if you beg or ask men for money, there by treating you like a trash.

This last Sunday, a guy took me to "Atican Beach" at ajah, he asked me what do I care for, so I ordered barbecue fish, fried chips with ketchup, and juice (everything was about 9k). Immediately the waitress brought my order, I just handed 9k to her.

The guy was dumbfounded, he was like babe I don't like the stunt you pulled there, that I should've allowed him pay my bill. He couldn't even resist the urge to say I should follow him home. To do what nah? To pick beans? He dare not say that to me.....It's called SELF WORTH.

Nigerian men are full of hatred, evil, wicked, cheat and rape apologist. Yet they compare us with white ladies. Now am still wondering which white lady would accept these sick attitude of Nigerian men.... Mess up with them and they would keep suing your ass to court till you split your boxers into two, Infact you will be left with absolutely nothing. Lol, Funny black men!!

Ladies, Life isn't friendly with anyone, your peace of mind and happiness should be your number one priority. Also train your children uprightly(especially your daughters). Let them grow in wisdom.

Shout-out to strong and Real women like My lovely mom (O. Lydia), Genevieve, Rita Dominic, Joke silver, Ngozi okonjo-weala, onyeka Onwenu, Funke Akindele, Ibukun Awosika and other strong ladies out there!

dre11:
https://dailytrust.com/dpo-goes-viral-after-paying-dowry-for-lovers-to-get-married-in-kaduna/

TonyRazor:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/sit-at-home-mondays-now-economic-empowerment-day-in-south-east-says-ipob/%3famp

oshozondii:
https://dailytrust.com/atiku-suffers-setback-in-bid-to-subpoena-chicago-state-university-over-tinubu/

References:
https://twitter.com/nard_nigeria/status/1688123414613987328?t=jFGp-Y1rBLkItiC-R2jWzw&s=19[/quote]This will mean more untold hardship to the common man.

God will help us in this country.

SojWORLDWIDE:
https://www.sojworldnews.com/see-full-list-of-47-ministerial-nominees-and-states-of-origin-at-a-glance/


Ok.

UncannyGenius:
ILEBAYE ILEBAAAAYYYE! I SUMMON YOUR SPIRIT, APPEAR BEFORE MEEEEE!!!

Mummyfour:
There are children that would just do things to provoke you, just like some of us did to provoke our parents, some unintentionally though.

Like I have a son whom I love so much, but he can be playful and absent minded at times.

I teach my children to do chores and they really do that without complaining. My youngest son is like the onion slicer whenever food is being cooked. He is fifteen and when his sisters run away from slicing onions, he will always play the role of the super man, even if it means him screaming and slicing the onions and shedding tears while doing so. Sometimes he even runs to the bathroom, wash his eyes and still goes back to continue 🤣🤣

Last week he sliced scent leaves for me, and carefully arranged it in a plate. I carried the bowl of scent leaves and poured straight into the pot of stew without washing it and by the time I realized it, it was already cooking together with my stew.

I called my son to confirm if he washed it and all he could say was "Eeewooo!". He said he thought he washed it. I said how could he have neatly arranged it in a ready to be cooked way without washing and he couldn't answer me. I was angry. Very angry.

He is a diligent boy, always ready to help fix things in the house, but he is the type that will mistakingly pour sugar into a pot of soup, or if you ask him to cook noodles, would use all the pepper in the house and he will end up helping you to eat it, while telling you "sorry o, it wasn't deliberate" ., And probably offer to help cook another one with less pepper or get you something else.(He tries in cooking for his age though)

If you have a child like that or you did that to your parents, let's share our experiences and laugh it out. Every day mustn't be for politics and tribalistic slurs

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