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Lizboh:
My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

Thanks for your response. Another thing I want you to tell her is about her fear that everyday sex effect the vagina; are you seeing any negative effect?

I want to say if you have give, but if you can not give for whatever reason just ignore
Someone says: "it's good to be poor to know the importance of giving"


Myself sometimes I feel irritated with these people but the other thought says

" you may not understand what some of this people are passing through".


What do I do? I asked
Answer: if you can give, give; if you cannot, ignore!

When he had no case, he stopped okada riders, now I wonder what

Your efforts should be directed in encouraging the girl, i.e if you want her to stay with you.
as for your mother, she is not going to change,if you frown at her she will call the girl witch who have turned her own children against her. Then she will do everything possible to get her out of the house.
In sum: encourage her to be able to do well, but discourage your brother from taking after your mom.

Well, if not for the saying that all things are possible, I won't believe this story.

Join believers in the prayer for backsliders to be restored.

Some Christians backslide because of pains while others because of pleasure (i.e P- and P+ ).
My friends went into sexual immorality and the ladies they pregnanted are still with them up to date.

Please tell me what you have suffered for Christ.
One of the things that makes me weep often for my friends is that they later backslided and up till now they have returned.
NOTE that the backsliding did not come as a result of the suffering,no. It was after the persecutions ended (3-5yrs of intense persecutions).

The man told my friends (i.e his children) to stop attending the church. When they didn't, he burned all their clothes, using weapons to chase them from house to house. Sometimes he would come to wait for them at the church premises. Fear, hunger and unclothedness,oh.

The new husband was weeping, promised to leave idols worship and join us in the church. Meanwhile, all the children in the family were coming (even those of the 1st wife) to church. About 2 to 3 people had become stronger in the Lord, they encouraged her to decide for eternity!

SHE DID. And that is the gates of suffering, starvation and deprivation being opened for her and her husband other children.

A sister left her first husband and got married to another man b4 she was converted. After sometime, she heard about restitution. She has given the new husband 5 children already, she gave the
1st man 1boy. Meanwhile she is the 2nd wife in the new home. The new husband love her so much. Almost all his secrets was with her. The decision to leave him was one of the hardest in her life, but how about missing the love of her LORD?
RESTITUTION HAVE TO BE DONE!

It takes great determination to follow Jesus in and evil world

In all, let suffering Christians all over the world be encouraged that they are not the only ones having it tough.

I will tell you what happened to my other friends who decided to follow Jesus

Are you suffering persecution today for Christ’s sake? Cheer up, and look unto Him, “who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame...” Sooner or later, you will be with Him in glory if you do not give up.

5. Not failure, but low aim, is crime

6. If you wish to reach the highest, begin at the lowest.

7. To keep your secret is wisdom; but to expect others to keep it, is folly ( foolishness).

Lalasticala I would like to see yours. thanks.

What are the quotes that keep you going every day?
Summit at least seven of them.
Here are mine
1. The greatest reward for doing is the opportunity to do more.

2. He that falls into sin is a man; he that grieves at sin, he's a saint; he that boast of sin , he's a devil.

3. Tolerance is the oil which takes frictions out of life.

4. The man who wakes up and finds himself a success has not been asleep.

*. Wait for the last 3 pls

finalboss:
According to the Christian mythology Jesus is the son of God and capable of super-human feats like raising the dead, healing, walking on water, transmuting matter, ect...

As a demi-god can he really feel pain (if he could take pain away from others then certainly he can control and chose how much pain he wants to feel and control how much damage he wants his body to experience)?
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Was the cross heavy? Not for someone who can modify matter (or gravity) so that he is able to walk on water. With Jesus alleged super powers, the cross is only as heavy as he wants it to be (note he also had no problem moving the stones of his tomb... weight is not an issue for Jesus), That trek up carrying the cross the hill is nothing more than the first example of CrossFit...

Was he humiliated? How could that be. He knows he is the son of God, how can mere mortals humiliate a demi-god. Humiliation is a feeling and can only be felt by those who chose to feel it (if anything the son of God may have felt disapointment but certainly nothing as mundane as humiliation)

Did Jesus experience fear and anguish? No first because there can't have been anything unknown about the event to him. No surprise. Him getting cruxified is god plan. It is very much a choreographed performance. He knew he would resurect after a very short time, and even afterward going to heaven or hell is something that Jesus can chose for himself (no other Christian gets to make that choice).

In brief, the irony here is that Jesus "sacrifice" can only be counted as a sacrifice is if he was NOT the son of God and had to face all of this as a mere human: weak, scared, at the mercy of others, with no control and no idea what will happen next... (and even then the Sacrifice of Jesus is fairly mild one by human suffering standards: he didn't spend 50 years in a prison , he wasn't tortured for months, his mother was gang raped as an example in fron of him, etc... crucifiction is painfull and barbaric but fairly quick and not all that terrible even by the standards of that age... in fact Jesus suffered no more than the other 2 regular guys next to him that day...

Now Prometheus who gets his liver eaten every day for eternity, that is more like a real sacrifice. But Jesus' only count as a mildly hectic end of week.

Jesus Christ has not rejected you and it is not good (in my opinion) for you to reject yourself. Come to Him, He will accept you warmly.
*. Acts30
KJV:And the times of this ignorance God winked at; but now commandeth all men every where to repent:
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KJV:Because he hath appointed a day, in the which he will judge the world in righteousness by that man whom he hath ordained; whereof he hath given assurance unto all men, in that he hath raised him from the dead.
*. Jude 2:14
KJV:And Enoch also, the seventh from Adam, prophesied of these, saying, Behold, the Lord cometh with ten thousands of his saints,
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KJV:To execute judgment upon all, and to convince all that are ungodly among them of all their ungodly deeds which they have ungodly committed, and of all THIER HARD SPEECHES which ungodly sinners have spoken against him.

There must always be a way out. We still thank God in all things

Those that will survive, will survive

6. Father/Son is LORD of Lords:

*. Psalms 136:3 "O give thanks to THE LORD OF LORDS: for his mercy endureth for ever." (i.e the Father)

*. Revelation 19:16 "And he hath on his vesture and on his thigh a name written,... LORD OF LORDS." (i.e the Son)

5.FATHER/SON IS ALMIGHTY:

* Rev.1:8 KJV:I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the ending, saith the Lord, which is, and which was, and which is to come, THE ALMIGHTY. (i.e the Son)

* 2corinthians 6:18 "
KJV:And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith THE LORD ALMIGHTY." (i.e the Father)

solite3:
The Father is Almighty God all his plans purposes and ways are all perfect and all encompassing. From him came the plan of creation and to save man through Jesus Christ and chosing the foolishness of the cross to found the wisdom of the wise even before the world began. His wisdom is infinite and all suficient.

The word is Almighty God, it takes Almighty to fulfill all the plans and purpose of the father, only Almighty God can do such feat. His fulfillment of the salvation plan of the father was impecable in every specification, a feat that no angel or man can achieve, only Almighty God himself.

The Holy ghost is Almighty God, only Almighty can bring to manifestation that which has being spoken in conplete perfection that God saw it as good (perfect), only Almighty God can bring the lost souls in to the reality of the salvation that Jesus worked for, enabled Jesus to do it and bring the reality of salvation to those that he saves.

Solite3, thanks for your contribution, it's insightful. More understanding of His ways be given to you in Jesus name.

May be the Chadian soldiers did not face this, that's why they conquered.
If that's the case, the summary= when Boko Haram see Nigerian soldiers they become very though, when they see Chadian soldiers they become very weak.

Sonfethopia:
I done run my brother. I done advise myself. They even wanted to arrest me and told me not to near the child.

Leave the child for them and go your way

God dey

The Lord won't forsake His own.

You sound so childish and inexperienced.
If you don't seek for your deliverance from this woman, this your story will be a child's play when compared with the one you are going to post next time.
But there's nothing in your post that shows you have learned something.

How I wish tomorrow morning everyone will have this courage and permanently clear all these oppressors!

What I know is that nobody is too bad or too good, whatever you are there is someone looking for such a one. Therefore, try to get the person who just like the way you are and you'll be free from headache. My opinion.