₦airaland Forum

Idaytesj29:
✓ Women dont hate polygamy, it's poor men that they hate. If a man has 5 wives before and he is rich like Otedollar or $Dangote,.... will marry him as the 6th wife.

guobe:
✓ Some men will have a son out of wedlock and when they marry and start having kids they will bring the son to be living with the new wife.
What you just did is like you just put the kid inside transformer that is working so that he dies.
✓ An average African is property conscious and won't mind kpaing the son either physically or spiritually.
Imagine a young vibrant boy awaiting youth service gone so soon just like that.
Men be wise

PassingShot:
➜I am sure you are living a very miserable life Sorry about your life troubles

ChybuzzDD:
So?
Were the people who helped them up women

cupcup:
Wow, I just checked your profile nd ur post…. I thought as much…
Well one question for you… Will you allow your brother…. To be filling a basket with water When h know it’s impossible?? What advice will you give a male gender from your branch?

abbey621:
➜The topic is inheritance, what business does a poor man have with inheritance? Read my initial comment and reply accordingly, I don't give a flip about man or woman dynamics in 9ja but the topic of inheritance is not for poor people!

abbey621:
We are talking about now compared to 30 years ago, WHY WOULD ANY WOMAN MARRY A MAN WITH NO EDUCATION, NO WILL & NO PLAN? Una no dey learn?...

abbey621:
...The people you're describing are mostly poor or average at best, MAJORITY of village men are not leaving behind a mansion or enough money to secure his family for the rest of their lives. We are not talking about a million or two or that old village family house but REAL INHERITANCE!

➜See your conditions for the female to get what should be naturally hers - "Many educated wealthy men now have wills". How about no education, no wills? How about traditionally?
Check the villages. A woman can't be seen with a man for years after her husband dies, while a man can be sleeping with his second wife same night! In the old days the alive wife actually gets buried alive with her husband! Just admit things are unfair to women because it is men that set it up!

greenmonk:
➜I talkam. You be pastor. Pastors like pandering to women.
Was it not the same bible you teach that said women should be submissive to their husbands.
➜You don't want the man to be authoritative but you expect him to pay bride price and go through fire to acquire a wife and after that becomes an equal yoker with her.
➜ If women really want equality some the practices in Nigeria have to change.

Fountainofyouth:
➜When you hear most Nigerian men constantly hammer on submission, what they actually mean is that wives should accept and tolerate their bad behaviour e.g cheating should be overlooked, authoritative traits, respect them despite being irresponsible, and so many other evil vices
But I'm so glad that women these days refused to agree and tolerate bull...shit, reason why divorce is on the rise and will continue to rise.

Naijalegal:
“SUBMISSION” IN MARRIAGE IS NOT SLAVERY — AND NIGERIAN MEN NEED TO HEAR THIS
Let’s settle this once and for all.
Biblical submission is NOT military command submission style. It is NOT dictatorship. It is NOT “I am the man, shut up.”Marriage was never designed as a superior vs inferior relationship. The Bible calls marriage an EQUAL YOKE — two people becoming ONE. So how did “submission” suddenly turn into subjugation of women in this generation? Submission in marriage simply exists to reduce friction, align vision, and streamline authority, not to silence a woman or erase her intelligence.

“Two cannot walk together except they agree.” Agreement requires voices, not silence.
A submissive wife is not voiceless.
A submissive wife is heard, considered, and integrated into decisions.
Even in traditional African homes, wives were never slaves. The man was the mouth, but the woman was the tongue inside — invisible to outsiders but absolutely indispensable.
Major decisions?
✔️ Wife consulted
✔️ Wife informed
✔️ Wife respected
So how did modern men become more extreme than our forefathers? ....

abbey621:
➜We are talking about now compared to 30 years ago, WHY WOULD ANY WOMAN MARRY A MAN WITH NO EDUCATION, NO WILL & NO PLAN? Una no dey learn? The people you're describing are mostly poor or average at best, MAJORITY of village men are not leaving behind a mansion or enough money to secure his family for the rest of their lives. W[b]e are not talking about a million or two or that old village family house but REAL INHERITANCE![/b]

FreeIgboho:
Give examples

Sunisonflex39:
✓ No vex, you dey use this brain cross road?

MerchantMNT:
✓ And it is funny?

Doctordan:
Never anything 'casual' about sex actually. Just a few moments of pleasure can have long term effects

RealLordZeus:
✓Yes the man is very wicked for marrying seven wives a d the wives are very saintly for accepting the marriage

Tell me Kobo, wetin be the name of the guy that actually offend you?

baby124:
This kain gbese fit make person fake him death. They need to check well that the guy is truly dead.

funsho75:
✓ I think most of the things you listed are just about choice and not really nature...
✓ If woman of 40 want a guy in his 21, she will get but most women will not.
✓ About baby daddy... Why most guys don't go for women with kids is because of the financial responsibility.
✓ Am not disputing the fact that double standard exit for both genders. Am saying sometimes it is not double standards
It just choice
✓ Most men will want to marry slay Queen wen they don't hv money to maintain her... If she rejects it not double standard.. It just wrong choice

MadamExcellency:
First understand the context before writing a rebuttal. What he is saying is that it doesn't matter how good, moral and incorruptible a man is, without a good financial footings, he is scorned, degraded and shamed by the society and on the contrary, a good lady/woman with morals but nothing in her bank balance is still classified as virtuous and appreciated in the same man's world.

sexy74:
She should demand what her father or brother or uncles can afford to give her.
No put another man picking for high jump

aktolly54:
J it doesn't matter, if you no gree million of lady go gree once a man can afford it. Thousand of ladies want pa ned to see them, maybe he never ready to see them. Once a man can afford 10 wives, he should go for available and READY LADIES

brain54:
➜Kobo a person can give birth to 15 children... Train them well and all of them turn out good. Another man can give birth to just one and he turns out a criminal!

brain54:
➜What is wickedness... Untimely death?

FreeIgboho:
➜There is no human matriarchal system that has no male input or not built on traditions previously set up by men. Therefore, women can't set up a system that cheats men

Morbeta11:
https://x.com/Chude_ND1/status/2003365111390499053?t=BELJNqF7qiYB-Vedu15k8w&s=08[/quote]See wickedness! 🥱🥱🥱

FreeIgboho:
➜And you can't blame the men. If it were women that set things up they'd also cheat men!

Kalatium:
Its a hard world for a man.

FreeIgboho:
➜Just admit that life is unfair to women BECAUSE IT IS MEN THAT SET UP THE SYSTEM! A first-child woman can't inherit anything. Everything goes to her younger brothers. Unfairness everywhere.
➜Even the Bible says a man should leave his parents and cling to his wife. Society changed it to a woman should leave her parents - because it is men that set it up! And he can tell her to pack and go back to her parents anytime. There are countless other unfairnesses. Just go the villages

FreeIgboho:
➜He's actually right. Nature did not distribute torture equally. Women bear all the nastiness while men are left free. It would have been more fair, for example, if men bore monthly periods while women bore pregnancy and childbirth

alphaconde:
How gender equality doesnt distribute life torture equally

TossTos:
➜This is one of the trap that always catch men .. Emotions ..
➜ Op really want to know what he'll do not lose the relationship..
➜ bro , reduce the volume of your emotions and be decisive for once . Watch how your life transform .. Everyman needs to lower the frequency of their Emotions, this people are using it to get us .. have you discovered yourself or you still dey emotionally, dey do things ?

sexy74:
➜Where her papa? Has he father giving such money to her mother for this Christmas?
My brother thank your stars and move on.

Emmy000seun:
➜But he said they have been into relationship for 3yrs now!!.so why is she now seeing him broke?
➜if the girl is not benefiting from him she won't have stay that long...
➜ so it tells you how woman see man as use and dump ..in the sense that once they see highest bidder, they don't mind what happens next and dey forget your previous effort...🤷..I appreciate both side of relationship don't get me out of context, but I support reciprocity, treat your partner d way u want to b treated...📌💯