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your major problem is that she doesn't have everything you want in a woman so marry 2, her and another to complete you

Warl0ck:
thats the problem.

I cant free her

google translate nko?

Who spoiled you ?

purples25:
When they see a virgin they say 'lack of opportunity' to justify going after her. After spoiling the girl or not seeing any virgin around them again, they cry about the scarcity of virgins.

well i think being trapped in this world is still the best , the only problem is you can't choose what your next life will look like but who cares coz soon you will get the good ones after a few death. Besides there's google calico which is heavily funded by google on anti aging which means soon we won't have to die so fast except you find yourself in Nigeria and you just want to end it quick.

But If i can repeatedly be like dangote or ote with the money then when i die i'm facing the light bro

Nia69 Dinner is ready

okay lets say kola amadi is one of the founding families of anambra. what will be the outcome , be honest ?

iamphilips:
People keep calling gbadebo mixed blood or parent, forgetting his family is one of the founding families of Lagos..... He’s more lagosian than Asiwaju and Sanwo olu that’s playing the tribal card. Let’s pray Seyi tinubu runs for a political post one day in Lagos.

philip all my yoruba youth friend that voted for obi from lagos in the presidential election , i quested all of them one by one before the governorship election to ask them who they will vote for , they all chose sawon olu . Nigeria is what unites all of us and anyone can become nigerian president but to think we are ripe to a state where some one with a mixed parent will become lagos governor is a joke of the century... we are note ripe for that yet . kola amada will not contest for anambra state governor without being criticized.

iamphilips:
We all know if the election was actually free and fair, he’ll loose that sit... They literally used thugs, Tribalism and violence to win this time around.

Hope they won’t cry foul when same Violence is brought upon them and their family members...

The reason why i believe everything you said is this : long story short, i went into hallucination some weeks back where I found myself struggling with my brain to get back to normal , it wasn't a very comfortable situation for me and i hated being in that state but i learnt new things about life.

At first i found myself being the only creation with an endless loop of many colors, like i am a God without beginning or end but in giant deep cluster of knowledge but in a state of nothingness. These was bigger than what my brain could comprehend so i felt really uncomfortable while i struggled to get out of this ream. It feels like i reached the peak of my brain. It was deep and i believe it was real.

In the next phase of this hallucination , i found my self going round and round through different life, it was a giant circle of my own life with different life in different segment of the circle. I kept going round and round while experiencing different lives of my own circle. Sometimes i can be rich , sometimes i can be very poor, sometimes i am an indian , sometimes i'm an American, some of this lives i had a very very terrible accident that my enemy's two legs was off and my consciousness was aware of this particular phase of my circle which i was always scared to go into that particular phase of my life when ever the circle rolls to that life.

The relief always comes when i get into my rich life, got a very expensive house and fancy cars . there was a particular phase of my circle where i had many women just like king solomon, and there were life where i'm just married to one woman. It was a very scary experience for me and i've been questioning myself if what i experience was real or not . it was definitely not a dream because a part of me was conscious of myself and i feel the sadness and pains when ever i experience the bad lives in the circle. but these lives where too many, it was in billions and i could run through them within one minute. i noticed that each life is really really short because within a short space of time i'm already in another life.

Above all , what i've noticed is that if i'm being nice in a particular life, i get a better life afterward but i can't even chose my own character because i wasn't aware of myself in each of those lives and i can't chose the next life or the role i have to play in each life so there are just life that i'm a nice person and their are lives where i played a very wicked man and its was an endless circle. These world is really spiritual , i don't know what to make out of this experience i had. I just don't know what to believe . meanwhile i am not occultist but i have quest for knowledge.

SocialJustice:
To answer this question I'll have to write pages so you get the point but this what I'm going to do. I'll summarise it and you can ask questions.

Let's start with what you are, you are not your body or mind, you are pure energy directly from Source(God).

When we break out from Source, we start a journey of learning. Since we are pure conscious energy we can change or fit into any form in the seen and unseen universe. This energy can manifest in this reality as a stone, mosquito, ant, bacteria, aliens, planets, atoms just name it. We go into all these different forms to learn and pass information to the Source, all humans are one. We only look different because there are many avatars or bodies to use for a life experience. The difference between you and the air you breath or lizard or table is that you have captured enough consciousness to enter a human body and the human body comes with a mind. Humans are the peak point of evolution on earth, from here we can no longer evolve our physical body, it is our consciousness that continues evolving. This is all a human is.


Religion is a fabrication of the mind of men across time.

Earth is just 1 school among many others. Earth is also the densest and most difficult school in the Universe. This is the only school negative emotions can be felt. Higher civilisations have evolved beyond negative emotions. The highest point of consciousness evolution is love. God is love, the whole existence is evolving to attain love.

When you choose to come to earth, you are given karma. It is the chain that ties you to your physical body. While it allows you to exist here, it brings you into the physical and everything in the physical exists in cycles. This karmic cycle will keep you here on earth until you unbuckle it or become conscious in some level. Every time you complete a life experience like the one you are currently having, you are evaluated given time to rest and sent back to earth. You must pay all of your karmic debt to escape earth.

As bad as earth is, it creates a tremendous opportunity for the Soul or created to learn. Only an evaluation in love and kindness is done by ascended masters. You essentially judge yourself in love and corrections are made. Before coming back to earth to pay your karmic debt, you are given life options that will help you learn from past mistakes, you select one and enter into a seeded womb.

The soul that you are has no sex, religion or colour. We are all just energy beings from 1 source.

Heaven and hell exists in the mind too. They are not actual locations. If a person lives and dies happily, when their soul leaves their body, because there is no more discretion, it only follows tendencies. Happy or positive tendencies equate to heaven and unhappy or negative energy tendencies is hell.

There are people that are still alive and already suffering hell and others heaven. Another way to put it is positive and negative vibrations. We should always be on the positive side and ignore the negative.

[quote author=starrboyniels post=121825900][/quote]"when a political leader has his own version of the “Holy book” that speaks louder"

How come i never think of this. you gain my attention

I know say na here them go find you

Nia69:
This is the norm. Most people consider this as a successful lifestyle.

this thing is not funny any more

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men and women are not the same

Kobojunkie:
1. When you say women accept, what do you mean? Are you insinuating that wives embrace the concept and even welcome the side chicks into their marriage beds? Or are helpless in doing anything about it and so cannot but condone it hoping that it will go away just as quickly as it came?

2. Is that kinda like saying if a woman accepts a second husband, her life will be easier as she will have a second provider in her life?

i swear this generation is something else with their double standard life... tunde can't bring in second wife but oni of ife is rich and has a different manhood from tunde. you can't even match the sexuality of a man, we get Hot everyday, they get Hot only at a particular time of the month. we produce millions of sperm every seconds , they produce eggs only once in a month. who should your husband sleep with when you are doing 5days or 7 days mensuration. who should he sleep with when you give birth and need that 2months to recuperate.

Nigeriayouthmov:
Oyibo have brainwashed these women to be self centered claiming polygamy is a sin. Same idiots will allow men and men get married. If you share 7 ladies to 1 man, there will still be surplus and that's why we have so many hookup babes, single women on dating sites more than men because they have no one to put them at home due to shortage of men.

enough internet for today.. this is where i turn off my phone

lol

desmond eliot , i voted for apc , but YOU will never win . YOU , i will still vote for sanwo olu , but you you , you will never win

marrying another woman is not suppose to be hurtful but the society reconfigured your thinking, polygamy is already everywhere , women are now accepting side chicks at some point they realise they can't Bleep him alone. is that not a different form of polygamy?. but side chick will only bring you the wife deceases in the long run , but if you accept a second wife , you life can be easier because that's your second helper.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Dy play but a man is free to hurt his wife where it pains her the most

professing you will never forgive someone you intend spending the rest of your life with is gross, knowing well that total forgiveness is what makes most healthy marriages. All of you will always complain that you won't take it if your husband marries another wife but you will accept oni of ife's proposal any day any time. shio

IyaebeTheGreat:
Doni have to wait till I get married to know what I can and can’t take?

this one never marry she don dey list things she won't forgive her husband for . Latter they will say nairaland men don't say good things about women

bro how much were you paid for this promo, i want to join too please help a brother

Biodun556:
By next year or before the end of this year when all ordered military equipment would have arrived, Nigeria should be number 3 or 2 in Africa. Buhari really tried, he equipped the military

God bless you o ... lets start the new madness from anambra not lagos . let tunde chukwudi win anambra state local government chairman first then i'll take GRV serious

Dsalvo:
Mo gbe. Igbos are now having the temerity and bravado to threaten Yorubas in Lagos. "Woke" and over-liberal Yorubas, see where you have gotten us?

I was reading an article today that said upcoming election in the 28 Nigerian States of Nigeria featuring gubernatorial contestst on Saturday are peaceful and calm affairs bar Lagos which has taken on a do or die tone between Yorubas and Igbos over the political soul of the State.

Some of you Yorubas are self-destructive dullard who have no shame and no foresight.

Do Igbos live in Lagos alone? Kaduna , Abuja, Kano, Delta, Sokoto and many fairly cosmopolitan States in Nigeria are not there for Igbos to attempt governing?

It is Lagos they must drag because over-accomodators Yorubas have allowed them grow wings enough to the extent they believe they can foist an IPOB tout who cannot speak Yoruba, and has directly made bigoted statements against the Yorubas, as Governor of a Yoruba State?

Yorubas looking to vote GRV should bury their head in shame. I am a democrat who believes in recognising the democratic choice of others, however painful the conclusion of an election may be, but I draw the line at voting vile bigots and supremacists who want to lead people they have shown public and unambiguous hate and disdain for.

If only we could identify every Yoruba who will vote GRV on Saturday and deport you all to the SE for good, with no option of return, then perhaps that will reset you brain to make you understand there is nothing wrong with voting those different from you as long as they are not your haters who live to see your misery and downfall.


Voting GRV, for a Yoruba, is no longer democracy for the same reason New Orleans or Georgia in the USA will never have an openly proud and practising Ku klux Khan supremo as her governor.

It is for this same reason every sane Yoruba must grab their PVC and go to the poll to disgrace this Yoruba-hating IPOB tout who switches name deceitfully between Chinedu and Gbadebo while reeling off IPOB anthems publicly.

i was once in your shoes.... having untouchable cash is what makes a man, its what gives you confidence as a man. when any safe impromptu business opportunity shows , that's the cash you use. You can avoid car when you have raw cash in your bank account , if you trek on the street, you won't feel ashamed because you know you are not broke. You can attend important meetings with uber. Reinvest 50% percent of the money . make sure its a safe business, make sure its a business you could sell everything off immediately and still get about 90% of your capital. if the contract that brought the money is a safe contract , then reinvest it back. if you can push the money up to 5m , then you can apply for car loan, buy small land and still do simple marriage, but anything you do , make sure you have this exact 2.5 million cash at all time

4. Who love help? (only this)

every girls says the remaining 3

concussion ni

ObiDatti85:
ObiDatti23


Peter Obi is coming!!!!!!

tell you can do it if her husband agrees to it

no kidding , tinubu will perform. history has a way of repeating it self , the guy will perform. and nigerians will change their minds in the next four years and vote for him again, when he leaves , he will hand over to a northerner because i'm sure he must have promised them heaven and earth before they gave him the power. that's another 8years.

madridguy:
The nearest year anyone from the SE can win the presidential election is 2039.

when you fall in love all your rules and polices won't matter anymore

dey play

velocity25:
Mandate that will be returned?the president Nigerians voted for is Peter The to Rock!

get a second wife , i'm not a polygamist but some cases warrants it , seek her blessing first and take a second wife . that way life will be much easier for her too and she can always get it when ever she wants it. i think the second wife is a relief for her but women will always say they don't want sharing but they can share if its oni of ife. if you find a second wife who is educated and understand, marry her only on the condition that your first wife accept (that is if you can convince her )

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

My brother you are saying my mind . I've personally interviewed my close friends who voted LP in the presidential election and they all said they are voting sanwo olu, but the way the guy is going about the whole thing is making him look suspicious , he's not relaxing at all and i'm just scared that he might loss the election with this strategy. All he's suppose to be doing at the moment is emphasizing on his achievement not dishing out money and releasing impounded vehicles.

BIZNess123:


Sanwo olu is the best performing Governor in Nigeria currently...

Though he has been paying pensions regularly..I know lots of persons will see it as election strategy..

He should relax...he will win in a landslide..the major reason APC lost Lagos in the presidential election was bc of Muslim Muslim ticket et al...

Sanwo take a deep breath...