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this law will soon be reviewed world wide as its not even helping the women. The fears of losing everything is growing in men and they are running from holy matrimony therefore creating more single women. Apparently some bad women are taking advantage of the system which is also not helping the good women since we can't read minds to know who is coming for the money and not for love.

All the women claiming what the guy did is bad, if he is your son or your brother, would you like it that a woman that signed for better for worse is taking more than half of the wealth she didn't build for a marriage that is not even up to 5years, so what should happen to the mother that carried him for 9months , he should take 1percent abi? or what should happen to his family members that were there through tick and stones and that will still be there when all his wealth has been allocated to a woman who fell out of love to one random tiktok guy.

if women know what is good for them , they should rally for this rubbish law to be adjusted because some kind of money can turn good girls bad. 1m pounds per month is too much , i would divorce any man half way too if i was a lady because i know going forward, my entire life is made without him.

lol... that was before , everything is now big. so please don't judge him by his past

Rokiat:
I guess your ghost wrote the
Attached. Nigga you better go attend to better things and stay off my mentions.

if you are a good woman , then his mother's properties are yours automatically

wow, sorry bro... but yet don't play hard feelings, it hurts more when you play hard feelings believe me . Act like you are cool , infact send random friendly text once in a while, that shit works like magic because God has a way of crowning your effort and rewarding you with someone better, just don't play hard feelings. let her go peacefully, it hurts more when you disconnect totally at this stage, let the disconnection take a progression. Trust me the next lady will be better.

Megabig:
There is nothing, the elder bro knows who she’s cheating with, the man has a daughter and divorced. He disclosed that to me and asked me to just move on. So it’s not me, it’s her… I was sad they didn’t tell me earlier

did you read the part where i said they can't be close friends again? or you just want to abuse me like the normal nairaland culture. I use quora and i don't get all these kind of bashing on that site. i got a six figure contract January 2nd this year from an ex i left 5years ago , so why the hard feelings. The older we get the more we need people we've come across in our lives. Shift abeg

DukeNija:
I don’t need to know you to conclude that based off your post, you’re a simp.

You have no idea who i am...

DukeNija:
SIMP just STFU!

most of those kind of women he described are usually not capable of sleeping around when they love you or when they are comfortable with you .... most not all

Josephkabila12:
wetin u dey talk nah, if she no dey comfortable with him why she no talk instead of sleeping around

[quote author=Nia69 post=120987641][/quote]whats the update its been a while, where is ourtruth

sorry about your experience bro, going by what you described about her, i think there's something she's not comfortable with about you and she's trying to way her options, she might not be as bad as you think, sit her down, you guys can't be friends again but you don't have to block each other, once in a while hello and hi is not bad.. most of them are the same, learn to remember them for the few good they did and move on without hard feelings.

i don't know how people get erection when they are broke .

homesexual tendencies" is rhetorical in this context, i didn't mean his grammer isn't correct but the lady in question is obviously a gay. abi !!?how else do you have feelings for same gender if you are not gay or homosexual so why using the word tendency.

chriskosherbal:
Pls kindly explain to us how using the word "homosexual tendencies" is wrong and what he/she would have used instead....even me I want to use homo potentials am I wrong too .


Just asking for a friend no homo

use your native dialect if you don't know the meaning of tendency . i'm sorry ... but you see girl like girl , you say homosexual tendencies. nawa o . wetin he for be before?

WhisperedNoise:
The lady might have homosexual tendencies.
Have you noticed any overt fondness from her?

my dear what i've learnt so far is that women don't know what men really want. you guys seek advice from your fellow women...

i repeat , in most cases men don't usually leave good women, and i'm not talking about men or boys bellow 25.

Medianna:
This bolded part have answered my question.
And that was exactly what I wanted to here from you.
So no need of saying guys hardly leave good woman. That's not true

see you don't have to do anything when it comes to infidelity, and that was in my case with my ex in-which i still kept all the evidences till today. meanwhile, Its not every guy that is into tech to be able to access what i was able to access and even though i don't pry into people's privacy but i just have to do that one to save my mental health.

So you don't have to do anything when it comes to infidelity and that doesn't mean she was a bad lady , she cooks, clean , support and other good stuffs, but she's a honey pot distributor, infact major dealer. To some people its in the brain and its a nature call, their hormone is still doing the thinking for them and i can't blame anybody because you can't cheat nature has sex drives varies but owning up to the truth when matter arises is the big deal. saying unprecedented things when relationship ends, cooking up stories just to paint someone black is a NO NO

Men will usually say it when they fuckup . but for wemen !!! i've never heard a lady that admitted that she messed up before in my life.

when ever breakup stories sounds to horrible to be truth like this , i'm not buying it.... NO i'm not

Medianna:
Let's ask you the same question
What did you do?
Some of us just go waaaaaa!!!
If there is a lady somewhere who can do that to you, then there are men somewhere who can do more than that ok!

well all i know is that men don't usually leave good women ... until i hear his side of the story. , my ex painted me so bad to the whole world and to my close friend. everybody hated me, but i stood my ground that i was leaving.

There's no way you won't believe her story, she told every single soul including my clients. i lost friends and even money, until one fateful day i hacked her phone and accessed all her whatsap messages, videos and pictures , it was gross , she was a porn star in the making. sharing the honey pot like birthday cake. now everybody believed me when i said i was done with her. She was an angel in the eyes of my family and friends but i was the only one who saw the devil in her before the phone revelation. God saved me , i didn't just dodged a bullet, i dodged an entire military weapon.

Going forward in my life , if anybody complains of heat break , my first question is usually "what did you do?"

show me one first class graduate that is a billionaire

Do you know if that lady report you to police 19years from now , you might still go to jail?. what's your proof that you didn't rape her. because she say stop and you also admitted that you didn't stop. . if i was a lawyer i won't take your case.

i'm not a big fan of virgin but what do you love about a woman that is not a virgin yet is not giving you a good reason why she can't be intimate with you if you guys claim to be in a serious relationship.

if you marry her , you are finished because you already lost your respect, a woman told you she can't trust her daughter around you, you didn't arrest her immediately , that's the highest level of disrespect bro. You didn't collect her phone and smash it on the floor , let people come and settle the case. You are weak bro.

A woman's friends have the audacity to call you on phone to accused you of rape , and you couldn't find 20k to bribe police to arrest all of them immediately but 5 years from now if they re-visit your matter, you will begin to cry up and down but now that the matter is still fresh , now that your neigbors can still testify in the court that she comes to your house regularly and they believe you guys are dating ... Now that mtn can still give you recorded conversation ... you no do anything

i'm sorry for you bro, you have lost your respect already, no marriage can work when a lady doesn't value you.

did you read where they said nigerians, lagos and ibadan are their largest customers... that alone is a red flag . which elon musk. the exit of elon musk is what made crypto down till today. you better don't put your entire investment into it.

i'm not fighting with you o, its just a simple advise. And don't try to explain it to me , i'm woke , i'm a tech guy.

trappatoni:
Na mumu you be...America that is trying their utmost best to regulate the trillion dollar crypto industry...an industry that Elon Musk and other richest men are heavily involved in...be living in the dark ages...I pity you really SMH

i like this song, someone wrote it for him

i know one day you will be positive in thinking . How can you not just appreciate the man!!!!

Father4all:
Just to impress his female students

i have 22years , these ones can't do you wrong again, they have done the worse. you can't live with them , you can't live without them

if going to school is her dream , do it for humanity and not for your personal interest. meanwhile , make sure you keep one eye opened.
Also part-time is a good option, school is overrated, you will enjoy her more if she does personal business while taking care of the home, normally both parent should not work 8-5

the roads are not safe anymore

ASAPFERG1:
Instead of airport, build industrial city

see as a man , if you are not coming , you are going. the millions of sperm you generate every second , where will you be packing them. you better go and marry.

hmm this is very deep, if reincarnation is true then there's high tendency that the heaven we all glamour for is on this earth. with proper documentations of scientific discoveries century after century, its clear that with time every dead soul will always find there way back to life and be a part of the continuation of these huge scientific discoveries.

With time there will be solution to aging. Aging is a deceases just like every other deceases and one day it will be cured and people won't die short when they are at the peak of their spirituality so with time we will have a better way to communicate directly with God while solving other deeper life mysteries.

please don't tell him , haba! , you can't keep simple secret... you want to ruin his home ?

advanceDNA:
Should we tell him?

i can't remember any girl named tao honestly mention the name , lets not spoil this trend for ops , i'll send you pm

Blupen969:
Don't be scared kola i know you miss her everyday

honestly

Blupen969:
Lols, like your mom abi?

the way you call that kola self , this person know well

Blupen969:
Lols use google kola that's 'the way' forward now

lol , interesting , but i'm not the only one bearing kola though. and what's the meaning of tao

Blupen969:
You may not know me kola but i know that you have been blessed by tao.......

lol increase what ? who is this

Blupen969:
Koladata as you do for am tao go increase your own for you must!....because that is the law