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Yes ofcourse I didn't give her much attention, but the case was different coz i've always know her to be a decent lady right from childhood and now she's 32, I understand your point, we shouldn't glorify this cheating ladies but what does ops expect from the next relationship. Almost all of them cheats and even the real cheater will never get caught, they are soo smart about it.

Akinbahm:
He should fucking dump his sorry ass for better man out there, let's shun cheating irrespective of the gender...

Probably, she has test run few d°cks b4 she got married only for her to settle for looks & monetary benefits without considering s3x...

I'm imploring you to neglect her messages or even block her sorry ass dont let her to kobalise you...

If it was the lady that caught him now , what would you say? besides do you know what your wife or girlfriend do, a married woman whatsap me yesterday, she use to be a childhood friend, she was using style to ask me for sex and complaining how she's no longer satisfy with her husband , i can show you evidence, just yesterday o, i'm not talking of 10years ago.

Akinbahm:
Baba, since they are all the same should we pray u find such woman into your life?

Since you are trying to justify the act of Hoelosho she committed/engaged in do you even know the psychological, emotional and physical effects of a cheating partner?

all you saying he should leave the lady, i'm sure you've never been in love before. Bro all of them are the same, this one is just lucky that you caught her. Please forgive her and move on if she still love you, marry her.

Nigerians a doing great across the globe , but we don't have leaders. this guy has never lost a single match

Yes they don't use those app i mention and many more , you have to use a vpn before you can access those app ask anybody in china

Crispels:
Do you know what you are saying? Most Chinese phones operate on Android platforms. Android is made by Google.

china doesn't use facebook, whatsap and google. They don't even use anything other than things produced in china, so why should any other country deal with them.

grandstar:
Is this right or wrong? I can't yet say but my instinct says it's wrong. The Japanese government should not give handouts for companies to leave China.

China would appreciate any country that stands with it in this time of calamity. Japan seems to have blatantly done the opposite as though taking the gloves off when there was no need to wear them in the first place.

Yes, China's land grabs has soured relations with Japan but that's another issue altogether. The true belligerent is China's head of state who has a conservative no nensense alienate-your-neighbours attitude to things.

I suspect once he's gone, China will return to its peaceful-rise policy which the present head has thrown out through the window.

it depends on who my son is, if my son is some kind of model with many tatoo then he will have my blessing.

I wish i could like your comment more than once

Righteousness89:
I Have said here That Chloroquine will work on people not Because it is Chloroquine but Because It involves President Donald John Trump...

There is a Serious war Going on.. The War Against the World Inhabitants!

President Trump is a Hinderance to what they wanna do..

From this week they are gonna unleash all sort of lies and propaganda against Trump. The Motive is to Ensure he is Not Re-elected! Almost all News Media have been selected for this ...

It's a Huge War. It's the Nwo and Globalist against vs Donald Trump, the Nationalist and those against The Nwo.

As The Believers Worldwide lift up our voice to Heaven. GOD Almighty the owner of Wisdom give Wisdom to president Trump to handle this affairs.

Don't say you are in Nigeria, it does not affect you.. They are not after President Trump, they are after you and I.

President Trump Presidency is a Mercy Period for the World...

Pray For President Trump

who is this one, too many mad people in this country i swear

RapistOnBail:

Please let's pray for president Muhammadu Buhari .

Kyari can Die.

hmmm they've seen what we can't see. its coming big

which scientist, do we have scientist in nigeria, they've eaten all the money to develop universities, awon oloriburuko

Its clear we are backward in science but i feel we can still contribute our quota to the development of the world by using natural medicine. I'm just thinking, we have great natural medicine doctors, we also have people who can consult some higher being, i mean all kind of spiritualist including native doctors, alfa pastors. If only they could come together to ask God for what herbs can be used for the covid 19 and i believe God will give a direction. There is no health issue without a cure. It will be big breakthrough for africans and we will be respected again.

We might never get science right because we are far behind and this first world country won't wait for us. But we can embrace what we already have. Please guys what do you think? its just my opinion no bashing please.

how much did they pay you. he's your daddy , he's not my own daddy[quote author= post=87684550]Nigeria will win this war as other nations of the world.




God bless our darling Daddy President Muhammadu Buhari and his AMIABLE Vice President PROF YEMI OSINBAJO as they are doing all they can to curtail this deadly virus all over our nation.

For the swines praying the virus should spread all over our darling nation,
so they can have something to celebrate and gloat about,
we won't wish them bad, we will only advice them to be very careful what they wish for, so that it won't start from their abodes.
Karma issa bad bitch!
(You will see such irritants quoting this comment now....watch out for the miserable 2 time losers! )




It is always good and refreshing to see that we still have reasonable members on this forum.
We know those that are with the President are more than the ones against him.
That could be the only reason he defeated their stealing gods twice, the first time unprecedented in the history of Nigeria.
God bless you all.
Nigeria will be great again in our lifetime.

Once again, God bless Nigeria.


A Very Big Amen.
God bless you too sir.
A better Nigeria is all we want.
Nigeria will be great again in our lifetime.
Once again,
God bless you and yours.
Stay blessed.[/quote]

you want to sleep with someone's wife.

Bro please use style to collect the phone , don't break up with her by word, use this method called ghosting. But make sure you collect that phone, you have a better chance to be respected and loved again if you collect the phone. And if she ask why, don't ever complain that she doesn't call you, its another way of bringing yourself down the more. Just tell her nothing. Move on bro, it doesn't take more than 2 weeks for a lady to fall for you, and if after all you've done she didn't love you then she will never ever love you.

PS. delete all her contacts from all your devices so that you won't be tempted to call.

Well said my brother , this is not the usual APC and PDP blame game, I was a buhari fan, i hate the man to the bone right now. This is not electric or road project that the useless snail has be dragging for years, just close the borders!!! just close the borders, i'm sure many nigerians already have this virus, just that we don't have good testing measures.

RandomVic:
Oga this is a matter of life and death! Not your usual APC, PDP nonsense. Rational governments around the world shut down schools with immediate effect whilst ours was dragging its feet leaving our borders open practically inviting the virus to our shores.

Even if they paid you to say this, why not consider the future generation, how can you call this a good leadership, how can?

Sweetamara2:
Good leadership

This is the reason your previous relationships never worked, men hate ladies that talks too much. Try to work on it, you will make a better sense if you learn to keep it simple

Leezah:
Choose. Your girlfriend has reason to feel the way she does and you know it.

Maybe.

2 out of 2 times I have ever been jealous of an ex boyfriend's friend (not with every ex boyfriend was this an issue) it was found out later that the female friend was indeed crushing on my boyfriend. Women unlike men tend to “read” people well, especially other women. When in love a woman's intuition especially tends to intensify. Then again so does her jealousy so this can be a tricky situation that requires some reflection and honesty with yourself and openness with your girlfriend.

Some of what made me feel jealous in these times was intuition, but some things I just simply understand by being a female myself and having many female friends. I knew certain subtle things females do when they like a guy and saw it. Even personally I crushed on guy friends before and some never suspected it. So it's definitely possible your girlfriend sees something you don't.

Anyways, aside from intuition and certain gestures i saw, I noticed that these 2 boyfriends would run to the female friend with all the problems we had as though she was his “refuge”. This is growing intimacy with your friend instead of your girlfriend and a BIG NO-NO. It would have been better that they went to an older and wiser man for counsel than to her.

Although you may go to your female friend for advice with other problems you should never ever come to her with relationship problems. Friends of the opposite shouldn't know all the intimate details of your relationship. As soon as you have a girlfriend this is the most immediate way in which your friendship to your friend should change. By you coming to her you are now showing her what sort of romantic partner you are and how “romantically compatible” you now are with her.

Women are weird. As soon as you deeply open up about these conditions of your heart, etc, we cant help but to at least wonder if we are romantically compatible especially since we come out the womb being relationship/love oriented. Unless you want your female friend trying to now question secretively if you and her are compatible its best you leave her in the dark about this “intimate” side of you or only expose this side of you when you are single. Also don't break up with your girlfriend and the next day run to your female about the issues. Especially in young love people break up then 2 months later are back together.

Overall allowing a female friend to see these aspects of you should be when you are single (via the title of being single and via emotionally being untied to anyone). Then and only then you should share your romantic/relationship characteristics with your opposite sexed friend and even then just know you are opening the strong possibility that this friend will now start qualifying and disqualifying you as a romantic partner. If you want female advice then ask older women but maybe not your mom or those who would have too much bias and too easily take your side. Maybe Nairaland could be good however take every answer with a grain of salt including my own.

Honestly relationships and determining what is acceptable and not acceptable is personal and takes personal reflection. You can't just take advice for everything.

I especially think in today's world with so many boys raised without fathers its not good to get all your relationship do's and don't from females. You shouldn't think like a female when dating a female. You should think like a man. For the most part men have to be more patient and giving in certain areas of relationships and women should be more patient in other areas.

Learning intimate relationships is not like learning to be politically correct or learning what's publicly proper. Although I do recommend reading relationship books from people who share your same vision of intimate relationships dating someone is the foundation in an intimate world you are creating and everyone is different in what they can accept or what they prefer. People's preferences in love ranges from the most traditional to the grotesque…

Meditate on what you want. Overall if this is a woman who fits every aspect of your vision of an intimate relationship than her opinion does matter. At the end of a day you and HER will be the main creators of a world between your walls and conforming to her in all aspects that's reasonably possible and vice versa is key in making a lasting relationship (keyword:reasonable).

Overall there are many questions you have to ask before you seek to end your friendship. In my own situation both of these boyfriends much later “confessed” that they deeply knew the female friend liked them since I first mentioned my jealousy but they thought it wasn't a big deal unless they fed into it.

Personally I felt these were feeding into it (again men don't tend to know the world of female emotion as well). Can you honestly and I mean SINCERELY look at all the encounters with your female friend say that beyond a shadow of a doubt this friend has absolutely, and I mean absolutely has no crush on you? Honestly not even her having a boyfriend matters. Having a boyfriend doesn't stop one from having basic human desires towards another. In divorce courts we see this clearly, so of course in simply dating we can't deny this simple fact of life.

Anywho, despite my own experiences, at the end of the day I would not say it's the best solution to always cut off the female friend just because your girlfriend is jealous especially without considering these things I mentioned.

Many times we date just to date and practice a long term commitment.

Look at everything mentioned here, reflect, keep intimate problems away from opposite sexed friend, and determine your motivation in dating the woman you're with. Is she practice or is she the one?
Is she seeing something you don't or is it jealous?
Is it every female friend and interaction that makes her jealous or is it just this one friend?
Is not conforming to her in this way worth risking a lifetime of not having her by your side?
Many questions to ask before you take any action.

name checkers be like "you are confusing us"

have they made any move ? have they seen it . i pray they pay ontime . i'm thinking you should sue them

Exactly my brother, the airline has done what government was meant to do, some even said why can't they stop flight going to usa, what's nigerian budget for corona virus, coz usa just released a huge budget for corona virus, i can't remember the figure but is billions. if it hits us big like itally, can we contend it? i even believe we already have lots of corona virus in africa / Nigeria, we just don't have the technicalities to confirm it, you might start hearing people die of fever soon, i don't pray for such though.

PAGAN9JA:
“Each time I want to fight for African rights, I use only one hand — because the other hand is busy trying to keep away Africans who are fighting me.”

- Benjamin Burombo

The Gods protect us.

28years old is naturally decent. she's still a virgin by determination, this set of people will never sleep with another man after marriage. 20 year old is just normal. she might be decent too, but you can't judge with the fact that she's a virgin at 20. But the 28 years is decent.

Yes they are my boys, they are both from my home town... meanwhile will smith loves his wife to fault while jeff bezos divorce his wife for a side chick/lover and he lost over 38billion usd on alimony which is more than Nigerian budget, that money is enough to buy an entire country and become their king(what i was trying to say is that , money won't mean anything when you are not inlove anymore contrary to what you said earlier that men respect their wife because they don't want to lose the marriage for some personal reasons, what can be more personal than 38billion usd, this money can even buy you salvation if you know the right angels)... love comes with respect

chinchonglee:
do you know who jeff bezos is
do you know will smith

you are confusing me

Jeweltz:
Sorry but you're wrong there. I'm a woman and I love men treating me right. But what I bold there is not really true.

what about Jeff Bezos (amazon) he divorced his wife regardless of the money he could loss and what about samson and delilah, he loved her till death. Most people don't really know how love works for a man, when a man finds that one woman, he's ready to give it all. What does losing money has to do with love, i'm sure you've never been in love, what most of you call love is actually something dictionary hasn't found a name for. Most men that don't believe in love and are not happily married usually leaves a mysterious life, don't go too far, just look around your street.

Omar09:
Hate to be the bearer of bad news. Most successful men are respectful to their wives because they don't wanna go through divorce! They are aware of the women they married and are not willing to let little things put them to divorce as they will be wrecked more and will become not so successful again. They just love their status.

PLEASE TAKE NOTE
BEING RESPECTFUL TO YOUR WIFE ISN'T A BAD THING IN FACT IT IS THE BEST FOR YOU AS A MARRIED MAN AND I SUPPORT BEING RESPECTFUL TO NOT JUST YOUR WIFE BUT YOURSELF AND ONE ANOTHER.

Do you have a clean record?

PUSSYHOE:
that's why I will never marry a woman that doesn't have a clean record. if I don't see I will stay single, get a baby mama.

and what about the girl that killed her self because of a guy? God will heal your broken heart, check the records of highly successful men in history, they respect their wife and are happy married, the way you are going, you might not even find a gay partner not to talk of wife.

snitchbitch:
@koladata withdraw all the money in your account, sell all your properties and give it all to women, since they are very precious and very valuable!!!

A guy jumped inside the lagoon because of his girlfriend, did you know what the girl used to store his number? Mat be it was "micro finance bank"
I pray that one day guys will open there eyes and see that ladies don't give a FXCK ABOUT THEM!!!

You are happy that you don't value women anymore... i pity you

bro I see nothing but a raw talent, you should be writing comics. don't waste the talent bro "chris rock" made is money from "everybody hate cris" , you should read about him. you have a gift, it came to me like a revelation , mail me pls , we can be friends , koladata@gmail.com

please give the migration code for airtel and glo, thanks alot

Please do you know any cheap call rate that I can migrate to? I always call my partner and it cost much. is there still mtn family and friends or something better or like I can pay a monthly fee.

Thanks

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