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send me a mail koladata@gmail.com there's one natural oral mixture i will have to explain to you on phone, it works like magic, i pray you see this

no

it doesn't mean he's referring to him self as God

i heard its ungodly, but i heard its sweet. Most sweet things are ungodly

never tried that shit , once money is attached to sex , i lose interest i don't know why

1. Sleep , no matter the challenges, when it is night , i will sleep .
2. I can't tell a lady i love her, except i mean it .

p.s for everybody shouting trustworthy, you can't make money if you are trustworthy. i'm not talking about scam or 419, even legal business requires some hyping.... at the end all na wash

do you have a job ?

Righteousness2:
Many of the things that humans do are Spirit controlled.

There are Spirits that could come on you and make you do things you would never have done with your clear eyes.

So Many today are victims of hasty decisions which they cannot understand how and why they took such decisions.

The times are dangerous! So many Spirits are in the air looking for any available space to enter.

Conciously put on the whole armors of GOD everyday as put out in Eph 6:13-18 so as not to be an instrument of what you can't understand.

the summary here is that he doesn't respect you and if you can fix this two things , he will respect you and consider marriage. 1. Try as much as you can to get a job, men respect woman that are working than other wise , just find something doing. 2. Try to distance yourself from him, get your own apartment, don't see him everyday , he will miss you. A man has not married you, you are already living with him, he will never consider marriage as an option.

make money

God when !!

why is the guy living with a lady he's not married to, the problem here is that he won't even have backup

bros you dey vex o ... lol, wetin happen

Ikomfreshest:
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she sang train wreck , lovely song

Drink Nescafe, the black one without sugar every morning, its good for the body and it will make you active all through the day.

this is clear evidence that both igbo , hausa and yoruba . we are all great people with one common problem... our government.

even inside nigeria , who does he compete with, i don't listen to his songs, all i hear is one mode, one voice and one melody

frankmoney:
real fact .... Outside Nigerian music who he wan compete with ?

yes you can, but don't make babies until the next 4years . then you will be 35 or 34, by then you would have saved enough, being married will reduce your cost of living and make you more focus, but having babies will increase it immediately. now you can rely on your wife's food, no more urgent 2k. and if your wife is working , you add it up to save for a better business.

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bukatyne:
Thank you.

Reference: this post is from a nairalander with user name : ogbonti , after reading his intelligent comment on this topic "The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama" , i feel his comment need to be a topic on it own and this is only for matured minds, though i prefer marriage but for those that won't find true love easily then baby mama is not a bad idea. Never make the mistake of spending the rest of your live with someone you don't truely love.


1. Some married guys here in America that I know don’t even get regular s ex from their wife anymore because they feel they got the man caged already and if he leaves her, (divorce) - then financial calamity will befall him with regards to alimony, child support, splitting the estate and other drag on here and there.

2. The nagging too na helele. I have had one or two friends just before the pandemic who were almost living with me - they come in on Friday and leave on Sunday just to escape an irritating and over entitled wife from running up their blood pressure unending. You need to see the excitement on their faces when they arrive my place for the weekend and my wife initially didn’t understand why these guys were doing this but with time she got the picture, and she even validated my conclusion about the awkward complacencies most women display after securing the marital vow from a man - “for better for worse - love and to cherish, till death do us part..... bla bla bla”

3. There is a reason some companies here in America and even in Nigeria seldom hire permanent staff. They hire on contract basis. Now, I know someone may say what’s the difference if both contract and permanent staff can both be fired. However, it is harder to fire a permanent staff without incurring legal and financial liabilities. Same with marriage, when you tie yourself up with legal complexities just to cling to one individual for life, then you must be ready to go through the headache to untangle yourself when things go sour, and it surely will over time - because every man has his price and every dog has it’s day!

4. It takes 2 people in agreement to get married, but it takes the consent of just 1 of the 2 to destroy everything. Any human being can change, over time - because change is the only constant thing in life - and every human being is a sucker for one or multiple things of life - only known to that individual.

For a man - some of us can not resist a very beautiful and brilliant woman. Now, when she is the one initiating flirts with you, it becomes a level playing field between her and your wife for the battle for your love, affection and attention. If the beautiful woman respects you, cooks good for you and doesn’t nag you as a side chic, then your wife is in for a real fight going forward because every man appreciates peace of mind and sweet food. If she is good in bed and your wife over time has become a boring, entitled and nagging sister at home, then calamity has come knocking on the marriage and a divorce is imminent.

Same for the woman, if she is a sucker for money, sweet talks, material things and good looks, but somehow got married because her biological clock was ticking and she is getting pressured at home to get married by her parents - then whatever is available (which is you becomes her dream man at that period) . However, when all dust settles and she is no longer on the edge about her biological clock because she now has a kid or 2, and a man who she exploits financially in a marriage, she is now in a vantage position to deploy “soul searching” screeners to find what which she truly want. Believe me, whenever she finds him and that person is a willing collaborator, she will turn 360 degrees against you. You will keep wondering what has gone wrong? Nothing went wrong foolish husband- your wife has been dealing with you as an alternative to her real dream man. Now she has found him and she sees you as a horrible mistake she urgently needs to correct.

5. Money, Royalty, Power, Fame or Religion can’t tame any partner in a marriage. We have seen that with Bill Gates, Micheal Jordan, Tiger Woods, Brad Pitt, Prince Charles of UK, Ooni of Ife Ojaja, Chris Okotie, Chris Oyakhilome and even Aso Rock’s own Aisha Buhari here in Nigeria where she feels very comfortable staying away from her husband in Dubai for half a year. So what are we not talking about ?


6. I honestly don’t believe a man will ever stay with one woman and not stray for maximum one year and I don’t believe a woman can be committed to one man and not stray for 2 years. If she is not straying then she must be an ugly and irritating sit-at-home-all-day lady that nobody wants. IF if he is not straying, he must be a dirt poor loner who lacks basic confidence to initiate and hold a conversation with a lady for even 30 minutes.


With all these being said, baby mama comes from the freedom it affords both parties (the man and the woman) to stop breathing on each other’s neck and give each other the space and opportunity to keep excelling without the suffocating complexities of an irritating spouse

And who says products from a baby mama can’t be great? Barack Obama is one, and he is one of the greatest black men to ever walk on the surface of the earth and a role model to hundreds of millions of people world wide. I know someone will say but his father married his mother - yes, they did just to take pictures lol, because the father was off before Barack even turned 3 years old and since then his (now late) mom and her family took care of him

So, OP stop propagating neediness, insecurity and lack of capacity for adults to stand their ground and hold on to face the vicissitudes of life because you want them to desperately cling to another human to bail them out with pity parties when life throws them a curve? nah- Instead I will encourage everyone to get on their A game and enjoy their life, independent of any other human being’s perpetual manipulation and psychological slavery.


As for kids born out of wedlock, they will be fine. A baby daddy can support the welfare of the kid as the spirit leads him because even kids you raise in a marriage sometimes will turn against the you their father and give priority to the mom when they grow up because right under your nose, the indoctrination was taking place whenever you are away to work and you didn’t even realize it


So baby mama or marriage is ok for anyone- it all depends on what you are comfortable with

its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .

indomie gen

yanabasee1:
Wetin him the sing weh e go get throat cancer....


Even davido weh him frog voice the give us nanger every time never get throat cancer, na gap teeth Sound sultan come get...

those rich are focused before they got divorced, all these small small movie we use as give away, all these unnecessary calls we make, all these heart breaks they make you lose focus in most cases.

Elporo:
Clown.

Marriage brings focus.

if you are not married , there's 90% tendency that you will die early , and there's is 50% chances that you won't be succeful in life because marriage brings about focus... i'm not married , but i did this personal research

its over 2000 years already , people don't even believe Jesus is coming again

this guy might have money and don't feel like eating, don't judge

don't ever marry because of money.... money can be boring when you finally have it , haven't you heard of many rich people die of depression. a very close relative made that mistake, she now drives very big hybrid car , but she's not happy , she would give everything right now to go back to someone she use to love without the money

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

another method to embezzle money. is this what we need at this moment