₦airaland Forum

dominique:
They should leave her alone to live her life as she deems fit. Everybody must not conform to society ideals. Some so-called married people can not remain faithful to their spouses, others abuse their partners physically, emotionally and psychologically. Marriage is not for everybody. If you know you cannot stick to marital vows, bikonu remain single.

dollytino4real:
why do men cheat? is like asking why is buhari sick or why do rat eats paper? it is in their blood from B.C

sarrki:
Agreed they are dumb on issue if ultimatum on our Igbo brothers and sisters

They should have issued it on ipob miscreants they will have the support of well meaning Nigeria

Oyindidi:
You go understand later in life

Bahddo:
if we all need cooking skills to survive, how come it is only women that have failed if they don't know how to cook? Also how come she hasn't died since we all need cooking skills to survive and she can't cook?

Bahddo:
You are still getting back to my point in the end. There are things more important than how good a woman is before the cooking pot; things so important that they can influence everything else. For example one's attitude towards work and learning.

Bahddo:
There are women who are good cooks but are lazy or would want to use denial of food (and sex) as a weapon. So yes, she can cook... How does that make her better than the one who isn't as good a cook but is very loving, loyal, respectful, and willing to work on herself?

I prefer to focus on the more important things.

Divay22:
They mistake has already been made, it's time to look for solutions... Let just say she wasn't opportune

Divay22:
And if she's open to learning?

Bahddo:
As for me, my wife's culinary skills would be only important because of the kids, and maybe for visitors. I am not a glutton and I don't need a woman before I can eat a good meal.

I sure am not marrying a lady just cos she can cook. Any foool can cook if they invest time into learning. There are more important things to look out for in relationships.

sarrki:
Wailers are problem

sarrki:
Wailers are problem

Ofemmanu1:
Sardaunna cursed the flatti., even Kanu called them eediots and pigs.
Yall should remember flatron region is a godforsaken marginallised potor area of the Niger, no teleco wants to enter into a hell hole.

NwaAmaikpe:


A wise woman should know that men are not domesticated.
She should have begged a female friend to fill in for her or gotten a young female help.

Men are wired to thrive outside the home front. Household chores are solely the responsibility of the wife.

A man might not be able to wash his own plates at home but he will toil and labour like a pig under the sun all day just to bring something back home.

Any man who washes dishes at home is a sîssy.


I dedicate my FTC to StephDamieola, Ishilove, Italianwine, YoungDaNaval and the new female househelp Ndifreke that I just got.
She's the true reason for my absence.

OmoEpe:
It seems this guy is set for a sucide mission by the way he keeps depleting his fan base even amongst the people he claims to be fighting for. That's the result of an illiterate and uninformed mind trying to wage what should essentially be an intellectual battle. His mental deficiencies are sure to condemn him to self destruction

slimjaney:
“I really can’t talk much on this but what I know is that it doesn’t apply only to Nollywood, it happens everywhere. The simple reason is that men don’t want to shoulder any responsibility, they prefer to father a child and leave the mother to shoulder the responsibility alone. Knowing they have a child is enough for them without caring for the child. They just don’t want to pay their bills.”

Freethought:
Does the bible allow Christians to take food from other religions and eat?

Rorachy:
If you know you are AS, don't wait till you start catching feelings till you find out about your partner's genotype to avoid stories that touches the heart.

Its something people with AS should always carry in mind.

thank God am AA, no worries .

RuthDaniels:
I take it that you did not get the clear meaning of my post and further explanation will make it seem like I support women hitting Men. So I will reason with you from a different perspective.

In additions to the questions I asked where I quoted you directly, The one you invaded.. I will ask you these

What is your own way of solving violence?
Are you " an eye for an eye" follower?
Do you engage in physical fights with people to drive home your point?

If you are the violent type, then I will understand why you reason the way you do. But it will be very hypocritical and weak of you if your sense of judgement is based only on genders. I.e if you fight only women.

That said, I still maintain that No one should hit anyone irrespective of their genders. I see everyone as human first before their sex!

RuthDaniels:
Op,the "If you hit a woman , you become less a man" isn't to cage or manipulate you but to elevate your thinking,self discipline and maturity in handling violence.

Women are known to sometimes act irrational, appalling,uncontrollable,Aggressive and Emotional, Some act before thinking. But it is expected of Man to act calmly when they are in their hypersensitive state. Not because he is a fool or because he is weak but for sanity sake.

Humans irrespective of genders must learn to control their reactions. No one is anyone's fool! Male or Female, act humanly! . It is very wrong to treat a fellow being badly and expect to be praised or ignored, When we see each other the way we see ourselves, we will treat one another nicely.
Sanity demands : In a tensed environment or situation, there must be two opposite reactions. One partner must be calm while the other foams else conflagration is set to occur.

tbliss22:
Bro, change that mind set please. I'm from the south west and I have been to the northern part of Nigeria even when Bokoharam is super hot.

Also to some major part of the East, after veiwing it all, I came to a realization that what is needed is a working blueprint that guarantee massive employment for average Nigerian youth.

When everyone is gainfully involved in a working system created by our government then no faction will think of breaking off. My brother, if we break off eventually with this same method of handling the system, these same Big Wigs will still be at the helm of affairs and the same process will still be maintained with each faction.