ePoster:
the news is all over.
If martinez39 or astrog or any other alpha male cared about ubunja they would have reached out to him rather than argue here trying to defend their bruised ego.

ePoster:
the news is all over.
If martinez39 or astrog or any other alpha male cared about ubunja they would have reached out to him rather than argue here trying to defend their bruised ego.

Gwilym:


The thing is, if men were really committed to following what religion and society has been prescribing for centuries...that good sex is best within marriage , and with your spouse...the idea of women sleeping around would not arise, because both sides would control themselves.

Also electing a corrupt free president means better economic polcies, which means more jobs, and less opportunity for rich men to prey on poor girls...and enough disposable incomes for young women not to be looking for rich sugar daddies.

Good night.

crafteck:


Recently a victim. Can't talk yet

ePoster:
is understanding simple english a problem? No ones hating ubunja. Answer the questions i asked you.
Did i post his details? No!
I want the redpillers to do whats right. Not for them to crucify him but to admit his actions were wrong.
Its black ignorance to follow a leader blindly. One of them should contact ubunja if they care rather than exonorate him here. Thats why our educational system is such a mess. Cause a student cant correct a teacher.

prince3009:


He clearly stated his intention of posting this because he wants to carry out the test on his child...why must you bring his parents into this?

I don't know why the issue of DNA itches the average Nigerian lady of today wherever it is mentioned! Cheats!!

AwkaetitiBabe:
A woman can stay for long without sex. Thinking about it? Well, we can fantasize and all, too bad the main stuff ain't always as mind blowing as the fantasy.

ubunja:
here is a piece of advice you didn't ask for.

If you were sexually abused, raped or any such thing, never never ever speak about it with a man you wish to get married to. If you value your success in marriage and your peace of mind and you don't want to be blackmailed in the future with that information KEEP THAT PAST BETWEEN YOU AND GOD. Heal and move on.

And this is one thing you seem not to understand. You say drug cartels etc get married after their deeds but why not prostitutes, here's your answer:

Because men bring money into the marriage, women bring the body. If that body has been compromised in any way, or corrupted or damaged then there's no deal. Remember drug cartels, yahoo boys, cultists come out of their operations loaded with money. Which is a plus. But a runs girls comes out with a broken body, wide open puna, saggy breast tasteless everything. The thing she must bring fresh to her fiance she's been giving to all and sundry. No self respecting man will stand for that.

holymarlian:
only God can understand women even women do not understand themselves.there is girl in my compound I have chyked her but she keeps forming Porsche worst part of it she thinks she is smart every time she borrows my phone to listen to music because she doesn't have a phone at the moment so she usually calls her boyfriend with my phone when am absent but I don't care because I have up to #6000 airtel bonus on my phone.i didn't bother since she is not using my airtime but something happened that shocked me to pieces our street did their carnival on the 29th and her boyfriend came my God! if you see the rugged looking and dirty guy with black igbo lips and yellow eyes this pretty girl calls her boyfriend Damn I am far better in looks, finance and social class I asked her friend once again if he is really her boyfriend she usually calls at night with my phone she said yes I was shocked I laughed so hard I had to leave the carnival right now I give up on chyking this girl because am disappointed. I cannot come and eat leftover from an agbero.

women are truly illogical as people always say in this forum they are not worth the stress because they don't know what they want and always end up making the wrong choice..

Martinez39:
Of course.

Martinez39:
Don't mind him. I know these girls very well.

strungup79:


You're wrong. It's not my mind telling me things. I'm not dumb cos that's what your statement suggests. Before the tables turned, we used to discuss issues, then she started trying to lord it over me using disrespectful language and coded insults. At this stage I was still bringing some finance. I complained and broached the issue of her changing attitude. Guess what - she told me exactly what you're saying, that I was imagining things because of my down turn. Then it became full blown disrespect. If it was stress of being the the bread winner why sideline me and go consulting her family over what concerns us. We used to discuss everything right down to her work. I'm not dumb or stupid. She just feels she has an upper hand and is trying to show it.

queenitee:

Get it, not her man’s friend. Is English that hard? She said “her friend invited me to a party and she got drunk and had sex with another friend, a mutual friend.” Her friend and her own mutual friend not her Fiancé. Really? I didn’t know English is this hard. And again, let’s say it was her fiance’s friend, ain’t we talking about the fact that she was devoid of common sense and simply do not know not to get drunk at parties? If we are going by this, it doesn’t make her wayward, it only makes her a victim of circumstance. And no one said the husband has to marry her, we are saying not to conclude she’s wayward due to what happened. And it’s said one learn from experience. If we are going by her being a victim of circumstance, she would have learnt her lesson not to get drunk at parties anymore to avoid a repeat of such unfortunate incident.

And what I mean by she hasn’t been caught cheating multiple times is that with her story(the getting drunk and picture part) and coupled with the fact that prior to the incident, it hasn’t been said that she has cheated on her fiancé before, but of course that’s for us. I’m not saying the fiancé should have her back because it’s not easy seeing pictures of someone else on your wife and it’s even better he let her go than getting married to her and hating her. I’m talking about we the public that we should give her the benefit of doubt and refrain from judging her.

queenitee:

Why do you people read and chose only the part that’s suitable for you? I said I didn’t excuse the Lady’s behavior neither did I say the guy isn’t right about cancelling the wedding. I’m simply saying you might be wrong with the fact that the lady is wayward. I’m saying you shouldn’t judge the lady based on what happened. Some people are dimwi.ts and simply lack common sense, it doesn’t make them bad or wayward, they just do what every human being with common sense won’t do. Even a prostitu.te with common sense won’t get drunk in a party. I’m not blaming the guy for cancelling the wedding. While someone might chose to forgive her, another might not. They are both right in their decisions, your decision depends on you and you alone. I’m saying don’t judge the lady because of this, don't be quick to conclude she’s wayward, she might simply be a victim of circumstance, what I said has nothing to do with the guy, we are talking about the lady here, the guy has done what he think is best for him and which w wall respect, why? Because he’s the one getting married to the lady and it’s better to call it off than marry the lady and start maltreating her because of this particular incidence and the fact that his ego was crushed. The lady is who I’m talking about here that the unfortunate incident shouldn’t lead to wrong conclusions about her, she might be simply just really be a victim. Rather she should be encouraged to grow up mentally and emotionally so she wouldn’t find herself in such unfortunate situation some other time.

queenitee:

It’s wayward and you people just talk. Didn’t you people read up there that she was drunk and it was even a set up? Cos pictures were taken and sent to her fiancé. I’m not saying that excuses the girl because why would you get drunk in a party that’s not yours? What even if the party is yours. You simply don’t get drunk in a party involving multitudes. It’s common sense. But some people are dimwi.ts, they simply do not have this common sense, the lady might not be wailward like you said up there, she might just be devoid of common sense and thus becoming a victim of circumstance. After all it wasn’t said that the husband has caught her cheating multiple times

Jodha:


My statistics are based on common knowledge and experience...the web will surely support my point...

Women are not slaves to their desires ...men are ...they totally lack control ... that's why most rape cases yhu see everywhere are MEN..

Women are coordinated and controlled being ....we have control over our bodies and won't do anything unless we want to...
Inability to say NO asin? Yhur points are not concrete and I don't get yhu at all...

I'm not saying women don't cheat...a very little few do...but it's not as bad as the case of men...

And remember that our society does not even support women to cheat at all....A woman that cheats is a LovePeddler and a lunatic...but men are always men and it's normal for them to cheat...
That's our society statuesque ...

SillyeRabbit:
Of what use is a man who can't take care of his woman's basic needs, parent or siblings when needed. Even when she can by herself, she still expects you to give her at times being the head. Pray you have money. Hustle and don't wrestle against nature.

Lamanii22:
All I have to say is that.. A man should be able to take care of his woman... But some people with funny usernames.. Which one is "ewureofAfrica" Like goat of Africa... So funny...

Asquare84:


Something similar like this happens to me in abuja, for those who are familiar with utako village primary School, it a hot bed for rapist, this is what happens some hausa boys saw a guy and a lady inside one of the classroom in the evening and assume the guy want to have sex with the lady, within a space of time the hausa guys took the lady boyfriend away living behind the lady next what I saw marveled me, the hausa guys strip the lady naked (about 30 guys cos the sleep in the primary School) and was taking the lady inside the classroom to rape her. That was how I intervene and was begging the hausa guys to spare the lady life, fortunately a police man came their and grab my hand that I was one of the people trying to rape her. Of all my plea to the policeman he only ask the lady is this guy among the people that want to rape you. Shock at the lady response " all of them join hand want rape me" knowing the implication of rape allegations na so I take call the police man and negotiate with 10,000 to take bail myself from that evening

912:


With every post you tend to expose how dysfunctional your family is.

Not everyone was born in a brothel

Please forgive your mother.

ichidodo:
You want to wife a hoe? What kinda simp are you? A power simp or Captain Save a Hoe?..Well the only reason for the hesitation from her is because you aren't in her retirement plan yet....give her time...after sucking and mounting dicks..

JONNYSPUTE:
..Yes you are right if you see at as blaming the man too. It is simply seen as THE IMMEDIATE AND REMOTE CAUSE of such acts.

1Sharon:


You don't need to be home to monitor anything. Just ask the maid questions

Look at the way she dresses

Look out for any new injuries

Look at her grooming and health

JONNYSPUTE:
.. See,most times what we are scared of comes to us. If in a marriage,the man is always scared of separation,or divorce and the wife is on the know,she will definitely use it against you because she knows you are jittery.But if your wife knows that you re ready for breakup at anytime,then she will always be careful with you.And again,when a man is not in control of his home due to lack of finance,stuffs like this can happen.I got married from a well to do family and when I noticed the influence my in-laws wanted to start having in my family,I banned them from coming to my house except on invitation.Be in control at all times and gain your respect.

JONNYSPUTE:
..Such scenario can't happen in my house because my wife knows the kind of person I'm.But let's assume it does happen that she starts accussing me of such,I will still stand my ground and let her bring on the beef. I won't even talk to her or try to beg her,I will inform her parents about it so she can explain to them how my being good to a maid whom we entrusted our kids to amount to sleeping with her. God help her she comes out to apologize if not,nwanne,that marriage na she go tire.