MichaelBukamzy:
You're having a meaningfull debate with these biitches to eighter educate them or learn from them next thing you would see is insults upon insults.they result to insults whenever they run short of valid points to back up their rants. What these bitches want from a nigga!!!

englishmart:
Are they the same? How come there's no other God but Allah?

SincereBigot:
no vex jare i just googled it.. please let every nairalander clap for messi its not easy

henry457:
As a friend and someone who has the experience, when a woman quit relationship, do not chase.let her be,otherwise d more u chase her d more she loses interest in you. Since you have tried your best by trying to talk some sence into her but she decline,let her go for good since she think ur relationship isn't worth it. Focus on developing yourself,if eventually she comes back,tell her you have forgiven her but you can't continue a relationship with her because your future and life is no longer safe with her. Send her back to that guy by telling her to go settle her conflict with him. Women are quick in making decision and quick in regretting their decision. Don't listen to her when she try to tell you she wasn't in her right state of mind when she let you go,her sence was very ok when she left you for that guy. Current she n d guy are in love bombing stage,soon the will be in reality stage. Thank your God for saving you.
Please remember my words "don't chase her and never accept her back" if you do d opposite,then have urself to blame

stanliwise:
You're buying the victim mindset the OP might be selling, what gives you the impression that the OP hand is clean.
person wey go don chop this girl punna for like 3 years na. Infact you have to pity the new Guy.
Op is not masculine enough in my opinion, if your girl isn't sticking around you again then it means you don't appear charming to her anymore.

Obinnaderek1:



Give her space, feel free and relate with other girl's if she sees you fine. Within 2-3 week's your babe will be back and better but if she doesn't, move on and be the best man you admire to be girl's with better attributes plenty out there.

stanliwise:
I don't understand, you mean the girl or the OP in question?

stanliwise:
oga this your talk was making so much sense o until the last paragraph,
So at the end of tbe day, it is to call her and make one boring long discussion again abi
The OP should go and gather money and value, make himself look like an attractive husband material.
[s] If the girl find him charming, she would come back and if she does, slowly and steadily let him do thing right. Make the Bold commitment of marriage. [/s]
If she doesn't not let him move on

EMPTY DISCUSSION IS JUST LIKE 10 MINUTE SEX, AFTER THE MOMENT, IT IS GONE.

safarigirl:
you can never know someone until marriage. You can date someone fot seven years and still rush out of marriage within a year


Years of courtship does not determine years of marriage and certainly does not determine knowledge of a partner

helinues:


If you trespass, you go tey or jail oo

helinues:


What are you afraid off? If my family members trespass let the law catch up on then...

helinues:
If he likes let him throw Javelin..

The law go soon pounce on him

id911:


Wike, I understand Patience Jonathan put you in power but greeting a woman with two hands is a no no for me. I can't do that for anything...nonsense!

sylvez:
You are actually stupid my guy...
I was once this stupid...
I experienced exactly the same thing you are experiencing now....
When i confronted her about one of the guys, she said how will i be asking her weda she is seeing a married man, that the man is a married man na!!!

To cut long story short, i love my woman but sometimes love is not just enough...

We didn't break up, three weeks ago she told me she will travel for a cousin's wedding...i didn't know she traveled for her traditional wedding....she sent me the pictures today and informed me that her white wedding is next weekend.

We never broke up!!!

All the while i was dating myself...It's so painful but you just have to let go....

She did all these to me when i needed her support for my professional exam coming up next tomorrow.

I loved her but see my life now

Mekenz:
are you pained? why calling him agafu?

Magnoliaa:



K.

Magnoliaa:


How? What are the "harmful effects of the equality of the sexes?" And how many women so far have been harmed by the movement?

Martinez39:
Women these days want to have it all. They want what they want and never want to take responsibility or be held accountable. They want to be 100% career women and 100% mothers. They want to be in control of the relationship and marriage. They want to rub shoulders with men in everything and even boss men. They think they do not need men. They invariably feel that degrees (MSc and PhD) are some sort of holy grails that would make them top women and the best thing to happen since slice bread. Despite all these toxicity and ego, they are hypocrites. They depend they men be the ones to pay and take the blame for every thing even though they are "strong independent woman."

lilwetdick:


the problem with foolish people is that they dont understand things then publicly come out to write their ignorance, thinking they are writing some wise comment.

let me educate you, men are not women and women are not men and communicate differently, a woman act differently from a man, if a woman goes silent because she expects a man to try to figure her mind out that is normal women behavior, nothing bad in that, that is femininity but trying to tell a man to break up with a woman just because of a childish behavior done by a woman is just damn stupid.

if a relationship is not one sided, the woman is loyal and supportive, i see no reason why a normal man will break up with a woman just for acting like a woman

next time get experience before writing your nonsense down.

SPOLO:



Her messages now was

Typing errors

She meant to say she have 4Given me and forgot all what happened..


Can u imagine such rough play

lilwetdick:


yes infact, i will take buhari , the deputy president and the three heads of the military plus the chied of defence staff and the head of the senate

all these online macho men writing shits with their online machoness in real life will do worst.

lilwetdick:


the one thing i hate is boys trying to be who they are not online, i wonder how you want a woman to behave, i guess like a man...online afa abeg go sleep.

as long as the relationship is not one sided, every damn man who have ever been in a relationship with a woman understand that teasing will take you far with her even real macho men understand this simple logic.

lilwetdick:
[s] it is funny how online machos and afa males and so called online keyboard red pills agitators are calling the op simp and other funny names, it shows many of them havent been with a woman before nor understand a woman psychology..i dont know if all these online agitators want women to be masculine and behave like men.

do they think you are dating your fellow man. the girl is acting like a feminine woman and she be treated as such

if she wants you to pet and tease her to be happy, i see nothing bad in that, that does not make you less of a man

just know that when she accepts your teasing, the make up sex will be sweet. [/s]

proxillin:


A male student is not bold to walk up to a lecturer to offer money.

But a lady who needs mark will intentionally wear cleavage bearing cloth and flash laps to the lecturer.

We know how it works.

proxillin:
Feminists and neutrals have always been complaining about bias and prejudice towards successful women. They argue that successful women are not well respected as their male counterparts.

Women are not appreciated based on their achievements (Wealth, Career or academic wise). This assertion is not on a general scale. We still have some feared/respected/appreciated women out there.

Personally, when I see a young lady in mini-skirt, suits jacket, high-heels shoe riding an exotic car to her office, I hardly respect them. This mentality of how did she get it sets in. There is this mentality of she must have cut corners using her body. She must have slept with one baba alaye/oga boss in her office etc.
However on the contrary, ladies like that might have got what they have through genuine hustling and ladder-climbing. Is it my fault to think low of her? Not totally my fault.

Life Experience
1. You hardly see any female student who has not slept with a lecturer or school staff to get one favour or the other while in school. While their male counterparts are struggling and burning candles, they are having it easy.

2. These same girls above (1) graduated and get into offices. E.g. There are 2 married ladies in my office in race for promotion. One got promoted twice in the past 2 years. We later discovered she is dating the MD. Her friend/colleague has started dating ED Marketing. They keep patronizing various hotels in Victoria Island. It got to a point when the ED wife came to confront them and created a scene at our office. These ladies makes me fear marriage.

3. A lady was seeking for redeployment to another location. She needed my friend to recommend her (My friend is her boss). She told my friend to name his price. My friend just told her to come to a hotel. She did and they had sex. Viola!
These are some of the reasons why the society rate women based on family they race and not wealth achievement. To them, a woman can easily get rich so far she can open her leg to all. But raising lovely kids and beautiful family is the best achievement a woman can achieve.

Who is really at fault?