Martinez39s:
I have already given a reason why single dads get a pass. If you don't understand, you are on your own.

Yen yen yen yen yen yen. Blah blah blah. What more do you know about me whom you have never met in person? I am curious. You have criticised people for resorting to ad hominem but here you are bothering on ad hominem, who is the real hypocrite? Let your pain out, say what you think of me without holding anything out as if my person has anything to do with the argument. you sound so bitter, who hurt you? Is it something I said?

Even though who I am in real life has no bearing on my argument, just go straight to the point and say that you think I am a broke, bitter, and frustrated nobody even though you have never met me in person. Go ahead, it's what your tongue is itching to say, isn't it? You have created threads condemning women that broke shame men but here you are being tempted to do the same to me. Just go ahead and satisfy that craving. You can just be a hypocrite for today.

SMH.

So it takes you this far for you to know what she really is.

Biafrareform:


Thanks. When I made this thread this morning , I was willing to let go. I knew what to get from here . Is just the obvious truth, Naija guys don't trust Naija babes again and they will say despicable things about them.

I know her well before we break up . I know what she can do. Is obvious she has really broken when we separated. Is her past.
Truth is she hasn't really given me any reason to think she is cheating on me .
I have called her already , we have talked and I will be there to help her fix whatever is bringing issues to us. I will be careful and more observant, if it can't work, I will walk away

Please go ahead and marry her and stop disturbing us.

Biafrareform:


Yea. I have always done that . I am willing to stand by her and correct her . I sees it as her past.

I just realised it takes a second for someone to change . I wasn't expecting her to remain the same after I left .

My issue is, will things remain the same after I told her my findings ?

My brother, just marry her and I promise you that we'll be here too to give you advice or read your own story how your 4 kids are not yours.

Bro, we got your back.

Funmmyastic:
What the woman did is terrible but this is too much.What am I even saying?99.787% of married Nigerian men are violent.

You can try this to a white man and see whether they won't be removing bullets in your body instead of teeth.

babyfaceafrica:
lolz.... Will not happen in 59 year

The bill can never be passed in Nigeria because Nigeria is not a Christian country that most of their men practice monogamous marriage, even some Nigerian Christians have more than 1 wife talk more of the alhajis in the south west and in the north. That law is dead on arrival.

If DNA is made compulsory today in Nigeria, hospital go full, either some men die of heart attack or some men get home and kill their wives or some men beat their wife to stupor. I sha know say hospital go full.

You want a woman to cheat on her husband and then get paid by her husband for cheating on him using the court.

You can move to the West and enjoy that stupid law, not in Nigeria.

"Women love their kids more than anything" is nothing but myth. Maybe the statement is only peculiar to women in previous centuries, not modern women. But going by the posts I'm reading here, some women won't mind selling their kids for 1500 naira and use it to buy suya without second thought.

A woman will abandon her kids and moves to another man's house to take care of another man's kids. Should we call this mental illness or civilization?

yeyeosoronga:


Probably the same reason he has female on his moniker when you know he is male.
He alone can answer why

There are females on nairaland using male moniker, so can you tell me what's their motive?
And people that are neither using M or F like me, can you tell us the motive of doing that?

yeyeosoronga:


There is not a single benefit.
What is however surprising is a true alpha male claiming to be who he is not. Some have even added female gender on their monikers, when we all know they are male.
A true alpha will not do that.
I will keep reiterating it, many do not know the meaning of an alpha personality.
Those on here shouting alfafa have been seriously hurt by a woman in the past, possibly due to their financial status and they are just lashing out and having grandiose ideas on NL. It's allowed to live your fantasy sha.
A trained psychologist will see through the bulls#it of what has been said, and most importantly what has been left unsaid.

Claiming who is not by saying he's from Zimbabwe when he's from Nigeria because Zimbabwe is more richer than Nigeria to the extent that they have one of the worst currencies in the world and also, they have the highest immigrants in South Africa (over 300,000 immigrants) because poverty wants to finish them for their country. He lied to be a Zimbabwean because a Zimbabwean is more respectable on nairaland or command respect in the whole world at large.

Abi is not the same Zimbabwe we are reading wierd news about them on nairaland. It seems like there's one Zimbabwe in Europe that you guys are talking about that I'm not aware of.

Why would he lie to be a Zimbabwean while he can achieve the same fit he's achieving being a Nigeria like hadon and ilengend. To me, him being a Zimbabwean is more susceptible to trolling than being a Nigerian because there are so many things to troll him with, so I see him being a Zimbabwean on nairaland as a setback because nairaland is toxic to external, even among ourselves; we don't accept each other. No be the same nairaland you de see afonja, aboki, nyanmiri, ya riba, etc, so na external we go accept. Go and ask Xhosa and one other girl from south Africa wetin Nigerians on nairaland use their eyes see. That Xhosa girl I no even see her break light again.

Let me tell you what don't know; people don't care about where he comes from. I first read his post in 2018, but I got to know he's from zimbabwe in 2019 likewise other people that might have read or will read his posts before they know where he comes ftom. So, I don't see where being a Zimbabwean add any benefit to his works.

So, why would he lie of being a Zimbabwean on a Nigerian forum? Is their any benefits like salary or stipend being given to a Zimbabwean on nairaland?

sexylassie:


The website (miseducations.com & miseducations.com.ng) is owned by FortPlus Solutions

who is the owner of Fortplus solutions, Gbenga Akinwole

who is Gbenga Akinwole, the so called Zimbawean Living in South africa

.

sexylassie:


The website (miseducations.com & miseducations.com.ng) is owned by FortPlus Solutions

who is the owner of Fortplus solutions, Gbenga Akinwole

who is Gbenga Akinwole, the so called Zimbawean Living in South africa

Thank you. Lol.
State one benefit of being a Zimbabwean on nairaland. Lol

sexylassie:


his state of origin is oyo state, from ibadan precisely

Agree.
So where is your evidence?

sexylassie:


There are still many whites in Zimbabwe, they live in secured environment and gated communities, 99.9% of users of Nairaland are Nigerians.

we could go on and argue all day, i did my own investigation on the man and got the necessary information.

That so called Zimbabwean is a Nigerian living in Nigeria, those stories of being a Zimbabwe living in south africa are just cover up stories

every information about him traces to a Nigerian called Gbenga Akinwole from Oyo state, ibadan precisely, he can continue to fool people that he is a Zimbabwean , smart people know that he is a Nigerian living in Nigeria.

LOL. He's no more from ojota; he's now from oyo ibadan.

All of them are looking for rich dude to date or marry when out of 100% of men in Nigeria 20% to 30% are rich, whereas 100% of women want to date or marry the 20% or 30% that are rich. If you see a rich dude and you think you are the only one admiring him or hitting on him, you are deceiving yourself. So, the rich dude wey you dey admire has a lot of girls on his neck.

Whenever you're hitting on a rich dude in your area, just see him as a champions league trophy because you are part of the 32 teams that are fighting for him, but one team will eventually win him. The funniest thing is that all the 32 teams may fight for the trophy (rich dude) on his bed, so get prepared by getting your pvssy in training sessions because one team (one girl) out of numerous teams (girls) will win the trophy (rich dude) It's survival of the fittest.

Petyprincess:
They shouldn't have disowned her,getting attracted to same sex is something out of their control also,especially when 95 percent of our guys are f**k boys!!

The guys that are gay are gay because 95% of girls are fvck girls. You are obviously a narrow minded person.

Oya, It's time to blame Naira Marley.

Trex4:
Medically I don't think it's possible for a vagina to expand because of too much sex. Remember babies are born from there and a progeny is certainly bigger than a peni. The woman just has a naturally wide vagina.

You mean if a girl fvcks 500 d!cks, her vagina will still be tight like a virgin girl.

Keep deceiving yourself.

baganas:

Since the beginning of the insurgency more than 200 mosques have been bombed and not a single church was bombed. Over 30,000 Muslims were killed, over a million is been displaced. All in all, less than 50 christians were killed. So, you don't have to worry about these, but Muslims are the victims here.

You de mind those religious bigots. Boko haram have been bombing mosques as far back as 2014, which was kano central mosque that claimed 120 lives.

What of twin bombs that happened 2018 in a market in Abuja and also another in a mosque in Mubi, Yola on the same day.

More than 80% of people in IDP are Muslims.

Respect55:
Some people actually thought I was harsh with the way I ended my relationship with my ex in the past, maybe u will have to retract ur steps after reading this.

For few days now, I have been having some issues with mtly atm card pin. Whenever I want to make withdrawal, the response will be, "maximum pin trial exceeded" whereas I haven't used the card at all. I thought it was network ish so I kept my cool. Normally, I would walk into the bank to withdraw.
Fastfoward to today, I decided to meet with customer care agents inside the bank to reset my pin. I went in, laid my complaint and the lady asked me to join others siting down till it gets to my turn. A familiar voice called me name and it was her. My ex. We exchanged pleasantries like nothing happened.

I didn't notice anything till she got up to be attended to when her time came. She was pregnant. I felt drained. Someone I thought I left a virgin, pregnant? I couldn't believe my eyes.
After sorting her issue out, she came back and sat down. At the far back inside Zenith bank along Psychiatric road.(For those of you in portharcourt).
It later got to my turn after a while and my pin was reseted and everything was cool as I found out later. I wanted to leave and she followed me. When we stepped outside the bank premises, she pleaded if I would excuse her. I did.
She asked if I'm surprised with what I'm seeing, I didn't answer. I was dumbfounded.
She just told me that there was nothing to explain to me me.
She: "There is no need trying to explain anything to you. All I'm saying is that I'm sorry and you should forgive me." She gave in to tears. I managed to keep my cool. "Don't do that" I managed to say to stop her from crying. Then I asked her where she is living to which she said she is still with her parents. "What of the owner of this" I asked making reference to her pregnancy to which she said it's the same guy I saw her with .
I asked why she isn't living with him ans she replied that he absconded when they found out she was pregnant.

I comforted her and tried leaving and she help my hand. I turned and she knelt down at the full glare of passer-bys. I managed to lift her up forcefully when she refused to stand up. We went back to the bank premises, i made a 5k withdrawal with mmy ATM card and gave her to assure her that I bear no grudges and she thanked me.

I tool another route even though we were meant to take same.

I feel pains

Thank your star that you didn't take her back and have sex with her like some people had advised you. In the next 6 to 7 months, you would have been taking care of someone else child.

Congratulations once more for being a real man.

GOFRONT:
Why should I be forced to marry a lady I did not Love??

But you love to shook prick inside her pvssy.

Tomide007:

U need to stop jumping on threads to reply pple who's replying another person.
....I know what the EU report says, and I know the Government has a lot to do, and in fact ain't doing anything....I'm talking of the military's capacity to defend soft spots...

They can't defend soft spots from boko haram, but they can rehabilitate captured boko haram and release them back to the society so that they can attack the soft spots they can't defend.

hollah123:
do u people read with your brains upside down, this man is trying to make u understand the lady lied to her in the first place which translates to breach of trust n also the fact that she seems more experience for an innocent looking church lady meaning the man is kinda worried he was played and d lady might b a repented gonzo who packaged herself for him

Me self shock with the responses here. I had to check the topic again to make sure I didn't mistakenly click on another topic.

ubunja:


https://www.nairaland.com/ubunja/

Lol. F moniker again. You don craze I swear.

ubunja:


https://www.nairaland.com/ubunja/

Lol

boiz2men:



I don't know about this guy and what he did..

But if someone accuses me online and argues vehemently....I will save them the stress and agree so they don't cough out their throat

They don't know he loves to play psychological game, especially with his haters.

If na me be the woman, I go instantly pluck the man's eyes and gladly go to jail.

abdulizom:
THE WRITER IS TO A LARGE ESTENT RIGHT, MY FRIEND TRAINED ANOTHER MAN'S SON TILL HIS 17TH YEAR BEFORE THE MOTHER REVEAL TO HIM THAT THE CHILD BELONG TO A CORPER WHO CAME TO SERVE IN MY AREA AT THE TIME.
THE CORPER WHO IS NOW A SPECIAL ASSISTANT TO ONE NIGER DELTA GOVERNOR, I WON'T MENTION THE STATE.
HE CAME FOR THE BOY JUST LAST YEAR, HE APPARENTLY KNOW, BUT WAITING FOR THE PERFECT TIME TO CLAIM HIS CHILD.
WITHOUT REMORSE THE BOY RUSH TO THE MORE FINANCIALLY STABLE FATHER.
IN SHORT, THEY'RE LEAVING TOGETHER NOW

You mean with the woman too?

If na me be ub.unja, na this time I go drop like 5 miseduction, so the traffic for my site will be tremendous when this thing still de hot.

quirus:


Virgin girls are meant for virgin boys only, they are not for playboys who have scattered their seeds everywhere.

You are wrong.

Broke girls are looking for rich guy to marry and no one sees nothing wrong in it. A non Virgin boy that has fvcked 500 girls still has right to look for a virgin girl to marry if it is what he desires.

As long as broke girls are looking to marry a rich dude, there's nothing wrong for a non virgin guy search for a virgin to marry.

The moment Meghan divorces Harry will be the end of him.

crafteck:

Naa... But cost me 600 to 700k.test is like 100 to 150k

It's better than training someone else child then after 20 years, you realize the child you spend on and sacrifice a lot for is not yours and that's when you might have reached the age of 50 or 55. Abeg where you wan start from again?

It's better now when you can count your loss and move on than later when your loss will drag you down and you won't be able to stand on your feet again because it's too late.