Dshocker: You are funny, Google the meaning of prenup.
If she had signed a prenup, then she wouldn't get a dime from their divorce.
And in America, you dare not hit your wife, because the laws of the land protects women and children more.
He acted wisely by recording his evidence and also not hitting his wife.
Lets assume you've lived in America for 20yrs and you were able to buy a house $10M, later you got married and had problems with her and you hit her, my brother you might lose 50% of your money, if not all to her and the house automatically goes to her.
Majority of those commenting are ignorant of the law here in the state. I live and can feel that man's pulse.
Bvlgari: The man is a smart man because all that including the attempt to hit him was captured on video. It will favor him in the end if he tenders this video as evidence of domestic violence
Exactly what am looking at too. The woman seems older than the guy. That's the bitter truth about settling down in foreign country with our African women. They want to go the way of foreign women and ended up frustrated,dejected and desperate.
Alexgman1: I and my colleague at work recently got romantic. Shes a single mum but she said it was a mistake. Four years ago her so called ex got her pregnant & told her to keep the baby but after a while he travelled and till date he hasn't return neither is his line going through. She later delivered the baby and with the help of her parent shes taking care of the child and hes going to school.
Now back to us. We got into a romantic relationship & she started disturbing me to sex her because its been years she did it. She came to sleep over one night & after so much romancing she pleaded that i should flex her that she cant endure any longer. I stood up & went to my jacket to get a packet of condom. When she saw it she was displeased & asked me not to use condom on her that she doesn't like it at all. I told her i have to use it because i am not ready to be a father yet. I told her i dont know how to withdraw. We both sat on the bed pleading to each other until she got fed up & slept off. She said i dont love her.
I can bet you that she has a big motive behind her actions that night. But guess what? You dodge a bullet real time,thank your stars �
waice6571: No matter how people try to paint Muslim/Muslim Ticket in Nigeria, it remains what it is; all shades of wrong!
I don't know why people are not asking the right questions....!
Why did Buhari chose Pst Tunde Bakare and Yemi Osinbajo... christians/pastors as his running mates to balance the equation while vying for the office of the president?
Why can't he choose Tinubu as his running mate in 2015 and try to sell Muslim/Muslim ticket to Nigerians?
Tinubu may lose the trust of the south and the north will cleverly withdraw their support for him some minutes to the election....
Someone should ask former president Goodluck Jonathan the taste of Northern betrayer....
You're very right on this.
Am praying that all this permutations should work in Obis favor
iiifedimma: In as much as am never one of his church member, what is bad is bad, they shouldn't have beat him. There's no any joy in losing a properties this country is getting worse
What was the need for beating him up? Was that part of the mission? This country can never learn. Was he resisting them from doing their job? Was there any prior order for evaluation? What is all this pls
What soludo did was totally wrong am not against him demolishing his church but ordered his men to humiliates, harassed and beat odumeje up is totally wrong..
Infact you have said everything i was about to say.
Yes people flout government rules and regulations and were meant to pay for it. But there are more civil ways to do this. Majority of those security guys are just high handed and maybe later the pastor will arrange his goons/ sympathizers for them unofficially and people will start crying foul.
DamnnNiggarr: My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.
So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.
That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.
Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?
chukel: the good thing about the new custom duty is that it makes newer cars cheaper. 2002 corolla pays 850k as duty same as 2013 corolla. 2019 Camry now pays a duty of 2.6m as against 4.2m before. So ur 2009 Benz has the same duty as 2019 Camry. But people crying will never say this.
dryakson: Very pathetic. Car of 2.5m 2 years ago is now 5.5m. Na this Emefele wan contest for president. God save us
You are right, I just paid 2.6m for clearing of ML 350 2009 benz today June 28 2022, and everything that took the car from US to Lagos was 3.010m. How do I sell and make any profit when capital is 5.610m .
kenzysmith: Good evening guys went to my ex wedding yesterday and I saw how happy her husband was I dance to congratulate them and as soon I shook hands with my ex I remember those nights she will beg me to sex her, I remember the styles I use her to learn, I remember how she gave me bj , I remember how I use to smack her ass when she use to give me doggy , I remember the countless time I have Bleep her then I burst into laughter the husband was impress and taught my laughter was joy and he thank me after I shook his hands why my ex shook her head towards the ground
I want to tender my apology for falling the wife brea....st drastically and the pu ...ss y I have handle with aggression I tender my apology to the unborn children for the brea...st I have su ck beyond repair am sorry they should forgive me
Islandlady: Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho
I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.
My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!
Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!
Confide in any of his relatives and let them do the job for you,with concrete evidence ooo.
Before some unknown gun men with kpai your friend because of pkekus wey no worth anything.
Danrochester: True issue bro. When I was in Nigeria I look like an average footballer. But over here I am seen as a Top Player, I really don’t know why
Where in Rochester are you, am in Minneapolis thats about 2hrs drive .
StrongandMighty: If this is true then southwest delegates must be made up of bunch of dafts and clowns!
How can you reject a sound man like Osibanjo who's eloquent and well learned for an old man? something is definitely wrong somewhere! This is not ordinary..
They're bunch of clowns,you're not far from the truth, I read somewhere that Ogun state delegates were given $25k each if true what do expect from my fish brains people.
julie90: I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.
Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.
Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.
I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.
I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.
This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.
Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious?
Follow your mind babe,that your guy is dream killer.
You will find someone better than him that will be willing to support your ambition also.
delzbaba: you comot for oyo come go settle for chicago south side? you no see better place like pensylvania or maryland go? dem never shoot ur yansh.
Its not that easy, the OP was a teenager at a time and hence can't decide where to stay when arriving here. Moreso,people who migrate tends to first arrive at where they have relatives in most cases,maybe that's there own case which i guess.
I'm always peeping on my neigbhours/friends unclothedness when ever they are taking their bath.
It all started six years ago during my ND in school, & up till now, i'm still living with it.
During my ND, there is no famale tenant that i didn't see her unclothedness to more than a million time, even when i went back for my HND, i did thesame thing.
I'm currently serving right now, and i'm still doing thesame thing here. I peep on my neigbhous and fellow corps member here.
I've been doing this for six years, and i've never being caught. Sometimes i ask God; why was i not being caught all those times in school, why didn't GOD want me to get caught.
I've tried every possible means to stop it, but all failed, even when i don't want to do it, my spirit will keep pushing me & if i don't do it at that time, i won't rest.
It seems i can't live without it.
I know someday i will be caught and embarrassed and get my pictures uploaded online for this crime.
I'm afraid, i need help.
You live in face me i slap you, thats why.
The antidote for such is rent a flat,you will be fine
A man has caused a stir by celebrating his birthday at a cemetery, IGBERETV reports.
The bizarre video which has gone viral on the internet and received mixed reactions, captured the birthday celebrant and his friends/loved ones celebrating at the cemetery in a community in Ghana.
Born2winnx: The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.
How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up. He won't see me there today.
When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.
I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too
Bros,wake up this is digital age.
They won't even feel your absence, go back to bed please and wake up when the party is over.
jackals: I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.
Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.
On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.
Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
Yes he probably have moved on to someone more serious and gives him the attention he wanted.
Insecurity: My Life At Risk For Sharing Same Detention Facility With IPOB Members, Terrorists – Disgraced ‘Super Cop’, Kyari Kyari disclosed this through his lawyer, Nureini Jimoh, while asking the Federal High Court in Abuja to review his bail application initially rejected.
Truvelisback: I love the drama in Polygamy. If A dey fumble or misbehave, u go just move to B until A head correct. It would bring competition btw the 2 wives on who to win ur heart and gain ur attention the most. It would also bring a quick adjustment in the way they behave.
You forgot to mention that ,it will hasten your insanity level