seunsiju: Even though she always warn me to be using condom, but i like it raw and sweet, couple of weeks ago, she is feeling sick and tired, and i sent her money for checkup, the news break my heart, the test shows she is three weeks pregnant! i want to denied the pregnancy based on say i read her chats on Whatsapp cheating and having sex with another guy, but deep down i know i responsible for this cos the date tally with the time we had last sex....we have agreed to abortion, but am scared it might go wrong.
Pls advice me Should i denied that i owned the pregnancy, cos i can back my claim up cos she cheated during that periosd or should we go for the abortion.
Pls am not ready to be a father to another kid!!! Help a depressed brother
You may deny it now,but just wait a little before DNA and the court will come knocking at your door.
OlujobaSamuel: I run a POS business, so put up a vacancy to fill a vacant post. On Tuesday, this lady called seeking to apply for the job, I told her I will get back to her on when to come. Friday afternoon, I gave her a call and asked if she was available on Saturday by 12noon, she said yes, so we had an appointment. 11:30am, she called to confirm the appointment, which I affirmed. Few minutes to 12noon, she called that she is in front of my shop, where am I? Which of my shops? I asked. Your shop here. Kindly describe the shop you are. A kiosk by a container, she answered. Ok, ask the lady there to tell you where you can find me(my location is close by) I can't find any lady, she responded, then hissed. Just ask anyone you can find there then. (Call dropped) (5mins later) She showed up, calling my number to confirm it's me. She came with a younger sibling, I gave the boy a stool to sit outside, while I told her to come in to sit. Good afternoon, I said. Afternoon (barely audible), she responded. What is your name? Bree Sound weird to me(never heard of it) Spell it. Showed me a Tattoo with the inscription BREE I pretended not seeing it, she said BREE. Still surprised, so I asked, where are you from. She was like, why ask, then answered; Anambra. Where do you live? She mentioned the street, but I'm not familiar with such street. What landmark is close by to your house? She seems not to know what I meant by landmark, so I rephrase, what popular place or house or individual is closed by? She said she doesn't know anywhere that she is new. How new? She couldn't answer. Who are you living with? Parents, Uncle, Aunt or who? (Why ask countenance), then she said Mum. I noticed a wedding ring, so I asked, are you married? Yes, she answered. Where is your husband? Why are you asking, she queried? I need to know, I answered. He is in the East, she responded. If your husband is in the East, how do you intend to cope working as a POS attendant, do you go visiting or he comes down? How is that your business? ( I shock) I wasn't so perturbed, so I asked, do you know the nature of the job? You tell me the nature of the job and I will know if I can do it or not. I can only tell you the job description/specification, you should know the nature of any job you are seeking for. I'm sorry, I can't take you. Kindly take your leave. NB: all the period I was chatting with her, she was chatting with her bro sitting outside intermittently about a movie. With so many side comments (her dialect) in respect to our discussion. Is it wrong of me to have judged her base on her attitude and gestures, or such should have been given an opportunity on the job first?
Mineralzz: Hello everyone. Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now
I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat
He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "
At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.
I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?
Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do .
I know you're angry but the best time and moment not suitable to make stupid decisions are you're in a rage of anger. Unless you're prepared for the consequences that will follow. Good luck
Zeal0000007: Pals just don't know what to think, here is it, my fiancee's sex libido increased rapidly than before, I work at sea returning back from work , the way my woman has been spinning during sex is disturbing. I know she must have missed me but she is not a very sexy driven person. This time around during sex, she can raised her legs up to her head, and its shocking, the way she moans its unbelievable, this time around she loves doggy style, like say tomorrow no dey, she wants to come up top me and alot more.
My imagination is trying to tell that she might be having it with someone that is very good in bed while I was away, pals this is giving me a lot of concern. Soon I will be going back in matter of days, from my observations since I came back I have not seen strange number calling her.
If she no do you come here complain, now she do you still come here come complain wetin you want self.
chrisxxx: Did you know that while Amaechi was at Daura an extreme town in Northern Nigeria being confered with a traditional title Dan Amanar of Daura that Governor Wike was at Akuku Toro in Kalabari Kingdom another extreme town in southern Nigeria being conferred with a traditional title The Se-Ibidabo 1 of Kalabari Kingdom? See pictures as attached.
Its like governor wike rub something black on his face? Abi,please correct me oooo
WBworldwide: I have been dating this girl for more than a year and she has been nice to me. But things hasn't been fair to me. She's an orphan, same thing as me.
I am a street boy and we are both in our final year in school. I made some money before she came into my life and then I went broke ever since, i am not blaming her or something but there are some things i can't share here about her.
So she travelled for the holiday for like three months now. She has changed, she told me her cousins are doing well and that their boyfriends' bought cars for them and that she has tried for me.
I really feel for her. That was one of the reasons I didn't want her to go home at first, negative influence. So, she told me she needed space that i have not been trying financially.
I told my friend and he said i should forget the girl for now. The thing is, I don't even blame her, I wouldn't stay with myself if I was her.
I'm just heart broken not being able to do anything.
I'm not simping o... Things are going well for me this period without her being here, i just feel for her that's all.
I'm a full stack hustler... I believe myself die... Even area believe me too
Oga face front she already smashing some dude out there. Count yourself lucky
thesicilian: The guy or his parents must be loaded.
Sometimes one or combination of both and or government money,that guy is a money bag for her,government paid alot of money to take care of the disabled and vulnerable adult here. So she doesn't have to do anything till she die and the group home will still take care of the guy without her lifting a finger,but she has the power of attorney over the guy.
There is this particular guy that I met on Facebook about two month ago in Facebook, we have been talking and he calls me almost everytime, he has tried to invite me to his house in osun state on different occasions but due to security issue I had to decline his invitation..
We planned to meet on Wednesday and he told me he was coming from osun state, so I told him to drop at Mr Biggs in Iwo Road Ibadan..
I stay at challenge so I had to #200 cab from there down to Iwo road, I was having about #1300 with me before leaving the house, I was already waiting for him for about 40minute before he showed up, he told me his car has fault and that he had to call his mechanic to fix the car for him, we sat down and talked.
During our discussion, he told me to please give him 1k to get something to drink, that he had forgotten his wallet in the car and his phone is off to make a transfer, I gave him and he ordered for soft drinks and meat pie..
Along the line, he told me he needed to make a call and requested for my phone so that he can direct the mechanic bringing down his car, I heard him calling and was directing the man down to Iwo road, all of a sudden he just went outside and before I could know it this guy has dissapeared with my phone and was just looking at him from afar..
I couldn't shout as I was just looking like a fool because I don't know what's happening, I waited for about 1hr thinking he has gone to pick the mechanic, I tried calling my number but was switched off, he has gone with my phone and I don't know his number off hand. I had use the #100 left with me to buy recharge card and was left with nothing.. It was a bitter experience for me as I had to trek all the way from Iwo road to Olorunsogo, When I couldn't continue with trekking I had to approach a lady to please help me out with #100 after explaining my situation to her and she gave me #500 and wished me well.
I thank God it was not more than this, he only went away with my phone, what if he had used me for ritual?
Please ladies be careful about the kind of guy you hang out with, always take your time to know the person you are moving out with..
I had learnt my lesson, and have handed him over to God .
celebritylife: A Nigerian lady, Zainab Abdulrauf has expressed disappointment with guys over the manner they lose concentration by mere physical appearance.
The lady made a video of herself fuming after some guys who came to patronize her mother’s market got distracted by her backside.
According to her, they came to her mom’s shop to get a couple of things and it was going all fine, but just as she was about to get their order the guys started making advances at her because of her back side.
benjackugo: A man has taken to Facebook to celebrate after his Canadian lover accepted his marriage proposal in Delta State, IGBERETV reports.
Announcing his engagement with the love of his life, the man revealed that she travelled all the way from Canada to give him a resounding YES.
The excited man shared several photos of the romantic moment of himself and his foreign lover. The woman who was also excited flaunted her engagement ring in the photo.
Rachel98: Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.
Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!
What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up. I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.
I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.
Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.
Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??
Be honest with yourself and answer my question. Are sure he loves you or your just one of his baby intimacy gadget? Get serious with your life and move as fast as you can before its too late.
Gbabe2: Maybe you were lucky. If for instance, the guy carry 5,000 usd and arrives at Dulles Airport without knowing anyone. It’s 12 F right now. It’s very very cold. The first thing is to arrange Uber or lyft and go bunk for one hotel. Minimum for this area is like 75 dollars. How many nights is the fella going to sleep without working before he depletes his savings of 5 k usd? Please don’t encourage people to embark journey without throwing out all information. Again, with your non-immigrant visa, don’t start your journey without having the full gist and options. America no be Nigeria. The cold itself can kill you if care is not taken.
My brother, because you don't know something doesn't meant its not possible. Its -12f now in Minneapolis so what are you saying, I don't Gerrit,I said earlier been brave and smart is key. Its very possible am talking base on personal experience, and this is cyber space,you don't expect me to yarn opkaka here anyhow,and its my sincere opinion too you don't have to believe me.
Kiddwavez: Can one travel to America without having any family or friends over there?
Good evening nairalanders, I'm seeking for y'all knowledge based on traveling overseas
I'm 26 years of age,I have ND certificate in Health Information Management and I willing to travel out of the country,it has been my dream to live in America but the issue is I neither have a family nor friends over there
Pls if any of you have any idea,I will be glad if y'all can enlighten me more about the procedure if it's possible to travel without having any relative or friends abroad.
Thanks
My answer is yes,you don't need too much money but you need to be brave,smart and disciplined to navigate through the terrain cos its tougher than naija.
Please I sincerely need your help in terms of advice and counselling.
I am a young man in my mid thirty, has a beautiful wife and 2 kids. I have about 32 staff working for me. Just recently, December to be precise I started developing an emotional attachment to one of my staff. I told her I want her to join me to see a movie and she said she was travelling and she won't be around but January was fine. I knew she was avoiding the outing so I bought a ticket to the movies and sent it to her she never showed up and I didn't call her until work resumed on January 4th and I asked why she didn't come for the movies and she apologise that she was busy.
I told her we can go see the movies now since she initially wanted January, she said she can't that she doesn't want to be seen with a married man, and besides my wife is nice to her and also she doesn't want any girl with her husband when she eventually gets married so she won't want to be with anyone's husband that I belong to someone else.
I told her I don't want sex from her, all I want is from her is a squish relationship. she practically turned it down that she can't because she will be hurt in the end because belong to someone else.
Honestly, I felt hurt because I truly love her. I am more emotionally drawn to her even more than before. We spend considerable time chatting every day and on phones in the evening till night after the day's job. She is not so comfortable spending time in my office as she told me the day I was not in the office everyone kept asking after the boss from her and she felt embarrassed and asked them why can't call to know why I am not in the office.
she said we should please remind her the way it is, just chatting and phone calls and she can't afford to be seen around with a married man.
I really love her and I feel hurt as she is turning me down. I wish I can stop loving her, I really don't know how to stop loving her as I really wish not to hurt her.
Please I need the mature minds here to help give workable suggestions.
please Move to front page
lala
You want us to validate your new cheating habit bah? Mba,we won't and you too dey lie oooo Charley, you left your beutiful wife at home come dey proclaim love for your staff,premium tears loading for you and your business no be curse oooo,just my brutal honest opinion walahi.
ChiomaCa: Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.
We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.
I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.
My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"
I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.
I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.
Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?
I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.
Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.
I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.
I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.
He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.
I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?
I live here too and I have seen too many of this scenario playing out daily among our folks. Try and arrange a family meeting and discuss the issue before its late,you might need to move on with your life before he will transmit an incurable disease to you all in the name of been religious. Marriage isn't a do or die affair.
A friend of mine called me 4 days ago that he received a text message from a strange number the message goes thus:
"You have been hiding and running this 2022 anywhere you are we will get you and we will shoot you and also gun you down try don't forget this word this date 10th Jan 2022...You can not hide till we get you. We will show u that to get money is not easy."
Immediately he got the message about 30 minutes after he received a WhatsApp text from another strange different number a lady sending him pictures of her trying to lure him into a business and for friendship please what should he do?
This my friend is an online business man and when I asked him he said he never had a deal with anyone involving money .
DukeofNL: See as this daredevils bandits are having field day on Zamfara high way as shared by a friend despite the fact that they have been proscribed.
This are just good citizens carrying out their business with respect to constituted authority. No be me talk am oooo na one mallam from kaduna ooo before you come for my head .
TheOgaBoss: yea, that is why I am having my reservations about this claim, even a low level developer will likely not make this mistake, however it is possible that there are some files that are not considered sensitive that they chose to store in s3, and if those were compromised the hacker may still claim to have penetrated nimc even though the files they got did not pose any security risk.
errigdee: if I could remember vividly last I had issues with pals concerning this same shit called NIN... how can u just come from no where develop a networking system in which u already have set your arrows which is already sharpened to be struck .... I tell em say all this na scams norms they send me all those their mumu texts now na same pantami don release info give RUSIAN hackers.... nawa ooo
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman: "Women Are Not Created For Men To Understand" (Video) by kunle75(m): 12:54pm On Feb 21, 2022
. Bree ko, Briana ni.