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MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

How old are you ?

happney65:
Iyalaya e lo finish . Oloshi

But who is Sadwest?

But Una get time sha!

Make all man Kuku advocate for regional govt na ,

The gbas gbos with tribe or religion sef is just too much and can cause serious issue nationally the way e dey go

slimjohn2k5:
Is his dog not barking and disturbing neighbors.

He could have spoken with pastor, or write them and if nothing done he writes the appropriate authority.

Abi o,

anything to take church down, you will see some people jumping up and down as if they won lottery or something or as if thats their core issue with naija.

Go to Alimosho and let me know if you go fit sleep between 4am and 6am

yeye and hypocrites everywhere

Bliss62:




If you have never handled a Riffle before you won't understand this woman is a bad ass... She handled the recoil like a pro


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You Sabi sumthin... I think say na only me observe am ..

She must be in the force , .

The confidence displayed with that weapon shows its normal for her

Nackzy:
See this unaware fool oooo

I was really hoping he would have gone to Daura quiet and never even make a comment ever about Nigeria.

but again this gives credence to the saying that they are blind and deaf to the realities on ground whilst in office then suddenly they start seeing and hearing when they leave the position

atiku4President:
AI generated lion and lioness.

even if , how will that reduce the price of bag of rice in Lagos?

Hmmm..

Make Una hope and wait for Lagos to have a true and sincere opposition to rule Lagos first , na there you go see rot ..

Some ancestors in the state house of assembly are culpable of some of all these issues ..

It's terrible !


Has Lagos state ever been audited by any independent body ?

and it made front page

Wike the Deputy President

APC.....


Hmmmmmmm

Woodshot:
In the US you would hear names like; JPMorgan Chase
Citigroup
Wells Fargo & Co
U.S. Bancorp
PNC Financial Services
Truist Financial Corporation
Goldman Sachs ...

But these Nigerian banks names would make me not put my money there

dem still dey put money for bank ni?

send your money message instead ... it may shock you know that even Mr Musk doesnt have 1 milla dolls for any bank ...

Olumighty123:
Now that you've revealed how much you've got, expect plenty emails from hyenas (Travel agents) trying to devour you. Be watchful and careful in your dealings.

you stated the obvious ..


@OP, go to Nairaland travel section, read , and dont be lazy reading bro, you must not even contribute, I am sure lots of people have passed thru this your phase before and you are likely to see testaments that fits exactly your current circumstance, you would get your answers there, Good luck to you.

so out of all the chellenging wahala in the kontree, this is the one most important

Nice

Lifted07:
I will never be poor in this life and in the eternal life to come.

Just be legit and put your trust COMPLETELY on your creator and work out your salvation.

Both requests would be a banker

chai!

I keep wondering for the past 8yrs what the works ministry did in the last administration.
I think its likely to be the worst!

I can recall how many times that bridge was closed because of repairs. I also remember vividly then that its better for Lagosians to feel the punishment now so they can fix it once and for all than face disaster. So what did they do?

She calls her family circle while you brought it to the whole world, I am sure she or her family members would likely read your post.

well done!

Akaegwu:
even if they spend millions to get and deal with her,I will appreciate it.

what about whats good for the goose?

make he no fall again o

Whatsa gwan ?


Employment should be based on merit !

Pay reasonable wages to drivers

Ensure periodic and compulsory checkups .


If the above can't be achieved, hand the biz to a private body with no tribal bias or whatever..

White meat I understand is better than red meat

Saviourplease:
Good evening house.

I am in a dilemma and I need advice on what to do.

A bit of background about myself: I am a 29 years only child from a very poor background. I work for an IT firm which i joined in 2019 as a graduate trainee.

My total income is around 490k (400k from main job, 90k from a writing side gig).

My challenge:
Recently, My host have told me to look for my accommodation and I have been searching for houses. Unfortunately, the places closer to my places of work is expensive.

I work in VI and the cheapest mini flat I have seen in close vicinity is 1.2M at Ajah.

I also have have a building project I am undertaking in the village that is at roofing stage and my parents have been pressuring me to settle down as the only child.

My dilemma is this, If i go for the house at Ajah, it will eat a bulk of my savings, thereby making it impossible for me to complete the building project or even start the process of settling down.

If I go for a cheaper but farer location, I will be spending more time in traffic.

Please, how do I manage this?

guy why must you do 1.2m levels for house?

if you are staying alone, get a self-contain even around surulere or lagos island and take advantage of the bus transit


and here is the advise proper.!

KNOW IT THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH MUCH MORE RESPONSIBLITIES LIKE MARRIED WITH CHILDREN AND YET THEIR MONTHLY INCOME DOES NOT AMOUNT TO HALF OF WHAT YOU ARE GETTING.

so brace up and let that be your motivation

Godoverevery:
Bro...... came back from church one Sunday and met an empty kitchen with some of my properties gone.

Guy I think you might need to check yourself before you wreck yourself.

Even though phone pressure from women are almost a normal these days , but if you smell desperation, move !

dem no dey hear o

Even though they saw Most of their parents and grandparents suffered from it in a different package of pool.

Now it's been rebranded as betting , given different names and sponsored by big companies with advertisment done by notable and supposedly responsible people for a catch .

If it's not about money , it's about women or girls

it doesnt mean anything

its the height of irresponsibility if you asked me

marenx:
This will affect mostly the innocent ones. Israel should suffer the terrorists only and spare the innocent.

And how do you do that when the terrorists are using the most vulnerable as cover or shield ?

Hospitals , children's homes , etc are used as launch pads.

It's outrightly insane,

I don't support whats tagged oppressive cohabitation of the Israelis on Gaza or Palestinians.

but this action by Hamas is not wise at all.

AllenSpencer:
Oh!

But its valid when they make statements about our national matters?


I hope you do keep same energy when foreign countries interfere in our national matters.

Guy you no dey smell the coffee about the state of naija globally?


There is no single respect or regard , worse off is within the sub region.

This is not about sovereignty or ya ya ya. It's just the fact. And it's quite sad.

those that accept offers like cups of rice or a cup of palmwine to sell their conscience are those in the middle of it.

to print the pictures then take them to the market and buy foodstuff abi no be so ?

He don chop breakfast las Las