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Are you sure this is the case? Cos i don't see the issue here o, i am sure facebook shows the date the comment was made except you skipped something cos me i don't understand this one at all.


If this is really true ,i think the best thing for you to do is to go and tell her people what is going on.if she was sure it was serious she should have told her family. You better travel down to her father's house and let them know what their daughter is up to.This lady needs to tell you the real reason cos this one nor follow at all.

In other words "what is good for the goose is good for the gander" . you cant allow jtf and hisbah in the north and talk trash about security outfit in the south west, its a clear bias but the FG . The federal government controller security outfits have refused to protect southerners from herdsmen infact they turn blind eye to attacks Carrie out by these blood suckers and now want to obstruct governors from setting up local security to protect their various states and people?


There seems to be an agenda by the federal govt to make southerners venerable to be attacked.The fg has been aware of preparations by governors to set up this security outfit and has been quiet only to now want to spit trash. Seems they suddenly realize it will be a threat to their agenda to distabilise the south under the guise of "farmers/herders clash".

I hope southerners are seeing the agenda,the govt will not protect you nor will they allow you to protect yourselves so they can leave you vulnerable to attack from herdsmen.

Men sha,no control over that rod in between their legs ,smh

ericsmith:
All these fronting applies @the tew early stage or when the gurl is really not into d guy .... for instance i met lilmissfavy online we got talkin, then we've had dates @ different public places.....why can't i invite her over to know my place,even if my interior motive is 99.9% sex how is it wrong especially when she has mouth to say NO. most of the gurls here are either immature or just hypocrites, suddenly you all are sounding like you naa no dey visit us. most gurls are not even sure of themselves when it comes to saying NO. i respect a standing NO n i know one when i hear it, most mature guys do.

That we have gone on dates is no ticket to sex , we have to talk about it,even with an ashawo ,you still have terms and conditions even if you are paying for it. I don't know about other people o,but i dont do "accidental sex" where it just happens which is why i feels its childish for a guy to use "come to my house " trick to have sex. Be a man and make your intentions known and i will tell you if we have gotten to that level or not. Like i said ,maybe i am just different unlike some people that can meet someone that day and have sex that same day even without condom . una well done o.

KingAzubuike:
I'm not a guy, I'm a woman and that doesn't mean I shouldn't say the truth

tell that to the birds bro. And like i said if its money for sex,lets scrap relationships ,simple.

KingAzubuike:
But you Sabi chop him money like say tomorrow no dey. Why are you ladies just so greedy

i knew it was a guy behind this moniker,lol.


If you want to pay for sex then can we scrap relationships so everyone will know its a trade by barter? Cos all this crap about "chop money" is over played.

Ariza:
Funny thread! Guys have suffered o.

But you know,if y'all don't turn every visit to sex rendezvous ladies would trust and visit more often without you wasting time, efforts or money. But the Nigerian society is so fvcked up that it's a common belief that visiting a guy in his house equates to getting intimate with him. And you guys keep aren't doing any better. Lol.




Preshy561 come and read this.

Honestly when the Nigerian guy says "come to my house" na to fvck o ,and this thread just proves it. See that one taking concuction so he can shift someone's womb like say he know road to her papa house. The very reason i usually ask a guy that tells me to come to his house 'if they are minting money at his house" lol .

However i do not approve the way ladies have been going about it, is it fear or shyness that will not make you pick your call and tell him you are not coming? Or even tell him straight up the first time he brings it up that you wont come. Ladies we need to do better, maybe thats why most guys feel i am blunt and they can't handle it. Me refusing to come to your house is not breaking any law so i will tell you straight up and if you start giving me attitude ,i delete you.Na my pussy and i will decide when to bring it to your house,not on your terms,if you want your terms ,go carry ashawo (for socially awkward men ).

May their union continue to grow stronger. Amen!

21 years wasted because you want to be tagged "diaspora based" .He could have come back and gone to another country if he was so keen on bearing the "diaspora" tag.smh

UDOKABESTLUV:
Hello, My Fellow Nairalander, What Will happen to the person, if he/she fail to pay Loan he/she borrowed From Loan App Company Because Of One Reason Or The Other.
I Need To Hear From You Guys!

except you dont intend to borrow any form of loan ever again under that BVN in this country . You will be blacklisted as a bad debtor.

cococandy:
People pretend they want folks to be happily married. But they are first to rejoice when marriages break up. Or assume they are lying when they state that they are still together. What a pathetic sad existence you have if your happiness comes from the idea that other are going through difficult times.
It must be a miserable kind of existence.

misery loves company,i was shocked at some people yesterday. It seemed as if they were aniticipating the divorce, why be so happy to see someone who does know of your existence or have not done anything bad to you have a broken home? Honestly ,it made me realize there are so many demons here on this forum.

I don't care if the rumors are true or not,i hope they pull through and come out strong ,a broken home is not what anyone should wish for another,thats witchcraft.

While i must commend the brothers for this i however have reservation about the durability of that road, i believe anything worth doing is worth doing well. I might not have enough knowledge about road construction but with what i am seeing i just hope this road withstands the coming rains.

A305:
If she was truly a prophetess and couldn't foresee her own betrayal or murder by one of her own. Then, it's self contradictory who she really is and what she does for a living.

was about to say same thing.

Anyway to each his own, not every one likes loud weddings, but from your write up money constraint was the reason you had to go for what you can afford.people who can afford a loud wedding and actually went for it and they if they know it wont break their bank account all well and good.

The koko there is "cut your cloth according to your material",you cant have one yard and want to sew agbada.some people go all out to borrow just to fund their wedding which is crazy.

Personally i am a beach wedding kind of person,would rather use the money to fund an expensive honey moon. Heaven will not fall if i go to maldives for honey moon will it? So like i said to each his own.

Bottom line "nor go dey do pass you self". Do as your pocket reach.

adonainana:
This does not work

This only notifies the bank that the transaction may be suscpicious, the bank cannot freeze the scammers account or plac his account on hold. It would only compell it to investigate which may take weeks or months or even years.

The correct thing to do when you have been scammed is the following:
1. Screenshot all the evidence as the OP told you
2.Go to your local Magistrate Court and High court and swear an affidavit as to what happened
3.Apply to a magistrate for an order for the account to be placed on hold
Only a Court of competent jusridction can freeze bank accounts in Nigeria ( Your bank cannot freeze an account unless there is a court order to freeze it )
4.If you are successful with the court order, take it to the bank where the bank would place the scammers account on hold until he comes up with an explanation as to how he got the funds
5. If the SCAMMER has a very sound background, he would go to his local magistrate for the Order to be vacated

AND

1. So in order not to give the Scammer a chance especially if its a lot of money and it is paining you too much
2. Print out in colour copies of the chats, transactions etc the OP sent to you and send write a PETITION TO either ICPC or EFCC
3. Send the evidence and the petition to this email info@efccnigeria.org
4. Try to let you petition include whats called a written submission or a bundle of evidence, perhaps get a lawyer to write it for you.
5. This way it doesnt give who is going to read it headache
6. To help try to include the offences the scammer has commited such as ADVANCED FEE FRAUD, etc
7. Effc have a duty to investigate and they will promptly get back to you
8. Even cases of 100,000 naira and below the EFCC have invesitigated and prosecuted the culprit so dont be discouraged by the amount

If you use this double combo to fight the scammer

Trust me you will get a result or the right punishment for the scammer whether or not he has spent your money
Please contact me should you need any further information

Regards

Samuel Eluyefa
(Barrister)

very help ,thanks, will bookmark his page

oyoolima:
Engagement Davido style Abi ?

Baby mama tinz ? Engage today,marry in 100 years.

You think it's every family that wants 9 month pregnant belly on wedding day or wedding blessing 10 years after baby drops.

I see you're looking for how to destroy her life ,stop her career and saddle her with a new baby while your own life goes on.

Madam is not ready to bring a baby into a poverty stricken lifestyle that's why she's wanting to pass her exams and start off her career.

Good she is thinking of herself and her future first.If things go bad, and you disappear, she will.have to put her life on hold to raise her child while you move on to the next.

If you were such a sanctimonious guy,you should have resisted sex before marriage but you were kpanshing raw.

Next time,use condoms to avoid stories that touch.

well said. You took the words out of my mouth. He has been dating her for four years with no plan in sight ,na now belle enter e wan dey form serious. Lol

Form what i can gather from this thread "most mouthed niaralanders are introverts in real life" ,

Please alert your parents too. Many old people are victims of these scammers now.

I am assuming the ex in question is her baby daddy, was she supposed to cut ties with the father of her child ? Was the man in question supposed to forget his child for you?

If you want to know the pros and cons of this baby mama baby daddy thing study the African american society . Anyway,i too avoid baby daddies like a plague so i wont tell you what to do but you should have anticipated that they will still keep in touch cos there is a child involved except the said ex is not the one she has a child for.

farem:
Stop calling everyone a Christian!

The guy is not a christian. He is just a social being who happens to come from an American or Christian family.

honestly its annoying that they do this every time ,just because he is American doesn't mean he is a Christian. Same way ignorant people here believe if you are not a Muslim automatically you are a Christian .

How fast she ditched that their masquarade dress they call hijab ,lol showing skin everywhere, even her wedding gown sef na out of the ordinary. This lady tasted freedom

The world has never been peaceful

OPTIMUSPRIME08:
KingAzubuike was the worst of them. When i say her post i simply left the thread, some no just get sense

its a he behind the moniker and the he is likely not from the east either. If you know you know.

Social media the only place people with low self esteem feel they can get their validation.

cRobo:
Nigeria is not an Islamic state

tell that to northerners who were busy burning US flaga and shouting death to America like the ret@rded terrorists they are.

safarigirl:
thank you

If some Nigerian men don't vilify women that are just going about their daily business, they will not rest.

How are we sure Chinedu's wealth is not proceeds of corruption money as well? Imagine dragging Genevieve and Nkoli into something they have no business in, as if anyone has ever given them accolades for their wealth.

It is only men that make legitimate money in Nigeria, all women sleep around for theirs.

The bolded is what nairaland boys say o.

Ranching is the only way to go. This is 2020,yet these people have refused to evolve,their lazy assess wait for farmers to cultivate their farmland so they can feed their cows with it.

I wonder what happened to the so called "vision 2020" . Blood sucking cow herders .

The govt knows the solution,but sentiments and tribalism will not let them do the right thing because the owners of the cows are their family and friends.

dominique:
I thought they said it was only women that maltreat little children. If this one can be this mean to his own flesh and blood, only God knows what he'll do to someone else's child in his custody.

exactly what i was about to say. The truth is men get away with maltreating children cos they usually call it "discipline".

Ladyhippolyta88:
You know what'sup

i have seen some ignorant comments here and i laugh ,it seems the royal family heard about his announcement just like everyone else. Just read the statement from the royal family reacting to Prince Harry's announcement.

Till date i suspect the royal family had something to do with princess Diana's death. I am glad Harry is wise enough to put his family first (his wife and kid). He broke all the rules of the royal family by marrying Megan , a divorcee and black for that matter ,lol Harry is really the son of his mother who would have be the undoing of the royal family hypocrisy had she lived longer.

Another reason i avoid dating very religious people , thats is how one refused CS for his wife because she must deliver like the Hebrew women like say he know road to where Hebrew people dey live , the wife died las las .

I knew it was only a matter of time. Anyway,it was a project,was never intended to be permanent. It has outlived its usefulness,in my opinion,it was a waste of resources.