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Viciheaka:
You didn't

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Thanks bro for remembering me. I also wish to say a merry Christmasand a prosperous new year in advance to all the wonderful people here. Martinez39,Ubunja,emmodet,iLegendd, Pocohantas,AstroG,Omar09,healthserve,Michellkabod2 Ladycewhy,lefulefu, fountainofyouth and to all my followers.May the blessings of God be upon us all in Jesus name. Amen.

Viciheaka:
Why why must you tear this young sensible gentleman into rags *laughs uncontrollably why anyway that's wat society is all about sex,sex,sex

ubunja:
Most men don't understand that being single for a woman doesn't mean not screwing around.

Truthwillout:
I am sorry but I am not interested in having more strangers curse and rail on me unjustly. This emotional upheaval is something I don't need. I will no longer respond to this thread. I'm leaving it all in God's hands. Thanks to all who are sincerely praying for the best for us. I wish you all peace.

uninspired07:
There’s really wisdom in hearing both sides of a dispute before passing judgment.

I think at this point, OP should not post any reply to the his wife’s response to this post. He should take the initiative as the man of the house to settle this in house. We don’t want strangers passing judgment on his wife—further exacerbating the problem.

Truthwillout:
I am Strungup79's wife and I have watched the drama here unfold in silence. Here is a copy of a message I just sent my husband on WhatsApp. I hope it will put things in clearer light.

I'll try to keep this brief. I started this year on a sour note, crying bitterly. Because of you total strangers called me bitch and all sorts of unprintable names. Some even went as far as saying I was diabolical and ¹reversed your fortunes with juju, and you basked in it all, all because of the lies you told them. You have repeatedly told your siblings the same lies. I emasculate you. Really? I emaaculate you yet i led my colleagues, our neighbours and practically everyone I know to believe that you are the breadwinner and doing a marvellous job. I emasculate you, yet when the rent needs to be paid, I pay it into your account first just so no one will know. I earn good money but no one knows it because everything goes into running this family. I don't save a dime. I NEVER complained about you not working these past 4 or 5 years. You complained about me spending a lot of time at my mum's place. I do that so that I can avoid the endless streams of alterations with you, and for other reasons I'll spare everyone here.

Every single time you bring this up, I reassure you that all I want is the best for you. I encourage you, fast and pray for you, yet I'm a bad wife. You actually called our daughter and told her I am a bad wife. She cried her eyes out when she told me all the nasty things you told her. I have never in the 10 years we've been married said anything disparaging to her about you despite your many short comings. You put me through hell and I just take in stride.

You also told your fans I had nothing when you married me. I had a job and I wasn't doing badly. In fact I practically funded our wedding with the help of my family. I could go on forever. Or is it the fact that you used to leave the house for days on end without communication, leaving me to wonder if you met with some misfortune or something. How many times did i show up at your office haggard and scared early in the morning just to confirm you are alright? I actually wear my younger sister's hand me downs just to save enough to keep this family going.

Your siblings all believe I am a bad person thanks to the endless lies you've told them and I've borne it all. During your last visit, you complained about the fact that I always seemed unhappy and heckled and I explained to you the stress I am under. Our rent is due. Our daughter's fees of over a hundred thousand needs to be paid. Utility bills, feeding...these are some of the burdens I have to deal with. I explained how burdened I felt. I also explained that having to clean up after you constantly worsens my stress. While you were here, I battled insomnia for almost two weeks straight, without compassion or help. I could fill a page with all that is wrong with this marriage. It's never you. You are perfect and righteous and I am a wicked woman. We quarrel like every husband and wife and regardless of whether it's my fault or not, I apologise so that peace will reign. I have suffered humiliation at your hands but you go around damaging my character so people will pity you. Guess what? The truth cannot be hidden. It may take time, but it will come out. I take solace in that.

I will beat my chest and tell you that no woman on this earth will bear what I bore at your hands or care for you like I have. Since you are so unhappy, I think you should take out time and find yourself. I also need time to pray and to heal from this emotional trauma, so please let's give ourselves a year at least to decide what to do next. I wish you the best.

eni4real:

Happy new year!!!

pocohantas:
People wey no well. He should better logout and go help the breadwinner of the home.

pocohantas:
-He doesn't have money.
-He doesn't want to do demeaning chores.
-He wants the wife to hustle for ALL the money and do demeaning chores when she gets back home tired.
-He wants to continue knacking the already tired wife with his God given big prick.

What is he?

A HUMAN DILDÔ

Only cougars want such.

LINTUNE:
OK o..if u say so,if u say u don't mind ,even if ur elder bro should be in the same shoe...alright

LINTUNE:
but u were saying something else,that's one thing about we humans, we are just too selfish, u advising a man to do demeaning home chores cos he lost his job recently and his wife just started providing,now u are saying u wouldnt want that for ur bro,even if he is in the OP's shoe,how selfish of u.pukes!

LINTUNE:
have heard u but I want to ask u a question,if ur elder bro was to be in the OP shoe,what would ur take be..what would be ur reaction when u went to visit ur bro,and saw him washing is wife's clothes ,and doing other chores such as ,cooking and sweeping the compound, simply becos he recently lost his job,and his wife is providing for the mean time...I need a honest answer

LINTUNE:
u mean he should do domestic chores like washing plates and washing his wife pants ...anyways at least u are more human than ur friend.. ..

budaatum:
I assumed everyone knows how to use their brain, and responded to almost everyone who mentioned me. Now I've learnt to just ignore the fools.

millionboi2:
which state are u

millionboi2:
I love u

Samuels90:
correct... Some people just type anyhow. You are Smart.

Switch07:
Sense know go kill you

DenreleDave:
Wow. I just showed this to Martinez39 Gf; Riele and she just changed to Pettyprincess, Ubunja life partner


Thanks so much Op

Okoroawusa:
It's the society we live in. Everybody is expected to get married n start a family. Well at 45, it's expected of him to be married with kids Everybody with his or her life story sha