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ednut1:
his family if he cant take care of them. Being raised by a wicked toxic mother is bad for the kids

If I had not seen an aunt starve her niece and nephew I would have been comfortable with the arrangement.

She may not necessarily be a bad mother to her kids no matter how toxic you may think she is.


On no account will I ever agree to a child being taken care of by anyone outside either of their parents. The only exception should be if they are orphans.

ednut1:
Get her arrested and take your kids abeg

Take the kids to who? His pregnant girlfriend? .

Brarrie:
Why

personal.

Sterope:
Your 'true life story' reads like a fiction

If I had not seen something similar I would have thought so too. Things are happening.

younglleo:
Love don dey shalaye dis brown teeth man!
It will end in tears!!!!

So much bitterness

Preciieux:
With all these Divorce flying in the air, Na to just hold my breathe when getting married so I don't sniff in the flu......

But how do you love someone, you start thinking you can't live without the person, next thing you start thinking you're better off without the person....

We die here Na my marriage slogan, Nobody go leave each other.....



No need to tie her, If she wants to leave, I'll follow her to where she's going to

lol the bolded reminds me of my aunt's husband. funny man

Draining.

Magnoliaa:
Nahhh. It should not really be surprising that he could spell that word. Na Wikipedia articles and PDFs dey save them. Quite a number of them misogynists can actually write well and are intelligent. I mean in the true sense of the word. But intelligence - or rather brilliance - does not translate to emotional/social maturity, empathy, open-mindedness, experience, etc.

The bolded is spot on.

Angelfrost:
I tire for the guy o.... Who even advertises sex on a food menu?!! Brothels don't even stoop that low.

Even went as far as creating a thread.... Whoever moved this to FP is either equally ignorant or wanted to embarrass the guy.

It's sad just how quickly he would demean people working hard to earn a living.

For someone that is literate enough to spell teetotaler , I am really disappointed that the misogyny in him didn't let him google the names of cocktails

The misogynistic demon in the op quickly unleashed itself.

Poor waitresses didn't know just how low one ignorant customer was rating them. Smh.

This is a case of devil dey shout blood of Jesus.

Till date uba is the only bank that their ATM machine has paid me fake #1000 note.scam bank!

femi4:
The new normal...They keep raising the next generation of Dowen cultists

so dowen cultists are from single homes ? Wow! Tell us more

If you can't find husband , atleast have a child that will call you mummy and celebrate you on mother's day.


After all they have said women are more than men, so women please create your own happiness.


I know the only reason for negative vibes regarding this is because the very foundation on which misogynists breathe is being shaken to it's core ,they wish right now their ancestors who didn't want women to even attend school would wake up from their graves and put a stop to all this. They hide under "this is Africa" to deflect their hate for women finding happiness left to them an unmarried woman should rather die single and alone than have a child to call her own.

Mteeeew.

"but unfortunately it was a baby girl she born".

Well, it's good she didn't give you the unfortunate baby girl.

I can understand the shock and pain this surrogacy must be giving to misogynists hiding under "this is Africa".They are shaken to their very core , a modern woman makes a smart move to be happy unfortunately it doesn't feel good to what their ancestors had taught them so it's not right heck some even see it as evil.

This is a woman who has been married before ,had series of miscarriages ,but that part is oblivious to them, they just want to sit and spew their ancestor's mentality in 2021( going to 2022).


Una go get heart ache tire ,she still has many frozen eggs. Women who have the funds should be smart like Ini. Even at 70 she can still bring out her eggs and make babies.Now thats what being a modern woman entails, being happy even if it means breaking all norms set by people from 1900 bc.

This fat transfer I must do am for this life ,na make I gather money first.

Judolisco:
U want amazon to comment with what?

I am more concerned about the kind of friends you seem to be attracting . One defrauds you the other snitches on you. Guy go wash your head with coconut water , you dey carry shlt wey dey attract flies.

How do people mistakenly have sex? .

shigishege:
But if at the supreme Court it's later proven that he is innocent of the charges brought against him and accordingly finally aquited at then he should be paid some compensations for the time he has spent wrongly in prison.

Mind you the child is still missing.

Impressive, she looks good.

EkehPraise:
Good evening dear Nairalanders,



I feel confused. How do I approach this issue?

update us on the situation. Has she finally picked your calls,did you see her in church? Have you seen your missing items?

pocohantas:
Congratulations to her!

I commend her for this move.

Dearest Naija women, this is 2021. If you want a child, no husband forthcoming, fck societal rules and get that child.

Even if it takes stealing sperm, steal it!

After all, they always use lux soap to waste it inside bathroom. Is it that 1 drop they gave you that will kill them?

Don’t stay and be asking “did you come inside?” at 38. Or drinking postinor 2 upandan.

Children would love you in good and bad. Dirty mummy, fat mummy, stretch marks mummy, mummy is mummy.

Don’t allow hypocritical Nigerians dictate how you live your life. Especially when you are not harming anyone.

co-signed.


Frozen eggs
Surrogacy
Now that's a smart modern woman.

Omniman:
I thought as much. You went all in with the trust thing. I can draw my conclusion. The more you trust, the severe the pain.

Trust is an integral part of human existence. It wasn't meant to be the bane of our relationships and interactions, humans made it so.

They no longer want to wait for God to reveal their spouses?

Omniman:
how did you find out?

did you see it?
were you told?

would you feel different depending on how you found out

seems the ancestors wanted me to not be kept in the dark anymore cos I was willing to beat my chest for him that he wasn't that type of person unfortunately I nearly loose that chest to pain .

Prior to that day till this day that was the only time I felt the need to check a person's phone. The strange part is I went for his tourch light phone.


Regardless of how one finds out,the pain doesn't get less, what determines the extent of the pain is how much trust and expectations you invested.

Omniman:
Have you been. CHeated on before

sure. Felt like a needle was pricking the left side of my chest.felt this very sharp pain for months.

Not Worth the stress. I prefer to lick my wounds, get better and move on. This doesn't seem healthy for one's mental health.

People I don't know usually greet me, seems alot of people look like me.

NoToPile:
Say what

A colleague was telling me she bought 4 liters 1,750 I shouted hian that last time I bought kerosene was around 125 from filling station and it was always drying quickly fiam the thing has dried up that's when most lost interest and gas was far cheaper.

Charcoal sef is now costly quarter bag is about 1150 and the bag is not full like before ( it didn't get to half of long cement bag)

Things are annoyingly pricey. Nawa.

my brother na so we see the situation. We have been cornered from every side.All alternatives has increased.