₦airaland Forum

Grandmeister:
This nairaland mujahideen masking as a Christian you never tire? What happened to your other gotv moniker? Na only nairaland newbies you fit deceive.

Lol .

It's actually funny that even from what is so glaring people still don't know a Muslim is behind that moniker . No wonder people still dey fall for ponzi till now, too many gullible people .

Pierocash:
A woman can earn more than man in the Western world and there will still be peace in the marriage.

In Nigeria here, a woman doesn't even need to earn more than the man before their ego begins to play out. Nigeria women believe that once they can be financially independent ,they don't need a man so they start acting rebellious and arrogant.

I tell myself,even if she earns more than me,I won't ask her a dime of her money,I will play my role without looking at her purse. By so doing, I will know if she is a supportive wife,or parasitic one

In that western world out of your biased mind you forgot to also tell us the men become house horsebands,men in that western world dont mind being home keepers while their wives work and bring in the money but here Nigerian men will still be walking around with their ten feet shoulder padded ego, na you as a wife go keep the home,fund am , submit ,pound yam and soup come still kneel down serve am food ontop. .

Una to funny for this obodo naija I swear. But the funny thing is Nigerian men have no issues being a house horseband outside Nigeria o, but na when dem dey the soil of Nigeria dem dey remember say their ancestors dey forbid am

Connected1:
This Kind of woman should not locate me abeg.

Ordinary Loan na be issue.

Some people just too wicked.

Even if the man was richer, at some point he would still need a loan from his wife sef.

Nigeria can never produce a true feminist abeg.

Even though she was richer, she was still a leech.

If you want loan go bank.If you want guarantor I go stand for you as a helper role wey God give me.

Life lessons , psychology even the ancestors have confirmed that it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for man to borrow money from his wife and pay back.


Since you call it a loan will you as a person be willing to sign the necessary documents before your wife gives you the "ordinary loans"?

As long as she is not neglecting her duty as a wife and helper. Na so my aunt take give her husband money wey e take go dey carry okpo for club , nonsense ingrates.

Mayflowa:
Rich men's wives don't do jack! There are lots of housemaid at home. The women are specialist at insulting one househelp to another and sometimes deny them food. So as a rich wife, you must provide househelp for your husband. It seems women want to see men suffer. Meanwhile we want to see our women glowing and stress-free.

She does her duty and still does his duty in the house too, e nor reach? Or you nor know say na wetin enter belle dey consume money pass?

The only time a man should have a problem with his wife earning more than him is when she neglects her duty as his wife.How submissive do you want her to be if she still does her duty and shoulders yours as well in the home? . Na helper she be ,or you don't know the meaning of helper again?

bjtinz:
Indeed. 75k latest Brazilian hair, manicure ati pedicure, latest shoes, bags, iphone 32, etc, which men regularly bankroll are all part of 'upkeep for the house abi'??

No need typing long stories. Seun has said it all.

No p me I will give him all that ,but will he cook for me and clean the house ,do home work for the children bath them while all I do is wake up in the morning take my bath and head straight to work where I earn money to give him to buga? Or make I too still do all that one join? I be robot? Person nor dey rest?this load nor too much like this so .


Seun is a person and is entitled to his opinion, a mortal like you and I . See as you dey make make am look like one supreme being don talk


And like I said, if it has to do with his financial upgrade and development ,sure,e go even help reduce the load.

Seun:
For whatever he needs. Men who are rich give money to their wives all the time. If a man is rich and never helps his wife financially I don't think the marriage would work, but it's usually not an issue because men are expected to provide for their wives. I think she was the defacto breadwinner but as a woman society had not equipped her for the role so she failed at it. The same goes for the man. I bet he didn't know how to use seduction to extract cash.

That is what the lady termed "living off" her. If he wants money to develop himself so he can upgrade yes to that but a grown man wanting to be given allowances,money for beer for himself and his friends, clothes and shoes to "gadge up" omo we go re- negotiate the roles.

If you give a woman money,she uses it to build the home cook for you ,take care of the house,you and the kids.

In this case the woman likely uses her money for the upkeep of the house.I cant be using my money to do all that and you still expecting me to give you to dey buga outside.

TarOrfeeek:



If I am a king and I mistakenly marry a Nigerian woman.

She will not stand beside me in picture. She will squat and I will cross my leg on her forehead.

Rubbish people.

these are the people that are supposed to be left wandering in the spirit world for eternity. All wombs are supposed to be closed to despicable vultures like you. Spits

Davash222:
Why are you crying, darling

oh shut up. Is your mother any better than anyone on this earth? .


Always scavenging like a vulture looking for threads to open your halitosis mouth and cast aspersions on women. Na womb wey born people like you I blame ,spits.


Go America go born the one wey go dey identify as table or ocean , nonsense agbaya.

Make una rest na 450k or no 450k, na solution op dey find.


Just "tap" from his blessings make oluwa pick your call if you feel intimidated. Simple .

Class- less.

Me and mosquitoes seem to have had a bad fall out in my past life. I can be in a gathering of people and I will be the only one feeling mosquito bites especially if my legs are exposed.

However my skin is very sensitive to new nets ,even if I air dry it for one week ,the very first time I use it , Lord help me ,I must react to it but I am not deterred, na nets go solve the quarrel wey me and mosquitoes for my past life for this current life.


So sleeping without nets is not an option for me.

Only flowers? As a birthday day gift? And with someone you are on a platonic level of relationship with .


Una go form enlightened, spits.

Mercychen:
Why invite someone to join you when you don't actually mean it?

Don't even try to condemn the guy because he didn't ask you for food. You invited him and he did nothing wrong by joining you. So, can't blame him knowing full well theres hunger in the land.
Who would see an opportunity to quench hunger this period and not jump at it?

If he was of the habit of dipping hands into your food uninvited, it would have been a different thing but that doesn't seem to be the case here. So

Abeg free the guy and stop calling him to join you.

some phrases are for formalities.

Come and join me
How are you?


They are not really meant by the person saying it. It's just formalities.

So most times, the replies are

Come and join me --- thank you
How are you? --- I'm fine .

She can now say "freedom at last!".


It would have surprised me if there were no traces of mismanagement of her finances, humans are predictable be it family or outsiders.

Test at what cost?


These are people not chickens , I hope when his children are among the victims he will still say the same thing. These useless politicians need to feel the pain of the masses to understand that they can't live in a cocoon and talk rubbish.

So una dey off light do, cos I don't know how he didn't notice your breasts and stomach has been through alot.

Fucklove:
4k you bitch

K.

Fall guy

Fucklove:
No dear. I opened that account when my heart got shattered by someone i loved with my last breath. Now i'm seeking for new love

K.

Fucklove:
Baby what wrong with the moniker?

It's ironic ,don't you think?

Fucklove:
I love you so much

with a moniker like that?

Dear op even if you arrest that guy, your sister will bail him out but don't loose courage.

Like some people have suggested , report him at the police station ,let it be on record that you did your best.

Midas01:
Lol, you Nigerian men have really warped minds tho. Whenever you're rejected by a lady you always conclude it's because you're broke, lol.

So carpenters, bricklayers, drivers, etc don't have wives? Lol.

The earlier you guys realize your attitude could be a huge problem, the better for you.

Thought I was the only one who noticed that. The way they rush to conclude a woman left them because they are broke one would then wonder the fate of bricklayers, bus drivers , mechanics etc but surprisingly I see these men with wives and children as well.


These Nigerian men will blame everything on Nigerian women, the sun doesn't shine ,it's Nigerian women, they have halitosis ,it has to be be fault of Nigerian women for not being tolerant, they have bad attitude and manners it has to be the fault of Nigerian women for not babying and fixing them (which by the way their massive ego will even furstrate the poor girl) ,infact if they could they would have blamed global warming on Nigerian women as well.


If this was a Lady with the op's case ,the comments will be different ,but some how these hateful misogynists have managed to blame the women instead of finding solution for the op. Some even asked the op to go and make money, forgetting that one of the ladies even gave op money for make set of chairs. A lady that did that for a guy just won't bounce if it wasn't that serious but to bitter shallow minded misogynists it just has to be the women's fault ,the op is a saint that should go and make money .

lavenjcrown:
Ok.. Lemme just believe that.
May we chat on WhatsApp 08027519290. For some talks.

Not interested in talks , thanks for the offer.

lavenjcrown:
How please?.

they will both take their toxicity to the next partners , mind you they have children( a lasting bond) together, their toxicity will keep pulling each other with two other people caught in the middle

It's good they keep their toxicity with each other.


If they separate, two more lives will be woven into this mess.

Rickmann:
Try to understand my post pls..
It still doesn't change the fact that Laura is trying so hard to be beautiful when she can't be...
One may just wonder what she will look like at Rita's age if she has been through all this processes already @ 33

K

Rickmann:
While Laura ikeji don finish herself with all sorts of reconstructive surgery at just 33, make she come see person wey don dey close to 50..

Beauty doesn't hide.
We know it when we see one.
Either you have it or you don't.

Shine on, Rita

And you think Rita hasn't done any at all?
Na who dem catch be thief or let's just say some people like to keep things private. .

tolakush92:
She was not at home when I cooked
I didn’t cook in her presence but her kid sister told her

Her kid sis is even around. I am guessing since your sis in-law wasn't around ,you cooked and ate alone , you nor even give your brother children inside from the food,abi?

justified007:
Thank you boss. I will set to work immediately

You better dont be lazy and go the the bank.

They asked the op valid questions but he has refused to answer.


Did you buy the ingredients yourself or you used the one in her kitchen?

Did you clean up after cooking ?

Did you cook for just yourself or the entire family?

When you were coming to the house,what did you bring just your bag or you bought bread and chin chin ?

Sometimes we only see the other person's reaction and not our actions that triggered it . Op answer these questions genuinely and you might just get the answer you seek.

It's cheap na, it's still big enough to be seen ,some places they don't sell #100 meat again it's #200 and above.