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Hmm! 1. That's kinda scary...Mayb it's true he keeps work stuff there. Question is, "What kind of work?" Don't tell me he won't want you to see a stethoscope or microscope. 2. I thought guys like admiring ladies' bodies. Am not convinced that he's shy. Op be careful...wish we c'd have a one-one chat. PrettyEmy: |
Don't leave him yet coz you haven't confirmed you are a sidechick. However, be ready for anything. Ask him when he'll be off duty. Once confirmed tell him you'd like to spend the day with him. If he agrees, don't spend the whole day in the house. You can go to a place that interests you. If possible go to an eatery close to where he lives or works. Read his body language; is he uneasy? This c'd be because he fears someone might see you. If he refuses to spend the day...your guess is as good as mine. Good luck. PrettyEmy: |
Op If I were you, I woul tell my wife and apologise profusely. I know it's not easy, but it's the easiest way out of this problem. In such situations, you could blame whatever can make your explanation easy including the devil or konji. If you don't tell her, you'll not have peace of mind. Each time you see your in-law talking to your wife, your heart will leap! He will keep asking for money and you might lack money for your own projects or to even feed your family. After telling your wife, know that her level of trust for you will diminish drastically. Remember she will know your main reason for telling her is because the brother knows. |
PrettyEmy:Could you elaborate on how he's acting weird? |
He's a doctor. Doctors take some days off. What does he do during these days? Does he have a side job? Has he invited you to his workplace? 1. Maybe he doesn't want to be seen with you. He's sure no one can see the 2 of you together at night. If that's the case, you are a side chick or he has another lady that comes first in his life. 2. Some people are workaholics. So he's only thinking about work. |
ronald4lif:True. Some of them believe they can 'buy' love or get any woman they want. |
angelTI: |
Steesaadiq:One can call out for advice, but yours is a little funny. There could be male doctors/spychologists or just guys who have good advice to give you. Calling on ladies only could mean something else. |
divine247:Op, you should be worried o! He's been collecting money and now he introduces you as his sister! When I first read, I thought that maybe your husband is married abroad so he didn't want his friend to know you are his wife. After you said he's been collecting money to get him a Nigerian woman to marry, another thought came. I thought maybe he wants to continue collecting his friend's money through you. However, you said he's angry. So this theory does not hold water. My advice: Talk to your husband. Let him tell you why he introduced you as his sister. Isn't he proud of having you as his wife? Tell him to talk to his friend and explain everything. Let him explain why he's been collecting money, yet he knows he's not going to do the assignment given to him. Friends are supposed to be there for each other, not to lie to each other. Your husband is ready to do anything for money, so careful. |
hotwax:So you want us to neglect ourselves so that you prove we have hole, abi? ![]() Why must you open their legs? Did someone hold a gun forcing you to open their legs? |
emusmith:I don change my mind... I no sabi English wella ![]() |
emusmith:I don withdraw already, so am not gonna tell you ![]() |
emusmith:Why u dey angry? No lady has ever given you a gift? Ok, I withdraw my gift. |
searching4love:The bolded part is just funny. ![]() Bros, sorry. Take heart. |
emusmith:Ofcourse na ![]() |
emusmith:Something that will not leave a hole in your pocket. Let it come from your heart o!What can I get you? ![]() |
*spreads mat* and waits for emusmith's surprise gift on Val. |
alberto2k:You're so funny ![]() Someone should wake u up at mid-night on 14th. |
Blackett:That's better ![]() |
searching4love:It's quite entertaining ...Did you create it for fun or to let out some anger/pain? |
Blackett:You're too harsh ![]() |
searching4love:Sorry. It was not my intention to insult you. Such things apply where I am, so I thought they apply in Nigeria too. |
searching4love:I just wanted to give you a possible solution to your search ![]() 1. If you go for a flashy or classy lady, make sure she is working or comes from a well to do family. Otherwise, you'll have to use your money to keep up her looks. And when she leaves, you'll feel scammed/used. 2. You can go for a moderate girl, i.e, not flashy/classy. Test her and see whether she loves you. If you like them flashy, after ascertaining that she loves you, you can go ahead and spoil her with money. 3. If a lady tells you she has a boyfriend, and you confirm it. Do not spend your money on her hoping that she will leave her boyfriend and come after you. He could be richer than you. If she eventually turns you down completely, again you will feel scammed. Oya with this advice, make sure you don't get scammed again. ![]() |
MzNelly:Don't mind him. He is a kid that doesn't understand anything. When he learns about biology in school, he will understand major functions of the body. |
searching4love:Have you tried those who are working? Those ones have their own money. |
ITbomb: |
seriousbabe:Congrats girl/boy! You just won yourself an award in being rude you know. Or should I say that has just increased the amount in your bank account. I am not moved at all by what you just typed. I know your type. They lack attention in real life, so they come to look for it online. Some of them are from disfunctional families and habour a lot of bitterness in their hearts. The only way to let it out, is to pour it on any person that crosses their path. Instead of wasting your time on cheap publicity on NL, why not do something that can earn you money? May God repair your broken heart and fill it with so much joy and love, so that when you interact with people you leave them feeling better. By the way, you wanted my attention,I have already noticed you. Dear i won't exchange with you because our thinking capacities are different. Peace. |
seriousbabe:I was waiting for this. You know action speaks louder than words. |
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