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Op, What happened to letting action speak for itself?
Must you tell her by mouth?

My advice: Since you already know telling her will make her faint, make yourself unavailable to her. Try to avoid her and see the outcome. She will understand that you are done.

Number 2&9

2. I don't like teddy bear; I really like flowers.
9. School fees? Hmm! Op, are you her father?

spicelady:
Please
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Please we need your attention here
Seriously

My dear, when you called I was away. I am too late?

johnydon22:
Dear tell us how you encountered him/her/it..

Was this encounter just in your mind?

Or did you actually perceive/encounter it/him/she in your conscious self (with your senses)

And thinking someone's disbelief is due to difficulties is totally wrong..

disbelief starts from question like How, why and seeking knowledge based on facts and not belief

Johnydon22,

I was talking to Frank317 because I can relate with what he's saying.

I have seen you copy paste several times that there is no god.
You asked whether I have encountered God, my answer is a solid YES. I have encountered God in a way that no human being can believe or understand. I know your next question will be prove that God exists...I don't want to engage in e-war with someone that might not be ready or open minded enough to reason with me.

I want you to know (I know you already know, so it's more of a reminder) that there are different levels of being.
Physical: You can see physical things like trees, stars, clouds etc. If told to prove that a tree exists, you would just point at a tree.

Emotional: These are feelings that cannot be seen, but they can be felt. You can prove the existence of feelings like pain, or joy easily through tears (for pain), laughter/smile (For joy), other feelings cannot be proven easily.

Mental/Psychological: It's all in the mind. Some mental conditions can be proven; while others cannot. For example, you can prove that someone, or a mad man has a mental problem because they talk crap or walk naked.

Spiritual: This affects the soul as opposed to physical, emotional, or mental state. Spiritual matters are difficult to explain or understand because we are all at different spiritual levels. Some people are high up there spiritually, while others are almost empty spiritually.

a) Let's start with evil. You have heard, even if you don't believe, about witches and/or witch doctors. They do exist. Some are more powerful than others. There are junior witch doctors who seek spiritual powers from seniour witch doctors. What does that tell you? They are not equal spiritually. Can you prove it by just looking at them? No. Does that mean spirituality does not exist? No. Just because you don't believe in something, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Think more about this.

b) Let's move to good. Before we move further, let me tell you that most things have opposites: good> evil, light>darkness, man>woman, heaven>earth etc. Because there are evil powers, there are also good powers. Evil powers are represented by Satan, and good powers are represented by God (You don't have to believe this, but that's how it is). Like I said earlier, there are different spiritual levels. At the bottom we have humans followed by angels, then God (If you've heard of the Holy Trinity, it represents God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit). One thing you need to understand is that humans cannot control God, i.e, when you ask God a question or when you ask Him to do something for you, He will do it at His own time/will. So if it's God will that He will reveal HImself to you, He will. Note: It is written that no one can see God and live. So don't expect to see Him in human form.


Finally, and the most important: Blasphemy is a sin, whether you believe in God or not.

CC emusan, 5minsmadness, Amhappy, Hiswordxray, tuagbo

P.S: I will not reply quotes about this post.

demelza:
I checked some online forums and saw some people saying Nelson Mandela would go to hell because he died a Buddhist. As a christian I understand that Jesus is the only way to heaven but.....
Can any christian here make me understand why inspite of his numerous good works on earth, our loving God will still have the heart to send such a person to hell just because he never knew Jesus?
Cant he grant some type of waiver?
Cant he at least look at the good Nelson did for his people and take that into consideration?
It looks so unfair and almost wicked.

The bible says "Do not judge."
Since when did the work of deciding whether a person goes to heaven or hell belong to human being?

frank317:
I am not surprised because this is someone who just assumes there is a man somewhere in the sky who loves him and even provide food for him. Assuming I am spiritually frustrated wouldnt be that hard for you would it?

Pls do me a favour... Just point out one of my posts that made you assume I am bitter, angry and frustrated.

Like Johnny said, I intend to go into intellectual argument with u but all you do jump the gun and run away with the exxuse that I am bitter, yet you can't quote one post that shows I am bitter.

I was having a discuss with you and I was simply telling you if the creator wants to reach or if he exists and communicates with me, I will know and would not doubt him. If the creator exists I will be too small not to follow his instructions when he wants me to. This is one reason I am sure that whoever you are worshiping in not the creator. I am yet to see anyone who had had contact with the creator hence my doubt of his existence.

You ran away from that discuss with an OK and went ahead to conclude I am bitter and spiritually frustrated.

If you have read my books you will understand I am not a shallow person. I am a very deep thinker and don't just take any information in without questioning. But to you that attitude means I am frustrated. You will like me better if I stop thinking and asking questions and just accept in your religion, something I find hilarious.

If you were following me in literature section, you would notice I was writing a story when my fiance died. Its one of the tragedies i went through. I went through the pain alone and it made me ask certain question about our existence. I discovered a lot and realized that religion is bullshit. And like I always saw... I am allergic to bullshit.

Frank3.16

Hi Frank,
I like the first bolded part. One day God will reveal Himself to you.
@ the second bolded part. I can relate with that. Sometimes, we go through very tough times that we doubt the existence of God. We ask ourselves, "If God trully exists, why did He allow it to happen?"

I did not quote you to prove how wrong, or right you are. I just want you to know that it's perfectly normal to feel how you are feeling. I hope one day you will encounter God, and you will believe that He trully exists.

Peace

Why are guys insulting the op?
The fact that you don't believe what she is saying doesn't mean it can't happen.

Creamish:
2 Nairaland females = All Nairaland females..


I give up..

Exactly.

Tallesty1:
Who did this to you?

Just 2 girls. Now he's convinced all NLers are like them.

diddydiva:
sincerely speaking am not fighting anyone.
she asked for my negative attention and I gave it.
that's all



thanks anyways

You're welcome. Don't get worked up because of this.
Cheers

I take this opportunity to reconcile seriousbabe and diddydiva.

From your posts you are both very annoyed with each other. I bet if you met right now, you would probably exchange blows.
I thought this thread was created to make people understand their faults/mannerisms that other NL users deem unsuitable, not to make enemies.

To both of you: Ask yourself, "Is it really worth my effort and time to continue arguing with the other person?"
I don't know the reason behind it, but you need to make peace.

Op, come and settle the matter between the ladies.
Why you dey start fire and leave the bush burning

Abeg no quote me o! I be like wounded lion Na joke, don't take me seriously.

*Modified*
I just discovered that you seriousbabe are the OP.

DDeliverer:
SMH SMH...

That moment when you realize both Nneka123 and seriousbabe are boys.

SMH SMH.

*Falls from mango tree*
Bros u sabi them?

There was thread on how to identify guys, maybe I should reread it.

Nneka123:
aww, so sweeet

You made me laugh really hard

fattybombom:
All NL girls...because they too dey form.

Hmm!

9jatatafo:
The man wants to recover all the money he was scammed from Kelly's inheritance

When he wakes up he won't know what happened to him.

People are just crazy...I shivered when I read that he removes his plasma twice a week, to be able to meet Kelly's expenses.
How on earth can you remove plasma to sell for someone's upkeep hoping to become a millionare If it were to help them with medical bills, fine, but upkeep!! That man needs flogging

On a serious note, he needs pschiatric help! He's delusional.

ifyalways:
How did they " marry in Nigeria" when they've never met?

I asked myself the same question. What shocked me was "Kelly lives with her attorney."

That man is greedy. At 53 he's still a learner...and to think that he's been scammed before

He looks like a lady in the pic with a pink top.
Well...it's his life and body.

Op the point about social media is not entirely correct. Some people post pictures to get attention or likes. Before you say am guilty...just know that you can't tell what's going on in my life based on social media.

Faibuhari:
my malawi, wetin dey hapn

Nothing happen...wetin be malawi? Me say na country.
How u dey dis morning?

He needs a walking stick.

Faibuhari:
no be only limited na PLC, all dis lagos girls wey dey do like say dem no dey kaka eh, una mata dey tire me, which nkoro u park make I touch your ministry

Fire on the mountain ministry. Welcome

Faibuhari:
u juX dey wake, u wan spread mat here, I siddon for corner nw dey reason ur mata here

I wanted to comment, but my pidgin is limited. Oya squeeze for me.

basty:
Seun has missed out allowing this kind of stuff on Nairaland. A reason Seen is not using G-wagon 2015.
Nairaland is not coordinated, posing rubbish. Linda Ikeji is more educating and entertaining. I am hating Nairaland by days, disgusting and bored.

Bros no one forced you to be on nairaland.

Warri people, you're so popular.

Op she wants to marry you because she has realized you've made it and you'll always be there to sort out her parent's financial problems.

Question is how sure are you that if she gets a richer man from her tribe she won't dump you?

Tymax:
Hey! What's the for?

Me sef don't know the meaning

Tymax:


You are good.

Thanks

mrkay101:
his money

You know she said, "Is he trying to buy me with his money? (I love him already)"

Op, just to be sure you really love him, ask yourself, "If this man lost all his money, woud I still be willing to be his wife?"

yemicoal:
Oh! Thanks newaiz ladyx I owe u one , real name if I may ask?

On NL, I prefer LadyX to my real name

mrkay101:
op sorry to say but I think he has already bought your love.. this guy has spent abt a million naira and more on u. tell me which reasonable naija girl won't love dat kind of man..

first of all find out if you would still love him if he lost all his money b4 u start thinking about marriage.

your just scared u might lose the luxury u enjoy from him and not the man himself.

and on the guys part o think the reason he hasn't talked abt marriage is maybe he wants to be sure if ur not just after he's money.

Well put. She's already in love with him.