You can understand his fears...
- You're saying all these things, it's still up to him to decide.
- You have big plans that you cannot currently fund nor contribute to (for example travelling abroad) and you don't understand why he's hesitant to keep his money with you?
- If saving is the issue, he can open a fixed deposit and keep his money there. I mean, it doesn't have to be with you, also, he'd be saving.
- Not putting it in your account shouldn't be the issue, find a workaround that offers him full control of his money and he still saves.
- Imagine you breakup, there's no assurance that he'll get it back. We've heard of cases where the lady would run or say the money is payment for all the sex.
- Lastly, encourage not hound him.

Goodluck

"Black don't crack" in the mud.

Moderna is in Nigeria.

Hushpuppy20:
What happened to astrazeneca ?=AmuEbule post=105848537]

Op. Why are you people so worried about Pfizer and Moderna vaccines when they are not even in Nigeria? Tell us about the yeye AstraZeneca vaccine they shipped to us.

This is very convenient. 7 tests "out of curiosity"?? She's holding out sensitive information. Let's be logical;
- Who selected the hospitals for the tests?
- Did she know anyone at those hospitals?
- Did she go alone?
- Where is her previous blood test results at birth/infancy??
- Have you gone back to those clinics (as well as others), for testing after the AS declaration??
- Most importantly, whose idea was it to get tested 7 times??

Answer these and you have the dots connecting. I'm suspecting the husband wrote this post out of genuine concern, so I'll say this; as a scientist, I'll tell you that what happened is ludicrous and downright suspicious. Investigate without emotion and don't be fooled into a compromise before you get to the bottom of things. Spouses who seemed trustworthy have sent innocent people to their ruin. Be wise!

You do know God is representative of a Supreme Being in every religion and it's an English word.

SUPERPACK:
Yes, we should also ask them why we have " God" in the national pledge since Nigeria is a secular country and not a christian country.

Some people talk in an uneducated manner. Stocks are down, prices of oil is down, yet, we choose to single bitc0in which has risen over 80k times it's original value since its inception. This thing we're calling a ponzi has an underlying technology called the bl0ckchain that backs it up. The general market for crypt0s is over $100bn and was almost $1trn this time last year.

It rises and falls like all good things but because we made an uninformed choice, we must blame. When it'll become bullish, you guys will still rush in. Why don't you attend actual seminars that will help you? I hosted one in Abuja in October/November. Go to google and youtube and research and come back and talk.

lazygal:



Shattap!

How about international trophy with his country?

sogud:


Nt al ladies , only wrong ladies cnt resist such physics......physics na fud abi na tru luv

No, "physics" na subject.

Me sef shock o

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We are all familiar with the friend zone which some ladies use to put guys in awkward positions, but perhaps we could learn a thing or two from this guy.

Nobody likes being rejected, but some people deal with it worse than others. In fact, some people can’t even cope with being rejected by somebody they aren’t even interested in! That’s what happened recently after a guy and a girl had a date together. The girl texted the guy (a Redditor named ToastedCookieOats ) the following day to tell him that she “didn’t see him as a romantic partner” but hoped that they could remain friends. The guy politely revealed that the feeling was mutual and…well…things escalated pretty quickly from there. Check out the full hilarious conversation below.
source: https://www.boredpanda.com/crazy-1st-date-reject/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=link&utm_campaign=cutencountry

cc lalasticlala

supersystemsnig:





Now this is the problem ... This generation has been lied to, with the notion of sexual compatibility, this never existed back in the 90s, but to make people drift off course, a seduction was required. The answers lies in the heart and not in the sexual organs. The heart because, the will of both individuals involved in the relationship is where the answer lies. If both individuals wish to honour God than pleasure ( DOn't forget the book of Ecclesiastes in this matter), both will honour God, have good sex lie, and won't be easily dissatisfied with lack of expectations, but too much experimentation brought this generation with a staunch fear that has perverted and contaminated people into a " fixed " state...where the fear of will he/she match my sexual prowess exists..


First, we need to deal with the fear, and deal with our hearts. If we have a God first approach, and God above other things, then we will be fine. So the answer lies in finding someone that has the same reverence with God as us, so the downsides can be complemented in our devotion to God and other areas.

If we truly love God, then the bedmatics won't take the front seat, we accord it.

If we truly want to honour God, then we would deny ourselves pleasure

If we truly are true to honest standards, being single should have impacted some lessons in self denial and restraint and control

If we truly want to honour God, and follow His standards, then we won't give this issue the level of concern we give it

Hope this helps

SMH for you, you talk like you knew everyone in the 90's..as far back as before Christ was born, brothels existed, if there was "sexual purity" as you claim, what were they used for. Sexual compatibility is a thing, ever heard of nymphs? nymphs were once virgins too (forgotten what a male nymph is called). What happens when a nymph marries someone with a low/zero drive for sex? How does the adjustment occur?? A virgin with erectile issues nko??

I am shocked by the ignorance of some, before the advent of missionaries, what happened to those who were married? When the early missionaries came, I hope you know they didn't do church marriage for those already married by custom? What if a fake pastor joins you? does that translate to formication still, even though you got married in a church but by a fake pastor?
Those quoting the Bible should understand that they are using perception not understanding.
Marriages of the law takes place in a registry, going by the logic of some, if you marry outside a church, like a mosque, does that tantamount to sin?
Before we give definitive statements, we should understand that the concept of marriage is a tradition.
I know of so many churches who invited couples who never did church marriage to attend their church functions, does that mean the churches are indulging "fornicators" as coined by some? Furthermore why does the church need to obtain a marriage certificate from a registry to consider a marriage valid? Before you say for legal reasons, remember the church is recognized, why can't they issue their own certificates? It is because marriages in the church are more like rituals or customs.

Some people earn 10k monthly. 1k tithe, 4k offering, 2k transportation, 1k data. Can 2k feed them for a whole month?

Ernestyn:

This same blessed man of God have touched lives. Recently he visited Sierra Leone after d mudslide and gave out foods and Clothings, he gives out scholarship and all that. Why can't u acknowledge that? Next thing u will say is for show or business strategy. Why are human beings insatiable and confused?
The same man was once very poor. So now let him enjoy.
Afterall am sure u using a phone worth close to hundred thousand naira but that same money u used to buy ur phone, it would go a long way to d poor and needy.
Don't judge blindly.

I am disappointed in your reasoning. the Bible said to remove the speck in your eye before the log in another man's eye. Nigeria is burning and he's giving relief to Sierra Leone, does that sound logical? How many times has he come out to call out a bad leader in the country directly? There are people in IDP's in our country, people suffering, orphaned children, children with no access to education, yet he's quelling the storm in another man's country. Why give out scholarships abroad when his school is one of the most expensive and a no go area? What if the person you are accusing of using an expensive phone is using a second hand phone of 10k? His poverty of before should humble him and make him see the need for affordability not the other way round.

ever heard this song called same girl?

clerkent:
bro are you my double ganger which earth are you on. well the funniest thing now is that she is living with another guy near my street.heard the guys are five in one flat.i don't blame her sha na her mama we de run from one man to another cause am.blood they said is thicker than water

Haaa you are a Lion!

tosyne2much:
I broke up with my ex because I made her understand that I want to remind a virgin till marriage yet she wouldn't just stop coercing me into sex, to the extent that she added something in my food and when I slept off, she started removing my boxers.. Today, I'm happy I'm out of that relationship

Now, I am happy I'm now dating a lady that respects my decision. We have been dating for more than three years now and no form of kissing or hugging let alone sex.

Mr counselor, please before rendering advice, get the total facts straight. You don't know what the mum passed through for him to get to where he is. When you love someone, you take the baggage with them, that is what a lady will tell you. Is his mum staying in his house? Does he deny her attention? Do you even know parents discuss marital issues with their married daughters, so what is different about the son discussing such with a parent? Am not saying your talk is pointless, am saying it's not totally right as circumstances also matter.

IdeyFindWife:
Losing his dad need not turn him into some vegetable-like mummy's boy, doing that is his own choice. He is overcompensating and you need not be the victim.

You need to embrace the possibility that his calling mom every other hour might make her a major factor in his, and your, decision-making dynamics for a long time to come? Hence, are you gonna be comfortable with knowing that it was 'mom' who practically handpicked the sexy loungerie he got you last Valentine OR that he discusses certain embarrassing intimacies of your lovelife with her? Wake up!!

Is he his own man? Does he own his own mind, faults, choices and victories? His plan for living, how much of mom's input is in that? You need to know because once you marry him. His reality becomes partly yours. So, if he is see in life through fragmented lenses, the sight might affect your viewpoint too.

Get qualified and strategic counseling and put your foot down in that relationship. Don't just marry that guy like that. Its normal, in fact, very cool to be close-to-mom but if you find out that he is on some arrested-development trip, fire his arss!

and so is Islam right?

Adeoba10:
Christianity is a scam....

akthedream:

WHY not Preach to your Lord nnamdi Kanu and his mannerless Igbos. Those in glass house shouldn't throw stones...

the image was photoshopped and the source na hungry blog...he never said such

vantage001:

Tell Palestinians to stop supporting the destruction of isreal and the launching of missiles into the isreali homelands to kill innocents. It makes it difficult for rational people like me to sympathize with them when Isreal inevitably hits back.
There is already a two-state solution on the ground, let them take it. Biafrans would gladly take that if offered.

Your comment gives me joy. People watch All Jazeera, a station sympathetic to the Arabs and come here to talk, I just shake my head. Even CNN under the Obama administration started contorting facts... that's why it's good to watch stations like France 24 and co....see both sides of a story. Arabs have a high rate of extremism and jihadist tendencies especially when their population hits 20% and above at a location. look at France, bombings by them, London nko? should the list go on? Once you give them an inch, they want everything. Will you tell me Palestinians are saints? Do you know how many Israeli women and children they have killed? yet Al Jazeera only reports the Palestinian casualties... lol how funny...those people pose a threat and Israel has always been their target. A lot of you need to go on pilgrimage to Israel to see that Al Jazeera is contorting facts. They respect muslims a lot. Even the key to the Church during one pilgrimage like that was held by a muslim....so tell me something new... it's so bad that you can't write muslim with small letter m on your phone or laptop without auto correct kicking in, but sadly, the same thing can't be said of the word christian. try it out and see....muslims want the whole world but it won't work. Imagine wonder woman was banned from a country because the lead actress was from Israel, a Jew and had done the Israeli compulsory military service...Imagine banning a movie in Nigeria because the lead actor was muslim, what will they say?

tell that to boko haram and fulani militia

ignis:
An advise to FFK...
Its better to keep silent let people think you are a fool than opening your mouth and clear all doubt.