₦airaland Forum

It is girl's parents fault, they didn't do their homework well and the girl also.

Elkidz:
Please I need a good advice on this issue from matured minds.

A friend of mine called me yesterday and was seriously crying that she wants her daughter that just got married to come back.

REASON:
Last year, her daughter of 21 years got married. From the look of things, the marriage was contracted on falsehood.
The man( daughter's hubby) was introduced to the girl by another woman. The young man and his mother presented themselves as very good people. The young man claimed to have money and working in Abuja as "interior decorator" . He made the girl believed that he has money where's he was borrowing to do the the marriage rites.
After the first stage of the traditional rites, he lied to the girl that bank seized his money because someone from abroad sent more than the approved amount (ie. millions) into his account. The girl had to use the little money she received as salary to sort out certain things.

To cut the long story short, marriage was scheduled, on the eve of the wedding (the bridal shower night) , the young man beat the girl blue and black to the embarrassment of everyone present including his own friends, that was how the bridal shower ended with the poor girl crying all throughout the night. This is just because of flimsy excuse, to make matters worst, the girl was some weeks old pregnant which he's aware of.
To worsen the situation, after marriage, the man left the lady in the village with the parents, two days after marriage he travelled for a job, while the girl is left alone in the village without any pocket money and without any job since she's stopped the job she was doing before marriage. She's just Living at the mercy of the guy's parents with the mother treating her like trash.

Please Mod kindly push to the front page, I need matured advice.

I have been through thick and thin with my wife, my wife was there for me during my low estate because I was there for here developing her educational and financial wise, what you sow is what you reap.
I am talking from experience.

DaddyCoool:
This is NOT true at all. People change. Situations change. And sometimes you may think you know someone, but you don't know them

You want to be married and be flirting, marriage is not everybody, dey waste your time.

DaddyCoool:
NOTHING is as sweet as FREEDOM. And that's one thing marriage takes away. Nothing can ever beat waking up knowing you can do and be with who you wish, especially if you are a man of means

Bros, your own too much, you know it was not intentional.

oz4real83:
Please edit your post and correct some of the words you use. Some of us reading it lose interest when we see statements like "her wife" or 'his husband" in Nigeria.

Nothing is scary about marriage, marriage is sweet. Choose the right woman for yourself, don't be who you are not. Don't accept all the responsibilities when dating or you are ready to do that in your marriage.
Marriage is being who you are, no pretence. No be fake love, no be sampling girls. Marriage is for matured man and woman with responsibilities.
Marriage no be romantic movies or zeeworld film, it is a reality with responsibilities.
I am enjoying my marriage.
Use your head and ask God to help you too.

handsomeyitayo:
can you explain that ? I want to know why ... because am scared of marriage. Nowadays couples are scaring us away from doing marriage. Most men are going through a lots in marriage they won't tell you..

How do you know? Are you married?
Every family has its own format, if you really love your wife before you married her, no matter the situation, you will still love her.
When you marry a woman, she has this mentality of I am the woman of the house, you can be flirting with ladies like before and you have to face your responsibilities as a man.
If you don't, you go hear am.
If you have a good woman as a wife she will help you and if you marry a lazy woman, omo you don die.
When dating, know what you want, don't compromise, then you have a good marriage.

handsomeyitayo:
Hello Nairalanders

I do observe that most married couples don't find their selves attractive unlike when they started their relationship before marriage.

I have experienced three married couples like that.

I remember when this my neighbor brought her wife to be then, this man is very jelous and he always challenge her when he sees her chatting with guys in the compound but some years later, they did wedding and she gave birth to two lovely girls but now all those jealousy of those days, he is not doing that again even if he comes from work he will just over look the person chatting with his wife and he comes back late in the night.. weekend he will be indoor not minding the wife is outside still conversating with neighbors I mean male neighbors,but then who dares go near to interact with her before marriage.

Even the other couples they will be doing as if they don't know each other .. I learnt that he said he doesn't find her attractive no more but what made him marry her? Didn't he see the signs she is not attractive.

Even also it happens to ladies that will later say she is tired of her husband.

Good one, let's endeavour to get one to encourage her.
Better than those olosho spoilt brat.

Truth

MrNotAgain:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=huZb4CYka4s



Source- https://www.channelstv.com/2023/02/02/naira-swap-some-presidential-candidates-party-members-have-banks-says-kwankwaso/

Masses, I don tire

Dey play!!!

Thoughts007:
Dead on arrival

Even Obi cannot win without giving something, if I dey lie, wait till election day.
Politics na business.

Urchinpainer:
Tinubu cannot do anything without vote buying! This is another form of TraderMoni!

Don't wail, there is enough; just be on queue.

AdaojoTheUrchin:
Thiefnubuu is getting the new currency distributing it to his to go and swap for campaign. I hope he is keeping enough of it to buy votes?

Arrested for what, do you whether he is a bank agent.

Tokskob2008:
He ought to be arrested but this isn't a country where things work normal so nothing will happen. Imagine sharing openly what banks are claiming they don't have, so where did he get this large quantity he is exchanging freely

You are frustrated obedient, speaking out of point, ask him the source of the money and stop fabricating lies.

FlyingKing:
Na them they hoard the new notes, how did get such money. Is he a bank staff and who authorised him to do such thing. We are really living in a banana country.

Ibos are betrayals, betraying themselves up and down.

Bad song

He is saying Buhari has not delivered as an APC President.

Pierocash:
Tinubu really campaigning against Himself unknowingly. This unintelligent man is what some people wants to force into Aso Rock. God forbid,e no go work

There are two causes of fraud in the banking system:
1. Discrimination among staff, outsource staff and core staff.
2. Living above your income, greed.

That's just it

You be mumu, 10 days for Tinubu to change his money.
Dey there.

PrinceOfLagos:
Slayers of Tinubu

Godswin Emefiele is bigger than Tinubu in this country . See how he's using Tinubu to catch cruise and feeling fly about it

Can Tinubu shake President Buhari without bowing down at his feet like an idiot ? But see Emefiele as he oozes so much confidence while shaking the President.

Emefiele is a big boy

It is not only Christianity wise, it is a natural thing.

FactBoyz:
What he is saying may not make sense to you but he definitely has a point especially for people who take Christianity serious

You need mental check - up, too much igbo dey worry you.

WiszyFraud:
Religious people are the most ignorant people in existence.



Prayers does not, and can never change a thing.

With the number of churches and prayer warriors we have in Nigeria, can you without any excuses tell me how we are 1000x way backwards behind other thriving countries of the world? 😏

Liar!!!

copyrites:
Mind you, Tilumbu did not construct one single bridge in the entire Lagos state in 8 years. Such a failure.

All politicians are the same.

Omodua:
Yes. They are fellow indigenes. But why creating problems for the incoming administration. Why wait till last moment when he has been defeated at Polls before issuing out the letters when he was in the saddle for four years?

Are they not your fellow indigene of Osun State, you are sacking?.

press9jatv:
NEWS RELEASE
23/01/2023

Illegally Employed Workers Remain Disengaged - Osun State Government

Those illegally employed by former Governor Gboyega Oyetola are no longer in the employment of the state government and no amount of blackmail can change that reality, the State Government has announced.

Reacting to the pocket of demonstration by members of the All Progressives Congress(APC) employed towards the tail end of the last government, the State Government in a statement by the Special Assistant, Community Communications to Governor Ademola Adeleke, Mr Tunde Busari, noted that Mr Oyetola deliberately padded the state payroll with APC members to create stage for deeper financial crisis, conflict and disharmony.
" Those engaging in demonstrations are APC members smuggled into the state payroll by former Governor Oyetola. By virtue of the Executive Order issued by Mr Governor, those illegally employed remain sacked and are no longer staff of the state government. No amount of demonstration and blackmail can change that reality.

"We have the details of plan by APC to deploy its disengaged members for demonstration. However, the people of Osun state are in the know of the whole situation especially the several warnings by the PDP while in opposition. We warned against colluding with Mr Oyetola during those last days when the former Governor was issuing employment letter despite the State's inability to pay staff salaries.

"Those APC members are now playing the script. They have failed from the beginning as this administration will not bow to unjustified demands from those who collaborated to deepen Osun financial woes", the statement noted.

Signed
Tunde Busari,
Special Assistant, Community Communications.

Depending on the location, It can take you to roofing. 2 or 3 bedroom bungalow.

SavageResponse:
A lot depends on the type of house and the location of the site.

But even if what you're building is just a very small bungalow 3 million will probably only take you to lintel or roofing level.

There's no point going to tie down your money if what you have is not enough to take the house to a reasonable level.

Madness, drinking a car or house.
I see your foolishness.

officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pa75fcJ9VtM

Unboxing of a 3Million Naira alcoholic drink 😯❤

Is it a champagne? A brandy or? Whats your guess? Well watch till the end

Happy viewing!!!

Source:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnwZuNANLHA/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

You dey do hook up, sending 3k makes him a broke man? You no serious.

Jennyclay:
Broke men are the most shameless people living on earth. I'm allergic to broke and wretched men. I hate broke men like Kilode!

How can you sue a lady because of ordinary 3k transport . Shame!! Big shame!!

I was jejely on my own, when one broke wretched man wanted to send me 5k, biko what can I do with 5k ? I just told him to hold his nonsense 5k to himself, then I blocked him immediately.

Broke men everywhere!

You be mumu, instead of you to go to her father's house and apologize to her, if you loved her as claimed.
Put yourself in her shoes, can you take what you are doing to her.
You can encourage her to start little business if you want her to be making money to support the family.
I am a married man, enjoying my marriage.
If you marry another woman, your eyes will open and appreciate your first wife.

Love your talent but you no get am for sense.

Karlovych:
87. Escobat of Chicago

88. EndSars anarchist

89. Bullion van enthusiast

In doing the act, you communicate, submission from both sides which indicates no more grudges.
Most couple settles their differences with sex.
No matter your differences, it must not affects your sex live as husband and wife; if it does, the marriage is has collapsed.
So he is correct.

nickxtra:
See aht this guy wrote on Twitters-
He said each time he gives good doses of intimacy to his wife, she becomes so gentle, calm and adores him and her usual aggressive disposition to him most times gives way to smiling nature in even the face of provocation.

Is intimacy a medicine to troubleshoot a nagging or trouble some woman?