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FERNANDEZISBACK:
Look how beautiful she is tho..I guess the king
really forgave her ..
She can go live her life where it's acceptable..cos Benin no dey joke with their kingship oo..
But on a more serious note she was being ignorant she never knew it was gonna escalate..I do hope Nigerians are gonna understand she's also a human and should be accepted into the society..

Which one is she, she all over your comment. Na wao

jaeyking:
If I can't complain boldly wen one is in power

When the person leaves I let the person go in peace

I don't know what you do but if you work in a place where you have a boss or superior, can you walk up to him and tell him that you don't like his way of leadership?

Do that and lose your job.

jeffizy:



The way these dirty rogues are beginning to get glorified by the media is so nauseating . Turji, Kachalla black, etc.

Some arse wipes that should be flushed out of existence are being described like heroes.

No be their fault, I blame the lack of support from the political elite in those places for the Nigerian Army.

It's not the media o. It's the police. Every criminal they catch(even a pickpocket) is described as a notorious gang leader. They seem to have a template for reporting crimes. The same way a crime in Zamfara is the same way is reported in rivers and every other parts of the country.

The ones they didn't catch always escaped with gunshot injuries

360command:
Shake my head! You are living in a patriarchal society, the reason you write this way.bGo and reach that saner clime and commit any sexual offense.. na prison get you..

I'm not in any way condoning sexual harassment but let it be known to you that R. Kelly and his like are in prison today because of laws and order not your slap him, batter him and report him narrative and mind set.
Many of R. Kelly's victims have access to gun(as you know is obtainable in US) and other forms of violent but chose law and order hence he is in prison now. I advise you not to let your emotions have the better part of you when ever you are provoked because it doesn't always end well


We are not even talking about what would have been the girl's reaction if the guy is rich and well to do(another discussion entirely)

360command:
in saner climes, they did kill you for anything relating to sexual offense; be it the family of the victim or even the judge. They don't joke with it. Go and harass a woman and in return the woman slaps you and then report it, saying you got slapped by a woman to whom you sexually harassed. We would know who will be in prison for too long. For any little mistake you make in society, your past record will be used against you. I laugh at you all. I keep saying this, I hope it is your mom and sister they did this to so you know how it feels .

For your information, I am not moved by this your "My mom or sister narrative" so you can keep making reference to that for as long as you want.

Like I told you earlier, don't assume from this very scenario here that the next person you slap will spare you like this guy here. You may not have your eyes intact or even be alive to pursue the case when the person returns the favor immediately. And also as I said earlier, stop making reference to saner climes because you are absolutely bereft of what is obtainable there.

360command:
borrow sense too. If that girl was to file for harassment irrespective of she having to slap him or not, that guy will go in for it big time. You do not know how irritating and annoying it is for someone to dehumanize you, commodify you and you expect the girl won't react. Even your sister and mother will react if I say something like that. Imagine you telling me trying to commodify me, I will punch you and report you..

When you were making reference to saner climes I thought you were speaking from an informed mind point of view. Don't make reference to what you don't know about next time because in saner climes they don't go about punching people in response to verbal provocation. There are laws and orders

Now you just unearthed the Nigerian thuggish part of you. And for your information, not everybody you punch will just be looking at you like that guy. Some people will make sure that they return the favor immediately whereby you may not even survive to make your so called report.

360command:
the guy accepted the slap cause he knows he is wrong. Stop your trash talk, in a sane climate, once you are guilty for sexual harassment, whether she slaps him after or not you will serve time and no employer will employ you. Like I said, you do not know how it feels because your mother or sister has not confronted you with such a disgusting situation. You think it is normal because of the society you live in but this is not right.

You are writing balderdash. No body is disputing the guy being wrong but does two wrongs make a right? In your saner clime reference do they go around slapping people for wrong doings.

Yes the guy is wrong but would she have slapped if the person is older and more mature than her. In saner climes there are laws and order and you don't go about assaulting people for wrong doing(that's taking laws into your hands). It's now OK because it's a guy and termed gender based violence when it's the other way round.

Let me ask you do you know what some wifes say to their husbands on a daily? But they don't go about slapping their wives

Borrow sense

360command:
Shake my head! We all want a better country. That is sexual harassment. I hope someone offers to pay your mom and your mom in return tells you about her ordeal with a man who used thar phrase on her making her uncomfortable. Only then, you can understand what this means.

And slapping the guy is the best response from your "we all wanting a better country" statement?

Hell would have let loose all over internet with gender based violence tag but it's right and normal now because it's a man. Real guys are still representing sha no matter all the noise

AfroKnight:
What shock? She already threatened to slap him. He should have been prepared to reply her before that simp came to take her away

I thought as much but the guy played safe for his own good. Those guys in there may not spare him and that would be bad for him.

Even the lady slapped him because she knows she has cover. On a very good day she won't try it one on one.

Link please eeeee

Mine is silence o. It's been working for me and it helps me from making statements that I would regret later

amzee:
So marriages conducted there should be dissolved?


Nigerian judiciary is a MESS

Nigerian judiciary is not a mess on this one. The federal government has been usurping the powers to the state and local government from time immemorial

Every tier of government has their roles and powers explicitly spelt out in the constitution but no, the federal government would rather leave their functions and go down to villages to be conducting marriages.

Like Falana said, restructuring is already taking place through the judiciary and it's just a matter of time before every sector of the country will be restructured

yinkaOdutuyo:
It's not too late, at least trying to push her to press her parent to be at least a bit responsible

Mr man you keep mentioning her parents, her parents. Would they kill themselves because they gave birth to a girl? Her parents are legally responsible for her upkeep till the age 18 when she becomes an adult.

Is this girl in question not human enough to fend for her daily bread even as a student? Boys and other girls her age are doing one thing or the other legally to earn a living and you are here talking about her innocent parent as if she is crippled.

From my observation you spoilt the girl from the beginning.

That's cream reaction. I've once had that. Change or stop using the cream or soap you are using now and it will go away

Kobojunkiee:
You cook okra soup for only yourself or for the entire household?

Did you also purchase your own ingredients or did you use groceries already in the house to do this?

Is your brother an extremely rich man or does his house also operate on a food budget like most homes do?

And lastly, did you at least clean up after yourself or did you expect that his wife will clean up for you?

The way I see it, there isn't nothing wrong with cooking even if in a friend's house. However, there could be everything wrong with how you do it.

Let me tell you her gross. Non of those things you mentioned their is her reason for being angry.

Women have this feel or belief that kitchen is exclusively theirs. That is out of bound to even their husband. They will be craving for gender equality but feels bad Wen a man enters ''their'' kitchen to cook.

HEBEI:
That house should be marked for demolition!

Like Play like play four children have become orphans.


Rest in peace to her.

How are they orphans. Na you kill their father?

This guy sef. 85k plus side hustle doesn't pay your bills. And you are just 26 and single.
Brotherman, you have a problem with managing money and that is what you need to work on.

Forget about all this ur ''I want to travel out. I want to do this do that but no money. Everybody has an idea of one thing or the other they want to do but finance is the challenge.

Work on what you are spending money on.

kiwiPO:
Her time has come, it has nothing to do with her profession

And it is avoidable. She and other people could have still be alive if things were done right.
How many time have you heard of buildings going down any how if not for natural disasters.

What I'm saying is that some human errors are avoidable

So that all their evils will be concealed and they can easily deny

DaRenewed:
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Criminal. Keep hacking people's accounts for your days are numbered

I'm losing my mind already because of the kind of system we run. This was almost the same scenario that played out in the case of Akwaibom Iniobong.

A case of emergency will be reported to the police and they will tell you to wait till 24hrs before action will be taken. What fvcking kind of archaic system is that.

Even with an obvious evidence of a life under threat they will tell you to wait till its 24hrs. What sort of shithole are we living in here


Pathetic. Fvcking pathetic!!

wealthgoddess:
You are right. But the problem is the team doesnt have those kind of players that can give such killer passes to him...
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Man u team isn't ready for Ronaldo at all, they should have focused on building that center first. I am not taking anything away from Ronaldo, he does what he does best but this team needs a player like messi...to hold that center and distribute passes

So the one Pogba is doing is not midfield work until it is done by Messi. Excuses everywhere

mytime24:
Who go buy for me

When I saw this, the next thing was me to look up for the name behind the post and I wasn't disappointed. It's a female as I expected. Always looking for who will buy for them

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga if you abstain from the Kpekus for a while, will you Collapse?

Hypocrisy everywhere. Some people are goddam hypocrites. Asking for what you cannot give.

Sex has been so demonized that some people even doubt if it's permissible in marriage.

People like you are saints in public and whores in private

Nonsense

All we are waiting for is for the next person to fall so that we can just pick up their corpse and go and bury.

Even the government that is responsible for investigating the killers and punishing they don't care. Killings everyday everywhere and everybody(including the government) appears defeated.

Sad, very sad and pathetic!!

decatalyst:
Let the money from the center stop first and let's see if ALL states will not look inward, create infrastructure and generate revenue.


Nah availability of funds to them dey make dem dey lazy.

They would resort to fleecing the citizens and businesses of the states. You will start seeing the state tax officials arresting citizens and closing down businesses indiscriminately to get money from them.

You don't even want to imagine what these states will do to get money if the federal allocation is stopped.

They won't resort to any brainstorming economic plan and development. They will just go the easy way of creating all manners of taxation like radio access tax, television tax, security tax etc. The people we have as leaders in this country are just daft

staga:
Why is everybody wailing? Simply convert your compound soakaway pit to a biodigester and say goodbye to cooking gas.

And you think that in a compound of 4,6,8 flats with one soakaway that the soakaway can serve the flats?

vickydevoka:
It's been long

yea, I understand

Arsenal coach, crew, players and fans today be like who win world Cup on

I think that there are two things in one here. Police check points are not entirely bad but there has been this long time outcry about police extortion in the East

Even Ahmed Isah has said it several times that policemen before now bribe their way to be posted to the South East because of what they will get there.

There is only a limit to which you can push a people and they will revolt and I blame the police for not protecting themselves enough at check points because these things keep happening over and over again and they don't change their strategy.
And for a truth they are not there for any security. Anything from 5-6pm they jump from their hiding unto the road for evening hustle at every 500 metre stretch

To the police, there is an end to every hustle. Since your hustle has been busted at least drop the hustle

Until some of these idiots starts getting silenced they will not rest. What nonsense. How would a very rich man even rape a woman n when they will be running to lick your feet with just a wink.

Men are busy hustling and making money and all the stock women have in trade is to hustle men. They know who they are doing that nonsense with

I will fall you before you fall me. It is called self defense. Nonsense

Shey their president once begged the Nigerian government to take the country and make it our 37th state.