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gypsey:
No i am not, but i may have other illnesses worst than a sickler.

Babalegba:
Why do you think she is being shallow and petty.Being a sickle celled is not good for the child.The man is evil and selfish

gypsey:
how did she came to the conclusions that the child will suffer? has a doctor confirmed that the child will suffer? she is just been unneccerssarily paraniod, besides any child can get ill regardless of what genotype they are.
our parenst gave birth to us without comparing genotype i am still here healthy appart from the ussual fever, cold and Flu after 30 years.

gypsey:
she is lucky she managed to get pregnant or have children/child, yet she moaning about Genotype, even children with the matching genotypes can still get ill.

Genotype? what ever the hell that means i don't know!

some women will do anything to have children/child and this one is concerned only about genotype! she is not serious yet. who genotype epp?

Tetragramaton:
My dear is this thing for real. If not that it is happening to a close friend of mine right now. She is as and just found out her husband is as too. The guy said he always thought he was aa so never really bothered . now they are doing ivf worth millions of naira to reduce the chances of having a sickle cell child. But I don't believe the guy and I don't want to cause trouble in my friends home. How can he say he thought he was aa. I think he deliberately married her. I thought it was women that do everything to marry a man seems like men are so into it now.

Cromcruach91:
That is a flawed way of looking at it.

What the data you have just put means that every time a AS couple come together, there is a one in four chance that one of the children could be SS, a two on four chance the kid could be AS and a one in four chance the child could be AA.

Kind of like a lottery.

The family of Nzeogwu, our first coup plotter..the father had six of them. Three of the kids were SS, the others were AA or AS.

Another family I knew...six kids, five AA one SS.

Cromcruach91:
Well, an AS copule have a chance of having SS babies.

It does not mean that they would actually have SS babies.

IVF reduces the risk even further

hungryboy:
Her saying killer herdsmen don't exist and what's going on in Benue and Taraba is bitter and ethnic politics , shows us how stupid she is.


The fulani herdsmen menace didn't begin under the Buhari Government, the only intensified their attacks under him, and his refusal to act only emboldened them to kill more people.

That Woman is nothing more than an Apc spin doctor and Bmc agent

MDsambo:
As at 1851 Kano was producing 10Million sandals annually and exporting 5 Million, where were your ancestors at that time? In the jungle chasing apes I guess.

Dayg88:
So true ma, and i see it from where you are coming from. I will urge you focus on the lesson of the message, he was definitely not gender neutral. You're right about the bolded. It has got nothing to do with the gender.

nonut:
He dated the girl for more than a year. I was surprised cos I wouldn't tolerate that regardless of how much I love her.
Men also have their flaws, that's why some women date and still reject the proposal of some guys.
I said that earlier in my post if you read it properly.
Scales falling from their eyes? Smh.
Sometimes you meet that special woman and all that ever comes to your mind is to make an honest woman out of her.
Those who have felt that feeling can relate.

nonut:
....Sometimes you meet that special woman and all that ever comes to your mind is to make an honest woman out of her. Those who have felt that feeling can relate.

nonut:
I'm not generalising like you said. Just pointed out the obvious.
This happens in most relationships.
Some ladies are even good and humble, but they got a character flaw that keeps getting them dumped like the Op said.
Let me give you an example.
There's this lady my friend dated. She was everything you would want in a woman, but she was insanely jealous and destructive.
Anytime they quarrel, the lady ends up breaking things in the house.
After the quarrel, she begs for forgiveness and sometimes replaces the broken items.
My friend and I kept advising her to keep her jealousy and anger in check, but after a while, she repeats the same thing.
My friend eventually let her go, even though they loved each other so much.
A girl with that kind of behaviour might be here and see nothing wrong with it.
That's why it's important for women to upgrade and try to be better.
Same with guys. Women who know what they're worth, dump sorry ass guys all the time.
One more thing, no sane and mature man gets married to a woman just because she's an exciting novelty to him, like you said.
It's possible though for immature or guys who find it difficult to talk to women.

PheezyLee:
GUS was interesting in the earlier seasons, dint really dig the latter anymore especially when this guy (forgotten his name) stopped anchoring it.

Dayg88:
I do not engage in conversations like this because they are usually gender sensitive. That being said, if you read the post carefully, you will understand the message being passed across was never about men being saints or women being the cause for break ups. The message applies to both parties. It is okay if you do not know what you want. But it is bad if we do not know what we do not want. If you (either the guy or the lady) are actually worth keeping, anyone would go any length to make you(in the same context) theirs. A year in a relationship is enough to deduce what we do not want or like in our partners. I just do not support the word dump. It is derogatory.

nonut:
Some guys meet a lady and within a few months, they get married to the lady.
What does it tell you? He has seen something new he never experienced in his previous relationships.
Most times some guys are not even ready for marriage, but they meet a lady they admire so much and before you could say Jack, they're married.
The fear of losing that lady pushes them to marry her cos other men might be interested too.
The ex then goes around telling anyone who wants to hear how she was used and dumped.
If I'm a woman and I get dumped after a year of serious relationship, I'll try and upgrade myself.
I'll even try to know why the guy dumped me and see if it's something I can change.
I know women who were dumped for someone else because they weren't educated or graduates.
Some guys won't get married to women who are idle or without any form of skill etc.
Some won't get married to lazy or dirty women.
The list goes on and on.
No woman is expected to be perfect, but there must be something that makes you stand out and different from the other bunch.

Toks2008:
Exactly the point. ..in most cases,a lady knows the wheats from the shafts but they are just wired to settle for the shafts so if as a lady you tend to see a guy with philandering tendencies yet went ahead to date him then you need to check yourself.

Toks2008:
In a sane world,no woman can claim to dump a man after she has offered her body to him so your question is flawed...My opinion

vicfy:
You spoke my mind brother....my girl of 1yr n two months played stupid last weekend. She was billed to go back to school on monday, so i bought her some provisions which i handed over to her last week just to add to whatever her parents gave her. I hoped to impress her n make our last meeting memorable. So, i cooked (something i hardly do) n kept some money 4 her, as she told me she was coming over. Later in d day, she called to inform me dt she'll be coming wt a frnd n i said NO WORRIES. Only 4 her to text me later dt d frnd held her up somewhere bt she'll still come. I waited in vain n had to call her line, bt she wouldn't answer. I later discovered dt she went on a double date with her frnd, got drunk, den went straight home. The following day, she didn't show up untill evening. That was when she came pleading dt she came back late n was so weak, so she went straight home. I asked if she wasn't going back to school as she told me, bt she said dt she needed to see me first. I told her dt i have a meeting by 5pm, n i had to go. So, i locked my door n left her sitting by the corridor. She later called twice n dropped offline messages, bt i haven't responded. I guess she still thinks its one of those days when i get angry n later come back. I just pray i find someone better

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
And have you called her attention to it? You guys should discuss it. All that glitters ain't gold. This your new catch might not b that loyal. Be wise

MISTAICEY02288:
Oh yea she's got some attitudes. I actually know she is loyal and doesn't cheat though. But she seems not to be as committed as i am to the relationship. She doesn't call often or send messages. Most times lately, i do the talking first before her. We both might be online on Whatsapp and she wouldn't say a thin until i do that. I believe she loves me actually but i cant continue being the one doing the most. You can imagine having a partner who doesn't call or keep in touch with you whereas some other dude keeps in touch with you more often than your so called partner. Thats exactly whats goin on now. Theres this lady who calls and messages me every moment just to know how i am doing while babe doesn't do that often.

MISTAICEY02288:
Spot on. This makes so much sense. I am going through the same scenario presently. I am about to dumb my babe of a year and 5 months to concentrate on another lady. I think that would be a very wise decision for me.

Yankee101:
Stop making women feel inferior about themselves.

Men are generally scared of commitment

Men won't tell you if you have a fault they just walk away

Men go out to look for the 5% that their lover lacks

If men talk more constructively I think relationships will be better

For women, generally be clean, non talkative, hard working, not overly demanding and love him up.

Toks2008:
This is exactly why Men use many ladies as intimacy gadgets...you will never see intelligent ladies attacking a writer but they focus on the topic and give fantastic views people can learn from.

As a sapiosexual,I don't ever pray to come across unintelligent ladies and if I mistakenly date them,I dump them with the speed of light.

Toks2008:
I guess this erroneous mindset of "there are many niggas" might just be why the guy dumps the lady cos many ladies tend to use this line as consolatory remarks just to get dumped again and again and again. ..just saying...

PrecisionFx:
There are only 3 ethnic group in Nigeria.

There are over 250 tribes in Nigeria.

I didn't read the rest (I swear), U can type trash .

VampireeM:
@bold, I am glad you have learnt something. Men should not think a gal talking and smiling with him means she wants to keep you close.
The main reason she didn't give you her no is cause she doesn't want to extend the rapport after that moment. I don't see any greenlight from your chitty chatty at the ATM. You were just a good companion while waiting for it be her turn

Evolvehub:
Yes we do conduct seminars

bamidex28282:
yes

PrecisionFx:
"As for the agreement that the presidency should be drafted to the SW in 1999, if it did not exist how come both parties only fielded Yoruba men as their candidates?""

PDP did not automatically field a Yoruba Man for the elections, Obasanjo contested the PDP presidential ticket against an Igbo man.

""What NADECO did to frustrate Abacha, is info that is in the public domain. Google is your friend. Why are you too lazy to conduct some research?""

Afonja Google is not my friend, I am not interested in any research on nadeco or radio kudirat, they are ur runs, u presented it here so it's natural that u should provide the necessary info to back ur self up n make the information u provided to become fact.

""And you were the one who made reference to the British being angry with Abacha for deposing the Dasuki family, from the Sultanate""

Like I already said, I didn't say removal of the Dasukis as sultan was the reason why Abacha was sanctioned.

PrecisionFx:
U are an Afonja Sir. Just reading basic boasting line on naira land here always exposes Yorubas to me.

I didn't go to school, And that does not mean that I am uneducated.