 Family › Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by Listar(m): 2:20pm On Jul 02, 2019 |
[quote author=Me77 post=79824292]Hi to everyone reading this, I have gotten a big problem with my uncle  He recently helped me to get a job in a foreign owned company. He introduced me to most of his colleagues and Co-workers as he is nephew and in the process I get to meet one of his senior manager who said he would take me under his unit once I resume for duty. The problem is that the senior manager is never in good terms with my uncle and my uncle never told me this. Not until I started working with him and he began to show me hell under his unit. He always insult me and embarrassed me in front of everyone, he even go as far as harassing me by hitting me with a book on my head. To him I am not good enough at my job and he pile up the job of 4 people for me all alone to do on daily basis. I have no single day off since I resumed working with him including weekends. I let my uncle know about my situation, since it is because of him I am going through all this (Note, he later told me that he was never in good terms with him) I want to assume it was a slip of thought, otherwise your uncle only helped you to get the job, and he was never at fault for what you are passing through. So, still be grateful to him, he knows more about the people and what you could get after the torment, he did not get you the job just to punish you. I was 100% about quitting the job when I called home and told them that I can't take this punishment anymore, the punishment I never bargained for . But he persuade my mom to talk me into staying and that the situation is not as bad as I am portraying it to be. He assured my mom that everything will get better in the future if I show endurance and keep working every single day of the week. Endurance was what you needed and never to have done any thing without him been in the know, especially your being a newbie. My people is this fair? What kinda job is this without a single day of rest? The terrible man they placed me under wouldn't even allow me to do my work properly, everyday he kept threatening me with sack and insult. THE POINT OF BETRAYAL With all my situation worsening and no help in sight and my mum threatening me never to return home if I leave the job, what should I do? I have no choice but to head straight into the office of the executive director to lay down my complaint. And so I did. I went straight into the executive director office with heavy fear in my heart because he's a person that you can't get easy access to, but in my situation I have to do what I have to do. Luckily for me, he listened to me and provided help by changing my department and taking me out from the terrible manager I am working with. Meeting him is not bad but don't try it again as far as your status in the company is not been upgraded because it might never tell well about you among your colleagues. NOW THE PROBLEM My uncle have a good working relationship with the executive director and the news spreading around the company is that it is because of my uncle influence that I have the guts to barge into the director office to demand a change of department. My name has been on everyone lips for the past week. They don't believe that I went all alone in to the office, they are also accusing my uncle of having a hand in it. They also said that I have done what no one has ever done in the company. Now this whole thing is affecting my uncle negatively, he said all the top management have now set their attention on him. He said that for me a newbie to gain direct access to meet the executive director, while some of the top managers can't even try it shows how arrogant he has become. And they are Saying that I can cause problems for them once any of them make me angry. MY CONFESSION To God who made me, I have never had any intention to hurt my uncle negatively at his work place. I only want a safe place to work in peace and free from constant threats and harassment. My uncle said his job is no longer safe because of my desperate act and that all his colleagues has ganged up on him right now. He said that he regretted employing me. Please nairaland family help me where did I go wrong, I only want a safe place from my terrible manager and now everything has spiral out of control. Everyone is talking about me and my uncle, even in my new department. Should I finally quit this job and damned the consequences or should I stay and mind my business with no one talking to me. Please advise. [/quote Don't quit the job or both you and your uncle may lose out. I would have suggest, you send this piece of writing to him so he could know that the whole drama is affecting your uncle but he is human and so, you could be misunderstood. Beg your uncle and allow things to fall in place. |
| Sports › Re: Rohr On Verge Of Sack As Super Eagles Coach by Listar(m): 12:33pm On Jul 02, 2019 |
IneedSugarMumy1:
Good day all
Please I've someone (Uncle) who works with an agency, he wants to loan me 2-3m for me to start up life, but I must pay back the money in 1year.
The problem now is I don't know the kind of business to start with 2m that can grow faster that I will be able to pay back the money, I'm thinking of doing working visa to outside country to go and work (I'm not a graduate) I've been so confused like I don't even know what to do again, because this opportunity came by sudden to me last week after I told him I want to do something for my life but I don't have capital to start
Please I need suggestions is it good to start business here in Nigeria?
Should I travel out to work if yes which country please
I'm in my early twenties please and remember any suggestion you will make, remember I've to pay back the money on 12months If u will be interested in agriculture, reply me |
| Crime › Re: Bayelsa: Thugs storm police station, kill DPO, officers, loot rifles by Listar(m): 9:44pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Onyi22:
Am so sorry to divert ur attention from the topic, am in need of ur help, how can I get a big row breast? My breast are already fallen like an iroko tree and my boyfriend is seriously complaining about it
pls help a sister n save my relationship.
And for the topic, may God comfort the victim's families... Are serious? If u are , pls don't worry much. These are normal n natural. If ur guy hates u because of it , he does not love u or he is still young n immature. I once had a guy n was surprise at first to see she had two slippers on her chest but I later realized that it is natural n not her fault . just chill n have good character |
| Pets › Re: Dog Dies After Intercepting A Snake & Saving A Child (photos) by Listar(m): 3:10pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
SageMK:
Dogs are the most loyal creatures on earth.
U will change ur perception when see dolphin, dog is good for d owner but dolphin is for any thing living on land. They try to come out on land to play with people but people tend to kill them when they see them
Please I am not talking about Nigerian Bingos that are capable of showing arm robbers where you are hiding. |
| Politics › Re: Boko Haram Takes Over Nigerian Navy Base On Lake Chad - Sahara Reporters by Listar(m): 2:00pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
SarkinYarki:
When do you Nigerians plan to to be realistic for once ? Can't y'all read the plot on the wall? I fear for d country n it's members. They are so wicked that they don't want to know that these are coordinated attacks by people in power |
| Celebrities › Re: Man Threatens To 'Rape' Juliet Ibrahim. She Reacts by Listar(m): 1:48pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
[quote author=Generalwoodz post=79805834]Nigerians who do us this thing? We are all busy following Rape up and down...
See Ruga settlement issue..Nobody has protested,No body is saying anything..we will wake to see that buhari has established Ruga in all states. [/q
It baffles me |
| Celebrities › Re: COZA Pastor: Kemi Adetiba Educates Nigerians On How Rape Victims Behave by Listar(m): 11:21am On Jun 29, 2019 |
Zombiekiller010:
Have been wrongly accused of rape.
Let me share my story here.
When i was in my final semester in sch, there is one
ND1 pretty endowed lady(big ass) that used to catch my attention , i collected her number and we started talking and she accepted to date me, not up to a week, she came to know my hostel, i also went to visit her to know where she live outside campus, everything was going smoothly ,on my 2nd visitation to her, we smooch ,she is a churchy type (SU) telling me she is a virgin and not ready for premarital sex, been a guy with OT , i expressed my love to her and the reason why she need to open legs for me to boost our love, she lost herself in romance and we had our first sex ,no drop of blood, thou she is tight, on my 2nd visitation to her in the evening, it was already late and she told me to sleep over, we had our 2nd sex , we both enjoyed it and she told me how she has loved me more, on my 3rd visitation to her, i went with my 2 friends, she welcome us ,play and i took her out to buy her provisions, so the following week, i started writing my final semester exam, no time to call her like b4 and to visit her, she sent me messages expressing how much she miss me and needs to see me, shorty after i finished my exam for that day, i & my friend went to visit that my new endowed girlfriend , my friend went back to the hostel leaving me at my girlfriends place, after joking, lots to talks and romance, we had our 3rd sex, i went back to my hostel that evening relaxing outside on a bench, not up to 30min i got home,
I heard, this is the guy, a hot slap hit on my ear and push me down from bench, b4 i know whats happening, many guys has been beating me and stripped me to my boxer, i hold my balls and dick to protect it from getting hit and i was shouting for help cus i dont know those guys beating me ,i dont know what i did, many people gathered to watch , it was some elderly people in that street that came to rescue me from those guys , when one of those guys beating me switch on torch light to look at my face, he happens to be the guy i know and i do give him little change in street( he is a well know thug) . everybody was eager to know what have done to deserve the beating, those guys said it was a church brother to that my endowed girlfriend that raised alarm to them that i raped Bunmi, at this point,i was like which Bunmi, she stare at me and said i raped her, some guys started hitting me again, i was giving opportunity to talk, i showed them messages that Bunmi sent to me that same day expressing her love to me , i showed them proof that have once slept over at her room and this is our 3rd sex, Bunmi couldn't denied it cuz of the text messages i showed as evidence that we were dating, those thugs slapped her, hit and and tore her clothe, they started apologising to me and everybody that came to watch that scene started raising curse on Bunmi for accusing me wrongly, i know you'll want to know her reasons for accusing me of rapping her.
She said she felt bad for opening legs for me within 3 weeks that we meet , i also think she was dating her church member and they haven't had sex prior to the time i asked her out, seems they had issues while b4 i met her and that reconcile on my 3rd visitation to her place , maybe she narrated her sex life with me to her church boyfriend , you know ladies always hide under rape to make them looks like they didn't consent to sex, Bunmi and her foolish sympathiser left in shame, police station is Opp her house, they asked her why she didn't went to report to police, as a poor boy be then, no means to take up the matter legally but
Am still waiting for the best time to revenge.
Bunmi 2018 set, OND @ the polytechnic Ibadan,living at Oluyole medical laboratory building sango ibadan opp police barack
back to the Issue of Fatoyinbo, he may truly had sex with Busola,been a married man and a Pastor, he is wrong if he is guilty,as for Busola Dakolo, you cant tell me a 17 years old girl is too young to resist sex back then, its like saying regina Daniel should come out in the next 10 years for accuse Ned Nwoko or raping her and forcefully marrying her if Ned later divorce her.
Timi Dakolo had issues with that pastor and want to use her wife as a tool to bring tarnish his image. On your personal story, pls don't revenge |
| Family › Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Listar(m): 10:57am On Jun 29, 2019 |
Deepfeel:
Well it might be unnatural but what can we do we are stock with it now it's becoming part of our lifestyle I'm confuse . whether we are moving to the state of Sodom n Gomorrah or we are in Sodom n Gomorrah already |
| Family › Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Listar(m): 10:51am On Jun 29, 2019 |
elmagnifico411:
Now we know the problem isn’t the ‘fatal issue’ in her family. She’s experienced something different and she wants u to live up to the nonsense. I sometimes give my wife head and I’ve never contacted any std. oga, your madam dey waka Which one is head n which one is mouth action? |
| Politics › Re: I’m Not Handling ‘ruga’ Programme, Osinbajo Faults Miyetti Allah’s Claim by Listar(m): 9:48am On Jun 29, 2019 |
Xisnin:
Osinbajo has read the handwriting on the wall, he is trying to distance himself from the program
should it go wrong. No, he conively written the handwriting and he is not distancing himself, he's covering up for fear his people might understand the handwriting and come after him |
| Politics › Re: FG To Begin Ruga Settlements In 11 States Where The Governors Have Consented by Listar(m): 9:10am On Jun 29, 2019 |
netpro:
Good. This will help keep the Herbsmen in one place and reduce the clashes with farmers.
Once that is done, it will be easier to deal with the criminal elements who perpetuate crime under the guise of herders. Ur very wrong. This is like having straying monkeys put in a fence area with big trees in the fence, and then, expect them to remain there. People with foresight are talking about their hidden agenda, you are talking about having them in one place to reduce clashes with farmers. They don't have criminal elements, they are all criminals obeying instructions given to them. |
| Politics › Re: Gani Adams Warns South-west Governors Against Land For Herdsmen by Listar(m): 6:10pm On Jun 28, 2019 |
Lordofthewest:
But how are we sure the people perpetuating all these crimes are only fulani? The kidnappers caught by the OPC in ife last week looked nothing like fulanis they were all southerners. Kidnapping and fulanisation are two different crimes. Kidnapping is done by criminals and its not political, whereas fulanisation has a political agenda undertone, kidnapping done by fulanis are done either out of instructions given to them or by instructions given to them. The lands they want acquire, are they theirs? Do they have their country? If they do, do they still have their states of origin, local governments and of course, villages and bushes, do they have all of these? Or maybe, they fell from the sky. If all their demands are given to them now, would they stop to victimize their host or stop them from making fresh demands? Their hand writing is clear and understandable , otherwise I would've ask you to read meaning to their trends . |
| Politics › Re: Gani Adams Warns South-west Governors Against Land For Herdsmen by Listar(m): 4:01pm On Jun 28, 2019 |
Lordofthewest:
But seriously all these unnecessary hype we give the fulanis will be making them feel important and walking around feeling like the most dangerous tribe in Nigeria, if wahala happens in Nigeria today that's when you'd know how dangerous every tribe can be even the so called minority tribes. Can we just focus on the real issues like security of Nigeria, poverty and how buhari regime has failed in these areas. Enough with fulani this fulan
i that dem no get 2 heads It was hype before, but now is no longer hype.it was neglected when it started but now intervention is needed . they can be stopped but it might be difficult to fight them because they are been supported by FG n soldiers |
| Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa Reacts To Busola Dakolo Rape Allegation By Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo by Listar(m): 2:51pm On Jun 28, 2019 |
This is an assertion that doesn't hold water. I'm not saying the pastor did not do it, neither am I defending the pastor for doing such a thing, the woman also should be asked if the pastor went to her house or in the Church to rape her, but of course if not, what took the woman to the place where she was raped? She must has to say what took her there.
A whole lot of people seek no non the right things to success, they go to their pastors to seek for ways to better their lives, now, I assume they are ignorance, the so-called pastors in turn gives them not the prayers, miracles or healings they deserved but fetish materials in order to get the success that they longed for. At this point, they are no longer ignorance of who truly is the pastor, they now know that the pastor is not man of God, he can do anything evil, all in the name of God. Having known all these, do they put an end and draw back so they can draw close to God? No! But instead, in their mind, they say! That which they so longed for but nothing else . Do they expect the pastor to say, these things I'm giving you are effective fetish means to get what you want? No! He has already seen that the client is one of them and the client is ready to whatsoever...in this case, I assume, she did not expose the pastor at the time of the incident and even the day after but she happily continued attending same church until God knows what pinched her to expose him.
Here in nairaland , I read about a lady of 28yrs who went out of way to a man, so she can get a fetish means of booming her business and the man demanded sex and her private part hairs which she consented to with ease, as a result, they both got married, but the end result is, they are now court for divorce because she is getting unstable mentally, says , the husband.
What I'm saying is , humans are now replacing virtual with any means of having success without the fear of God. |
| Travel › Re: Young Man To Wole Soyinka: Leave My Seat - Tonye Cole, Mo Abudu, Kate Henshaw by Listar(m): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2019 |
Muttee:
Business executive, Tonye Cole narrated an incident he witnessed on a plane between renowned writer Wole Soyinka and a Nigerian man.
Tonye Cole said Mr Wole Soyinka got on the plane and took the window seat. When the young man assigned the seat boarded, he insisted Mr Soyinka leaves his seat. Others on the plane, including the crew members, begged the young man to let the Nobel Laureate have his seat. But the man insisted on sitting where he was assigned.
Mr Cole said this is an indication that our value system has been eroded and youths no longer have repect for elders. Ms Mo Abudu and Kate Henshaw commented, agreeing with him that the young man's behaviour was unacceptable.
https://all-gists..com/2019/06/unusual-encounter-between-soyinka-and-a-plane-passenger-tony-cole-others-reacts.html His and his likes are the ones spoiling Nigeria and the world at large with their decisions and indecisions. Imaging obasanjo saying they knew that buhari can't rule Nigeria well and they still projected him to rule, and now everything gone sour and out of hand . these are the kind of decision proff wole Soyinka takes. |
| Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Begs Taraji P. Henson For Mental Assistance by Listar(m): 11:33pm On Jun 18, 2019 |
soberdrunk:
A whole former governors daughter.......  Is her father dead? I thought she said she has a spiritual power? |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Job Seeker Loses Job Out Of Impatience With Company Staff by Listar(m): 4:20pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
bammy00:
'Hello, I'm Benson from Alpha Consulting.' Is that so hard? No! Not too hard but d girl messed up, she is d rude type. The man asked thus; am I on chat with chioma? She should have said, yes I am then who are u? Not how did you get my number? She obviously has a problem in character |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Job Seeker Loses Job Out Of Impatience With Company Staff by Listar(m): 4:12pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
cooldipo:
Awwww
The moment he mentioned her name, she should have given him benefit of doubt and not just go all gun blazing but maybe as fine girl wey she be.... Plenty guys done try put sand for her garri before through same means.... Once beating twice shy....may heaven lead the way in all our actions
I hope she learnt her lesson..... Online trading has
taught me so much patience already How much patient has online trading taught you? Will like to chat with you on this |
| Family › Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Listar(m): 2:38pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?
Behave as if nothing is happening and be free with her, free your mind, she might free with you and sees you as free and innocent brother In-law |
| Crime › Re: Peter Thomas: Tiv Leader Leads Thugs To Attack Residents In Lagos by Listar(m): 10:29pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
argon500:
Defecating in an open place..
Afonjaaaaa Mehnnn, see this cat, na wao, the cat resemble human being too o. |
| Romance › Re: What's The Most Outrageous Demand A Girl Has Ever Made From You On A First Date? by Listar(m): 3:28pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
[quote author=AwkaetitiBabe post=79345163]Here to read lies o. Cos I can't imagine making demands on a first date! Unless you don't like the guy and wanna chase him off[/quote
Not lies! I dated a girl who never demanded nothing more than a recharge card. I also dated a girl who told me that she is now a big girl n she can no longer demand money n material things from her dad n that I should assume taking responsibility of her from her dad while I was in school. All in summary . you may be a reasonable girl doesn't mean all girls are reasonable |
| Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Listar(m): 12:05pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
LasLas:
Please nairalanders, I need your opinion and advice though i expect a lot of bashing because it is normal here on nairaland.
I met this girl two years back and we started dating since 2017. We have been into each other since then.
Recently i went to see her parents just to make my intentions known. After that, we both traveled to see my parents also.
Ever since we came back from my village i have been having this thoughts of divorce. I have this feeling that i will seek for divorce immediately after the wedding. I don't want to have a broken home. I don't want to cheat on my wife because if i eventually marry her with the way i am thinking now i must cheat on her which i don't want to happen in my marriage. I am thinking of quiting the relationship but i don't know how to go about it, how she will react, what her family members will say and react. I am so confused.
Please i need your advice.
Unless u do not like her n unless she has been doing things u don't like, I don't see any reason why u should not continue with her. If ur fear is about cheating on her, then u are on a Longggg thing because u definitely cheat on d one u will consider to be the best suit to u. U didn't even tell why u feel u must cheat on her if u marry her |
| Business › Re: Lady Shares Her Experience At The ATM Which Had More Than 20 Guys by Listar(m): 11:31am On Jun 12, 2019 |
collinsuchendu:
A yung lady has shared what was a bad experience for her when she wanted to use the ATM which has more than 20guys on the queue, the lady was expecting the guys to respect the fact that she is a lady and should be given special preference, but to her surprise the guys did not even look at her side. this is what she shared online:
Foolish lady, what made her special? Just because she is a Lady with wide hole in between, they should then defile the rule of queuing? Madness has eaten her up.
Source: https://www.collinsuchendusblog.com/2019/06/feminist-shares-her-bad-experience-at.html?m=1 |
| Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Listar(m): 11:33pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Elesta:
Hello family, I have a long post about my terrible marriage. Please bear with me, I just have to pour everything out because it's killing me slowly.
I am in my mid 30's ,got married to this man in his mid 40's who has never been married before.We attend the same church although different branches, so the pastor of his branch and the pastor of my branch brought us together. We started dating and he seemed head over heels and started talking about marriage immediately. At first, the way he was talking and his reaction to things I wasn't interested and I even told him, but he begged me and the pastor begged me so I overlooked and continued especially considering my age. If I wasn't in my mid 30's and if I hadn't done fibroid operation and so, eager to take in, I won't have made this terrible mistake. We also work in the same place so everything seemed perfect.
Now we started making wedding plans just after one month of dating and we got married 4months after because of church process. It seemed blissful but I stumbled on his messages with a lady he was saying before me and eventually at the same time with me. I discovered he kept begging n begging her even while me n him were dating .he kept telling her to agree to attend his church or dey can be going to their separate churches but the girl kept insisting that they should attend the same church. I. e. he should leave his church and she will leave hers. Don't get me wrong, if this had happened before we started dating, I wouldn't have gotten angry. but all these happened while we were serious and even after he came to see my father, I discovered he was still pleading with her as per church matter. Who does that?? So what if she had agreed for the church matter, he would have dumped me n embarrassed my dad??
I brought it to his notice and he kept saying he never meant it, he was just using it as an excuse not to marry her.
Now in the marriage, emotional abuse never ends. Just fewonths into the marriage, he started behaving somehow bcoz I hadn't taken in. all kinds of insults oh. one day, he said if he knew I couldn't have children he won't have married me. this was just 4months into d marriage. any little thing he complains. on weekends, he expects me to get up by 7am m start preparing his breakfast oh. weekend which is supposed to b for resting since we work Monday to Friday. Every little thing, he keeps saying if he knew he won't have married me.
I still remember how he slapped me several times, he insulted me n i insulted him back, that was what caused d slap. even when he saw me crying he wasn't moved. I have complained to family members and friends ,they have spoken to him, he will change for a while and later go back to his terrible ways.
I have never seen this kind of acrimony between couple. I am not a bad looking person, I have dated people in d past, they didn't treat me half as badly as this one. I was just too unserious. I want to leave this torture. but we work in the same place and I am trying to avoid wagging tongues. I just tired. I have seen and experienced mutual love and it's not like this. I long to share love with someone that loves me just the way I am. I don't deserve to be with this animal. When it comes to food, he eats so angry if his food isn't ready on time.
Please I need advice. he went for test n it was discovered he has low sperm count. that made him humble for some fine but recently he started saying again that if he had married a younger lady, d lady would have been pregnant by now. just imagine this kind of torture. God knows I have absorbed so much from this man In as much as I'm judging from ur own side of d stories, I would like to say he has an attitudinal problem but u also are a bit disrespectful, unless u are not fit ( healthy), I do not see a reason why ur husband should remind to cook by by 7 AM . u can cook by 7am n then take a rest by 9-10am . I want to fault him for his abusive way over not making babies right away , Even if it entirely ur fault which is not . now u are inseparable, pls do not advice anybody to marry on d account of begging by pastor or whosoever, marry only when u are in love . |
| Agriculture › Re: These Animals Were Killed While Ploughing My Farm Yesterday by Listar(m): 4:27pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
ProudlyAfarmer:
Hi Nairalanders, can someone please help with the names of the snake and lizard in English...
They were killed while the tractor was ploughing my farm yesterday. Snake eaters oya, come and carry meat o Python n iguana , the English names |
| Family › Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Listar(m): 6:36pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
donbachi:
it's the equality of the sexes and you are worst than that...you're a matrimonial anarchist. There is no way a reasonable n responsible lady will be dominated in a negative way ,they are only dominated when they feel they are on top of d world n go out of their normal role n responsibility in life. Take a look at etinosa actress who stripped just for fame n money, would one keeps quiet just because one doesn't want to b perceived as an insecure man? My guy d op is on another high weed |
| Family › Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Listar(m): 6:18pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
Skmoda360:
love your counter attack on this issue.... They still have never learn from the mistake they did in eaten the Apple of good n bad, they always still searching for another good n bad Apple to tea. This time, after eating it please guys don't collect it if they give it to you o. |
| Politics › Re: South-west Monarchs Vow To Resist Fulani Bandits As Govs Plan Security Summit by Listar(m): 3:01pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
sankky:
Nice strategy by the SW.
Align with them politically but assert yourselves traditionally.
But a whole lot is wrong with this statement made by one of the monarchs : “I won’t allow such invasion here; but we need cooperation and support of government to further secure our area".
 Which govt exactly is he asking to help them deal with the herdsmen terrorism? Is it this Fulani govt that tacitly endorse herdsmen activities?
And for the part where pastors and imams are deemed to have equal rights to ask for permission before preaching publicly, if u take that state govt serious, u must be one of those who believe them when they tell u that Sharia in the north absolutely applies to only Muslims. that monarch is a betrayal of royalty |
| Politics › Re: South-west Monarchs Vow To Resist Fulani Bandits As Govs Plan Security Summit by Listar(m): 2:57pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
Obaakran:
if i'm sleeping and wake up to hear Yorubas beating the drum of war, i'll go back to sleep" (IBB ... lollllllll! I beg no kill with laughter |
| Politics › Re: 555 Biafra Flags, Vehicles, Other Items Seized In Onitsha by Listar(m): 1:09pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
[quote author=AllenSpencer post=78978290]The vehicle and items should be burnt with the occupants in the vehicle[/q
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U really like Biafra that is u can't let them go with their free protest |
| Celebrities › Re: Saka: The Test I Put My Wife, Olaide Oyetoro, Through Before Marriage by Listar(m): 1:19pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
MhizMuna:
During the week, comedian, Afeez Oyetoro, took to his social media page to dole on his wife as they celebrated their 16th wedding anniversary.
The Nollywood actor further used the moment to highlight the reasons why he wished he got married earlier than he did 16 years ago. In the Instagram post he made to celebrate his 16th anniversary, the comic actor described his years of marriage as filled with love and understanding.
He stressed that while he was dating his wife, he had to give her a test to find out how she would react to the lifestyle of an entertainer.
“Communication is also very important to avoid unnecessary misinterpretation. I also advise that there should be a little time set aside for courtship before marriage.
For instance, my profession has made me unstable in terms of staying at home. When we were dating, I used to visit her and after about two or three minutes, I would tell her I had a rehearsal. I was doing that to know if she would complain or react negatively to my action. It was as though I was testing her to see her reaction.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/the-test-i-put-my-wife-through-before-marriage-saka/amp/ His wife did not care (no love at all). If a man/woman loves you, he/she will nag to be around you all the time |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: North Korea: Kim Jong Un Executes Five Officials For Failed Trump Summit by Listar(m): 8:05pm On May 31, 2019 |
Officialgarri:
America and media. One of America's biggest war equipment is the media. No one dare doubts their credibility.
Well, that's typical of imperialists.
I'm waiting for the day the media will ask why America have the supreme right to develop its own nuclear weapon and keep it, yet some other countries can't. its not by coincident, USA is d last world power, no country dare challenge them in they do but they challenge others country in a diplomatic way. Any one who challenges them that will mark d end of this system of things. |
