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The Chatham House meeting by Obi has broken the carmels back.

I expect more propaganda from the urchins of Mikano boys and Agbadorians.

kenedyx:
Well this is beyond business to nlanders.

If your bro can't reduce to the price where u saw it cheaper, go there n get it.

freshkpomo:
I have this secondary school mate who we still write to each other frequently after around 2 decades of leaving secondary school and he wrote to me about his current challenge which I just opened but so not really know what to say to him at this junction. There is this girl he loves so Much and wants to get married to, but the family lives mainly in Abuja and Kaduna (though they are all Edo people too just like my friend). The problem now is the kidnapping in those roads have made them to keep shifting the introduction date so that they can then make plans for marriage.

This girl according to him have been in Benin since she graduated from school where he met her and she has been an integrals part of his currently booming business. Now the problem here is that the Father wants him to wed the daughter or she should return back and stop wasting her time because he does not want her to end up in Shiloh after been used by ine man, then his own family on the other hand including the girl as well feels yhe journey is not safe and are scared of getting kidnapped.

Just yesterday when they finally agreed, he sent me a screenshot of the link to the lady kidnapped in Abuja with her family that was killed after Ransom. This link was sent to him by more than one family member and they may start discouraging him to leave this girl and get a girl close by because they can't afford to pay Ransom or get killed by Fulani people as they called them. One who they are age mates even jokingly told him that what if Fulani guys kidnap your wife to be and use their uncircumcised deek to rape her while going to rape her, won't that be worse than you waiting till maybe you can afford a plane for everyone.

The reason why i brought this here is because this dude seems worried because even without me writing back, he keeps typing like a robot and it also hurt him that they can't havw children yet because of this delay and all his friends are already with children, some are already grown. This money again I got a funny message from him lol that they will wait, if obi wins to see if things will change

Mynd44, lalasticlala

The road is not as bad as media is painting it. My elder bro lives in kd and he drove home for Christmas with his whole family in the east and they have gone back via same route. You don't have to be afraid dude. Travel n see your inlaws or rather take flight if you are still scared

Rogue pastor!

kenedyx:
I got a huge contract through my brother's company.

The contract is securely in my possession now and I've been fully paid. Initially, the plan was for my bro to supply me the materials

But the issue now is the quotation he's giving me is way higher than what I'm getting elsewhere.

I've asked him to beat down his price but he's adamant. I plan on sidelining him if he doesn't do the needful.

Guys any thoughts on this?

You are a business man ain't you?

officialfestus:
Suggestions please.

A04s

officialfestus:
Suggestions please.

A04

ecolime:
All these wahala because his cashless policy is against vote buying?

What are the parties with structure scared of?

They are scared of structureless parties

Gangsta

Not baba blu but drug lord! Buy God forbid sha

Arsenal are the Kings of London this season.

Omo, I no bet with epl teams again.

Game is a draw with over 1.5 though.

Too much of it is bad.

Frank25:
Let's gather and discuss

What does tithe signify in the bible

It's no more valid after Christ's death and resurrection!

Sombori wee nor go.

I saw wotowoto garnished with Mexican chilli pepper

siofra:
Are you a christian?

What does SIMPing and extreme hoeism got to do with religion?

What is a SIMP again?

E be like say Atiku no show this one love again. And tinubu no give am face.

Why are some people like this?

Scenario 1. Why is it that when some people ask for monetary assistance and you offer to help, they see it as if you own CBN and come for higher taxing next time and when you turn them down they will change tactic and ask you to borrow them the money and If you do, they will never pay you back? The annoying thing is that they will still come back after a while to start asking again.

Scenario 2. Why is it that some girls who date rich guys are afraid asking them for money but they will want to drain a guy who is still managing to meet his needs with demands? Some will leave they rich boyfriends and be asking you that is not loaded as thier guys. This makes me wonder why leave your rich guy and ask me who is not up to him financially �

Jihadists

You mean you will sell all our assets to your friends just like atiku.

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

You are too young and too naive. How sure are you that she is pregnant?

ictplotter:
Is this not ur Peter Obituary?

Standing in front of a tomato seller does not mean he is buying. You can't proof he was buying or selling tomatoes from the pic.

ObaKlaz:
Hypocrisy is everywhere. Even some pastors would accept your cash and 'fem', even though they knew you're a kidnapper.

I know many Oloshoes who pay tithes faithfully and a lot of G'Boys who donate large sums to churches.

What they fail to understand is that if God doesn't accept YOUR PERSON, there's no way He's accepting your offerings, tithes and donations.
You only gave to Pastors and churches, NOT TO GOD.

How do you give money to God? Abeg explain.

thesicilian:
He's saying the truth. Even if the pastor accepts it, the Lord will never.

God does not need your 1kobo.
Make una get sense naaaa

God does not need anybody's money be it tithe or otherwise.

Jesus has paid it all!!!

lavylilly:
Of Toxicity & Toxic Workplaces.

Stay long enough to make changes, plan your exit early enough to preserve your sanity. Pray for wisdom to know when to do what.

Yes we shouldn’t buckle at the first sight of toxicity but only the living and sane receive medals.

Let me advocate for HR. He/she is also an employee. And HR is helpless when orgnisational leadership is soulless.

Remember, HR is neither an art nor a science. Prescriptions to survive and thrive in unpleasant work situations are only guides. Take your ‘drugs’ with context in mind.

HR is not for the faint-hearted, it’s not for those who love working with people. Na the same people dey kill HR eventually.

Last line: stay long enough, leave early enough. Stay to play, leave to live.


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Omo, God bless you for this, my boss is son of Satan.

APCnaPDP:
Is that not their governor smiling there? Now,imagine Tinubu coming to Jigawa to say this. He would be stoned by the crowd and nothing would happen.

Na lie! They will cheer him more

maureensylvia:
Take a look at this

Mr Joe has been running a successful business in millions of dollars for decades with hundreds of employees working for him.

Surprisingly at his death, the business ceased to continue.

Why do you think this happened?

Share your thoughts

A case study of MKO Abiola
(He set up Abiola Farms, Abiola Bookshops, Radio Communications Nigeria, Wonder Bakeries, Concord Press, Concord Airlines, Summit Oil International Ltd, Africa Ocean Lines, Habib Bank, Decca W.A. Ltd, and Abiola football club)

Because the ceo was the alpha and omega of the business.

In the case of the example you mentioned, he was a confirmed ogboni man and when ogboni men die their money dies with them.

Wike whey be confirmed ogboni

segtech68:
I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly.

The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage.

How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise.

Thank you.

Unless you are a Catholic or Anglican , you must do court marriage if you plan to relocate as couple abroad. You must show proof of marriage to the embassy. You fiancee wanting it or not does not matter!

If u don't trust her, why plan to marry her?