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engrrichie92:
it's stressful, exhausting...not what I really love/want to be doing

My boss dosent like me...I can perceive my colleague see me as incompetent hence I don't have their respect

But then it pay this bills...that's the only motivation for me

I feel it shouldn't be that way...it should be more than money

I want to resign...

Just thinking out loud

Listen to me.

Few years ago, I was in your shoes. I was earning little above half a million naira. But I had to throw in the towel because my boss didn't like me, and always disgracing me in front of other people, despite being one of the best workers. 3 years down the line, I now earn twice what I was earning with a foreign company. My boss whom hated me is now using my former colleagues to send his CV to me.

If you want your peace and sanity, leave that job asap. No go get high BP. Na who dey alive and healthy dey work.

See, workers don't leave companies, they leave bad bosses.

Kyrx:
Stay put there until you have a much better alternative.

A very bad advice

Nicepoker:
Lugard set up this contraption to favour the british. He was an idiot

A very big idio.t

SIR0:
There's a girl in my neighborhood who I can refer to as my home sister. We're so close. We share feelings, advice & keep nothing from one another, our love life inclusive.

She has had quite a number of relationships and got disappointed in all. I've had one relationship too.

There was a time I told her about my feelings towards her & she said she would have loved to accept my proposal but she couldn't handle double-dating. Well, I felt okay having let her know my feelings. I understood her decision & I don't think I was ready to be kept as a spare tyre, too. We moved on with our friendship.

We talked both clean and dirty stuff. She would even tell me anytime she felt Hot & needed to see her boyfriend for sex. In short, we are now having mixed feelings for one another. It could no longer be hidden on her face, too.

As a lady, she's expecting me to make the first advance. Making the move is not my problem but the thoughts of some dirty talks we've had together. The most worrying part was a time she got drunk with her friend at a birthday party & she mistakenly called one of her Ex-bfs (who she loved most) over & he took advantage of the moment to have his way with her again. Though she claimed she was not sure if something really happened between them but she noticed she had no pant on when she woke up in the morning, blablabla. To me, the guy is not that reliable as he is into drinking & smoking. She appears too innocent to be dating such a guy & I gave my advice. She might not really disclose all that transpired at the birthday party. I kept thinking the guy could have recorded the act, knowing well that she's stark drunk. What if our relationship leads to marriage & the guy begins threatening her with sex-tape or he leaks any sex tape involving her, how would I go about it? Aside her other sex life, this is most worrisome of all.

My thinking/guess may be wrong, yet I do not want to be caught unaware, to avoid stories that touch later. This is a dilemma for me. I truly love her but my happiness matters a lot.

Don't hesitate to advise a brother.
Kindly overlook any grammatical blunders.

Thanks

Oga, you haven't even crawled, yet you want to run. Don't put your cart before the horse.

Good one, but what's the use of a stadium when Nsukka have bad roads littered all around.

While growing up at "mgbago" Ofulonu, Odenigbo in Nsukka, we had a field called "Government field" somewhere around the road leading to the police station, which the residents can be using for now.

Gov. Ugwuanyi, "dee jee" oo but we need more development at other parts of Enugu state and not only in Nsukka.

MegaPlayBoy:
Hello guys, I need help
I keep receiving bank alerts from access bank in the new mtn sim I bought even though I have no access bank account.
The names attached to the alerts are also different and strange
I don't know where this is coming from, should I destroy the sim and get another?

For your own good, go to MTN office and report, then head to any police station and report too.

flyingpig:
Abeg how do they join this protests cause i'm broke too

Make i chop part of the stolen COVID-19 palliatives

If you are ready, come let's create our own group. At least, we will be using to chop small small.

Those army there are happy taking pictures as if they have done a great job. What they cannot do, local 'untrained' hunters have done. Useless Buratai boys.

You have to decide either to have a marriage ceremony or a wedding

Like currently in Nigeria now, People who wants to "marry" are getting married and people who wants "wedding" are waiting for corona virus to end.

sotall:
Calcium deficiency

Please be careful how you handle them with bare hands.

Make u no go carry new one enter way pass coro.


Birds in general are good vectors of human disease

Fear Fear

TheArchangel:
How old is your brother?
Oga, stand your ground in that house.
Force your brother to rent a house for you by raising serious hell and at the same time appearing meek. Sleep in that room when you come back and if the wife and her sisters talk trash, raise hell. Do not budge one beat. Keep your bags in the shop but sleep in that room to avoid them messing up your things. Take the food from that pot and raise hell while doing it. When your brother comes or is around, pretend like they are accusing you falsely.
Remember self defense, beat the sh!t out of any of the sisters that touch you first. You can plead self-defense later. Do not touch the wife but remember to use your mouth to finish her. .
Do not relent. If they can be there, you can be also. It's either your brother chase you all away or peace or resemblance of it will rain in that house.

Gbam. This is just it.

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

You have found a wife, bro

Davicl:
I shall see....... For those that use Twitter tho, but how can one person be using Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram, Twitter, telegram, IMO, etc

The day you will come on Twitter, you will delete facebook.

Jimasun:
Best ever VP

Na promise oo. Wait make you see am

Niger Delta youths should know by now that the problem of development in the region is not Federal Government but their brothers in NDDC.

NDDC is a medium to syphon the region's money from the federal purse.

OPEC next time ask for our account numbers

Must APC always call Jonathan's name in everything?

Obaseki and Festus Keyamo dragging who is Buhari's son?

Chicent:
Daddy GO still got the skills....

Happy birthday Mummy GO

I swear. Nwoke ka di kwa very active.

This is very good. Kudos to Lagos government for such a wonderful Initiative.

Lack of such initiatives is why our youths are embracing betting, cultusm, and other social vices on daily basis.

Please, someone should help me call Abia state governor to come and see.

clockwisereport:
dianyi, I bu onye nsukka?

Dianyi, ebu'm nwa Obukpa!

E-lelele-lelele!!!!! Ekpokwe'm nuo! Eze Chitoke Abiama gba ndu be ha ume!!!

I keep telling people that Sienna is not a speed vehicle. And the worst part of it is that Nigerians alter the center-of-gravity by "raising" the shock so that it can carry more load, and by so doing any small swerve will make it lose balance.

Whenever you see yourself in a sienna, always tap the driver to slow down same way you tap bike men. "You dey fear?"
"Yes oo, I dey fear"

May their soul rest in peace

Openbusiness3:
Ok. Can someone explain what this means ?

Just a change of nomeclature. Same uniformed "thieves"

Greatzeus:
All I can say is God is great.
Everything in the Universe points to an intelligent design and Designer.

Jehovah Witness spotted

As long as they are Interpol, there's 95% truth in it.

StreetFight:
Okay. In Nigeria, all corruption fighters end up being humiliated. From Nuhu Ribadu to the woman after him and up to this Magu. Corruption has several lives and it's a ruthless fighter. Even the Angels cannot fight corruption. Corruption always fights back an always wins. So, who loses? The masses of course.

What was that woman's name sef?

TheRebel:
The NNPC should be more careful an also maintain their facilities to reduce cases like this.

I don't think you know what you are saying. Accident can happen anytime.

May their soul rest in peace. May God comfort the affected families.

To be an Engineer is not a day's job.

Decibel:
The onslaught has started. Uprooting the bourdillon boys from key 'agencies' and 'parastatals' has been activated. IDP camp awaits them
The affected staff are just the pawns. Wait for the real targets in the coming weeks.
Who are those running these companies? When you see this happens, major contract has been lost. Think!

You are a full blooded Nigerian, bro.

As funny as it sounds, this is the truth.

Short man devil turning Kaduna state around economically.

Just like Buhari, he has failed in security

Unityp:
I agree it's a wrong thing to do but not in Nigeria where even the government loots and cheats the masses.I even hear the distribution companies have device a way of making the prepaid meter to run faster than normal.So if i have a strategy of not falling prey to there traps,i will gladly take it. You must adapt to survive in this country,that is what i am simply doing.

Very Funny.
But you are not doing the right thing. What happened to "your reward is in heaven?"

OUK...Go and sin no more. Your sins have been forgiven