₦airaland Forum

Sharing your own views too might help the thread. Mine are:

1, No, it cheapens the girl IMO, except the chase was hard
2, Dunno
3, No
4, Hell yeah, as a man you gots to know how to handle ur business
5, No-this is where common sense comes into play
6, N/A
7, Yes

pendo89

But seriously, where do u get all this knowledge from and what's your relationship status?

Plus, please answer my long standing question, how old are you? Twenty something, 89 or 98?

I hope whoever finally conquers you, really appreciates what he's got.

Madukaele:

i think u r  crase, crazy i tell u

Yes, we probably both are. Me for answering you and you for mentioning a word you probably don't know the meaning

Huh?what did your second lin ave to do with anything?

'cos we three started off as friends, then I became serious with her. I only mentioned it because feelings might start developing and since you are all still friends technically, someone could get hurt - my bad

9jafetish:
heh! u guys don't even know eachother age

In this case, I will make an exception. Besides, she joined Nairaland in 2010, I joined in 2006. So you see, 4 years age difference 

Mrs.Chima:
Please get a room.

We will, as soon as she replies this post

For a night of unparalleled pleasure and undying passion between the sheets

SIlknSteel:
U like dem 4years younger and l like dem 4years older! Don't U think there is a likelihood that we. . .

Sure, y not?

Lemme show u some rare hospitality…

At least 4 years younger

I feel compromised/weak

fork adict:
Omo dat one na lie. There is almost always an element of reality behind Nairalanders' online personas. If you are sharp enough to detect that is. Take for example, me and Born2fuck. You go know shaaa ni say we like fork well well for real life. Take someone like ms potatoe, you go know say for real life she no dey quick vex and she's kinda courteous too.
Then make you come take person like my home boy 190. You go know say at one time, he was in a mental home. But maguy escape sha.
Dem plenty like that

^^^ROTFLMAO

@ Nayah

Yeah, it’s probably a culture thing. The downside is it might lead to the Lady drumming it into her boyfriend’s/husband’s head that she bought this or that, as men are expected to provide for their girlfriend/wife in the Nigerian culture.

In the West, it does not really matter. My Black, British flatmate’s girlfriend has a graduate level job and a brand new car-he does not have either, but he feels quite comfortable tagging along in the passenger’s seat. He is still the Boss, and she gives him respect – In Nigeria, this would not suffice, as he would probably receive alotta insults from her.

I guess it depends on the Lady in question. In the first place, how many Women in Nigeria become self-sufficient and independent based on just hard work?

Some sleep around with their bosses/alhajis/married men/politicians to achieve this and when they meet men who aren’t in their league, they talk down at them, showing their true nasty character.

@ sexkills

Fair enough then. I think I misunderstood the 'display' part

He/you need(s) to get to know her first, study her, before planning an attack.

Wooing a lady is an art and there is no ‘one size fits all’ with them, what might work on one will fail terribly on another.

I think if the Devil sees you, he will run away in fear, lol.

I would say NO.

My younger brother slept with my neighbour girlfriend while I was in school – sh.it happens.

claremont:
@OP: No need to confess to anybody, Man is naturally programmed to cheat, that's the way God or whoever, designed us to be. Cheating is a natural innate reaction imbued in all men, some men choose to display it, others don't.

speak for yourself, don't generalize. Man should be 'some men'

I have never cheated on any of my girlfriends, and never intend to do so. So help me God

Maybe you haven’t really forgiven her yet, that’s why. You need to let her go, and love again. Life itself is a risk, and too short for you to live in the past.

I dated my childhood sweetheart for 6 years and she hurt me pretty bad, so I know what you are going through.

I fully support the ‘knowing yourself’ bit; and I also feel it’s the most important.

In the words of Tori Amos “I think you have to know who you are. Get to know the monster that lives in your soul, dive deep into your soul and explore it”.

But still, damn, damn, damn and why, why, why?

^^^True, we all live and learn.

Hopefully, the knowledge will prepare us for the life sentence called marriage.

^^^u got me there.

Well, that’s the irony of it all.

careytommy:
the least you can do for her is make her presentable.trust me, some men will ball anything with a hole.
as for the acne, get her neomedrol, proactive or anything that isn't quick action as the effects of totally clearing it will take @ least a month to show.
trust me, your friend knows she doesn't have a pretty face but you have to continue to encourage her to smile more often in public.a smile will make anyone approachable

True, but it's usually for a one night stand, not a relationship or marriage

Wow, this is new.

I'm not a sexist, but why do women have so many issues?

Brand_new:
I think they are intelligent and i find them attractive.

I'll go with this