Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Lorayne(m): 12:28pm On Sep 06, 2023 |
How can I join this pfp?... Want to play a game today |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Wagner Group Boss Prigozhin Appears In New Video, Says I'm Not Dead (Video) by Lorayne(m): 4:46pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Creamcrest: This shit of dedicating wack songs on every thread is getting stale.
Grow up kiddo. Her dedicating songs is stale. But never ever call "return of the mack" a wack song. Thats blasphemy |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: West Ham United Vs Chelsea - 3 - 1 (Full Time) by Lorayne(m): 7:03pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
105mil player lose penalty and 115m player cause penalty.
Sterling tried today jare |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: West Ham United Vs Chelsea - 3 - 1 (Full Time) by Lorayne(m): 5:50pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
This goal keeper Is sus |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Complex But Not Too Difficult To Manage – Tinubu by Lorayne(m): 7:13am On Aug 18, 2023 |
Hoping for the best |
Family › Re: My Family Seems To Want To Control My Life by Lorayne(m): 8:56pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
DestinedForGrea: Going through something similar? yep.... Just fresh outta NYSC tho'... No job yet |
Family › Re: My Family Seems To Want To Control My Life by Lorayne(m): 5:22pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
DestinedForGrea: Hello everyone.
Please I need an urgent advice from the mature minds here. I'm about to take a decision that has the potential to change the course of my life.
A quick background: I come from a family consisting of five "children", of which I'm the fourth. Right from the days of my childhood, my parents and older siblings have had a firm control over me. They often dictated the friends I'd keep, placed I'd go to, where I should be, and almost how I should behave.
I was mostly indoors because they didn't want me playing around. That had an impact on my personality, because I couldn't master the ability to make friends, express myself confidently, and get involved in social activities that my peers relished.
Fastforward to this point:
I'm in my late 20s, a graduate and an NYSC cert holder, and although the level of control has been minimized, I still experience a bit of it. I don't have a place of my own for now, so I stay in the family house, but my older ones are independent in that aspect though they don't stay far from the family house.
I have a job too, but the salary is not even enough to take care of myself and support the home for a week.
Now here's the issue, I got a job offer from someone I served with during my NYSC, in a state about 8 hours from my current state of residence. It's the same job with the one I'm on right now (a teaching job) but with a slightly better payment return.
The person has a good relationship with the principal of the school, so according to him, the job is secure. I had to accept it because I'm tired of my current situation, and I'm tired of the life I'm living here -- my social life is next to zero, I don't have friends close by, I'm not socially active, and I need to explore. With my little savings, I plan to get an apartment as cheap as possible when I get there.
The problem is everyone is kicking against , because they're concerned about my safety, how I'm going to cope alone in this harsh economy. They've told me that if I decide to leave against their wish, that I'll be on my own and won't get their hands involved if anything goes wrong.
At the moment, I'm thinking of standing my ground and sticking to my decision, because I'm depressed from being in this environment, but I'm a bit afraid of my family cutting ties with me.
Please any advice? I really need some right now.
Thanks! I could've written this |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Liverpool (1 - 1) On 13th August 2023 by Lorayne(m): 1:51pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Omoniyi Boluwatife: Nurse Found Dead With Her Womb Missing In Oyo by Lorayne(m): 1:39pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
Ishilove: Some said womb, some said intestines. So who do we believe? Just believe something was missing |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Orange Drug Limited Recruitment How True Is It? by Lorayne(m): 8:44pm On Aug 09, 2023 |
Be78: I just got an invite for in premises test
Please i need help in preparing How did it go? |
Romance › Re: Her First Child Is Mine And Not The Husband's by Lorayne(m): 4:51pm On Aug 09, 2023 |
This is super story..... |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs England: FIFA Women's World Cup 2023. (2 - 4)pens On 7th August 2023 by Lorayne(m): 10:27am On Aug 07, 2023 |
Will there be extra time? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Firstbank Technology Academy Aptitude Test Shortlist by Lorayne(m): 11:00am On Aug 03, 2023 |
Adino59: Anyone with past questions please Hey bro.... Good morning... I just applied some days back. How's the process like? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Firstbank Technology Academy Aptitude Test Shortlist by Lorayne(m): 10:54am On Jul 31, 2023 |
abelwealth: Mails dropped for d virtual assessment Afar.... Did you get the job? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Firstbank Technology Academy Aptitude Test Shortlist by Lorayne(m): 12:07pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Adino59: Same here too, any idea on what follows after the medicals hello.. good afternoon. do you work with firstbank now? |
Health › Re: It's Been 5yrs And Am Running Out Of Patience by Lorayne(m): 6:44pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Laikarahaman: Take it easy bro, I was once in your situation, I waited for thirteen good years due to similar tube blockage, my wife became tired and threatening to leave the marriage but as a man, I keep encouraging her and looking for solutions till God answered our prayers, now I have 2 beautiful girls, 10 and 8 years old which I am ok with now.. just seek the right medical attention, but truly I used local herbs prepared in pot that my wife was drinking back then.. be encouraged you will be blessed. Do DNA |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Does One Comfort Self After Receiving 3 Job Rejections In One Week? by Lorayne(m): 11:16am On Jul 08, 2023 |
only 3 rejections in a week and you need comforting? hahahahahahaha... very funny |
Programming › Re: The Journey by Lorayne(m): 10:54am On Jul 06, 2023 |
Anonymous6o6: 1. No but it depends on what you want to write about. Most people write about their stack. You can write out Tech news, mindset and all that. But having knowing the basics of programming will help you
I don't only write about frontend but also DevOps, Cloud, Database. I write on topics which I know companies sought after.
2. You can write with your phones but they're limitations to it.
3. You just need to chose one. You can go for the google technical writing course or the "Tech and Write course" are these courses free? |
Education › Re: Mmesoma's JAMB Result, Hypocrisy, And The Shadow Of Ethnic Bias by Lorayne(m): 7:02pm On Jul 04, 2023 |
mhen.... y'all turning this shii into something big.... let the authorities handle this and lets use our time to talk about tinubus new policies abeg |
Education › Re: Ejikeme Joy Mmesoma To Be Honored By Anambra Man Of The Year Award Organisers by Lorayne(m): 8:49pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
post=123094227: Wow!!! This is so impressive mean!
From all of us @ : CONGRATULATIONS Mesomachukwu.
This is only the beginning of such success in your life darling. The Sky is your starting point 👉
We remembered that year that one of us @DemMANNA came first throughout the Federation in the early eighties, just like Mesoma above. They gave us a carton of different textbooks, pencils ✏️, all those OLYMPIC EXERCISE books, math sets and a huge some of #1500!!! from the State Governor's wife! Yes, you read it right, (One thousand and five hundred naira.) Cartons of Omo, Bournvita and all those good stuffs. 😋 😋 The Good Ol' days! 💓
God bless Anambra State. God bless Nigeria 🇳🇬.
This is unprecedented. More states should emulate this good gesture to encourage our darling youths. This will make other students like her motivated to do more. We are proud 👏 of you Mesomachukwu ❤️ We love you dearie ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕
If e no pass 1M, all of us @MANNA go support you for university... That is the next step girl. Go and SUCCEED. She lied  |
Sports › Re: Breaking: Ngolo Kante Fails Al-ittihad's Medical Test by Lorayne(m): 1:08pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
i hope so o |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: UBA Graduate Management Accelerated Programme (GMAP) 2023 by Lorayne(m): 6:53pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
LeopardX: Oops. Just received a regret mail from UBA. 😔 Regardless, we meuve! 😎
*Unfollows thread* i believe our own assessment was just for formality... because i dont see how others will get 20 questions and we get 50 |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Long Have You Been Attending Your Present Church? by Lorayne(m): 9:43am On Jun 04, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Yeah, my parents were liberal with us while growing up. Amongst us, my sister is the religious one.
That aside, why would my parents control my choices at my age even if I live with them? That's uncanny. if they feed you, they can. |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Long Have You Been Attending Your Present Church? by Lorayne(m): 9:34am On Jun 04, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Haven't attended church since I clocked 20. At least, I can now think straight. Religion is a shackle. Your parents are not religious or you definitely live alone. I get harassed every Sunday to go to church. |
Food › Re: Dog Lovers Call Out Hilda Baci & Influencer Enioluwa For Eating Dog Meat (vid) by Lorayne(m): 9:29am On Jun 04, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Eden Hazard Leaves Real Madrid After Mutual Agreement by Lorayne(m): 8:44pm On Jun 03, 2023 |
come back to chelsea please! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: UBA Graduate Management Accelerated Programme (GMAP) 2023 by Lorayne(m): 11:43am On May 31, 2023 |
LeopardX: I don't understand the desperation to join one Whatsapp and telegram group or the other.
I know say country hard, but make una dey try relax sometimes.
By the way, I've done the Jobberman test. I hope for success and more importantly, progress to the next stage. mehn the analytical questions were hard... Couldn't finish it. Don't think Its fair some people got 20questions but we get 50  I hope I progress sha.... But Its not looking good. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: UBA Aptitude Test: What To Expect? by Lorayne(m): 6:32am On May 30, 2023 |
LMDseun: For those that went for UBA executive chat in Lagos on may 20, has anyone gotten medical call up in other states apart from Lagos and Oyo?.. I've been waiting for medical call up for over a week now. Meanwhile those in lag and Oyo have gotten. Wow the executive chat is physical? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: UBA Graduate Management Accelerated Programme (GMAP) 2023 by Lorayne(m): 9:36pm On May 29, 2023 |
LeopardX: I just got a mail from Jobberman to prepare for cognitive assessment test by Wednesday.
Who else received a mail? just got it too 50question |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: UBA Graduate Management Accelerated Programme (GMAP) 2023 by Lorayne(m): 6:25am On May 29, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: What's The Longest Time You've Spent Trying To Woo A Woman? by Lorayne(m): 10:28pm On May 28, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: What's The Longest Time You've Spent Trying To Woo A Woman? by Lorayne(m): 9:49pm On May 28, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: He spent about 7 years wooing me.
I later gave in after 7 years. He didn't give up on me because he saw ultimate value in me and I was the best thing to have ever happened to him. Turned out to be the best relationship I had. I set him as a standard. If you don't have such forbearance as a man when dealing with, I am sorry but I can't date you. Thanks.
Moral lesson: Never give up on that woman because she's not ready or ain't giving in. Patience is key. Had? Wetin sup? Gist me  |