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HealthRe: My Horrible Experience With Heat Yesterday Night by lovelybugs(f): 9:25am On Jan 21, 2019
hahn:
Buy a rechargeable fan. Ours used to last 7 hours before it developed issues. We are planning to replace it soon
You don't need to buy a new fan just replace the battery check some online stores for the battery.
EducationRe: 2019 Xfire Nairaland Undergraduate Scholarship Test :::Verification of Winners:: by lovelybugs(f): 10:02pm On Jan 19, 2019
Thank you
EducationRe: Agbami scholars. Discussion thread. by lovelybugs(f): 8:29pm On Jan 04, 2019
Please has anyone who wrote the exam last year been paid?
RomanceRe: Please Help, My Wife Is A Meat Extinguisher. by lovelybugs(f): 4:39pm On Oct 09, 2018
If she's working tell her to start buying meat with her salary and tell her no matter what you must always have meat to eat. She'll think twice before finishing the meat in the pot.
RomanceRe: How Do I Get Rid Of An Envious Female Friend? by lovelybugs(f): 10:56am On Sep 25, 2018
Give her some space. She'll either come to her senses or leave you alone. What she's doing is more of I don't want him but none can have him sad
RomanceRe: . by lovelybugs(f): 10:43am On Sep 25, 2018
You guys are getting it wrong. I think the reason why women attack the side chicks is because they known if they attack their husband they will probably be thrown out of the house. Only dependent women attack the side chicks. Most independent women prefer to walk away
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:52pm On Sep 23, 2018
SmallMac:
So I certainly don't know u. I school @UI
Unilag. Yup, never met u before
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:46pm On Sep 23, 2018
SmallMac:
Do u know a sandr* in chem engineering shocked?...my school is in the southwest, Federal university
Well no. I don't know any Sandi in chemical. Except a Sharon whose WhatsApps name is sandi
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:39pm On Sep 23, 2018
SmallMac:
U seem full of life... have we meet before? Is this Sandr* from chem engineering
lol no.
Wait what school?
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:33pm On Sep 23, 2018
SmallMac:
That's cool... U like a queen bee in a hive of male bees
Lol, thanks
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:28pm On Sep 23, 2018
SmallMac:
shocked ...im a novice about that, I pray I never get to know the details about that.
I pray so too smiley
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:18pm On Sep 23, 2018
SmallMac:
Yes I am. It's challenging but I like the challenge. Are u also studying engineering?
Yes, chemical engineering
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:18pm On Sep 23, 2018
SmallMac:
Sorry about that. U and the other guy are the few responsible ones that have kept me calm tonight
you are very welcome.
And don't worry it'll be alright. Just be more careful. I hope u ain't a fan of abortions
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:15pm On Sep 23, 2018
SmallMac:
I like further maths and physics. Very good with analysis. Electricity fascinates me
That's cool. Are you really studying elect elect?
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:11pm On Sep 23, 2018
sad I just realized
SmallMac:
U chatting with an imposter. Probably finds all this funny angry
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:07pm On Sep 23, 2018
veeklin:
I like science subjects generally, maths inclusive. wanted to go into medicine but my dad is an engineer and wants to link me up in future. so I had to follow suit ... grin

I like science subjects generally, maths inclusive. wanted to go into medicine but my dad is an engineer and wants to link me up in future. so I had to follow suit ...
undecided
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 9:05pm On Sep 23, 2018
veeklin:
nooo!!!....let me come for your own naming ceremony first. u want my folks to kill me at home?
Ehya. I feel your pain sha.
But like I said since she's not a novice I expect she should know how to prevent a pregnancy. If she does and she still gets pregnant then grin mama wants to secure her future with a future engineer wink.
On a more serious note tho it might just be a mistake.
Don't fret i don't think a pregnancy will arise front this.

Please be more careful next time. You have a bright future don't soil it.
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 8:58pm On Sep 23, 2018
veeklin:
Electrical engineering. I pray so too
My fellow engineer grin
grin grin you don't have sense. See impersonator tongue
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 8:53pm On Sep 23, 2018
SmallMac:
Abeg leave my GP embarassed I can manage (distinction for now). What I need help now for is to figure out her plans
What course sef?
By the way there's nothing you can do. You can't force her to take pills.
Just repent and pray to God to help your ministry.
If you come out of this not an expecting father, I hope you've learnt your lesson from this experience.
RomanceRe: To by lovelybugs(f): 8:51pm On Sep 23, 2018
What am curious about is how morning after pills are against her faith and premarital sex isn't.
I don't understand this generation of youths huh
By the way, instead of you to make good friends who will encourage you to set up your future you went to make the ones who are encouraging you to bang a girl. And by set up I mean learning coding, moving into crypt currency and all that. Having business ideas and developing your dreams. Nowadays education isn't enough. Think about your future. There are stds
Keep this in mind 30mins of pleasure can cost you your future.

By the way she might be trying to pin a pregnancy on you.
Peradventure she gets pregnant for you lemme be the first to say congrats! Your now officially a baby Daddy!
Sha invite me to eat jollof naming ceremony rice! grin
RomanceRe: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by lovelybugs(f): 8:22pm On Sep 23, 2018
nathpope:
@yazz09 said it all.


however, is ur boyfriend (NOT HUSBAND) hardworking?
is he a heavy spender or a prudent fellow?

If u were in bis shoes and he in yours, how do you think he woild av responded to the matter at hand?

Evrybody needs a helping hand to lift one up out of d dungeon....however, be wise.
This is your life savings you are taliing about.
Dont put all your eggs into a basket.

Remember, he is your boyfriend...NOT ur husband.

i hope this help.
for me sef, even if they were married I wouldn't advise them to use all her savings to fix the business. He has plans. Plans fail. What if the money is lost? He obviously doesn't have any savings left that's why he's asking her to borrow him. Now if they are married and she gives him all her money and the plan fails they would need a little money to hold body and soul together. My point is in no situation should all the life savings of both partners be spent at once.
RomanceRe: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by lovelybugs(f):
Suzzyyy:
Hez hardly make promises he can't fulfill because he likes keeping his words and he has never for one day ask for money from me if not this one
First of all give him not more than 300k. Tell him to manage it and see what can be done with that money after all I am sure if you had only 300k savings he'd be able to work with that.
I wouldn't advise you to give him the full money because like someone said what if the plans fails? The two of you would have nothing to fall back on.
With 300k he should be able to improve his situation even if just a little bit.

Also OP am sorry to ask but what about his life savings? Is it that he has none left? If so why?

Is he someone that is responsible financially? Or has he spent most of his savings trying to revive this business? If so what are the odds that he will succeed with the 700k he's asking for? If you give him the money will you be able to make enough profits in a weeks to stand on your feet in case of an emergency?

I wouldn't advice you to completely empty yourself. At least have 200-300k with you in case of business/family/health emergencies.
RomanceRe: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by lovelybugs(f): 11:15am On Sep 23, 2018
Have you ever borrowed him money before? Did he pay back before or on the agreed date? How is he with fulfilling promises? Does he easily break agreements?
You said he knows your account balance? Your relationship is already in a delicate situation because if you don't help him and he has genuine intentions he'll feel like you don't love and trust him enough to borrow him. But on another hand if you do and he doesn't pay back you'll be wrecked. But first of all please answer my initial questions, what is his attitude to promises?
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Think Money Attracts Good And Responsible Girls by lovelybugs(f): 8:39pm On Sep 20, 2018
Liliyann:
Sentiment aside
When a guy approaches me, the first thing I check is his appearance,his dressing,hair cut and his ride!!
This determines if am going to give him an audience or not!!!
If you are intelligent but poor, just know you are nothing!!
No right thinking lady will stay with a poor dude that doesn't even know where his next meal will come from just because he is intelligent!!
Who intelligent "epp"?
No lady was born to suffer!!
I can never date a poor guy!!
Only the foolish ones will agree to be with a broke dude!!
The wise ones know the gold they carry and how to use it and make men do their wishes!!!
Most rich men were once poor men sad
The rich man today could become the poor man tomorrow.
A poor man with ambitions, dreams and ideas is already rich mentally just not physically yet.
Which reminds me angry I hope you are rich.
A rich man should only date a woman of his status.
People need to stop dating downwards either men or women.
RomanceRe: If You Are Not Rich Kindly Forget About Having Children by lovelybugs(f): 8:34pm On Sep 20, 2018
I don't fully agree. Instead of no children why not one or two? You'll see people who can nearly feed themselves having 7 children's while the rich folks have only two. Then again everyone has a right to reproduce.

I'll edit this later!
RomanceRe: You Were Loyal And Not Demanding Money Yet He Left: Here's Why! by lovelybugs(f): 11:14am On Sep 17, 2018
I don't quite agree.
A partner who wants to leave will leave irrespective of what you do for them.
The people they end dating, how did they contribute to their present status?
Because most times they end with people who were not there during their times of trials.
RomanceRe: Can You Forgive A Cheating Partner by lovelybugs(f): 9:07am On Sep 17, 2018
Depends on the situation that lead to the cheating.
If it happened once and he confessed and is remorseful then I'll forgive him and take him back.
But if it happens again? Then I'll still forgive him but I'll move on from that relationship.
RomanceRe: "Nothing Wrong In Dating A Married Man If He Takes Care Of His Family" by lovelybugs(f): 9:03am On Sep 17, 2018
victorian:
But if a lady goes for IVF, she trains d child well, he or she is all grown up and wants to get married. Who will stand as her father during traditional marriage?
Cause with white wedding, one can easily get away with it and hire any old man as her dad.. But in traditional marriage, u can't pull such stunts.
How do u go about it, as a mother?
If their father was dead will they not get married? Do orphans not get married?
You can easily get someone to represent the father .
RomanceRe: Ladies!! Keeping Sanity In Your Marriage/relationship In The Face Of Infidelity by lovelybugs(f): 9:13pm On Sep 16, 2018
SBL28:
Exactly, men behave anyhow because they know their wives will simply swallow all the bullshit. The disgusting part is that, when a woman decides not to stay in a bad marriage, women like her will be the ones talking trash (many of them in terrible marriages o).
I think the reason why those fellow women talk bad about divorcees is because they envy the fact that those women have the courage to do what they can never do; which is leave an abusive or cheating partner. tongue
RomanceRe: "Nothing Wrong In Dating A Married Man If He Takes Care Of His Family" by lovelybugs(f): 2:04pm On Sep 16, 2018
Westaslave2:
i av forgotten u be illiterate! Mtcheww inukwa
Hmm
RomanceRe: "Nothing Wrong In Dating A Married Man If He Takes Care Of His Family" by lovelybugs(f): 1:57pm On Sep 16, 2018
Westaslave2:
shut it ok..we women shud change our ways ,Karma is real but we dont believe in it but wen it comes u n dat husbandsnatcha of a girl we flood prayer houses doing all sort of ritual in name of prayer
Please rewrite in English. huh
RomanceRe: "Nothing Wrong In Dating A Married Man If He Takes Care Of His Family" by lovelybugs(f): 10:29am On Sep 16, 2018
Forget karma. Since when is adultery no longer a sin huh. All these fake religious people in Nigeria sef undecided. You will see religious leaders with side chicks and still have the guts to preach. You people have learnt the art of selective reading when reading your religious books angry

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