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ebohstepn:
Thanks dear, good night, have a lovely night rest.

Thanks, same to you.

ebohstepn:
I thank you very much for this, I will do just that. Finding such a lady is really hard dis days, and it even harder to build a lady to fit ur status(it can't just work now days).

Yea I get your point. It almost seems impossible. Anyways, I wish you the best of luck.
Goodnight.

ebohstepn:
Me I know I have a problem when it comes to female. I easily have girls that crushes on me, easily get them to my bed and to be my girlfriend. But I have never been in a relationship for up to 6months. In fact the longest I have ever been is 3months. Am the one that always kill the relationship, I always just lose interest, some of the ladies in particular always try their best to make the relationship work but am always never serious. Most of my friends have told me jokely that girls wa son swear for me go Dan many. Now there is this girl I wanted to date, she was into me but I became tired of breaking her hearts so I decided that I will friend zone her, that's want I did and now she is my best friend. People thinks we are dating , but little do de know. Some of my friends believe she changed me but I knw that the day that I will have sex with her she will become so little and like nothing in my eyes, now she even keeps track of the girls I have left since me and her became friends 3 years ago. Now my question is that I know I like her and she loves me but I d'nt want to break her heart by dating her, so what should I do for this feeling I usually have after I have slept with a girl? I want it to stop. I d'nt want to be a cheat and a heart breaker but I can't just help me. I tired. Since December last year I came back from school I have not asked any girl out because of the fear of what will happen later, and does girls d'nt even spend time they just always say yes some self I d'nt really ask them out, just getting a little close to them and bomb they are down. In my lodge in school I finished, I slept with all the girls in the lodge expect one. And I even slept with most of their Friends. I believe what attract them to me is my handsomeness and I look rich, am not yet rich. So my people what is the way out for me. am not getting any younger, if I can't keep a relationship for at list 6months then how can I get married? I do really have a problem, at first it was fun but now it no longer fun am afraid for girls for me. So have kept my self off for now and I do have many girls giving me green light even my mom knows about this and she even now banned me from staying in church after closing of service. I go straight home with her. Abeg end of long story, watin I go do abeg, am dieing slowly.

Your problem isn't really a problem.
What you have to do is identity your mistakes when it comes to choosing your spec of women.
I want you to look at all your female friends and analyze their characters. Both what you like and what you dislike.
This will enable you know what kind of woman you're looking for.
Write down your hobbies, write down what you find interesting. Are you the type that loves playful banters? Or you try to avoid anything arguments. Basically, what I'm saying is, try looking a woman with intellect. Not those slay queens, a woman not a girl. Someone who knows what she wants, someone who you probably have nothing to offer her but love. Someone who can think for her self. I hope you get my drift by now. Someone who's generally interesting. Try looking for someone who complements your personality.
The only problem is most if such women are already taken and the ones who aren't aren't looking to be in a relationship.
Also, keep in mind that some people are better of being friends than lovers.
Also, try to change that mindset that once you have sex with the person the person has nothing more to offer.
Work towards your next relationship and keep the goal to be happy in mind.
I wish you luck. Cheers.
Note: I'm well aware that this write up isn't complete and might be confusing but In just too lazy to re edit and finish it.
I'll try to do that later.

stop toasting materialist girls. Hehe
Y'all be wailing about materialistic bitches when y'all got no gold to dig.
Guys keep running after the flashy girls forgetting that it's money that's used to maintain them.
If you no give am, her papa no give am and she no get work who go kon give am?
Anyhoo, enjoy!

See eh, life no get manual. But there are somethings you can use common sense to maneuver.
Never date flashy girls with no source of income.
They will suck you dry.
Think about it sef, if you say you have sense and you'll only drop money when you feel like. Who the hell is going to buy their 40k creams? Who's going to upgrade their Iphones yearly? Who's going to pay for their rent in lekki? Who's going to maintain their lifestyles? Abi is it their parents that has better things to do with their money? If you like do strong head and say love conquers all. It will be like a dream when you find out your so called GF has a suger daddy that's maintaining her.

Not at all

DanDeeBoss:
Same way and place we get the good ones

Lol,

Deicide:
Nigeria of course they are everywhere

I'm only curious about one thing. Where the hell do you guys get these type of girls from??!?

Lol

OP, don't you think 75% is a bit high?

I'm only correcting the corrector

NewCaliYork:
Awon grammarian ekaa bo

toyetade:
Correct your English here

"Hope she doesn't go back to be a bread seller......."

" I hope she doesn't go back to being a bread seller"*

funmisticqueen:
what of the giving away your child part.

It's always easy to say until you carry the child for 9 months in your womb.

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Ishilove:
^^

The hustle is real

MissRaine69:
Typical stupid woman ....based on that exchange “her man” is public property.

Isweardown
I was even thinking the girl was the one disturbing the guy till I read the chat.
Some women sha.
Letting a man do to you what he won't tolerate you do to him. I guess she's getting something from the relationship that she can't let go of sha.

tee59:
Some are just in relationships not to be seen single without love and emotion for their partners.

It's not compulsory to marry your partner but it's just so messed up to know someone is in love with you, watch then make sacrifices for you, know that person is hoping to someday settle with you but know deep in your heart that you rather die than settle with them.
If you want a fling, isn't it fair you let the other person know?
Hell, some people even string the person along and promise them what they can't give.

I feel like I get it now why some people say never make sacrifices for anyone you're not married too.

Oluwasaeon:
Pls what time is Malmo - Chelsea

What happened to Google?

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Report both the Instagram account and the bank account

Lol, marriage isn't by force.

person that is still collecting pocket money from mummy is proposing. Chai and some foolish girls would have accepted.

Evangkatsoulis:
savings from your parents' Pocket money?

Not really. I worked when I graduated from secondary school. Then when I was ready to start a business I showed my business plan to my parents and they gave me some money to support.

So all the rude and uncultured so called "adults" I meet here in Nigeria everyday where were they raised?
We Nigerians like to act like all the children raised here in Nigeria are responsible meanwhile we have a high crime rate.

Got some money from my parents and added my savings.

Hmm. Well, now he knows.

Wakanda story is this?

sammyj:
Thank you my sister. I don't understand what this world is turning to this days. It seems the eRats ranting on the threads are blind not to see the people at the table are old enough to be their grand fathers and not young people.

Exactly! We shouldn't forget to respect people in the name of civilization.

Lol. She probably knelt down for like 5 seconds and stood up but everyone is focusing on the kneeling down .
Also, who's to say the groom didn't Dubale for the elders?
It's our damm culture. People need to stop overreacting and remember we're Nigerians not Americans.

bravesoul247:
atleast you learnt something and embarked on a project which is good. Kudos my dear.

Thank you

Well......
I learnt coding
Learnt a bit of graphic designing
Started a hair business
Didn't really read much tho but God is my strength.
Thaissall

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