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The only thing you can do here is plead with your mother in-law and husband to let you stay
Whilst also pleading with your aunt to let you take your baby along.

Although if you end up staying with your mother in law there'll probably be some resentment and they'd might make like more difficult for you than it already is.

Not everyone would be happy to see their matter online. Even if they are in the wrong and it was posted anonymously.

Another thing you could do is leaving the baby with them and going to get a source of income so you can come back later and take your baby when you're financially independent
Wishing you the best of luck

ogbuefi677:
Can a Christian work anywhere in Saudi Arabia without at least a headscarf?

Yes

OgunLaakaye:
If we remove Christianity and Islam from the world, it would be a better place.


Damn, This two religions get wahala.

Even amongst themselves individually, they are in war.

The world will not be a better place.
Humans generally thrive on conflict, if it isn't religion then it's race and if it isn't race they'll still find something to kill themselves over.

Human beings don't like peace.
There will always be blood thirsty mad people who look for the slightest excuse to kill.

TheGiftedOne:
I strongly feel it's UNIBEN

14,000 I think although I paid 9,500 back then while engineering was paying 7,500.

Uniben is about 130k this year

One of the most mischievous headlines I've ever seen

Minjim:
Nah wah I

Who hustlers go come marry now

Hardworking women who aren't gold diggers

I want to believe you're joking

How did she know the ring was for her?
Don't trust men

Don't people rest when they breakup from a relationship?

You just left bondage instead of you to rest small you want to stress yourself and enter another one.

Nothing good in life comes from rush rush.

Try being friends for now and observe her well(you guy can go to places like the movies, parks, olumo rock and all) before you open another thread on how she's killed you.

If there's anything I like about her epistle, its the way she didn't blame her ex for anything.

Also..... To those blaming her pray you never enter a marriage where divorce is the only option.
Some people can be so toxic to your mental health that it's better you leave.

The white is better
Range rover or Mercedes I'm still confused on which is better

Bruno3000:
u dat started fcking at age 12 na only ur mate u been dey FCK? Hypocrite.

Have we met?
I think you've mistaken me for the females in your life.

Whitewolf8:
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I didn't know na, she refused to tell me, I assumed she is an undergraduate.

Chai! The girl sef no even fear to open leg for man wey old pass am with a decade plus.
Anyways, the deed has been done. Avoid her ooo! Because this can get more worse than it is. Remember she's underaged!
How long have you known her?

How did you manage to sleep with a secondary school student
Chai, if she was a university student it'll have been better sef.

Lol, life is complicated
A man will ignore a woman who truly loves him to be with a gold digging slay queen and cry after she jilts him for a better payer.
Same thing for a woman
The thing is, most times we aren't fortunate enough to be able to love the people who truly love us back

Wetin man no go see

The only thing that pains me about this whole thing is that if op had used all the money he invested in his side chick to open a business for his wife they would probably be able to stay together

First of all my dear, to mould a woman into the type of woman you desire you'd actually need a woman first not a girl.

Nigeria my country

You look for someone's trouble and when they react you cry foul

Hehe.

Rip in advance sha. Cause even if she decides to leave you for God her army friends and family will still take up your matter.

From my observations the next generation will probably be the worst. So many people planning on raising their kids in broken homes. This stuff psychologically damages kids if you don't know.

Do a court and traditional wedding. You won't die.

"Feminism" one of the most misunderstood words in Nigeria

Rukkydelta:
Op you are really suffering from low self esteem that's why you are going for a little girl. She is probably looking for a big brother or father figure in you and definitely not a lover but she is too young and will be confuse about this things
You think she loves you my dear? Well she don't cos she is still very much naive and isn't yet expose to the reality of life. And when you said she is submissive I know you meant you can easily control her
Please and please do that girl a favour and don't marry her now, don't ruin her life please by continue a poverty generation because if you get married now you will definitely start having kids in a year time or more continuing the circle of poverty.
I don't blame the girl or you I blame her parents for allowing her to date a 30 years old grown ass man. Poverty is never an excuse to raise your children properly even if you can't send them to school. Discipline, advise them you can register them for a handwork or trade

Please if you eventually still wants to get married to her wait for three years more by then she will be matured and expose to know if she really wants to spend her lifetime with you or not for your both sake cos I can sense future regrets right now

Aswear, at 18 the girl doesn't even know who she is or what she wants in a man. She's still developing mentally and emotionally. Her taste in men will change. I doubts if she even knows what love is. She might think she loves him but she might not. It's when she now grows older She'll realise op isn't the one for her and it might be too late. That's how men start fathering kids that aren't theirs. Anyhow sha, I hope this story ends in praises. I wish you guys happy married life. God bless your Union if you eventually decide to get married now.

The National Broadcasting Commission (NBC), yesterday, suspended broadcast licence of Daar Communications Plc, owners of African Independent Television (AIT) and Ray Power over alleged breach of Broadcasting Code.

Director general of NBC, Ishaq Moddibo Kawu announced the indefinite suspension at a press briefing yesterday in Abuja.

Kawu said the decision was taken, following willful or repeat violation of the Broadcasting Code by the station.

“The NBC, today 6th June, 2019 took a decision to suspend the licence of Daar Communications Plc for failure to abide by the Commission’s directives, the provisions of the NBC Act Cap N11 Laws of the Federation of Nigeria and the Nigeria Broadcasting Code.

“This decision is based on the provisions of Section 10 of the Third Schedule of the NBC Act Cap N11 Laws of the Federation of Nigeria, 2004,” he said.

While explaining the rationale behind the disciplinary action, Kawu said the Commission responded to complaints from concerned Nigerians about the broadcast contents of Daar Communications Plc’s AIT/Raypower broadcast stations.

He also said that NBC had in the last two years summoned management staff of Daar Communications over way and manner hate speech, divisive and inciting comments are applied in discussion of national issues in breach of the provisions of the NBC Act and Broadcast Code.

According to him, the regulator and a licencee have a relationship, defined by the code, it is a straight and narrow path that must be worked, noting that no licencee is bigger than, the regulator.

“Daar Communications have over the years behaved as if they are bigger than the regulator.

“The NBC have over the last two years summoned on several occasions management of the company to address issues regarding the operations of AIT/Raypower with the company, particularly, Political Platform and Kakaaki aired on AIT,” he stated.

According to Kawu, on 15th August, 2017, it became imperative to invite the company for yet another meeting on almost same issues.

“Furthermore, while addressing another meeting on 7th February, 2018 we highlighted issues of concern to the Commission which indicated that the company had been breaching the provisions of Sections 3.1.2 and 3.1.3 of the broadcast Code. The company’s delegates in their response promised to abate the breaches and comply with the law.

“However, on October 18, 2018, the Commission was disturbed with the manner in which social media issues became part of the mainstream media unedited on AIT/Raypower, and was constrained to issue a generic letter to all broadcast stations on the need to exercise caution in the use of user generated content from the social media knowing how volatile and misleading the social media has become. The management of Daar Communication Plc thereafter took to the social media to display our official correspondences, “ he said.

He stated further, “The Commission’s monitoring reports on AIT/Raypower indicate the use of divisive comments accredited to the segment of ‘Kakaaki’, tagged, ‘Kakaaki Social’, where inciting comments like, ‘Nigeria is cursed, we declare independent state of Niger Delta’, ‘Nigeria irritates me’, ‘This country is gradually Islamising’ and other similar slogans are used without editorial control in breach of the broadcast Code. We were therefore constrained to issue Daar Communication letters of warning dated May 27th, 2019.”

Kawu however expressed dissatisfaction with management of Daar Communications, noting that instead of making amends, Daar Communications Plc resorted to the use of media propaganda against the regulator, adding that even the letters from the NBC were posted on social media platforms.

Kawu said Daar Communications has turned themselves into a bad example of how a broadcast station should not be run.

“Content of Daar Communications is patently partisan, one-sided, that they are using the channel to fight personal battle, which is contrary to the Broadcasting Code.

“After several meetings with management of Daar Communications and several warnings, NBC took a position to suspend licence of the broadcasting station. This is in line with Section 10 of the 3rd schedule of the NBC Act,” Kawu stated.
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Lol. Ikr. I don't get why people rush and give birth. That one year is the period to observe and Japa if you notice anything you can't bear cause once a child comes into the equation forget it that marriage is for life!

I really do hope you find what your looking for.
Most people don't know what they have until they loose it. Allah give her the strength to move on and find someone who deserves her.

Haba, I'm not sure why I'm pained to see this on the front page.

Well, I personally believe no one should depend on anyone for money in a relationship. Don't mean men shouldn't play their part in the household tho. Now, I want to ask, what's your definition of a broke guy? Cause I feel that most people are mistaking hustlers for them oo.
For me broke guys have no plans and are comfortable with being broke. While hustlers are always looking for legal ways to make money and upgrade their status (academically, emotionally and financially).
I can stay with a hustler any day but not a broke guy if you get my drift anyways.
By the way, money isn't everything oo! Marry an immature unforgiving rich guy first and see if you won't be the one to use your hand and pack out.